From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Wed Oct 2 10:11:43 1996 Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 00:00:51 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 30 Sep 1996 to 1 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 09:24:42 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: NY Visit Web Pictures!! Good Morning Listers, Some photos from the New York weekend are now up on my Web site. Navigate down to "My Favorite Places" and jump to "Ny Visit". There are pictures of Sue Deyoung, Joyce Stoliar(Shirt Gal), Kim Luce(BAB), Patty Konopka and Karen "Punster" Stenstrup(hope I spelled that correctly) oh yeah I'm there also when I wasn't back at the hotel suffering of food poisoning. Enjoy! Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah PS: Also a couple of pictures from our roadtrip to the Hershey Park concert as well. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 12:22:41 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: DC area gathering Gwen wrote: >Greetings, groovy ME Listers! It's me, Gwen, organizer of the D.C. Oct. >12th gathering. :-) >Oh... and I suppose some of you may be wondering why I'm posting from >Jen's address. Well... that's because we're now sharing the same address >(and toothbrush). (g) Jen moved to Maryland last Friday and we're very >happy... whoa there doe eyes ...and you asked me if I could keep a secret *lol* ?!!!! Whatever happened to surprising the MElisters the night of? Couldn't contain your excitement eh? Looking forward to meeting Jen (the love slave in parens) at the DC area get-together !! ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 12:51:13 -0400 From: Leslie Karen Davis Subject: two mothers for Zachary This quote came up from one of my other lists I thought you might find it interesting. "I have never seen, in the 20 years that I have been in this business, lawyers from the network so involved in the project. They were there every day dictating how and when we could touch, hug, hold hands, and kiss each other. It became so frustrating, because I couldn't figure out why I couldn't show how much my character needed and leaned on Colleen's character. People who are in love with each other touch when they are in pain." --Actress Valerie Bertinelli to The Advocate on the filming of the TV movie 'Two Mothers for Zachary' in which she plays a lesbian who loses custody of her son to her own mother. The movie, based on the real-life Sharon Bottoms case, airs on ABC Sept. 22. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 13:06:36 -0400 From: [email protected] (A. M. Savage) Subject: Cleveland tickets Hello all - I have three main floor tickets available for Melissa's Cleveland show at Gund Arena on October 11th. $35 + 3.5O service charge (Or Best Offer). Unfortunately, I am unable to attend. If your interested - please respond to [email protected]. Thanks, Ann ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 15:40:43 EDT From: "Vanessa A. Brown" Subject: Re: MLE singles list --- Allison wrote: Um, I thought this *was* a singles list....gosh darn it all, now I'll have to go find that FAQ again. --- end of quoted material --- Well when you look at the track record that this list has for putting people together, it's really quite amazing. I only know of a few romantic couplings personally, but I've heard of more through others on the list...not to mention the fabulous friendships that I *know* have been established. Ahhhh, love is good, love is fine....I'm a hopeless romantic. -later Vanessa NH ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 16:10:50 EDT From: "Mary M. MacDonald" Subject: Establishing Ellen: A new list? So whadya think, guys... want to start an Ellen Degeneres email mailing list? I'm the list owner for a mailing list connected to my job here at Dartmouth. It's not a very complicated thing to set up a list and administer it using Dartmouth's server. I'd be happy to get it started if they're enough interest. Those of you interested on this list could form the core; I'll contact the people who maintain various Ellen websites and see if they too are interested. Email me directly (not to the MLE list, please!) if you'd like to participate on an Ellen list. -Mary MacDonald [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 17:20:35 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: DC and the Macarena Tracey Thacker wrote: >....Then, off to the shindig. And I'm still adamant about >my anti-karaoke and/or macarena stance. :-) ...all I can say is - "we'll see" !!!! Beth (who's sig. is probably longer than this post.... sorry!) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 17:46:43 -0400 From: Dina Helen Goldstein Subject: Mle and Ellen... Hi all, Thanks everyone for keeping up to date on when Melissa is going to be on Rosie... (10/14) just to reiterate. I was just watching E! At the tale end I caught something about Melissa and her Joplin Movie. They did say that she will be doing the part, but another Joplin movie is in the works...this other one is being endorsed by the Joplin family and is starring the girl from "I Shot Andy Warhol." I can't remember her name and I believe that is the title of the film..I have never seen it. I also saw that Ellen is on the cover of Entertainment Weekly. The magazine's title is GAY TV...sonething like, should Ellen join 22 other gay and lesbian characters? Something like that... I didn't get to look at it for very long. I'll have to go buy one. Geez, I feel like gossip central. I gotta go, Dina ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 20:24:19 -0400 From: Francie Trout Subject: Re: Mle and Ellen... Thanks for the date on Melissa on Rosie!!! I marked my video recorder! Francie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 21:26:33 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: Re: Gwen & Jen/ NMEC Ditto on the congrats always glad to here of fellow listers having happy and healthy relationships!!!! On Mon, 30 Sep 1996, Vanessa A. Brown wrote: > How about a separate personal's list for single Melissa fans? Sign me up Vanessa! Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 20:40:17 -0700 From: edgy Subject: VH1 Crossroads cd The Melissa/Joan Osborne duet of "Bring Me Some Water" can now also be found on the VH1 release "Crossroads," named after the show. I believe it is in stores now. Also, there's a page on Ellen in this week's TV Guide. Allison I'm out of sarcastic lines... [email protected] ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 30 Sep 1996 to 1 Oct 1996 ************************************************* From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Thu Oct 3 00:02:24 1996 Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 00:00:01 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 1 Oct 1996 to 2 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 14:10:43 -0400 From: Lisa Borthwick Subject: Leavenworth's sister city Hi y'all out there... Just reading the Melbourne daily newspaper, the Herald-Sun today and noticed a headline that caught my interest..."Wagga Creates a Stir in Kansas". Dateline: Leavenworth. We all know the significance of Leavenworth as Mel's birthplace. In fact, I believe I have read stories here on the List in the past, detailing pilgrimages by the faithful to Leavenworth, the only city in the world to recongnise Melissa Etheridge Day. Sorry...I digress. OK. well, apparently, Leavenworth, Kansas, has an Australian sister city -- which one?, I hear you all ask....Wagga, or as they refer to it over there, Wagga Wagga. Apparently, recently the Leavenworth city managers decided to name a new road currently under construction after their sister city, but the locals aren't happy with the idea, 'cause they say Wagga Wagga Drive "sounds funny", to quote local resident Richard Layton Etheridge City manger Phil Urban Etheridge conceded, saying that no matter what, they had to take into consideration the feelings of the people who pay the bills...all the residents of Leavenworth. Afterall, the new road is 5 kilometres in length and is costing the townsfolk some $14 million. Now, I don't want to rub it in, or anything, but we appear a little less threatened by funny sounding names here in Australia, because Wagga Wagga already has two streets named after their fair sister -- Leavenworth Drive and Kansas Drive .....and are already planning their next leap in urban town planning,....You can Sleep While I Drive ;-) Lisa-Lou ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 23:34:30 -0500 From: Anne Haines Subject: "Up Close"; NTG single For those who weren't able to hear the "Up Close" radio broadcast featuring MLE, you didn't miss much. Lots of commercials, a bunch of album tracks, a little conversation (nothing we haven't heard a few times already), and one live track (SF-- I believe it was the performance on the DWS cd-single; this is one of my favorite live tracks actually). Part 2 is scheduled to air next week. Picked up the NTG cd-single today; I actually like the solo acoustic version of NTG. Nice to hear it stripped down and a bit more subtle. Gives it quite a different flavor. (NMEC: I also picked up Carrie Newcomer's new CD; if you like Mary-Chapin Carpenter, definitely check this out. Carrie has an absolutely gorgeous voice, similar style to MCC, and really nice songwriting-- plus, she lives around here, and judging from the couple of times I've said hello to her & the general "word on the street," she's an incredibly nice person. Jennifer Kimball, from The Story, sings harmony on several tracks.) >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>><<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< "If truth is beauty, how come no one has their hair done in the library?" --Lily Tomlin >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>http://ezinfo.ucs.indiana.edu/~ahaines/<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 14:52:51 +1000 From: Margo Hellyer Subject: Arrested Development >Allison I'm out of sarcastic lines... >[email protected] Oh No!! 'edgy' losing her edge! C'mon Allison ... LA cant be making you jaded. Must be the weekly road trips. Surely there is ample time then to contemplate love, life and lines .... sarcastic, pickup etc. Margo ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 23:49:35 -0500 From: Julie Utke Subject: two moms for zach Hello!! Did anyone happen to tape _Two Mothers for Zachary_? I anted to watch it, but I don't have cable, I live in a trailer cort, so my reception is LOUSY!! If anyone taped it, I'd be willing to pay for a copy of it. I can put it to good use by donating it to the Gay and Lesbian student group here at USD. Here's a side note for anyone interested.... Peggy Orenstein, the author of _Young Women, Self Esteem, and the Confidence Gap_ will be speaking on USD's campus. this is what was written in the flyer: "Orenstein reveals that even girls who place a premium on academic excellence are debilitated by a profound lack of confidence in themselves, their appearance, and their abilities, and the female students learn these lessons of silence and self-doubt in their schools. Orenstein explores the social forces in effect in our schools and looks for clues as to how we can alter this troubling reality. Orenstien will be speaking on Thursday evening [Oct 10th] at 8:oo pm in the [Coyote Student Center.]" Also featured at the Thirteenth Annual Women's Research Conference will be the Neon Girls. "Christy Simpson and Joan Driskill are Kansas City singer/songwriters with an acoustic folk sound and a mix of riotously irreverent, deeply passionate and socially relevant material. The Girls released their second recording in 1995 and were highlighted on the Kansas City gay and lesbian magazine show, _Out There_. Registration is $45 for individual, $20 if you're retired or a student. $30 extra for transportation to/from Sioux Falls or Sioux City. Deadline for Pre-Reg is Oct 4, Women's Research Conference/SWES-Irma Burbach/University of South Dakota/414 E. Clark Street/Vermillion, SD 57069 Fax # 605-677-6118 Sorry about the short notice-- I just saw this yesterday. I'm going to go hear Peggy Orenstein speak. I think it would be really interesting. Catch ya all on the flip side-- Jae, who up until she was 20, and finally became one, thought "Lesbian" meant you were from Lebanon..... ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 1 Oct 1996 23:51:53 -0500 From: Julie Utke Subject: The macarena Oh, PLEASE!!!!!!!!! We are Melissa fans!! We have too much class for the macarena!! ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 10:11:44 +0100 From: Juliet Long Subject: UK-listees! Yay!! Big cheers to Kate for letting folk know we're still out here!! But you forgot to mention our get-together - 3 of us (hey there Sarah!! - thats *another* mention for ya!!) ...and the garlic fest!!! Phew!!! Well, ..doh!!! Guess it's too late now - we'll just have to arrange another!!! ..its a hard life eh!!! ok ...crawling back to lurkdom before anyone spots me.... Juliet ps.... Your turn now Sarah!!! ...tap, tap ...I'm waiting!!! ;) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 08:25:19 EST From: DOUG Subject: Ellen and some MEC and Rosie Hey y'all! This may have been posted already. If so, well you've already read this much you might as well read the rest. In the Friday, Sept. 27 edition of the USA Today - there is a snippet about a poll that Entertainment Weekly will release this week. The poll states that 72% of adults would not be offended if a TV show's lead character were gay. But 40% of 1,003 adults polled believe Ellen would lose viewers if it happens on that show (margin of error 3.1 percentage points). Now for MEC - someone mentioned that ME will be on Rosie in October. Where did you get this date? On Rosie's show one day last week, she was telling about the big name musical guests booked for her show and Melissa wasn't mentioned. Those that were mentioned were Wynonna Judd, Garth Brooks, Elton John, Joni Mitchell, and (yesyesyesyesyesyes - YES!) REBA! Not only will Reba AND Elton be on the show...they'll be on the same week! YEAH!!!!!! I have to commend and thank Rosie for bringing so many musical acts to the show from such a wide range of backgrounds. Thanks to her, I now have several new artists to listen to...like Ann Nesby and Billy Porter. Okay...that is all for now. Hope you all have a wonderful Hump Day! I should have known it would be rainy and cool today, because that's just the way this week is going - badly! Doug "From the coveted Ark, To Noah in Asia Sodom and Gomorrah, the light and the dark Chased by the demon to the caves of the Burren Imprisoned by the truth in the tales of the Turrin >From original sin to original blame, for shame, for shame" -from "Mistress of Erzulie" by Alannah Myles Doug Brown, Program Support Technician Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 08:34:36 -0400 From: Dina Helen Goldstein Subject: Gwen and Jen Hey...Congrats Gwen and Jen!!!! It is so sweet...even the names rhyme. But you know you really shouldn't share a toothbrush...go ahead and by another toothbrush, it is not very healthy to share ;-) See y'all on the 12th, Dina ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 05:28:01 -0700 From: "Amy J. Putnam" Subject: NMEC carrie newcomer > (NMEC: I also picked up Carrie Newcomer's new CD; if you like Mary-Chapin > Carpenter, definitely check this out. Carrie has an absolutely gorgeous > voice, similar style to MCC, and really nice songwriting-- plus, she lives > around here, and judging from the couple of times I've said hello to her & > the general "word on the street," she's an incredibly nice person. > Jennifer Kimball, from The Story, sings harmony on several tracks.) > i'll second that! i love the new album. got it stuck in my head. folks in bostonm who want to check her out can do so tonight at johnny d's in somerville at 8:30. you wont be disappointed! amy p. / Who holds your hand [email protected] / When you're alone / the original photo monk / --Patty Larkin ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 08:44:31 EST From: DOUG Subject: Quilt in DC Hey again! Some friends and I were supposed to take a Red Cross sponsored bus trip to see the Quilt on October 12. But not enough interest in this area has led to the trip being cancelled. A friend and I are thinking of driving up ourselves. Can any of you DC area listers give me some info about parking? We've considered parking somewhere outside DC and then taking the Metro into the city. The good thing about driving ourselves is that we may stay and take part in the candle light procession that night (led by Elizabeth Taylor!). Any and all help you can give will be much appreciated. Doug "From the coveted Ark, To Noah in Asia Sodom and Gomorrah, the light and the dark Chased by the demon to the caves of the Burren Imprisoned by the truth in the tales of the Turrin >From original sin to original blame, for shame, for shame" -from "Mistress of Erzulie" by Alannah Myles Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 10:11:00 EDT From: "Ware, Lanette" Subject: BMSW Duet/Amanda on GMA/Judgements Did anyone catch Amanda Marshall on Good Morning America last week? She did a great job. She looked a little tired actually (10 months of touring will do that to ya', I personally know) but vocally, she ruled! I really dig Birmingham, boy. I finally caught the BMSW duet on VH-1 w/Joan. I tell you ME's people must be in good with the folks at VH-1, she's CONSTANTLY being recognized on that channel. I think it's great! My final .02 is on a recent dispute I read on this post dated (9/26) regarding Class, Education, and Healthy Relationships. I think it's very funny how easy it is for some people in this country to assume that money is the answer to all things good and evil and that it naturally offers a grandiose supply of every comfort, desire and pleasure place we could want for, including a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. Geez! Wake up and smell the real world PALEEZZ!! Support and love are the true foundations of what a healthy adult relationship is all about. NOT about how many toys you had as a child, whether you were driven to school in a jaguar, where you lived, or even whether you went to a community college or Harvard. Sure, there are diff. social classes, sure there are diff. levels of education, but PLEASE don't preach that without the best of these things one can't function as well in an adult relationship because THEN I must ask, "If I weren't able to afford a computer in my home, or hadn't graduated with honors from college, would I be any less able to love my husband? or FUNCTION in society as you say?" Besides, last I checked, all of my very rich friends were so insecure they couldn't even tie their own shoes without daddy's approval, or they were being disowned because they didn't date a certain TYPE, I mean come on. Does that make for a healthy spirit and/or soul to you? Think about it. ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 10:41:47 -0500 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: It all started with mangos What's the old adage? Love happens when you least expect it? Well that certainly was true for me and Jen. I mean, all I said was, "I'll buy you mangos baby." And I dunno, something sparked and here we are today, walking on air with big, sappy smiles on our faces, saying goofy, mushy stuff which is driving our friends totally crazy. But don't worry, we'll try to control ourselves at the D.C. shindig. Besides, we'll be too busy watching Tracey entertain us with her karaoke version of the Macarena. Right Tracey???? (snicker) Beth reminded me: >whoa there doe eyes ...and you asked me if I could keep a secret *lol* >?!!!! >Whatever happened to surprising the MElisters the night of? Couldn't contain >your excitement eh? (sheepish grin) Nope, sorry Beth. Plus I just couldn't resist dubbing Jen with the LSIP title.... not that she's complaining about it. (Jen has the most adorable smirk...) And about the idea that Vanessa and Shirl both mentioned of creating an MLE single's list: Vanessa said: >I too find myself broken up and not >yet quite as lucky as Gwen & Jen....but I'm only in week 4 of being PIP-less. >How about a separate personal's list for single Melissa fans? Hmmmm, we could >have some fun with hypothetical personal ads, eh? Then Shirl responded: >Sign me up Vanessa! (athem) "Vanessa, this is Shirl. Shirl, this is Vanessa. I only have one mango left. Guess you'll have to share it....." We're looking forward to the Oct. 12 D.C. Gathering. We're up to 25 guests as of this morning. Gwen (and Jen, my LSIP) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 11:05:55 EDT From: "Vanessa A. Brown" Subject: Re: It all started with mangos --- Gwen wrote: (athem) "Vanessa, this is Shirl. Shirl, this is Vanessa. I only have one mango left. Guess you'll have to share it....." --- end of quoted material --- Thank-you Gwen, but Shirl and I have already met, back at the Camp MLE Montreal. Maybe we've already shared a mango? ;) In a closet maybe? Shirl?...anyway, since that post Karen Chisholm, Shirl and I have been seriously chatting about this singles list. I'll post here if and when we figure something out and tell you single MLE fans where to go to meet "similar" kind!! This could be exciting! Gwen, Jen...I really want more details...was it all cyber, or did you actually meet in Florida some where along the way...and what about the ex's and what about just picking up and moving? So many questions, so little time..... Take care Vanessa New Hampshire ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 12:19:00 EDT From: "Ware, Lanette" Subject: Shirley's home page Everyone check out Shirley's Home page! It's a lot of fun. I'm glad my home town treated you well Shirley as when I was working on the stages of Pottstown, PA (back in Nov. '95) I was treated very well indeed! ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 13:22:30 -0400 From: Subject: NMEC-Help for Toledo Is there any kind soul out there from the Toledo, OH area who could lend a hand? Another MELister and I (neither of us from Toledo, of course) will be attending the Toledo concert in Savage Hall. (Cool, University of Toledo campus here we come) I'd like to meet up beforehand at Tony Packos (sp?) but don't know where Tony's is. Someone I know mentioned it is on Front street, that is all the info I have. Does anyone have the location/address/directions to Tony's? Thanks, SueD ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 10:42:13 -0700 From: Joe Vitale Subject: News Flash: I've discovered a hot new star I just signed on to help promote a new recording sensation who is young, sexy, talented, fiery--- and already has a song on the charts. Her name is EJ Waters and her album is EJ WATERS. (Okay, so they weren't creative in naming her album). Anyone into female vocalists, rising new stars, pop rock, and shake-your-butt good music should zip over to their local record store and grab the EJ WATERS CD right now. I mean it. I haven't be able to take this CD off of my player since I first heard it last week and usually all I ever listen to is Stevie Ray Vaughan or Melissa Etheridge. Give EJ a listen! She's cool beans! Joe :) -- Joe Vitale -- Marketing with Spirit -- Houston Office: 713-999-1110 [email protected] http://www.speaking.com/vitale.html Get my NEW book: "CyberWriting: How to Promote Your Product or Service Online (without being flamed)" Call 1-800-262-9699 ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 14:22:21 -0400 From: Kelley at AOL Subject: Ellen While surfing the web, I came across an address for a website about "Ellen's Coming Out" page. Haven't been there yet but it said it has the email address for Ellen's producers so it can be voiced how we feel about the rumored coming out. Here's the address....http://www.geocities.com/Hollywood/Hills/4010/ellen.html. Also, the Advocate quote from Valerie Bertenelli.....what issue is that? She's my favorite and I've been dying to check it out...please advise. Also calling all St. Louis Area MElisters (Hi, Susie!). Don't forget....Saturday the 5th is our day!!! Can't wait!!! Take care, Kelley ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 15:16:59 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: Re: It all started with mangos At 10:41 10/2/96 -0500, Gwen Shinko wrote: >What's the old adage? Love happens when you least expect it? Well that >certainly was true for me and Jen. I mean, all I said was, "I'll buy you >mangos baby." Glad to see that at least one of the lyrics on YLS is useful. >But don't worry, we'll try to control ourselves at the D.C. shindig. >Besides, we'll be too busy watching Tracey entertain us with her karaoke >version of the Macarena. Right Tracey???? (snicker) You know, if one more person says something about this, I may just boycott this little event. I could hang at the Quilt and try to meet Elizabeth Taylor. I don't need this. >Vanessa said: >>I too find myself broken up and not >>yet quite as lucky as Gwen & Jen....but I'm only in week 4 of being PIP-less. >>How about a separate personal's list for single Melissa fans? Hmmmm, we could >>have some fun with hypothetical personal ads, eh? > >Then Shirl responded: >>Sign me up Vanessa! > >(athem) "Vanessa, this is Shirl. Shirl, this is Vanessa. I only have one >mango left. Guess you'll have to share it....." You know, I thought mangoes were the proprietary fruit of another MELister couple . . . well, maybe not. >We're looking forward to the Oct. 12 D.C. Gathering. We're up to 25 guests >as of this morning. 25? Oh boy! 24 total strangers to meet all at once. This is gonna be fun! Nervously, Tracey Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Undeniable truth: Vital papers will demonstrate their vitality by moving from where you left them to where you can't find them. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 15:32:15 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: The Mango-Thing Hi, At 10:41 10/2/96 -0500, Gwen Shinko wrote: >What's the old adage? Love happens when you least expect it? Well that >certainly was true for me and Jen. I mean, all I said was, "I'll buy you >mangos baby." Dang! And to think I gave those "Melissa's Mangoes" Gwen sent me to my little boy, David! ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 23:20:46 +0200 From: Holger Wahlen Subject: VCR alert (Europe) German TV station Bayern 3 is going to show a rerun of "Live aus dem Schlachthof" with MLE and the Jeff Healey Band in the night from next Tuesday to Wednesday. To be exact, that's 9 October 1996, 0:00 to 0:45 Central European Time (or 8 October, 23:00 in the UK, Ireland etc.). If you have a satellite dish for the Astra system, you can receive Bayern 3 at 11 141 MHz, horizontal polarization (audio subcarriers 7.02 and 7.20 MHz). Enjoy, Holger -- "The more things change, the more they'll never be the same again." ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 16:58:34 -0500 From: Kathryn Davis Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 30 Sep 1996 to 1 Oct 1996 Hey ME fans! I'm a college student who loves ME's music and have been on the receiving end of the Mailing List for quite some time now. I live in the northern corner of Alabama and the last time my friends and I were fortunate enough to see Melissa was on July 1 of 1995! I know there's obviously some tour going on now, and I'm a member of MEIN, but I haven't heard of anything in the southeast region. If there's anyone out there that knows some info, PLEASE pass it on! Also, if there's anyone reading who's from the Atlanta area, please give me a buzz because I'm looking at doing my internship there and would like to make some connections before I come that way. Would love to hear from you all! --- Melissa is God. [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 19:40:23 -0700 From: Randy Subject: singles list I'm technically not single but I AM without an SO. Can I join the singles list as a wannabee? huh, huh, can I? -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 21:04:46 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: Re: It all started with mangos:NMEC On Wed, 2 Oct 1996, Vanessa A. Brown wrote: > Thank-you Gwen, but Shirl and I have already met, back at the Camp MLE > Montreal. Yes we did meet and Vanessa is a sweetie gals! Definately one to grab a hold of while she is available. She was very attached when I met her and I was in the midst of becoming very unattached not to mention way to shy and demure. Don't know if I'll make a very good singles type of person Vanessa! :] Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 21:06:58 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: Re: Shirley's home page Gosh Lanette I'm flattered but really it is a pretty basic page, no frills. It is the pics of all the other MELISTERS that makes it fun to visit. On Wed, 2 Oct 1996, Ware, Lanette wrote: > Everyone check out Shirley's Home page! It's a lot of fun. Shirl Home Page: http:/www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 22:43:49 -0400 From: Francie Trout Subject: singles list I am somewhat "newly" single (February) and I would like to join the singles list! :-) Francie ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 13:14:26 +1000 From: Michele Walters Subject: singles list Hmmm, I'll delurk for a minute to say I would like to join too, although I'm from Australia - problem??? Michele:-) ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 1 Oct 1996 to 2 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Fri Oct 4 00:02:41 1996 Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 00:00:20 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 2 Oct 1996 to 3 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 00:35:46 -0400 From: "T.J. Scott" Subject: singles list Well since some are delurking about this.. I guess I will too. Could you sign me up too?? Thanks, TJ ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 00:51:59 -0400 From: Elaine Naiman Subject: life, the universe and everything [email protected] wrote: >> Would you please remove my e-mail address from your AOL mailing >> list. I'm sure somebody could but you'd still be on the McGill list. Kathryn Davis wrote: >> Melissa is God. No, Melissa is a human being. G-d has much better sense than to live in Los Angeles. Elaine -- "The alternative to truth is hypocrisy/If you want to choose the latter you won't never be free" - Shawn Phillips http://www.ncf.carleton.ca/~cs847/ ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 22:10:21 -0700 From: Joyce Stoliar Subject: Vanessa, Shirl, Singles, & Mangoes NMEC Hey, Vanessa said: >I too find myself broken up and not >yet quite as lucky as Gwen & Jen....but I'm only in week 4 of being PIP-less. Vanessa, :-< Sorry babe, that PIPless stage sucks!!! TRUST me I know!!! But mangoes do help, well sometimes, they are even more effctive if they are accompanied by a bottle of strawberry wine!!! Honest!!! >Thank-you Gwen, but Shirl and I have already met, back at the Camp MLE >Montreal. Maybe we've already shared a mango? ;) In a closet maybe? >Shirl?... Shirl, uhhhhh, you were rooming with ME in Montreal, remember???? That was night # 3 for me I think? Kim, and Sue know what I'm talking about, oh yeah, so does John Miller, thanks to Kim Kim & Patti or Kare I need your snail mail addresses, I'll send the photos off to you gals real soon. Hey gals, I got my NYC pictures processed, they are really fun, exept for the 20 or so I have of that statue!!! NYC was a weekend to remember. Closets, cigars, lions, new versions to the Mickey Mouse Club song, you know!!! Hey Sue, you must be getting readdy to go on tour, have a blast!!!! Give hugs to all MElisters present for me would ya, especially that fuzzy brown bear, POOH. Take Care, Joyce, a.k.a., The Shirt Gal ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 15:43:50 EST From: Nanette Gherardin Subject: Re: NMEC: Carrie Newcomer, Greetings All Just a quick note to add my $.02 worth. Actually probably not even worth that much !!! On 01/10/96 23:34:30 wrote: ------------------------------ >(NMEC: I also picked up Carrie Newcomer's new CD; if you like >Mary-Chapin >Carpenter, definitely check this out. Carrie has an absolutely >gorgeous .voice, similar style to MCC, and really nice songwriting-- >plus, she lives around here, and judging from the couple of times >I've said hello to her & the general "word on the street," she's an >incredibly nice person.Jennifer Kimball, from The Story, sings >harmony on several tracks.) I have to agree with the above sentiments expressed above. I came across Carrie Newcomer back in '94' when i was in Tower Records in San Diego. They had her 1st Cd on the listening post. It was fantastic & subsequently i bought the 2nd without having heard it, but it was great to. Hopefully someone (record store) in Melbourne will have the new one. Go 49's & Chargers (haven't seen the results for this week other than the Cowboys scraped in a win against the Eagles) Nan ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 01:38:25 -0400 From: Elaine Naiman Subject: NMEC: Joni Mitchell Finally! Somebody started a Joni Mitchell list (is that John Miller I hear screaming?) JONI Contact: [email protected] Purpose: Discussion list devoted to Joni Mitchell. To subscribe, send email to [email protected] and in the body of the message, put subscribe joni or subscribe joni-digest List owner: [email protected] (Les Irvin) Last change: Sep 96 Elaine -- "The alternative to truth is hypocrisy/If you want to choose the latter you won't never be free" - Shawn Phillips http://www.ncf.carleton.ca/~cs847/ ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 01:45:34 -0500 From: Katherine Roberts Subject: BRUCE!!! I don't post often, but I think I'm going to burst if I don't tell someone about this show. Just got back from seeing MLE in Milwaukee. It was the best show I've ever seen in my life (2nd time seeing her). Melissa was her usual, put-on-a-helluva-show-for-'em self. The Bradley Center was only maybe 1/3 full, Melissa said early on, "so you must be the people who couldn't get tickets to Bruce's show." Unbeknownst to me (I had driven up from Chicago to see her) Springsteen was playing at another venue tonight as well. But I guess he must've finished early (more on that later....) Y'all know the set list by now; the order's a bit different for the second leg of the tour, but the songs are the same. Our seats were about halfway back on the main floor -- right next to the "satellite stage." Thanks to you all, I'd been warned ahead of time, so we were right on top of it by the time she got back there to rip into the second part of the show. (Quick fashion report: black t-shirt, faded denim w/purple velvet swirly designs, the ubiquitous black pants and fake-snakeskin Doc Martens) Shook John's hand as he came on. I'm normally a somewhat reserved person, but when it comes to MLE concerts, I have no shame. I screamed and danced and generally went nuts the whole time. I still can't believe I was literally a foot from her. Hell, we could read the little tape on the back of the Ovations that said "Main" and F.O.H (what does that mean??) I shook ME's hand as she left, and I got a guitar pick!! After they got back to the main stage and she finished up her first encore (LTWID, of course) she went to introduce the next song (I'm sorry, I really don't remember what she said, I was too in awe) and the next thing I know, BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN is on stage with her and they're singing Pink Cadillac. I saw Melissa and Bruce sing together, LIVE!!! I'm still trying to get over this one, folks. Was anyone else there?? I didn't see any bowling shirts. OK, I'll shut up now. Just one more thing, does Kenny remind anyone else of Liberty DeVito, Billy Joel's drummer, or is it just me? Take care all, Kate ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 01:08:08 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Joni Mitchell, Carrie Newcomer (NMEC) Elaine Naiman made my day with: ^^^^^^^^^^^ >Finally! Somebody started a Joni Mitchell list (is that John Miller I >hear screaming?) YES! YES! YES! If I were stuck on a desert island with only one album it would be Joni Mitchell's 1971 release "BLUE"... a friend recently said to me: >This album cannot be recommended too strongly! This is one of the few >true works of art in popular music history. It's provided inspiration >for countless musicians that have followed. The arrangements are sparse >and beautiful, the songs are passionate. After resisting years of requests to publish a 'best of' compilation, Joni is finally releasing a 2-CD compilation next Tuesday, Oct 8 (in the U.S. I don't know release dates elsewhere). There is a Joni web-page at: http://www.well.com/user/wallyb/jonihome.html She will also be appearing on Rosie O'Donnell's show 'sometime in October'. ---- Re: the recent comments about Carrie Newcomer... Catch her live if you can... she's touring heavily through December, and Jennifer Kimball (formerly with Jonatha Brooke of the STORY) is performing with Carrie through mid-October... in fact, catch any of these three women live... all are excellent singers and songwriters... and for those of you who are used to large arena shows, the intimacy of small venues will be a refreshing change. Carrie's tour dates can be found at: http://www.carrienewcomer.com/journey.html Tour dates for Jonatha Brooke (and Jennifer Kimball) are at: http://www.cs.umd.edu/users/rager/Story/index.html John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 02:18:47 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Re: Elaine catching a plane Wendy Waterstrat delurked with: >Delurking for a nanosecond (maybe no one will notice) I noticed, I noticed! Wendy observed my attempt to entice Elaine to fly to San Francisco: >>> and as Rhondda and I have told you before, you >>> always have a place to crash in the Bay Area. >Elaine, I know it's just the pilot in me, but I keep cringing at someone >enticing you to catch a plane while ensuring you that you have a place >to crash :) LOL! Good to see a pilot on the list! When I taught air-crew wilderness survival to search-and-rescue pilots (who spoke of 'unscheduled landings', not 'crashes'), they always told me the *second* greatest thrill in the world was flying... the *first* was landing. John Miller - who has a few hours in a T-34 Beech Mentor ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 07:00:40 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Re: Columbus & Cincy Hey All! Just a moment to say that I need you to let me know by tomorrow if there is any change in the agenda for the Columbus show and if there is gonna be anything for Cincy as I am off all next week and tomorrow is my last day of work so Joyce L. write me and I will give you my home number so if you need to talk with me about any of the plans we can do so! Otherwise we shall do you all proud and represent the Melisters in the best way we can and definitely have you all there in our hearts and minds as we do so! I will be diving for any picks thrown my way which will be quite a dive from where I will probably end up but I will give it my best shot! That is unless Joyce is ready to trade her pick for some honey! :) Let's all rejoice and be happy for the life we have and the fun times shared with friends we know and shall come to know! I am ready though I still have a pinched nerve from forgetting to duck my head as I entered my service van last week but it ain't gonna stop me no way no how! Any good hands out there who could rub this kink outta me? :) Hopefully my bonecracker will be successful on Friday. I gots to go but we will remember you all on Tues. and raise our glasses to allow you to be carried away with us as we go forth and bask in the musical glow of Melissa! Sincerely, "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 09:48:55 -0300 From: Alma M Cameron Subject: Singles list Delurking to respond to the good idea of a singles list, but I'm all the way up here in Halifax, Nova Scotia. I'll have to work on my air miles. Alma ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 08:55:21 EDT From: "Vanessa A. Brown" Subject: Re: singles list Wow...I guess we have a lot of singles out there. This is getting fun. Why don't you all e-mail me privately as not to burden the list and we'll see what we can get going. I think we really need to have Shirl's expertise if we're going to set up a real list. If the demand is not too high we could handle it just by group mailing. I've got the names of those who already expressed interest and I'll post to the list when and if we manage to do anything official. Be working on your ads!! : ) Vanessa Single in New Hampshire ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 12:29:18 +0000 From: tbird Subject: Re: BRUCE!!! On 3 Oct 96 at 1:45, Katherine Roberts wrote: > I shook > ME's hand as she left, and I got a guitar pick!! Lucky you!! > the next thing I know, BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN is on stage with her and > they're singing Pink Cadillac. I saw Melissa and Bruce sing > together, LIVE!!! I'm still trying to get over this one, folks. Was > anyone else there?? I didn't see any bowling shirts. WOW!!!!..COOL!!!...The first boot I bought was Passion and Promise cause it had Pink Cadillac on it...I love that song...So if anyone here's of a copy of this concert available PLEASE,please, please let me know!!!! Tricia [email protected] http://www.wchat.on.ca/queen/tbird.htm .. ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 15:21:26 -0500 From: Jenniffer Smith Subject: Re: The Mango-Thing >>> Joyce Luck 10/02/96 02:32pm >>> writes: > >Dang! And to think I gave those "Melissa's Mangoes" >Gwen sent me to my little boy, David! And here I thought you were into leather tool belts with wratchet wrenches...and animals named 'Cooper'. What kind of game are you playing here, Luck? > Why, *excuse* you...looks like you lied about not eating your own mangoes! ;-) jen--happily sucking on an orange-flavored Brach's Sparkle. ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 12:16:51 -0700 From: Susan Budjako Subject: In the San Jose Mercury there is an article about MLE playing Janis. Well we have all heard that one but there is a weird sentence that says"The studio is rushing to complete pre-production on its Janis tale, a rough and ready version with a screenplay by Julie Cypher, who claims to have been Joplins lover." HUH Julie is maybe 30 years old. I don't think Janis was even alive when Julie came to be. Bad paper bad bad. Susan B ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 15:34:26 -0400 From: pags Subject: Xena I just saw the Xena action figure doll for the first time I may just have to get one. Sorry, thought of the list right when i saw it and had to laugh as I am still waiting to see the emergence of the MLE doll. -Sharon ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 13:20:30 EDT From: Wendy Waterstrat Subject: Re: catching a plane - NMEC I wrote: > > >Delurking for a nanosecond (maybe no one will notice) and John Miller responded: > > I noticed, I noticed! I notice that not much gets by you, John. :) > > Good to see a pilot on the list! And it's good to have some company. T-34 time? That makes a nice entry in the log book. > > When I taught air-crew wilderness survival to search-and-rescue pilots > (who spoke of 'unscheduled landings', not 'crashes'), they always told > me the *second* greatest thrill in the world was flying... the *first* > was landing. A good landing is indeed the greatest thrill. Did they tell you how they defined a good landing? Wendy "Show me the sky, and give me my wings" - ME ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 16:52:40 -0500 From: "Karen C. Heller" Subject: singles list The singles list would be a great idea!!!!! Let's do it. Karen ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 17:19:27 EDT From: "Mary M. MacDonald" Subject: ELLEN established: list online! Hi all - Hi all - I'm pleased to announce that the new Ellen Degeneres mailing list ELLEN in now up and running. Thanks to all who expressed their interest. I think we're going to have a fun ride. Be sure to share this with friends you think may like to join. To subscribe to the list, send mail to [email protected] with the contents: SUBSCRIBE ELLEN Your Name That's it! If you have any questions, email me directly. My apologies in advance for variations of this message you may receive in your travels in cyberspace - I'm cross-posting this to other lists who may be interested. -Mary, who's kind of excited about this! [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 21:28:17 GMT From: Maggie at avalon Subject: Re: catching a plane - NMEC Wendy wrote: >A good landing is indeed the greatest thrill. Did they tell you how >they defined a good landing? Any one that you walk away from. Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 17:48:45 -0500 From: Jen Kuiper Subject: That LS Thing.... NMEC Beth Durff Said: >>Greetings, groovy ME Listers! It's me, Gwen, organizer of the D.C. Oct. >>12th gathering. :-) >whoa there doe eyes ...and you asked me if I could keep a secret *lol* >?!!!! (thwap!) Paws off chick-magnet! (possesive glare) _Those_ particular doe eyes are MINE, and what goes with them. Capice? Go and 'magnetize' your own cutie. (self-satisfied smirk) (snort) (g) >Whatever happened to surprising the MElisters the night of? Couldn't contain >your excitement eh? Looking forward to meeting Jen (the love slave in parens) Well.. you know the saying.. its hard to keep a good love slave... (blush) er... nevermind.. We just won't go there. (w) Jen __________________________________________________________________ Jen Kuiper [email protected] "Artificial Intelligence is no match for human Stupidity" ------------------------------------------------------------------ ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 17:09:43 -0500 From: Jenniffer Smith Subject: ADMINISTRIVIA--PLEASE READ Hi, all! As has been announced, I'm going to attempt to keep the peace as list flame moderator in MLE-Town. Some of you may cheer and toast me with kamikazes, some of you may wish me well, some of you may even cry...and the rest of you probably just don't give a hell. Whatever your feelings, I'm here to serve and serve I shall. I'll not even bother to deem myself, "Deb's Replacement," as that would not be fair to Deb or to myself--no one can replace Deb and I don't feel like even trying to live up to her rep! I would like to take the opportunity to publicly thank Deb for all of her hard work and patience--her participation on the administrative level will be *sorely* missed. I'd also like to thank everyone who has sent support my way thus far...we'll see how you feel in a few weeks! I will not be donning Deb's leather gear, as it's been donated the Hard Rock Cafe (she will, however, loan me leather wrist cuffs and/or a whip when/if needed). I will most certainly wear clothing during the administration of my official duties, though it's not yet been determined exactly what I'll wear. It's very possible that I will see some things differently than did Deb, but the rules will remain the same and things should remain business as usual. As far as general posting guidelines, you all probably know them but I'll go over them just the same. 1) As has always been the case, cross posting from other lists or newsgroups is a no-no and can merit a warning upon repeated offense or if the material is extremely offensive in nature. [**Exception: Cross-posts are allowed if they pertain to the topic at hand, as we've seen in the past few weeks with the gay parenting and Ellen issues.** When cross-posting occurs under this exception I will send a reminder of the guidelines to the sender as a technicality only--no warning will be given.] 2) Posting of private e-mail w/o the consent of the originator is considered poor netiquette It's also not acceptable fare for this list and offenders will be issued a warning. 3) CHAIN LETTERS, GET-RICH-QUICK SCHEMES AND 'URBAN LEGENDS' ARE GROUNDS FOR IMMEDIATE REMOVAL FROM THIS LIST! This is stated in the FAQ that we all received when we first subscribed. This includes posts about 'Killer Computer Viruses', little boys who want post-cards, etc. As I do not have the ability to sub or unsub, removal based on this offense will be entirely up to the list owners. 4) Personal pot-shots and flames will not be tolerated on this list. Spirited discussion and mature debate is welcome and disagreements may be voiced, but direct attacks on each other will simply not fly. Thinly veiled attacks against one another (ie--"You know who") will also be grounds for me to issue a warning. If you feel that you simply *must* give someone a piece of your mind, give it to them off-list. **I will not be responsible for off-list feuding. If you become involved in an argument off-list, whether or not you are the perpetrator, there is absolutely nothing I can do to resolve the issue. If you feel strongly enough about something that someone from this list has written to you through private mail with regard to list material (if the situation turns into harassment, threats, etc), I will read a complaint, but I will not intervene. If you feel threatened or someone will just not leave you alone, you must take it up with the offender's provider. A person's off-list actions will have no bearing upon their list status, unless it comes to my attention that a person or persons are harassing or threatening people off-list on a regular basis. If this situation ever occurs, the matter will be forwarded to the list owners for their review. 5) As far as finger-pointing among listers...this, too, is a no-no. I won't take kindly to people writing to me and telling me that what someone else said offended them and that they think a warning should be issued. If you are offended enough to think a person should get a warning, then I suggest that you take it up with them through private mail. Remember-- I'm subscribed to the same list that everyone sees. If things start to get rough, I'll intervene and attempt to keep things civil. **Administrative warnings/suspensions will never be made public--no exceptions. 6) This is not the MLE Info-Only list. NMEC is allowable as long as it's in good taste and follows the guidelines set forth for MLE-related posts. NMEC is a big part of what makes this list 'family' to a great number of people. I will, however, reserve the right to ask that any topic (MEC or NMEC) be discontinued if it is apparent that the participants are allowing things to get out of hand (ie--flame wars erupting every other post). For now, I will send a majority of ADMIN posts from this address ([email protected]). However, on weekends and in the evening, if I see a need to send ADMIN messages or posts, I'll send them from my AOL account ([email protected]). I'll try not to be too confusing where this is concerned. I think that just about does it for now. :-) If anything comes to me at a later date, I'll post it. In closing, I'd just like to say that I think we all make up a mature, diverse, friendly, safe place in which to share our differences and similarities--the biggest of which is our mutual admiration for Melissa Etheridge. I've not encountered any other list or newsgroup that is as pleasant to participate in as MLether. Thanks in advance for helping myself and all other listers to keep it that way! :-) Jen Smith [email protected] [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 17:18:17 -0500 From: Jenniffer Smith Subject: ADMIN Re: singles list Vanessa A. Brown 10/03/96 07:55am >>> writes: >Wow...I guess we have a lot of singles out there. This is >getting fun. Why don't you all e-mail me privately as not to >burden the list and we'll see what we can get going. Sounds like cupid is gearing up to do some *major* work! :-) However...as Vanessa has suggested, please send all votes of support to her via private mail and help cut down the number of one-line responses to the list. Thanks! Jen Smith [email protected] [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 3 Oct 1996 20:26:08 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: Jen's Silly Self Jen Smith, our clothed flame moderatrix, said: >>And here I thought you were into leather tool belts with wratchet wrenches...and animals named 'Cooper'. What kind of game are you playing here, Luck? << Game? *Me?* Why, dear, I'm an equal opportunity flirt. Tool belts, silk scarves, ...um....whatever. Though I must say, I didn't flirt with Cooper....she was coming on to *me!* Though I hasten to add....I'm a cat person, myself. Now you try to behave in your new position, k? Joyce ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 2 Oct 1996 to 3 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sat Oct 5 00:02:39 1996 Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 00:00:19 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 3 Oct 1996 to 4 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 01:52:46 -0500 From: Patti Fink Subject: NMEC: LA Elaine wrote: >Kathryn Davis wrote: > >>> Melissa is God. > >No, Melissa is a human being. G-d has much better sense than to live >in Los Angeles. And I quote Neil Simon: "When it's 100 degrees in New York, it's 72 in Los Angeles. When it's 30 degrees in New York, in Los Angeles it's still 72. However, there are six million interesting people in New York and 72 in Los Angeles." Patti Fink [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 08:23:26 EDT From: Wendy Waterstrat Subject: Re: catching a plane - NMEC Maggie answered my question: > >A good landing is indeed the greatest thrill. Did they tell you how > >they defined a good landing? > > Any one that you walk away from. Ding, ding, ding, ding. Correct answer. You win! :) Now what did I do with that prize money? Darn. Must have spent it at the pilot shop. Wendy "Show me the sky, and give me my wings..." ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 10:04:14 -0400 From: Deb Subject: Re: your mail On Thu, 3 Oct 1996, Susan Budjako wrote: > there is a weird sentence that says"The studio is rushing > to complete pre-production on its Janis tale, a rough > and ready version with a screenplay by Julie Cypher, who > claims to have been Joplins lover." HUH Julie is maybe > 30 years old. I don't think Janis was even alive when > Julie came to be. I've heard people say that they thought MLE "channeled" Joplin, but maybe Julie really believes it. :D -- Deb \\ [email protected] \\ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 10:08:45 EDT From: "Mary M. MacDonald" Subject: Re: The Mango-Thing --- jen wrote: jen--happily sucking on an orange-flavored Brach's Sparkle. --- end of quoted material --- Tease! -Mary ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 08:44:18 -0700 From: edgy Subject: Re: NMEC: LA On Fri, 4 Oct 1996, Patti Fink wrote: > >No, Melissa is a human being. G-d has much better sense than to live > >in Los Angeles. > And I quote Neil Simon: "When it's 100 degrees in New York, it's 72 in Los > Angeles. When it's 30 degrees in New York, in Los Angeles it's still 72. > However, there are six million interesting people in New York and 72 in Los > Angeles." */insert wry look here* Hey now, an El Lay girl could get a complex with all that anti-LA talk. Oh, wait a minute, I don't have *time* to get a complex here in LA: let's see, VH1 Storytellers a couple of weeks ago, Paula Cole in a couple more, Melissa Ferrick, Wild Colonials, Phranc, etc. pretty much anytime I'd like, leggy girls in black leather all over the place, and I've already run into Ellen once. Yup, LA really sux. And, as our fearless Margo experienced, where else do ya get fruit with breakkie? All in good fun, of course :) Allison "I'm freezing to death in the warmth of your arms [email protected] Wasting my charms..." --Wild Colonials ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 19:04:00 +0100 From: Tim Dunker Subject: Re: BRUCE!!! Hello, on 3 Oct Katherine Roberts wrote: >"Hell, we could read the little tape on the back of the Ovations that said >"Main" and F.O.H (what doesthat mean??) Trace, Melissa`s guitartech puts these tapes on her guitars. She has about 3 or 4 Ovations with her and most of them are tuned different. So Trace puts the tapes on them to make it easier for him to give Melissa the right guitar to the right song. He only has this little light and a pocket lamp during a show. Speaking of Melissa`s guitars, the strings for her guitars are changed at least once a day (on a showday). Thats really a long job to do, to change 36 or 48 strings of the Ovations and the ones from about three more 6 string guitars. One Question I have: Who from this list plans to come to the shows in Florida ? I might come to those shows and now that I never met anyone from this list in person I would be happy to meet. Bye from cold and rainy Germany Tim ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 11:42:56 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: MEIN advice I'm writing for a MElister and cyber-friend from Washington state who is presently in ST Louis for Melissa's shows there (St Louis on Saturday, and Moline on Sunday). She left her MEIN confirmation postcard behind in the rush to fly east, so she's wondering what procedures she needs to follow at WILL CALL to obtain her tickets already purchased from MEIN. Has anyone else here experienced the problem of missing MEIN postcards (lost, delayed in the mail, etc)... do you have suggestions of correct procedures to follow at WILL CALL to obtain tickets already purchased via MEIN... does the venue have *names* of purchasers for MEIN tickets, or do they just have a sales order number to associate tickets with the original confirmed purchase? Any suggestions? I have never purchased tickets from MEIN, so I'm unfamiliar with the entire process. Many thanks in advance for any help you can provide. John Miller San jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 15:17:01 -0500 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: D.C. Shindig update Happy Friday fellow groovy listers! I just called the Gaithersburg Microbrew/Tavern and found out that the entertainment scheduled for the night of our gathering (Oct. 12) is a band called, 'Soul Providers.' The person I spoke to said the band plays alternative and classic rock-type music as well as some orig. songs. So... that may be a pretty cool added feature to our evening. Our gathering starts at 4:00pm and Soul Providers take the stage bet. 8:00 & 9:00. We'll definitely have plenty of time to chat before the music starts kicking. And Kate, you lucky, lucky lister you, getting to see MLE and Bruce sing together! Thanks for sharing your story with us. Mango Gwen :-) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 19:46:09 GMT From: Maggie at avalon Subject: Re: catching a plane + Moline show Wendy wrote: >> >A good landing is indeed the greatest thrill. Did they tell you how >> >they defined a good landing? >> >> Any one that you walk away from. > >Ding, ding, ding, ding. Correct answer. You win! :) Now what did I do >with that prize money? Darn. Must have spent it at the pilot shop. You mean I don't get a prize? Humph. I expected cash, delivered in person. Of course, you'd have to fly here yourself, land, and walk to my house to give it to me. On another note, are there any other listers going to Sunday's Moline show? Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 13:12:30 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: bruce and MLE, MLE as janis Katherine Roberts said: >The Bradley Center was only maybe 1/3 full, Melissa said early on, >"so you must be the people who couldn't get tickets to Bruce's >show." ouch! only 1/3 full, huh? what's the bradley center's capacity - about 18,000? so only 6,000 showed...sounds like this could be a trend. >and the next thing I know, BRUCE SPRINGSTEEN is on stage with her >and they're singing Pink Cadillac. I saw Melissa and Bruce sing >together, LIVE!!! DAMN!!!!! DAMN!!!!! DAMN!!!!! that's so cool, kate. great report - i'm insanely jealous. :-) i'll second tricia's request for a tape grovel of this show here, please. grovel, grovel... >I'm still trying to get over this one, folks. i can only imagine...:-D ============================== Susan Budjako said: >In the San Jose Mercury there is an article about MLE playing Janis. >Well we have all heard that one but there is a weird sentence that >says"The studio is rushing to complete pre-production on its Janis >tale, a rough and ready version with a screenplay by Julie Cypher, >who claims to have been Joplins lover." HUH as a clarification to susan's post, this excerpt is actually from liz smith, a famous new york gossip columnist whose column is syndicated in probably hundreds of papers throughout the country. liz also appears on E!'s "gossip show" with several other gossip columnists, so perhaps she will mention MLE on this weekend's show. regardless, it's a big boo-boo, and liz should be getting on her copy editors' cases for this slip. however, it's not the s.j. mercury's fault. >Julie is maybe 30 years old. I don't think Janis was even alive when >Julie came to be. Bad paper bad bad. well, julie was alive when janis died, but she was only 4-5 years old. in addition, the column is accompanied by a B&C era picture of MLE - is that the best they could do? liz goes on to say, "The Tri-Star film will utilize Joplin's own gritty, soaring voice, Taylor not being much of a singer. But the Paramount pic has power-belter Etheridge - can't wait to hear her version of 'Piece of My Heart' or 'Me and Bobby McGee.'" hmm...i'm kind of thinking i need to send liz a tape. :-) *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 16:36:50 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: Liz Smith, Gossip Columnist Isn't Liz Smith the same person who started that rumor that Melissa and Martina Navratilova were lovers? Now she's putting Julie with Janis. Think she'll ever get *Julie* with *Melissa*? Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 15:09:43 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: planes, Shawn, Fajitas, TORI Our list-pilot, Wendy Waterstrat wrote: >I notice that not much gets by you, John. :) Awww, you sweet-talker, you! But I just wish I had the time to *respond* to all the email that interests me (you would not believe how big my 'pending-mail' folder has grown), but I see *your* posts are some I'll have to give my special attention. :) I had previously written: >> Good to see a pilot on the list! > >And it's good to have some company. T-34 time? That makes a nice >entry in the log book. Yes, a real stick-and-rudder plane... a high-performance fighter/trainer, bubble canopy, low-wing, strong enough to be rated for aerobatics . Wish I had the time (and money) to continue search-and-rescue flying with the Civil Air Patrol. I mentioned the old pilot's motto: >> the *second* greatest thrill in the world was flying... the *first* >> was landing. > >A good landing is indeed the greatest thrill. Did they tell you how >they defined a good landing? And moments later, Maggie (my *first* MElister), responded correctly: >Any one that you walk away from. As you see, Wendy, some people on this list are *very* quick (Hi Maggie!). ---- Trying to entice Elaine to fly to the Bay Area for a visit, I said: >and as Rhondda and I have told you before, you >always have a place to crash in the Bay Area. To which Elaine responded: >Do you clean your bathroom more often than Rhondda? Ummmm, do I clean my bathroom more often than I clean Rhondda? You'll have to ask her. ---- And speaking of Rhondda (Hi sweetie!)... thanks to Rhondda's fantastic ticket-getting skills, we attended a private Shawn Colvin performance last night in San Francisco. As always, Shawn captivated the audience, performing mostly songs from her new CD (released this week) which are (to me) clearly influenced by her recent split with hubby. Her single, "Get Out Of This House", is getting big airplay. I've been listening to her new CD non-stop all day. After Shawn's show, we drove to my place where we watched home videos of the infamous Fajita Fest (many thanks to Liz Burns). It was almost like being there, and it was fun to see the 'presentation' of my err... umm... 'gift' (yeah, that's it!) to Alex. ---- For the Tori Amos fans here... tonight (Friday, Oct 4)... on Letterman! John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 16:09:57 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: planes, Shawn, Fajitas, TORI -Reply John Miller said: >And moments later, Maggie (my *first* MElister), perhaps you should clarify what maggie was *first* at... >To which Elaine responded: > >>Do you clean your bathroom more often than Rhondda? > >Ummmm, do I clean my bathroom more often than I clean Rhondda? >You'll have to ask her. :-D >And speaking of Rhondda (Hi sweetie!)... thanks to Rhondda's >fantastic ticket-getting skills, we attended a private Shawn Colvin >performance last night in San Francisco. As always, Shawn >captivated the audience, performing mostly songs from her new CD >(released this week) which are (to me) clearly influenced by her >recent split with hubby. great show! so, how's your head today, john? i think i've managed to remove all of the dents from my dashboard ... >After Shawn's show, we drove to my place where we watched home >videos of the infamous Fajita Fest (many thanks to Liz Burns). yeah, remind me never to fall asleep at a BAB party...you never know what you'll look like when you wake up. ;-) *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 23:16:00 GMT From: Leigh Subject: julie and janis? yesterday, I read that Julie Cypher and Janis Joplin were lovers at one time..I busted up laughing! In the SF chronicle they had an article in the gossip section by writer Liz Smith (a los angeles times syndicate) that says... "But Paramount is also on the Joplin beat. The studio is rushing to complete pre-production on its Janis tale, a rough and ready version with a screenplay by Julie Cypher, who claims to have been Joplins lover. Rock icon Melissa Etheridge is on tap to star as Janis for Paramount." This is a mix up right? leigh ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 19:47:28 -0400 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: ntg Melissa was number 10 on the VH1 countdown this week...also they showed a clip from her Sesame Street appearance...something about the letter u and LTWID!!!! Love, Jenny ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 19:58:11 +0000 From: Dave Jackson Subject: Melissa Etheridge on MuchMusic Hi everyone! :) Boy it's been awhile since I've written! I almost feel like a lurker! Anyways, I haven't seen any posts regarding Melissa appearing on Much Music ever since her "Spotlight" aired on September 18th and 19th. For those of you who aren't familiar with Much Music's (Canada's version of MTV) programming, "Spotlight" is a half-hour focus on an artist's videos. For the more prominent artists, the coverage is spread over two days. As far as I can tell, this is the FIRST TIME Melissa has had *two* spotlights! Wheee! :) For those interested, the videos shown were: Like The Way I Do Bring Me Some Water *Those two videos made me laugh, because despite the different songs, the videos are _exactly the same_. Identical background and everything. The videos must have been shot at the same concert appearance. Hee hee. Similar Features Let Me Go (my favourite. Even in black and white, Melissa is beautiful, and she looks like she's having a great time!) 2001 I Want To Come Over Ain't It Heavy (Melissa's smile is infectious. Truly a very casual, laid back video.) Come to My Window I'm the Only One Nowhere to Go Very worthwhile. I loved it...I haven't seen many of her videos at all. Is a video compilation available? Do many other people have access to her videos? I only see the ones which are currently popular (ie. Your Little Secret, I Want to Come Over, and now, Nowhere to Go). That is why her earlier releases were such a joy to see. Sigh. I still have not caught a glimpse of the infamous "whothehellisinthetaxi?" video. Sincerely, Lisa J. :) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 20:24:47 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: That LS Thing.... NMEC >I wrote regarding Gwen's *love slave* announcement: >>whoa there doe eyes ...and you asked me if I could keep a secret *lol* >>?!!!!Whatever happened to surprising the MElisters the night of? Couldn't >>contain your excitement eh? and Jen possessively responded: >(thwap!) Paws off chick-magnet! (possesive glare) _Those_ particular doe >eyes are MINE, and what goes with them. Capice? Go and 'magnetize' your >own cutie. (self-satisfied smirk) (snort) (g) *lol* Cutie? You meant cutie's - as in the plural form didn't you? Oh, I can see you don't know me that well yet , but resorting to violence before you've even met me is fairly typical !!! Those Houston Babes were fighting over me too, but they seemed to get over it just fine... Anyway, enough of this bs... You should ask ole' doe eyes what she said about her and I gettin' together if things don't work out with my latest "looker" ....oops, I think one of us is in *big* trouble now !!!! Beth (the Honda-driving, smooth-talking, full-of-it, chick magnet extraordinare) ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 01:04:21 GMT From: Maggie at avalon Subject: Re: planes, Shawn, Fajitas, TORI John Miller wrote: >I mentioned the old pilot's motto: > >>> the *second* greatest thrill in the world was flying... the *first* >>> was landing. >> >>A good landing is indeed the greatest thrill. Did they tell you how >>they defined a good landing? > >And moments later, Maggie (my *first* MElister), responded correctly: > >>Any one that you walk away from. > >As you see, Wendy, some people on this list are *very* quick (Hi Maggie!). ...as in 5 minutes? Don't go there, John :) Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 19:00:26 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Maggie, Shawn BAB-buddy Rhondda Ashby teased: >John Miller said: > >>And moments later, Maggie (my *first* MElister), > >perhaps you should clarify what maggie was *first* at... Ahhhh, that's right... I wouldn't want anyone here to misunderstand. Maggie was my *first* live face-to-face meeting with another MElister, waaaaay back in late May 1995. ---- Speaking of Maggie, she 'quickly' responded to my gentle tease: >As you see, Wendy, some people on this list are *very* quick (Hi Maggie!). ...as in 5 minutes? Don't go there, John :) At least I didn't mention *where* we met :) And I'm thankful Maggie and I have found a *lot* more time to share during subsequent visits. ---- Rhondda continued her teasing, writing of our Shawn Colvin show: >great show! so, how's your head today, john? i think i've managed >to remove all of the dents from my dashboard by my driving...heh heh>... LOL! Yes, just a little self-inflicted punishment, folks (I was afraid I might *enjoy* it too much if Rhondda gave me punishment ). I brought my recording Walkman to the show... was super discreet about recording Shawn, making all adjustments and tape changes by touch... but *after* the show I discovered that in the darkness I had inserted the mike in the *earphone* jack. As Rhondda can testify, I was more than a little upset with myself... BTW, the earphone jack is now taped-over. John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 22:21:17 -0400 From: "Rebecca A. Straka" Subject: Sesame Street/VH1 Woo! I was just sittin there watching TV when I flip past VH1 and thought hmm wonder whats on.. so its the Top 10 thingy.. and it looked boring so I flipped to MTV and that was boring.. (Im gettin gto the point.. :) ) so I flip back to VH1 where the VJ is talking about Sesame Street and I go hmm to myself and then he said something and they showed a clip of MLE on SS!! She was singing to a huge, red letter U :) I forgot how it was worded but something like Like the way you does (or something leike that) so watch the Top 10 countdown this weekend.. its on right in the beginning since NTG is #10.. I cant quite remember what she was wearing but I remember thinking it was an awful shirt.. She had a cool beige leather jacket with fringes :) So keep an eye out. =/\= Janeway The avid VH1 watcher :) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 22:19:41 -0400 From: SbHarvick at aol Subject: Re: Liz Smith, Gossip Columnist Joyce wrote: >>Isn't Liz Smith the same person who started that rumor that Melissa and >>Martina Navratilova were lovers? Now she's putting Julie with >>Janis. Think she'll ever get *Julie* with *Melissa*? Only as "rumor has it....." :) Susie (so psyched for the St. Louis show--how's that for alliteration?) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 22:36:12 -0400 From: Kive Kamerling Subject: Deprived Child!!! =( HELP ME!!! I am a deprived child... I am a great fan of Melissa... But I have never, ever seen any of her videos before the "Yes I Am" album... *sniff*... MTV and VH1 Should be taken over by M.E. Fans.... Humph!!! Does anyone out there want to take pity on a sad little soul and for the price of postage and the video cassette, copy the videos for me... I love her so very much, and I am sure you all know how that feels. She is a very special person... I would like so very much to see the videos from her first 3 albums... If there is anyone who can help me, please e-mail me... Thank you so much... Love, Peace and Melissa... Kiva [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 22:44:39 -0400 From: "Rebecca A. Straka" Subject: Oh forgot something about previous post Thanks to the wonderful MsMico :bows to Mico: VH1's countdown is on at 12 pm Saturday EST that would be 12 pm until 1 pm. Have fun and hope ya see it!! :) =/\= Janeway who is way to hyper cause shes been drinkin mt dew since she woke up ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 3 Oct 1996 to 4 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sun Oct 6 00:02:37 1996 Date: Sun, 6 Oct 1996 00:00:20 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 4 Oct 1996 to 5 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 01:19:30 -0400 From: Elaine Naiman Subject: cleanliness is next to... John asked: >> Ummmm, do I clean my bathroom more often than I clean Rhondda? And what do you clean her with? ;-) Hershey Beth wrote: >> *lol* Cutie? You meant cutie's - as in the plural form didn't you? Ah, that would be "cuties". 's is the possessive form. And that's our grammar lesson for today. :-) Elaine -- "The alternative to truth is hypocrisy/If you want to choose the latter you won't never be free" - Shawn Phillips http://www.ncf.carleton.ca/~cs847/ ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 21:14:00 +0800 From: [email protected] Subject: Hello everyone!!! Hi all!!!!...I'm new in the list...I'm a huge fan of ME and I think she's one of the greatest musicians/songwriters to ever come out of the int'l music scene...I've been following her music career ever since I heard "Bring Me Some Water"...From that day on, I got hooked, bought all her albums, picked up a 12-string guitar and taught myself how to play it...I'd love to hear from ME fans too (e-mail me privately, pls)...I've never seen ME live in concert coz I live all the way here in the Philippines...How I wish I could watch her...Anyway, that's all for now...Peace! :-) Carla "Brake for Animals" ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 11:36:17 -0400 From: Diane Boccadoro Subject: But does he live in LA? Patti wrote: ~Elaine wrote: ~>Kathryn Davis wrote: ~> ~>>> Melissa is God. ~> ~>No, Melissa is a human being. G-d has much better sense than to live ~>in Los Angeles. ~And I quote Neil Simon: "When it's 100 degrees in New York, it's 72 in ~Los Angeles. When it's 30 degrees in New York, in Los Angeles it's ~still 72. However, there are six million interesting people in New ~York and 72 in Los Angeles." Neil Simon is God. Diane B. ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 12:15:46 -0400 From: Kelley at AOL Subject: poor little souls, part 2 Like Kiva, I'm one of those unlucky souls who has a crappy cable company who can't even supply VH-1. So alas, I'm not privvy to cool Melissa videos, none, nada, zilch, zip.....feeling sorry for me yet? I, too, would be willing to supply tapes, postage, compensation for a compilation tape of Melissa video work...really begging now, feeling sorry for me yet? Please email me privately if you can help another fan out.... BTW, tonight is my night with Melissa...yippe-e-e-e-e-e! Thanks, Kelley ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 18:29:00 +0100 From: Tim Dunker Subject: Re: Win a ME-String Hi everyone, just wanted to let you know that I received the first 4 cards for the ME-string. One from Austria, two from Holland and one from Germany. Hope to get some more on Monday. Bye Tim ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 2 Oct 1996 20:11:48 -0700 From: Candra Rainey Subject: When is Sesame Street?? Hey, Does anyone know the exact date that Melissa Etheridge is going to be on Sesame Street?? Did I miss it?? My chiropractor and her girlfriend just had a baby girl last week :) and would love to have a copy of it on video, so I want to pass on to them when it airs. Please help! Peace, Candra ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 5 Oct 1996 14:07:35 -0400 From: K Kopp Subject: Shawn Colvin, Rosie guests Hello everyone, i've never heard of Shawn Colvin but i plan to watch her this week for some upcoming TV appearances. According to my trusty TV guide and internet web pages: Shawn Colvin: Rosie O'Donnell Monday October 7 Letterman Friday October 11 Ellen: Leno Tuesday October 8 Rosie upcoming guests: Etheridge October 14 Joni Mitchell November 6 Reba November 12 Garth November 20 Just thought i'd post this info in case anyone was interested...please don't hold it against me if any of these dates are incorrect, i'm just relaying the info i read. Hope everyone is having a great weekend! Kris ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 4 Oct 1996 to 5 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Mon Oct 7 00:02:43 1996 Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 00:00:25 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 5 Oct 1996 to 6 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sun, 6 Oct 1996 18:12:04 UT From: ML Subject: B-day list?/Tampa gathering Does anyone have the updated lister b-day list? The last one I have is from April 96. Okay...it's getting closer. Tampa, November 2nd. Who wants to get together before the show? Who wants to go out after the show? YBOR!! (great place to party!) Thanks! :D MaryLou ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Oct 1996 12:34:29 EDT From: M Something Subject: Re: B-day list?/Tampa gathering MaryLou wrote: >Okay...it's getting closer. Tampa, November 2nd. Who wants to get >together before the show? Who wants to go out after the show? >YBOR!! (great place to party!) I second that!!! I've already heard from Jesse in Tallahassee who is coming down for the show. Listers have been meeting all over the country. Looks like Tampa could be the next big shindig. MLE is playing the Ice Palace, which is our brand new ice hockey arena, and it's huge. As far as I know, there are still seats left. Any of you BABers want to check out the *other* Bay area? :) Also, Tim Dunker, if you're planning on attending the Tampa show, email me privately. :) Michelle, who needs to go iron her purple shirt. ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Oct 1996 13:11:17 -0400 From: "D. Jessamyn Scott Breed" Subject: paging SueD..beepbeep SueD hey I am looking for you again...can you send me a note so I can piggyback again? My server just can't crack that secret handshake ;) thanks! Jesse ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Oct 1996 14:01:49 -0400 From: SbHarvick at aol Subject: St. Louis show--WOW Hi everyone, I would be such a happy camper today if my computer had not *crashed* in a big way last night as I signed on to write my review of the show (right now I'm using a friend's 'puter--don't know where to get mine serviced on a Sunday). Anyway.............. Tailgate report--Good time was had by all. Most of us met as planned (Kelley, where were you?), I think we had about 15 people show up. Pictures should be available soon. Concert report--Did I hear someone say this woman can *Rock*? St. Louis was blown away. Melissa came on stage about 8:10, and continued for (about) 3 hours. My MEIN tickets were in row 22, but when she went to the back stage, I went up to the front and staked a claim at the stage. Through the show, she talked about her St. Louis connections--her dad was from here, and they came "to the big city" a lot to see her relatives. She told us that if people here said they were related to her, they probably are. She also kept us updated on the baseball game (which, when St. Louis is winning, is always good for a five minute ovation), and talked about how her dad had tried out for the Cardinals (ok, St. Louis is very much a baseball town, and this kind of stuff goes over really well). Set list-- 1. IRLY 2. IIWT 3. IWTCO 4. AUK 5. CTMW 6. NTG 7. SP 8. Change 9. SL 10. ICHBY 11. AIH 12. AAG 13. LMG 14. ATWTH 15. Resist 16. BMSW 17. ITOO Announcement that the Cardinals won the baseball game :) 18. YLS 19. LTWID 20. TWIO Her voice stayed strong and was really clear throughout the show. I thought she looked and sounded rested........I took some pictures from my little space at the foot of center stage, I don't know if they'll "happen" or not. Shanks had his guitar/crotch in my face as he did the "extended blues-y thang" at the end of ITOO. So I used the opportunity to take pictures--not sure how they'll turn out. Obligatory fashion report--blue denim shirt over a black t-shirt, and black stretch knit (?) pants (I touched them and still don't have a clue). She was definitely not having a bad hair day--she looked great. Shanks was in my face a lot more than Melissa, but I did get to shake both their hands. I didn't get any guitar picks, 'though. I can't wait to get to Chicago next week to see her again--the only problem is.....how will I know of any lister get togethers if I don't have access to my e-mail????? Aaaaarrrggghh--I want my computer to be well again soon. Anyway, talk to y'all later (I hope), Susie ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 11:34:17 EST From: Nanette Gherardin Subject: Re: Mle, JC & LDP & Ellen Mornin'All A word for all the Aussies & NZ'ers, this weeks "New Idea" (often referred to as "No Idea") has a double page spread titled "Lou breaks his silence,, Melissa Stole My Wife" as yet i haven't read it, some pics of all three. In yet another of our weeklies (Who Weekly) there is a one page article on Ellen re the possible outing in upcoming episodes of the new series. Bye for now Nan ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 6 Oct 1996 22:17:42 -0400 From: Michael Bunch Subject: Re: Legends: Janis Joplin In a message dated 96-09-30, Elizabeth wrote: >I read in the paper that VH1 has a new documentary series >called Legends, and the first episode premieres October 6th, >focusing on Janis Joplin, narrated by Kris Kristofferson. I've >got it marked in my datebook! Did this air today? VH-1 has been showing "Archives" all day which has Janis appearance on Dick Cavett but no "Legends" Was it on earlier and I missed it? Anyone? Michael :-) ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 5 Oct 1996 to 6 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From [email protected] Tue Oct 8 01:25:11 1996 Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 00:00:23 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 6 Oct 1996 to 7 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 17:49:37 -0700 From: Cindy Hoeflak Subject: KIWI TO ORLANDO! Hi to everyone!! Yes, Cindy will be in Orlando for 8 days, arriving on 21 November'96. First time for me in Orlando and I was hoping if anyone could tell me about a good place to buy Melissa posters and/or other merchandise in Orlando, as they are virtually impossible to buy in New Zealand, and my bedroom is in extreme need of an update where mural decorations are concerned (Brad Pitt lost his touch quite a while ago ;-) I'll be going to Disneyworld and all the other touristie places, so if anyone knows of a good place quite close to Disneyworld and all, it would save me alot of time getting lost. >From Orlando I'll be flying out to Holland, so I don't know if there's any Dutchies on the list, but I'd love some recommendations on night clubs in Amsterdam and some other hot spots that aren't to be missed. Due to a few minor problems with my connection to the list, I haven't been able to send any post to the list, but I have to respond to the vegemite saga, being a Kiwi and all (originally I'm actually Dutch, but that's not the point). Anyway, I work in a Bed and Breakfast hotel in Auckland (Aspen Lodge, if anyone's thinking of visiting New Zealand ;-), and naturally vegemite is put on the tables each morning. I must say, it's usually the Americans who are game enough to try it, and too stubborn to admit it's the foulest thing they've ever put on their toast :D One time we had 3 young men from Kentucky, one of whom thought the vegemite was Nutella, and very enthusiastically spread it on his toast. You can just imagine the expression on hisface ;-) I gave him credit, as he ate it all, and you wouldn't even see ME eating toast with THAT much vegemite on it!!! Couldn't help but give the poor guy hell for the rest of the day. For those of you who live in Orlando, I'd be more than happy to bring over a big jar of vegemite so you can taste what all the fuss is about. Have a lurvely day!! Cindy ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 09:19:32 -0400 From: Julia Fain Subject: Cincinatti tickets? Any one have extra tickets for Wednesday night at Cincy? I'm having Melissa withdrawal...:( please help... Julia ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 09:32:57 -0400 From: Colleen Lanthrip Subject: MLETHER Digest - 5 Oct 1996 to 6 Oct 1996 -Reply I'm also one of those "souls" looking for the earlier videos. What I do have is: NTG / CTMW / DUETS / BMSW with Joan / IWTCO / MTV unplugged. I'm not even sure of what I'm missing. Would one of you that is attending the DC gathering e-mail me privately if you're willing to compile the missing videos and we can privately talk "compensation"? Exchange could be made at the "gathering"!!!!! Deb? Gwen? I'm fragile, so go gently with my "compensation" statement . BTW.....what's up with alex? Haven't seen any posts in weeks!!!! Gwen & Jen: Congrats! Happy about finally meeting you Saturday Deb: great job (like you need someone to tell you that) and I look forward to meeting you and Tori on Saturday. Jen Smith: Good Luck, you'll need it. Pooh: I was in JC Penney's this weekend and I had to smile and think of you..I saw t-shirts and sweat-shirts with "POOH" on them. You always make my day with your sweet optimism. Colleen ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 10:51:00 EDT From: "Ware, Lanette" Subject: GLAMA AWARDS!! O-K everyone, here's the low down since some of you knew that I was attending last night's awards at Webster Hall in NYC. I took note of the winners just for you - You know who you are - Performances by: Ferron - Warner Bros. Betty - Intersound Lavender Light Black & People of All Colors L/G Gospel Choir - LavLight Men Out Loud - Reprise Romanovsky & Phillips - Fresh Fruit And the Winners Are: Melissa Etheridge - (**BUT OF COURSE**) Best Female Artist! Michael Callen - Best Male Artist Michael Callen - Best Duo/Group Michael Callen - Best Choral Group Jallen Rix - Best Debut Artist Michael Callen - Album of the Year Catie Curtis - Best Out Recording Catie Curtis - Best Out Song Catie Curtis thanked Melissa Etheridge for paving the way. Michael Callen's lover accepted his four awards on his behalf as he has recently passed along. Enjoy all. Hope to see some of you at the D.C. Aids Quilt event. E-mail me privately for after hours events. [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 10:36:26 -0400 From: [email protected] (A. M. Savage) Subject: Cleveland tickets Hello all - I have three main floor tickets available for Melissa's Cleveland show at Gund Arena on October 11th. $35 + 3.5O service charge (Or Best Offer). Unfortunately, I am unable to attend. If your interested - please respond to [email protected]. Thanks, Ann ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 13:24:19 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: NMEC - English lessons I wrote: >> *lol* Cutie? You meant cutie's - as in the plural form didn't you? and Elaine responded: >>Ah, that would be "cuties". 's is the possessive form. And that's our grammar lesson for today. :-) oops..... I guess *us* Pennsylvanians are at it again. Hey, hooked on fonix werked fur me! Beth (who, because of her misuse of the English language, is now standing over in the corner with Tracey Thacker!) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 15:17:27 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: Re: NMEC - English lessons At 01:24 10/7/96 -0400, Beth Durff, still rooting for those Losin' Lions, wrote: >I wrote: >>> *lol* Cutie? You meant cutie's - as in the plural form didn't you? >and Elaine responded: >>>Ah, that would be "cuties". 's is the possessive form. And that's >our grammar lesson for today. :-) >oops..... I guess *us* Pennsylvanians are at it again. Hey, hooked on >fonix werked fur me! Hey, my goof was an accident pure and simple - and I dare anyone to find another grammatical error in my list posts, either before that silly remark or since. If there is a bad grammar trend being started, i don't think that I can be given credit for starting it, I have seen far worse gaffs than my two letter one, or Beth's, for that matter. One day, I'm going to play the nit-picker and start posting snippy comments whenever I see one of these errors, though, to be dead honest, sometimes that would require quoting a whole post! >Beth (who, because of her misuse of the English language, is now standing >over in the corner with Tracey Thacker!) Nope, I'm in no corners, and if I were, you could only join me by invitation - all of my corners are very exclusive places and I don't let in just anyone! Uncornered in Pennsylvania, Tracey Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 12:36:06 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: MLE: *very* brief mention in BUZZ i was browsing at barnes & noble's magazine rack, when i picked up the latest issue of BUZZ, a los angeles magazine (as far as i could tell), mainly because it had a smirking picture of kevin spacey on the cover. the lead story was a list of "the hundred coolest people in los angeles", and who do you think was mentioned? yup. here is the very, very brief MLE mention: BUZZ, October 1996, p. 77 Melissa Etheridge Singer-Songwriter "Though she fills major concert halls everywhere, writes stunningly beautiful rock compositions, and speaks out for a variety of causes, Etheridge remains at heart an unpretentious gal from the Midwest." this blurb is accompanied by a small pic of MLE looking over her sunglasses. so cool, so very l.a. *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 16:05:59 -0400 From: audrey Subject: Tori on Letterman Did anyone record this and is willing to send a copy, or swap for a tape from my vast collection ? All offers accepted, with thanks! - - Audrey - - "Now that my barn has burnt to the ground I can finally see the stars" help://www.caughtinweb.can'tgetout. ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 16:54:41 -0400 From: Kelley at AOL Subject: Re: St. Louis show--WOW In a message dated 96-10-07 00:28:40 EDT, you write: << Kelley, where were you?) >> I was 2 rows ahead of you if you were in the center section!!! I looked all over for you...didn't you see me? Annetta and I were the only chicks *NOT* in blazers . Actually I was in jeans and the Peta t-shirt and a black cap with ME's logo on it. I sent you email, we looked for the pre-party folks and couldn't find you!!! I want to see your pictures. I, of course, deferred the show review to you because I knew you could do a great job and I must agree, SHE ROCKED THE HOUSE DOWN!!!! Hope you're back online soon so we can gab!! Write when you can...take care, Kel ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 16:19:22 -0400 From: audrey Subject: catching a plane (NMEC) Actually, I prefer jumping out of them at 15,000 feet. Anyone else? - - Audrey - - "Now that my barn has burnt to the ground I can finally see the stars" help://www.caughtinweb.can'tgetout. ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 17:57:01 -0400 From: Sasha Friedman Subject: What's up everyone What's up ?? I thought this would be a wonderful time to introduce myself to the list. My name is Sasha, andI live right outside of Washington DC, I am a junior at John F Kennedy High school. I have been slightly obsessed with Melissa for a while now, and thought it was about time I joined her list. Anyways. First I was wondering if anyone wants to trade boots with me, I don;t have much Melissa stuff, but I got a lot of Indigo Girls stuff if anyone's interested. Second, I wish I could've seen all you list members at the AIDS walk yesterday. I had a great time, however my shins and legs are really mad at me. I hope you all did too. Well that's all of my little newbie drill, I know they are kinda stupid, but I felt a need. So... Peace Sasha ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 00:00:12 -0700 From: Marleen Niekel Subject: Just spotted Melissa on MTV Hi there, Just delurking for a second. Just a few minutes ago I was checking out the MEIN homepage, with my TV on. Just listening to MTV, when I hear this VJ announcing the next song; a song from Melissa Etheridge! Of course I just couldn't believe it: Melissa on MTV! (that's new to me). I had to rush down. Put on my VCR, put in my "Melissa" tape, which was of course locked (in case I would tape sth else over it), had to find some *tape* to "unlock" it... ... believe it or not, but I did manage to tape about 2 min. of Bring Me Some Water!!! Which (like someone mentioned a few days ago) looks exactly like the LTWID video. Must be my lucky week: * Last saturday: the Elvis Tribute (wasn't Melissa great!) * Now: BMSW * Tuesday: a concert of melissa on a german channel (thanks Holger for letting us know!) OK back to lurking. (BTW Fenneke are you still out there???) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 4 Oct 1996 18:48:27 -0400 From: Mike Lieman Subject: Re: Maggie, Shawn At 07:00 PM 10/4/96 -0700, John Miller wrote: >might *enjoy* it too much if Rhondda gave me punishment ). I brought >my recording Walkman to the show... was super discreet about recording >Shawn, making all adjustments and tape changes by touch... but *after* >the show I discovered that in the darkness I had inserted the mike in >the *earphone* jack. As Rhondda can testify, I was more than a little >upset with myself... BTW, the earphone jack is now taped-over. Get in early and hit a bathroom stall and do all your wiring in a leisurly manner. peace Mike ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 17:46:35 -0700 From: joanna emmons Subject: words,janis movies hiya folks..its jj...since you're all probably up to here (pointing chest high) with those sports metaphors from the Hartford political olympics, here's some comments about words in other areas: the good news: hey thanks usa today.. in your update on the two janis movies, you refer to Julie Cypher as Melissa's "romantic partner"..a nice solution to that pesky, age- old" how to introduce my spouse" thing....the article is in monday's people section 2d.. here's a quote: "My personal opinion is that it's always stronger to have a real performer rather than a lip-syncer. We all know what a great singer Melissa is" Paramount Pictures-Lakeshore Entertainment president Joni Sighvatsson. hmmm my reaction....i dunno....I liked Angela Bassett as Tina and I liked Gary Busey as Buddy Holly.....and how about Jessica Lange as Patsy Cline...cmon listers my mind is struggling for others..............frankly i like Lilli Taylor and mle so its christmas as far as I'm concerned, the more the merrier.. its not an election(thank god)....now just one little snipe.... its about the American Family Association warning to ellen supporters whom he calls "pro-sodomites" or members of the "sodomite community". with all due respect Mr Wildmon............this is me sticking my tongue out in a very mature way "ttthhwwwbbbttttttt" (oooh i feel much better)...sodomite,graphite,dolomite...hmmm a geology convention?.. ;) well thats about it. is anybody elses computer continually screwing up lately? jj ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 7 Oct 1996 20:48:27 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: NMEC: Another Honda Driving... Hey Beth had to let you know that I just purchased a super cute Honda CRX today and wanted to know if that classifies me as a "Honda Driving Chic Magnet" like yourself? If anyone would like to send a few of the DC gathering photo's my way when the event is over I could put a few up on my Web site so that the rest of this list can get a peek at all of you! Hey there Pooh you take real good care of my pal Sue D while she is in the land of Ohio this coming week! Evening all, Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 6 Oct 1996 to 7 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From [email protected] Wed Oct 9 00:40:25 1996 Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 00:00:19 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 7 Oct 1996 to 8 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 01:32:52 -0400 From: Kimberly Nygard Subject: Cleveland tickets hello all this is the 1st time I am sending a message to the list... but PLEASE let me know ASAP!!! private email above all if possible thanks I have tickets to Melissa's concert in Cleveland ad mine and my other halfs schedules conflict with this concert and we will NOT be able to go :( ummm for further info please email me ASAP.... thanks, Kim ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 06:28:14 -0500 From: Cindy Lauer Subject: Cleveland Concert Hi Fellow MLE Fans, I've been enjoying your list for about a month, but have never posted. I was wondering if anyone else out there is going to the Cleveland concert on Oct. 11th? We are road tripping from Pa., and are looking for a fun club to go to after the show, to party with some other Melissa fans. We are also doing the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame the following day. Any advice on some exciting places to be happy and gay in that area of Cleveland. I'd be very happy to hear from anyone with some input. Thanks in advance! Cindy ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 12:42:24 +0200 From: Yvonne Hendricks Subject: Songs that provok A while ago somebody asked which song of ME has a special meaning, well a lot of songs have a special meaning to me. But the one with that special ring is "The letting go". I was in a straight relationsip for 7 years, (yes was, not anymore) while in the (at that moment )back of my head I knew it was wrong. At some point I finally addmitted to myself that I'm atrackted to women and I knew I had to let my ex go. Although I knew that that was the right thing to do, I couldn't do it and I was very scared. So i put a ME cd in and at that moment "The letting go" was playing, and I listened to the song very carefully. At that moment, with that song, I simply knew it was time to just quit the relationship, and to choose for my feelings. To me that is what the song is all about. By Yvonne Yvonne Hendricks TNO-TPD-TU Instrumentatie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 17:07:44 BST From: Kate Blackmon Subject: NMEC - The List Here's a story that the MLE list members might find interesting. One year ago, on 12 October 1995 I posted: > I shall delurk briefly to post the following, from today's > (12/10/95) _Independent_: > > "Melissa Etheridge's talents as a singer-songwriter have been > clear ever since her 1988 debut album hit the platinum mark, and > since then, she has cemented her status as one of America's top > performers. Her latest album, _Your Little Secret_ released on > 13 Nov, features the same musicians who have backed Etheridge on > stage since the release of her last album, _Yes I Am_. Melissa > will be giving an exclusive showcase concert at Dingwall's, > Camden Lock, London NW1, to promote the new album." That post got a response from right down the hall here at LBS from another list-member, Sarah L. Although Sarah & I had never met, her enthusiasm for MLE persuaded me to give her my extra free ticket, and we went to the concert on 16 October. Over the course of the year, we ended up going to a number of other concerts together -- MLE (31 January), Joan Osborne, Nathalie Merchant, Alanis Morrissette, Tracy Chapman, k d lang, Ani di Franco, MLE (with Bryan Adams), Dar Williams, and Mary-Chapin Carpenter. Well, you can guess the rest. We found out that we had a lot in common beyond shared musical tastes, and, to paraphrase Emily,"that was the beginning of the rest of our lives". Those listers who made it to the January list gathering might remember that Sarah was married at the time. After getting a call on the big white clue-phone, Sarah realised that there might be a connection between her undying passion for MLE, problems in her marriage, and some related issues. After several months of soul-searching, she and Gordon (who's a great guy, actually) split up, and are in the process of getting divorced. It hasn't been an easy or painless decision, but it seems to be the right one. Now we're sharing a postal code (NW3) and a CD collection. No cats so far, though. :( Just another illustration of how powerful this list is in providing somewhere for people to meet & get to know each other. Thanks, Dave & Glenna, for being such wonderful list-owners; Deb & Jen for being such great (past and future) flame monitors, and to all the regular & irregular contributors to the list, those who we've met in person, corresponded with, or just read on the list. Best to everyone, Sarah L. & Kate (Hi Juliet!) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 12:20:17 -0400 From: Deb Subject: NMEC: Taping, Shawn Colvin On Fri, 4 Oct 1996, John Miller wrote: > my recording Walkman to the show... was super discreet about recording > Shawn, making all adjustments and tape changes by touch... but *after* > the show I discovered that in the darkness I had inserted the mike in > the *earphone* jack. > As Rhondda can testify, I was more than a little > upset with myself... BTW, the earphone jack is now taped-over. On mine, the AM/FM switch, the CRO2/MTL switch, and, of course, the operation light, are taped over, all from similar experiences. :) Tori got us tickets to Shawn's free show in DC; I think it's incredibly cool that she's doing a free tour, I've never heard of such a thing (true shows, not in-store appearances). And the new album is outstanding! -- Deb \\ [email protected] \\ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 10:17:07 -0700 From: Joyce Stoliar Subject: Shirl's Honda >Shirley Hoffman >Subject: NMEC: Another Honda Driving... > >Hey Beth had to let you know that I just purchased a super cute Honda CRX >today and wanted to know if that classifies me as a "Honda Driving Chic >Magnet" like yourself? Shirl, Shirl, Shirl, given up on the jeep thing???? Serves them right for making you wait so long. BTW Honda just did their Canadian launch of THEIR SUV (Sports Utility Vehicle) I worked on the launch here in Banff. They are to date only made with right hand drive, but when they are manufactured in the US you might want to look into trading up. Its a mighty nice looking vehicle complete with a cooler in the back and a picnic table that comes out of the floor. Let me tell you that cooler can a hold a good supply of your FAVORITE refreshments, ;-> The vehicle is called the CR-V and is definnately compatable in the looks department to any of the Jeeps on the market today. AND Shirl, you didn't need the Honda to make you a chic Magnet ;-> Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 17:05:58 -0400 From: K Kopp Subject: Shawn Colvin, LDP Hello everyone, I forgot to post yesterday about Shawn's appearance on Rosie yesterday. She was great! She sang "get out of my house" and was incredible. When Rosie talked to her, Rosie went on and on about how much she loved her music. Thank you to the people on this list who recommended her music to me because i had never heard of Shawn Colvin before. Just as a reminder, Shawn is on Letterman on Friday night. Also, Lou Diamond Phillips made an appearance on Rosie to because of International Child's Day (or something like that). It was nothing special, just humorous to me because whenever i see LDP, i think of MLE and JC. Anyways, enjoy ellen on Leno tonight everyone. Kris ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 18:03:29 -0700 From: Elizabeth Meadows Subject: Re: Legends: Janis Joplin [email protected] wrote: > > In a message dated 96-09-30, Elizabeth wrote: > > >I read in the paper that VH1 has a new documentary series > >called Legends, and the first episode premieres October 6th, > >focusing on Janis Joplin, narrated by Kris Kristofferson. I've > >got it marked in my datebook! > > Did this air today? > > VH-1 has been showing "Archives" all day which has Janis > appearance on Dick Cavett but no "Legends" > > Was it on earlier and I missed it? Anyone? > > Michael :-) Well, *this* is a little embarrassing. It was, in fact, in my datebook. However, since that day was also Philly's Coming Out Day Block Party and I was out registering voters and hanging out all day, I never actually CHECKED my datebook. So I have no idea what happened. The info came from the Philly Inquirer (TV section, I think, but may have been someplace else). So, if I misled anyone here, please accept my apologies - didn't mean to get your hopes up. Sorry bout that! - Elizabeth :) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 15:14:31 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: living dangerously... Elaine Naiman asked: >John asked: > >>> Ummmm, do I clean my bathroom more often than I clean Rhondda? > >And what do you clean her with? ;-) :-D ============================== M Something asked: >Looks like Tampa could be the next big shindig. MLE is playing the >Ice Palace, which is our brand new ice hockey arena, and it's huge. >As far as I know, there are still seats left. Any of you BABers >want to check out the *other* Bay area? :) tempting, but i don't think it's in the cards (at least for me). sorry. :-( ============================== Mike Lieman suggested: >Get in early and hit a bathroom stall and do all your wiring in a >leisurly manner. it's not that john didn't know what he was doing - we thought we *were* early! it's just that we had to spend 20 minutes or so trying to find parking in north beach, one of the most difficult places to park in the city. oh, and then once we found a space and was backing into it, some guy tried to tell us that the spot was his - funny, but i didn't think that if you park your truck in the bus stop with your hazards on and you're across the street from your truck when the spot opens up, that means you were reserving the spot for yourself. we had to write down the guy's license plate number just in case he decided to vandalize my car (it was fine). after walking to the venue and trying in vain to find 2 seats to sit at (general admission), the show started about 2 minutes later. no time left to fiddle with teeny weeny controls... ============================== btw, re the groovy DC shindig...if anyone can get a video of tracey doing the macarena, i know of at least one BAB'er who would pay BIG BUCKS ($$$$) for a copy. in fact, i could probably sell tickets to a viewing. :-D ok, ok, just give me a headstart, trace! ready? go! *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 20:01:54 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: Shirl/Honda's & Some Melissa stuff Shirl wrote: >Hey Beth had to let you know that I just purchased a super cute Honda CRX >today and wanted to know if that classifies me as a "Honda Driving Chic >Magnet" like yourself? personally, I already had you pegged as a chick magnet when I met you in Hershey - and that was *pre* Honda! Oops, allow me to *demagnetize* for a moment...... ah, that's better... I'm okay now ... I am not *entirely* sure that it's the Honda that does the trick anyway Shirl... You know I left the Honda in my driveway when I flew to Houston, and we *all* know what happened there... Isn't that right Houstonian Babes? And BTW Shirl, whatever happened to the topless Z car and the new Jeep Wrangler? Shirl again: >If anyone would like to send a few of the DC gathering photo's my way >when the event is over.... What? Does that mean you're not going to be there? Say it *ain't* so !!!!! (I threw that in just for you Elaine..... ) For Tracey Thacker: Sorry but I accidently trashed today's Melissa digest. You wrote something about being in a corner with me? ..... and I believe, stood up for my poor English and those losin' Lions? First let me say that there are *worse* things than being in a corner with me... *together* we could be dancing the Macarena in a corner *lol* and I know how you feel about that!!!! Secondly, regarding those Lions, a *true blue* fan is always a *true blue* fan - even if Ohio State beats our *ss.... Besides, those Lions pay my salary! Finally this snippet from the 10/6/96 Sunday Patriot News, Harrisburg, PA.: Final Notes On Summer Concerts: At varying times from May to early August it was the summer of '66, '76, or '86 - Rod Stewart; Crosby, Stills and Nash; Chicago; Styx; Kansas; The Monkees; Meat Loaf (sic) and James Taylor made their way to Chocolatetown. Then in mid- August it was back to the future, or at least the present, with Phish, Hootie and the Blowfish, the H.O.R.D.E. tour, Alanis Morissette, Melissa Etheridge and the Dave Matthews Band all performing at the stadium or the pavilion. In all, Hershey hosted 15 shows...(stuff deleted) ...here is our take on the season that was: Best Performance Of The Summer: Melissa Etheridge led the pack by meeting the audience halfway. Midway into her sassy set at the pavilion, Etheridge pranced out into the crowd, setting up shop for a while on a stage on top of the stunned folks in the general admission area. Ok, this was way to lengthy so that's all folks... P.S. to the Houstonians - just rec'd an announcement about Melissa's Texas tour package... How'd you *babes* like to play hostess to a PA yankee on November 18th? Beth (wondering just how many Honda driving chick magnets the world can handle) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 22:42:13 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: hi again, back from France Hello everyone, It's been a while since I've been on the list, I went to France this summer and am now just getting back on in time to see Melissa in concert on Sunday!!!! For those who don't know, and I'm sure they are few, she is playing in Toledo, OH. So how many people from the list are going? I feel like I am the only Melissa fan in NW OH, especially male. Please let me know that i'm not all alone. Also, I wanted to let everyone know that when I was in France, I got this awesome bootleg of ME. I forget the name of it but it was done on the OXY label and is from her VH-I duets show. The quality and look of the CD looks almost better than something than Island would put out!! One mistake on the CD is that for "St. Theresa" they called it "Sing to Lisa." The inside cover is really cool as well, there are some neat pictures of ME and some cool quotes. Sometime when I get a chance, I'll post the quotes. I also in France I got a cool Maxi-Single of YLS w/ a couple live tracks. Then I also got a bootleg at the CD store that I work at here called "She's the Boss" which is from her MTV unplugged album. This sounds pretty good. Well that's enough for one post, I'm just really happy to be back! Roger ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Roger Zender e-mail: [email protected] Bowling Green State Univ. [email protected] Telecommunications Major phone: (419) 457-7565 Computer Science Minor http://www.wcnet.org/~rzender ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 8 Oct 1996 22:44:18 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: why so expensive? I just forgot to ask, does anyone know why she is charging so much for her show? I mean, I know she's worth it, but why? The other thing is has she ever had an opening act with her on this tour. She's not having one here, which is cool because she is just going to play music for around 3 hours. Roger ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Roger Zender e-mail: [email protected] Bowling Green State Univ. [email protected] Telecommunications Major phone: (419) 457-7565 Computer Science Minor http://www.wcnet.org/~rzender ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 7 Oct 1996 to 8 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From [email protected] Thu Oct 10 01:40:38 1996 Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 00:00:25 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 8 Oct 1996 to 9 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 04:25:49 -0400 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: Detroit concert hey there listers! Me and a couple of other listers are trying to put together a little get together before the Detroit concert. If anyone is interested email me privately and i will attach all of the addresses to a cc so that we can exchange ideas between us without clouding the list up with our plans. Thanks!! Love, Jenny ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 19:16:20 +0800 From: Mardi Subject: Lou Diamonds comments Some one mentioned the other day about the article in the OZ magazine about LDP comments about melissa...and yes sirree...they certainly are there...phew...we ran to the magazine rack to read it when I caught sight of the headline from across the room (Sounds like a really bad romance novel)..ANYWAY..it has an interview with him talking about how MElissa and Julie became good FRIENDS and he thought NOTHING of them going out on the town together ALL the time. THEN, she told him she wanted out because she didn't LOVE him but someone else. BUT it wasn't until later that he found out Melissa was the OTHER person. He was SHOCKED. Because he didn't marry a LESBIAN. And was going to quietly SIT in the corner and get OVER it until M&J went PUBLIC about it all and suddenly everyone in the school yard was TAUNTING him about it and saying stuff like 'WOW you must be really BAD in BED'..and 'DID you know she was GAY' and he took it for AGES and no longer is going TO. SOOOOOO, he's know giving REALLY bad interviews about it. (BTW..we put the magazine back) (Must have been GOOD). And while we are in this capital letter KINDA mood...RUN...DON'T WALK...AS FAST AS YOU CAN TO THE...(drum roll please) BRAND SPANKING NEW ... SISTABLUE ... WEB PAGE. (Phew, I'm exhausted)(You know, that really GREAT duo from Perth??) (DO the words wank wank mean anything here?) But you can see pictures (wave at us in front of your PC screens) (yeah right) and download sound from our almost released cd...and well, that's about it...BORING as hell, but hey...I have hair. It is at http://emedia.com.au/wamusic/sistablue/ and please be gentle because it is our first time. Oops..cheekily yours Mardi ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 21:24:00 +1000 From: HOLMES V O Subject: LDP in oz mag Yeah, that interview with Lou Diamond Phillips was in very poor taste, but hey, it was accompanied by a pic of MLE and Julie that I didn't already have so I could ignore the article and just cut out the picture. I hope the mag just made up the interview because if poor Lou is really worried about how Hollywood must all think he's so bad in bed now because he lost his wife to a lesbian (an absolutely gorgeous one at that) then god help him.... Yep, we got some goooood press down under:( Veronica ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 08:18:22 -0400 From: Toni Robinson Subject: Romance, Springsteen & Ellen >Just another illustration of how powerful this list is in providing >somewhere for people to meet & get to know each other. Thanks, Dave & >Glenna, for being such wonderful list-owners; Deb & Jen for being >Sarah L. & Kate What a nice post...congratulations to the both of you! Goddess bless the wonders of technology :) I haven't had a chance to post here lately, but I was wondering about that Springsteen show-up a week or so ago..are there tapes floating around of this? Must have been a great show! Which songs did they do together? On the Ellen topic.. I can only begin to imagine the pressure she must be under from the media circus.. I actually feel bad for Ellen. On Leno last night, Jay set her up to make her big announcement, which they fake-snowed out..then said: there..now you know..enough already, basically. It was funny, and I was relieved she didn't dredge up the Lebanese thing again.. Hope she can hang with it..its my favorite show! Whoever that was that suggested an Ellen mailing list, please let me know if its happening! Keep those concert reviews coming..they're great! Toni ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 07:18:32 -0600 From: "Sharon R. Hill" Subject: Re: MLE in New Orleans >Among my friends, I am the one who is signed on to this mailing list - so I can be the first to tell them all the latest MLE news. I went on a business trip for a couple of days and returned last night. I had everyone over for dinner and the first words they uttered was that MLE would be in New Orleans for a concert at UNO on Saturday, November 9. Needless to say, I am extatic and we will either be in line or on the phone Saturday AM to Ticketmaster. I was disappointed though, that I didn't know about this first. I have checked MEIN several times to see when the Southern tour would begin, but to no avail. Anyway, we will all be there and hopefully have good tickets - guess we won't need seats, everyone will probably be standing or dancing. Shar ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 08:22:28 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: NMEC: DC Gathering, Honda's Morning Listers, First off I'd like to wish the folks attending the DC gathering a safe trip and a very pleasant time and if you need a spot to throw some DC gathering pics for the List to admire I'll put a few of them out there for you. Beth Wrote: What? Does that mean you're not going to be there? Say it *ain't* so !!!!! (I threw that in just for you Elaine..... ) Hmmmm, not sure how to take that one although I have my suspicions. :] I'm sure with all the fun everyone will be having I won't be missed at all. If someone could promise to drink a Sam Adams in my honor I would feel like I was a part of it in some small way. Beth Again: personally, I already had you pegged as a chick magnet when I met you in Hershey - and that was *pre* Honda! Oops, allow me to *demagnetize* for a moment...... Aaagghhh yes, you are quite the smoothie now aren't you? I still have the Topless Z-car for Melissa road trips but figured I could use all the help I could get with the "Chic Magnet" thing so when I saw that cute little Honda CRX I just thought of you and said I'll take it! Time to get back to the work thing! Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 12:34:12 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: Columbus Concert Review Howdy, all, I'm pooped! Got home last night at 1:00 but was still so wound up I didn't drift off until after 2:00. Then I had to be up at 5:30 because of an 8am class,....and....well....my students told me I'm rather babbling today. But!!! I made it to the front row last night and Melissa touched my hand at the end of the concert!! That was kind of cool. I really liked how she makes a point of getting to *everybody* in the front row.....people behind me were pushing forward, cramming several of us into a bank of speakers...and Melissa was saying gently, "Wait. Wait. Wait," letting people know that she would get to them. Lessee...the set list has been posted a zillion times and was the same, except for the fact that here, Melissa added Mercedes Benz during her set on the small stage in the back. As usual in Columbus, that was a great treat. Melissa was in an excellent mood! It was her cameraman's birthday, so she made a point of wishing him a happy birthday...um.....she told a great Leavenworth story about Shriner's Park being so poorly lit, ahem, that it was the perfect setting for young romance, etc. Melissa also made a comment about OSU being a great football team this year, but since I went to Penn State, I will not comment upon this at this time. Melissa was just really *up* and this was reflected in her performance. The person I was with insisted it topped her show at Polaris in Columbus last year, and I am inclined to agree (much to my surprise, because I'm not a huge fan of much of the material on YLS). And I saw Melissa at the Fleet Center in August and was kind of let down then. But really she came alive last night...but perhaps things just seemed so much more intense because I was able to get so close this time around. See, I started off the concert right by accident in the 5th row meeting up with some MElisters (hi, Sue! Hi, Michelle!); my MEIN tickets had me in the 15th row. (Not too bad, anyway). But since I was there in the 5th row, and there were some empty seats, I just went back to the 15th row, grabbed the friend who was with me, and we charged back up to the 5th row. Eventually the latecomers showed up, but we were all on our feet anyway, so we all just squeezed in amiably and stayed, dancing, where we were. There was only one moment of tension during the concert, when, back at the small stage, one woman attempted to climb onto the stage, but a group of people pulled her back down into the crowd. Then Melissa spotted a guy with one of those disposable cameras near this woman. She took the guy's camera and took a few pictures of the band and then held her arm out, pointing the camera at herself, and took a snap or two. Then she gave the camera back to the guy. He, needless to say, looked pretty excited. (I wonder if those pictures will actually turn out? ) And John Shanks is a big flirt! He was making some great eye contact with an attractive young woman next to me (this was towards the concert's end, when we were in the front, on the right hand side of the stage near where Mark Browne was). Every time John looked at her, she would collapse in giggles against her boyfriend, who was getting just as big a kick out of John's flirtations as she. I have to admit, even though I'm gay, John is really quite an attractive man and looks great in leather pants. At one other point, Melissa was playing around with her cameraman, getting right up in his face and making funny expressions. A woman behind me suddenly yelled: "You ham!" This was rather cute. Well, these are all my memories for now. See, I have babbled on again. Pooh, it was great to meet you....but sorry our tailgate fell through. To explain: we didn't realize the Convention Center had more than one lot. I was in one place; Pooh in another. So, Pooh has a truckload of Jello shots; I have a cooler with a case of beer in my car. Anybody up for a party? Still flyin' high, Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 18:42:59 +0100 From: Juliet Long Subject: Way to go Kate & Sarah!!! Yay!!! Kate & Sarah!!! Thanks for posting your tale on the list - the power of this list gets me time and time again!!!! Where would I be without it ....ack!! i might actually get some work done if it didn't exist!!! no really - its a brilliant story and I really wish the two of you plenty more great gigs and times together in the future - and who knows - mebbe even cats too!!! *laugh* hugs to all you listers - you're all pretty cool folk!! Juliet. ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 15:14:24 -0700 From: "Karen Steenstrup (Punster)" Subject: Chicago concert Hello all! Come this Saturday, Patty (the notorious head butt extraordinarie) and I (the Punster) will be seeing Melissa in concert. We will of course be donning our purple bowling shirts thanks to Joyce the Shirt Gal. So, if anyone notices two rather cute gals in purple bowling shirts that is probably us. BTW, is anyone else going to the concert? Take care everyone. Kare, who wants to someday get a pet and name him Peeve. ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 17:38:12 -0400 From: Michele Marie Bench Subject: New tour date! I am so excited - just when I lost all hope - Melissa is playing the Dean Dome on Chapel Hill, NC on Monday, Nov. 11. Just wanted to pass that along! Michele "What doesn't kill you makes you stranger."-Trevor Goodchild, "Aeon Flux" ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 17:40:37 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: her b-day Does anyone know how her b-day card signing turned out. I know here in Ohio we sent one around and I got to sign it. Was it given to her and was there any reaction? Just wanted to know, I was really excited to be a part of that. I did it right before I signed off the list and went to France. Roger ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Roger Zender e-mail: [email protected] Bowling Green State Univ. [email protected] Telecommunications Major phone: (419) 457-7565 Computer Science Minor http://www.wcnet.org/~rzender ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 17:03:07 -0500 From: "Cindy S. Hughey" Subject: First time out This is my first posting on this list. I didn'teven know it existed until last week. Yes I'm a ME fan and have been since I figured a few things out a cople of years ago. As for personal info here's the low down: 20 yr old Junior at the University of Alabama Huntsville Mechanical Engineering major (GOtta get paid) Art Minor {painting/drawing/photography} (MY true passion) Writing Center consultant (yes that's the English dept) Member of the Honors program Ok so I'm very diverse, I like lots of different things Anyway, I'm a big ME fan but seem to be out of the loop with others in my area. Basically I don't know anyone else. I don'thave a very active social life, mostly School and the writing center (i.e. work) so I guess that's why I don't meet anyone. So, if anybody on this list is from the Huntsville, Madison Co., North Alabama area let me know. ********************* I REALLY want to know if ME is coming near this area on tour. the last time I checked she wasn't, but that was a few weeks ago and I've been so busy since. ********************* I'll go now since this message is soo long. BTW I also go by SHAKAY, it's even my personalized car tag. Cindy SHAKAY Hughey ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 18:23:54 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: Joyce wrote: >BTW Honda just did their Canadian launch of THEIR SUV >(Sports Utility Vehicle) I worked on the launch here in Banff. >Its a mighty nice looking vehicle complete with a cooler in the >back and a picnic table that comes out of the floor. ...perfect for that before/after tailgate party at any Melissa concert *rhondda* wrote: >btw, re the groovy DC shindig...if anyone can get a video of tracey >doing the macarena, i know of at least one BAB'er who would pay >BIG BUCKS ($$$$) for a copy. in fact, i could probably sell tickets >to a viewing. :-D hmmmmmmm....... my magnetized wheels are spinning..... just what kind of BIG BUCKS ($$$$) are we talkin' here? (afraid Tracey is NOT EVEN gonna show up after all of this teasing...) Beth (now I really can't wait until the get-together on Saturday) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 9 Oct 1996 18:32:20 -0400 From: Sue Molyneaux Subject: Duest with Dead People Hi all I just received a tape of some Melissa stuff (Duets) and Janis Joplin stuff. One of the Janis things was a skit of some kind with Wayne Newton and Janis singing "Ball and Chain" ala' Natalie Cole & Nat King Cole (that is, live person singing a duet with a dead person). It was pretty funny, but it got Kelly to thinking... What do y'all think about the idea of Melissa and Janis doing a "dead duet" of "Piece of My Heart" or "Ball and Chain" as a promotional video/song for the upcoming Janis Joplin biography picture (if Melissa's version gets produced)? Which Janis song have folks heard Melissa cover that would be amaaaazing if it was done this way? ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 8 Oct 1996 to 9 Oct 1996 ************************************************ From [email protected] Fri Oct 11 00:52:14 1996 Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 00:00:13 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 9 Oct 1996 to 10 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 02:09:30 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: As If This Weekend Won't Be Hard Enough (NMEC) BAB'er Extraordinaire, Rhondda Ashby, a person I once liked, wrote: >btw, re the groovy DC shindig...if anyone can get a video of tracey >doing the macarena, i know of at least one BAB'er who would pay BIG >BUCKS ($$$$) for a copy. in fact, i could probably sell tickets to a >viewing. :-D >ok, ok, just give me a headstart, trace! ready? go! To which, the live-on-the-edge Beth Durff, whilst being paid by the losin' Lions, replied: >hmmmmmmm....... my magnetized wheels are spinning..... just what >kind of BIG BUCKS ($$$$) are we talkin' here? (afraid Tracey is >NOT EVEN gonna show up after all of this teasing...) >Beth (now I really can't wait until the get-together on Saturday) You know, I don't know how this started. One grammatical error, and suddenly I'm in corners, I'm being dared to do this stupid line dance, I've got a price out on videotape of me doing it, I'm being prodded to sing karaoke - I'm not that interesting a person, I promise you that! Not to say that I couldn't sing karaoke and line dance with the best of them, those just happen to be on the list of things that I shouldn't do in public. This is because when I'm a top advisor to some key senator or the president one day, the tapes will resurface and it will be some sort of double standard goofball equivalent to Dick Morris' toe-sucking bit. I'll be forced to resign in infamy, and will become tabloid fodder for weeks. I just know it. Well, since I've got to actually get on the road to DC in about four hours, I think I should go finishing packing up the family sedan and get a little shuteye. Hmm, I'm soooo looking forward to Saturday evening! Tracey, who just decided she should wear her stomping boots in case there are any videocassettes that need to be destroyed after the shindig. Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 00:09:36 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: DC shindig macarena extortion video (NMEC) Beth Durff wondered: >>btw, re the groovy DC shindig...if anyone can get a video of tracey >>doing the macarena, i know of at least one BAB'er who would pay >>BIG BUCKS ($$$$) for a copy. in fact, i could probably sell >tickets >>to a viewing. :-D > >hmmmmmmm....... my magnetized wheels are spinning..... just what >kind of BIG BUCKS ($$$$) are we talkin' here? name your price, beth. maybe we could have a bidding war? an auction? i may have to throw a bake sale to raise the funds, though. >(afraid Tracey is NOT EVEN gonna show up after all of this >teasing...) oh no, it's all in fun, trace! :-D *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 02:06:33 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: sweltering, sistablue, taping, Shawn The recent heat has incapacitated my email... Yes, we've been setting heat records here in the Bay Area... Tuesday's temperature in Monterey (which is right on the coast next to the cold Pacific current) was 108 F (about 42 Celsius), which was a record high, and tied with two *Death Valley* towns as hottest places in the U.S. The several days of heat throughout the west coast have knocked out some of the domain-name-servers used by my system, so I've been unable to reply to mail from many of you who provided MEIN advice, including Jen Smith, Sue Harvick, Kelley, Oliver, and 'BravnCrazy'... My thanks to all of you! Several other people have also been invisible to my name-servers, so I haven't been ignoring y'all, I just can't get there from here . ---- On Wed, 9 Oct 1996 19:16:20 +0800, Mardi wrote (as only *she* can ) about the LDP article in an OZ magazine (and I think Mardi's version was probably better than the original )... then she wrote: >And while we are in this capital letter KINDA mood...RUN...DON'T WALK...AS >FAST AS YOU CAN TO THE...(drum roll please) BRAND SPANKING NEW ... >SISTABLUE ... WEB PAGE. (Phew, I'm exhausted)(You know, that really GREAT >duo from Perth??) (DO the words wank wank mean anything here?) Yes!... that really GREAT duo from Perth!... musically and personally! Mardi, I got your note about the new web-page, but until today was unable to see it (or write you) due to name-server problems. For those who were not on the list in April, Mardi and Rose visited us in San Jose, and they left all of us who met them saying 'we will never be the same' (that's an understatement!)... they performed at a local venue, opening for a popular local all-women band, and the band kept referring to 'those babes from Australia' being a 'tough act to follow'... so for those who missed their visit (and their show), check out Sistablue's web-page at: http://emedia.com.au/wamusic/sistablue/ You'll be glad you did! ---- On Tue, 8 Oct 1996, Deb wrote about taping live shows: >On mine, the AM/FM switch, the CRO2/MTL switch, and, of course, the operation >light, are taped over, all from similar experiences. :) Yes, especially important on *good* recorders with full-logic switches which need only the slightest touch to change their setting... I had previously taped over those switches, but never considered taping over the earphone jack until last week... and I usually have the luxury to follow Mike Lieman's advice and check my set-up by finding some private space before the show, but after playing parking-space commando for 20 minutes in North Beach, Rhondda and I arrived at Shawn Colvin's show as they were announcing her and the house lights were going down. Deb added: >Tori got us tickets to Shawn's free show in DC; I think it's incredibly cool >that she's doing a free tour, I've never heard of such a thing (true shows, >not in-store appearances). And the new album is outstanding! You're gonna love her show! The free shows are wonderful promotion, and with her appearances on Rosie and Letterman perhaps she won't be such a well-kept secret any more... I did not discover her until *after* her second album (what took me so long?). Yes, Shawn's new album is outstanding and it's *rarely* left my CD-player except for occasional plays of Ferron's new "Still Riot", or Catie Curtis (either her new "Truth From Lies" or out-of-print "From Years To Hours"). John Miller - look, he's posting at 2:00am... again! San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 06:20:14 -0700 From: Randy Subject: Piano player on Weakness in Me I just received the CD "Ain't Nothin' But a She Thing", played Melissa's cover of The Weakness in Me (I lost count after 17 times) and fell in love all over again. Gawd what a voice! Any how the piano player is not credited for this particular recording and i was wondering if Melissa is playing for herself or not. Anyone know? Thanks. -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 03:22:17 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Re: Piano player on Weakness in Me On Thu, 10 Oct 1996, Randy wrote: >I just received the CD "Ain't Nothin' But a She Thing", played >Melissa's cover of The Weakness in Me (I lost count after 17 times) and >fell in love all over again. Gawd what a voice! And a beautiful song... one of my (and Eileen's) favorites (Hi Eileen!) > Any how the piano player is not credited for this particular >recording and i was wondering if Melissa is playing for herself or not. Yes, Melissa is playing the piano. She played TWIM as the final encore during her Never Enough show (at least in Santa Cruz), and the memory of her playing and singing still gives me goosebumps... she is also shown playing the piano during TWIM (minus one verse) on her "MTV Unplugged". John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 07:19:50 -0700 From: Randy Subject: Re: Piano player on Weakness in Me John Miller wrote: > Yes, Melissa is playing the piano. She played TWIM as the final encore > during her Never Enough show (at least in Santa Cruz), and the memory of > her playing and singing still gives me goosebumps... she is also shown > playing the piano during TWIM (minus one verse) on her "MTV Unplugged". I have a copy of MTV Unplugged with Springsteen from Brenda (Hi Brenda!)...it does not include TWIM...What's up? Did Brenda miss it or is there another Unplugged I'm not aware of? -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 09:04:42 -0400 From: Julia Fain Subject: Friday OUT day!! I thought I'd share with the list since I'OUTing myself in our university paper on Coming OUT day Friday. My letter to the editor refutes a previous letter which I quoted here so everyone could understand what I am refuting. and of course this will start a new thread I hope. > It was holy rollers editorial that talked about how Gays and god don't mix. > He said, and quoted some bible don't ask me which one because homosexual > wasn't a word until 1940, but basically... > > "Paul write in first Corinthians, Do you know that the unrighteous will > no inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, > nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor > thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revelers will inherit the > kingdom of God." by Brian White > > > My letter to the editor,> > > > enjoy, > > Julia > > > > > > > >> > >> To the editor: > > > >> > > In response to Brian White's letter in Wednesday's Reader's Forum, I'd > > >like to say, "It's going to be lonely in heaven; just God and Brian." > > > > > >Mr. White was appalled by a gay man being a Christian? I would ask Mr. > > >white to question the first Corinthians verse he quoted in a different > > >interpretation. There are multitudes of interpretations, especially > > >concerning the accusing and judgmental words of Paul, (Jesus is never > > >quoted as saying these things). Especially since it took Jesus > > >taking the "sight" of Saul, the persecutor of Christian's, and allowing > > >him to live as Paul the Christian. > > > > > > >According to Paul; > > >these are the persons that will not be allowed into...let's call it heaven: > > > >> > > >"fornicators"-sexual intercourse between a man and a woman not married to > > > each other. > > > >> > > >(No premarital sex, *at all*.) > > > >> > > >"idolaters"-one who blindly or excessively adores a person or thing > > > >> > > >(Blindly? Faith in God or Jesus would have to be a blind faith, unless > > >you've seen them.) > > > >> > > > "adulterers"-intercourse with a married person > > > or - to make impure, spurious, or inferior by adding extraneous > > > ingredients > > > >> > > > (Hope you haven't adjusted any recipes incorrectly.) > > > >> > > > "homosexuals"- sexual activity with another of the same sex > > > >> > > > (This implies if *only sex* is involved and we gays and lesbians have > > > much more intimate relationships on levels of intimacy and emotion which > > > never need include *only sex*) whew, glad I'm safe. > > > >> > > > "sodomites"-anal or oral copulation > > > (Absolutely no, any kind of oral sex...heterosexuals > > > included...paaaahhhhlease.) > > > >> > > > I'll let thieves, covetous, and drunkards go, for surely as a freshman, > > > Mr. White hasnt been drunk more than once yet. > > > >> > > > "revelers"-take great pleasure or delight > > > >> > > > (This ones my favorite. Anyone celebrating the NCAA win last year, a > > > good grade on an exam, a birth of a child, or even the totally boisterous > > > celebration when the football team scored a touchdown last week. Your > > > outta there!) ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 12:21:18 -0400 From: Kive Kamerling Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 8 Oct 1996 to 9 Oct 1996 There was a fire in the NBC building early, (4 AM), Thursday morning. This is where Rosie tapes her show... The show was cancelled and sadly, *sniff*, i had tickets. No one was seriously hurt. It happened too early for the taping of Melissa being on. So to all of you waiting to watch on Monday, Oct. 14th... There is not gonna be a show with Melissa... Maybe soon, but not that soon enough... Peace, Kiva BravNcrazy ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 12:29:19 EDT From: Wendy Waterstrat Subject: Re: Piano player on Weakness in Me Randy wrote: > > John Miller wrote: > > > Yes, Melissa is playing the piano. She played TWIM as the final encore > > during her Never Enough show (at least in Santa Cruz), and the memory of > > her playing and singing still gives me goosebumps... she is also shown > > playing the piano during TWIM (minus one verse) on her "MTV Unplugged". > > I have a copy of MTV Unplugged with Springsteen from Brenda (Hi > Brenda!)...it does not include TWIM...What's up? Did Brenda miss it or is > there another Unplugged I'm not aware of? > -- > [email protected] > Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same > If I'm not mistaken, her playing the piano and performing this song is from Roots, Rock and Roll of ME. I also love that artistic interpretation video of this song which I believe was part of the "Ain't Nothin' But A She Thing" special. I don't remember who directed it, but I thought it very nicely done and quite moving. Wendy ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 12:30:44 EDT From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: NMEC-Girl Scouts Hi, Fellow List Members, Haven't been on for quite a while; since last school year, but I'm delurking for a moment here to ask ya'll a question. This summer I was *quite blatantly* discriminated against by the Girl Scouts of the USA because of the fact that I am lesbian. That event got me to thinking, and several days ago, I talked with another lesbian here on my college campus that has had a similar experience. What I'd like to ask you is this: Has anybody else out there on this list experienced discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation by the Girl Scouts? I'm considering writing a book about it, and would like to know the tenor of what's going on out there. Please respond to me via private email and share your stories. (I'll also share my story via private email for anyone interested, but it's *long* and I don't wanna use more than my share of bandwith.) *NOTE* Anything you share with me will stop with me. I haven't decided yet if I really am going to write this or not, but if I do, I won't use *anything* that you've shared with me _unless_ you specify that I can. On a Melissa note now.... Don't know if ya'll heard 'bout what happened at the Duluth, MN, MLE show or not, but it's quite fun... After five songs or so, Melissa said that there were several empty front row seats, and she just couldn't stand that. She asked the audience if anyone had a birthday that day (September 30), cause the first four people who could show ID with their birthday could move up. Just then, the guy behind me (who, I *swear* must be a professional sprinter...) dashed up to the front and showed his ID. Melissa said, "Lemme see that," took his ID up on stage & verified it, & sat him & his girlfriend down in the front row. *Then*, to make things better, she had us all sing Happy Birthday to him & the other guy! Cool! ;-) Anyway, thanx for your info ahead-of-time, and it's good to be back! (HI, John, notice my new email? ) Mary Harbaugh, "Northland Mary" ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 12:56:38 -0500 From: Karrie Bowen Subject: NTG video Hey all- I am sort of really behind in reading my digests, but I figured I would put in my 2 cents on the NTG video. I basically hate it. First of all, I hate that my favorite verse has been removed for airplay sake.....second of all, I just think it is so cheesy. Please don't flame me, or hate me, but Julie, full of angst, bashing up the windows of a house and running for the Grand Canyon in a fit of "needing to escape?" I just don't buy it. It's really cliche. That's all. Flame away. Karrie ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 10:34:15 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Re[2]: Piano player on Weakness in Me Randy responded to my 3:22am post: > I have a copy of MTV Unplugged with Springsteen from Brenda (Hi >Brenda!)...it does not include TWIM...What's up? Did Brenda miss it or is >there another Unplugged I'm not aware of? No, just my foggy memory after 16 hours at work... it's not Unplugged. Wendy Waterstrat suggested it's the VH-1 program entitled 'Roots, Rock and Roll of ME', which is correct... I checked my recent attempt to catalog all my Melissa videos, and found: 11. VH1 Roots, Rock & Roll of MLE (SEP 94) 45:25 CTMW, NS, SF, DWS, Weakness In Me (Armatrading) Me and Bobby McGee, BMSW, Maggie May, ITOO 12. MTV Unplugged CTMW, AIH, IIWT, BMSW, Maggie May, YIA, 44:35 Thunder Road (duet w/ Bruce), ITOO, LTWID John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 14:19:06 EDT From: Wendy Waterstrat Subject: Re: catching a plane (NMEC) & an Ooops I wrote: > Catching up with a little NMEC, > > on Mon, 7 Oct Audrey wrote regarding catching a plane: > > > > > Actually, I prefer jumping out of them at 15,000 feet. Anyone else? > > > > > > I've never gone from 15,000 feet, but I have jumped out of a perfectly > good airplane. Well, actually I've done that hundreds of times after > landing and parking them, but those jumps don't amount to more than a > few feet to the ground. I meant I jumped from one while it was in the > air, static line from 4,000 feet. I wanted to go for the freefall from > 10,000 feet but it was quite a bit more expensive. Nobody else out there? > > Wendy ...and then sent it directly to [email protected]. Sorry about that Randy. I'm not sure how I did that, but I obviously wasn't being mindful of what I was doing. Wendy ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 15:05:38 EDT From: "Mary M. MacDonald" Subject: Re: Columbus Concert Review --- Joyce Luck wrote: Melissa was saying gently, "Wait. Wait. Wait," letting people know that she would get to them. --- end of quoted material --- Good grief! Why did I need to pound on my chest a little to start breathing again after this? (-; -Mary, who needs to take things a little more in stride ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 15:41:29 -0400 From: Pocabuco at aol Subject: Melissa & Julie moved Drove by M & J's Sat pm on the way to a function in Hollywood, and to my surpise..There was a moving van out front. We could see Julie in kitchen keeping an eye on the movers. Oh well, so there went the only stars home address I knew. ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 19:28:36 -0700 From: Randy Subject: Chapel Hill concert tickets OK! I have 2 M.E.I.N. tickets to the Chapel Hill concert Nov 11! Anybody from the NJ or Eastern PA, area wanna go with me? (or from any place else on the way for that matter!) I don't bite, honest! We can start on Monday morning and be back Tuesday night! YES! YES! -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 19:44:02 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: DC gathering, college football Shirl wrote: >>First off I'd like to wish the folks attending the DC gathering a safe >>trip... I Wrote: >>What? Does that mean you're not going to be there? Say it *ain't* so !!! >>I threw that in just for you Elaine..... ) and Shirl wrote: >>Hmmmm, not sure how to take that one although I have my suspicions. :] >>I'm sure with all the fun everyone will be having I won't be missed at all. >>If someone could promise to drink a Sam Adams in my honor I would feel >>like I was a part of it in some small way. Gee, I was being *sincere*...and what's so important that you can't be there anyway? OH, I guess it's okay for you to get on a plane and go hang out with the BAB listers (no offense BAB!)- but *us* NorthEasterners aren't good enough for you anymore..?(big pouty lip)*lol* I can't help you out with the Sam Adams because I don't drink beer - and if *any* of the Houstonian Babes tell *anyone else* on this list the reason why, I will get on a plane, fly to Texas, and HUNT YOU DOWN !! At any rate, I am sure someone at the get-together will oblige, so not to worry Shirl. me again: >>personally, I already had you pegged as a chick magnet when I met you >>in Hershey - and that was *pre* Honda! Oops, allow me to *demagnetize* >>for a moment...... and Shirl responded: >>Aaagghhh yes, you are quite the smoothie now aren't you? Really? If so, then I ought to be able to persuade you to show up at the get-together on Saturday! We could caravan together in our Honda's... *Magnetization ON* Shirl again: >>I figured I could use all the help I could get with the "Chic Magnet" >>thing so when I saw that cute little Honda CRX I just thought of you >>and said I'll take it! The car you mean? *lol* ANYWAY.... enough flirting with Shirl, lest I get kicked off this list and have to start my own ME list for singles... *Thanks* to Joyce Luck for that great concert post. This comment really caught my eye : >>Melissa also made a comment about OSU being a great football team this >>year, but since I went to Penn State, I will not comment upon this at >>this time. Hey, she was just telling the *natives* what they wanted to hear ok? *lol* Seriously, OSU definitely has a great team this year, but thank you Joyce for your alumni loyalty !!! If I don't get a chance to post again before the big SHINDIG in Gaithersburg on Saturday, I'll see everybody there !! Beth (who can drive a magnetized Honda while dancing the macarena in her car seat) ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 21:31:22 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: NMEC: Honda's & Flirting On Thu, 10 Oct 1996, Beth Durff wrote: > Gee, I was being *sincere*...and what's so important that you can't be there > anyway? I have tickets to the Betsy King LPGA tournament up here in Kutztown otherwise I would be down there grooving with the rest of you crazy Macarena women. Beth Again: > OH, I guess it's okay for you to get on a plane and go hang out with > the BAB listers (no offense BAB!)- Guess I shouldn't mention that I'm flying back out there for the Christmas holiday then now should I. You know Beth I hear there is a two for one airfare special going on? What is it that they say...put up or...:] More Beth: > HUNT YOU DOWN !! At any rate, I am sure someone at the get-together will > oblige, so not to worry Shirl. If I know Melisters I won't be left out and there will be a Sam Adams downed on my behalf! I'll be having one in all your honor from back here in Amish country. > and Shirl responded: > >>Aaagghhh yes, you are quite the smoothie now aren't you? Beth is Persistent: > Really? If so, then I ought to be able to persuade you to show up > at the get-together on Saturday! We could caravan together in our > Honda's... *Magnetization ON* Wish I could, I was really bumming when I saw the original date change to the 12th and 13th. > ANYWAY.... enough flirting with Shirl, lest I get kicked off this > list and have to start my own ME list for singles... Yes enough flirting your causing my shy demure side to blush all over the place. Funniest thing about buying this CRX is that I baught it off this young 18 year old and he put one of those Bad Boy stickers on the side window of a boy who is holding his crotch and gving the old "your number one" gesture. Can't figure how to get it off with out destroying the tinting. Hard to claim the shy demure thing with that on the side of my car! Be safe and have fun to all gathering in DC. I'll be thinking of you all! Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 23:15:25 +0000 From: Jan Subject: Melissa on Rosie's show Due to a fire in the NBC studios, taping of 2 of Rosie's shows including the one with Melissa was cancelled. No word yet if the taping will be rescheduled. Elaine ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 08:22:59 -0400 From: "Susan H. Simko" Subject: Re: New tour date! Michele Marie Bench wrote: > I am so excited - just when I lost all hope - Melissa is playing the > Dean Dome on Chapel Hill, NC on Monday, Nov. 11. Just wanted to pass > that along! What is it with the bad venues this year? I really would like to see Melissa again but I have also sworn off this horrible horrible place. I suffer from vertigo that normally only bothers me in high open places (observation platforms overlooking scenic areas for instance) but this is the first indoor seated place that has ever bothered me and it's really bad there. It gives the true meaning to the phrase "nose bleed seats". Even worse than that is the fact thatfor the two concerts I have seen there, they have never been able to get the sound right. I ended up sitting through both concerts with my fingers in my ears and trying to ignore that really uncomfortable feeling you get in your sternum from the bass being up *way* too loud. I must admit that when there was no summer or fall date announced (which almost guarantees a Hardees Walnut Creek gig), I had pretty much figured that if and when she came here it would be at the Dumb Dome. *sigh* *rant off* Maybe next year.... Susan H. Simko [email protected] Fuqua School of Business The past tempts us ... Duke University Today confuses us and Durham, NC USA 27708 The future frightens us (919) 660-7876 ** Centauri Emperor ** ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 9 Oct 1996 to 10 Oct 1996 ************************************************* From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sat Oct 12 00:02:32 1996 Date: Sat, 12 Oct 1996 00:00:04 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 10 Oct 1996 to 11 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 02:24:02 -0700 From: Randy Subject: Chapel Hill concert companion I recently wrote that I was looking to share my 2 tickets to the Chapel Hill concert. I need to clarify my gender before I have to make any more gentlemen feel badly when I turn them down. I'm female with a wonderful "boy's" name. Honest, it's on my birth certificate! It's a name that comes in handy on the 'net. Now, I don't have anything against men, really, just wouldn't feel comfortable travelling with one I don't know. Hope you guys understand. Hi! all you Johns, and Dougs, and Daves, and Bills, and .... -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 10:34:31 +0200 From: Yvonne Hendricks Subject: jealous Hi there, Here a little something of somebody from Holland. Yes that is Europe. As you know I'm a big ME fan (else I wouln't be here), have been since 1988. Anyway I'm kinda new here, so let me introduce myself to ya. As you can see my name is Yvonne Hendricks, I am 26 years old and I'm a secretary. You need to know more? well it's enough for now. Now about the subject, the last time Melissa was in Holland was when she played with Bryan Adams. I do believe that that was in July. For her own concert she played Rotterdam in Febuary. So I'm a tiny bit jealous that y'all can see her at this moment. I wanna come to America, and see her.....But then you need money, not that I don't have any. Just not enough. Anyway have fun at her shows, think of me when your there.. Groetjes (=greetings,or bye in Dutch) Yvonne Yvonne Hendricks TNO-TPD-TU Instrumentatie ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 10:08:37 BST From: Sarah Lorimer Subject: Europe/London Listers Info & Thanks to all Hi all At the risk of subjecting everyone to over-exposure to us London Listers: I received renewal notification of MEIN Europe recently. It seems they have reopened under new management. I wasn't particularly impressed with the service last time, but for stlg15 I'm prepared to give them another chance (or, if you're really sad, you can pay an extra stlg9 for your very own MEIN T-shirt!). So, for those of you who might be interested, here's their new address/no. MEIN Europe, PO Box 11306, London WC1E 7AJ. Tel. 0171 580 3303. And for any Dar Williams fans out there - she's playing at the Jazz Cafe, London, on 19 & 20 November. Maybe Kate and I will see you on the 19th ?? Talking of get-togethers - yes, Juliet, it's time for another garlic-fest *soon* (though perhaps without quite so much garlic next time ?!). Any other UK listers up for a bash ?? Finally, on a personal note, thanks to those of you who sent your congratulations to Kate & I - we appreciate it. Cheers all, Sarah ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 08:43:23 -0400 From: Karen Di Donato Subject: Forgive me if this has been posted already, I can't seem to get the digest anymore (or anything else from this list for that matter), but I read on the Rosie O list that because of the fire in Rockefeller Plaza, where her show is taped, they couldn't do a show yesterday and/or today. As we know, Melissa was supposed to be on Rosie on Monday, but the taping of this show was to be yesterday.... WAS CANCELLED. There was a rerun on yesterday and will be today I hear and maybe again on Monday. Here is an excerpt from Rosie O herself: > Subj: FIRE WOES > Date: 96-10-10 14:02:15 edt > From: TheR0SIE > > HI EVERYONE > IT IS TRUE, A BIG FIRE IT WAS. THANKFULLY NO ONE WAS HURT. > HOWEVER, IT BLEW OUT THE ENTIRE ELECTRIC SYSTEM. > WE ARE HOPING TO BE UP ON MONDAY........ > THANKS FOR THE CONCERN > :) > ROSIE > Oh well... we'll just keep hoping to see our lady Etheridge some time soon - - Karen - - "The human heart, at whatever age, opens only to the heart that opens in return." -Maria Edgeworth- ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 14:07:00 +0100 From: Tim Dunker Subject: It`s only Love - ME + ba !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hello friends, watch out for the B side to Bryan Adam`s next single !!!!!!! YEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSS ME+ba - "It�s only love" (recorded at Wembley, this summer) Let me tell you it was a GREAT duet. I heard that it will be published in the US and probably in Europe, too. Bye Tim Dunker ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 10:19:14 EDT From: "Mary M. MacDonald" Subject: Sound and fury --- Sussan Simko wrote: I ended up sitting through both concerts with my fingers in my ears and trying to ignore that really uncomfortable feeling you get in your sternum from the bass being up *way* too loud. --- end of quoted material --- I always kind of *like* that sternal vibration feeling! I can sympathize about the eardrum agony, though. I had 19th row floor seats at the Montreal Forum in March, and I felt like those horrible worms from Star Trek were going to start crawling out of my ears any second. Joyce and Shirl, whom I was sitting next to, were very gracious and didn't comment on what must have been a *very* attractive look I resorted to: clumps of Kleenex in my ears. After I got that insulation system figured out, I enjoyed the sound immensely. I just had to forget how stupid I looked! -Mary [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 12:06:41 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: DC videos, hot temps, NTG video, no bay area dates yet Tracey Thacker said: >BAB'er Extraordinaire, Rhondda Ashby, a person I once liked, wrote: :-[ (imagine a big pouty lower lip) >This is because when I'm a top advisor to some key senator or the >president one day, the tapes will resurface and it will be some sort >of double standard goofball equivalent to Dick Morris' toe-sucking >bit. I'll be forced to resign in infamy, and will become tabloid >fodder for weeks. I just know it. LOL! you know i didn't think of that...hmmm, with this hypothetical scenario, i think you may have inadvertently increased the value of said video. it's now WAY out of my price range. ============================== John Miller said: >Yes, we've been setting heat records here in the Bay Area... >Tuesday's temperature in Monterey (which is right on the coast next >to the cold Pacific current) was 108 F (about 42 Celsius), which was >a record high, and tied with two *Death Valley* towns as hottest >places in the U.S. yeah, you know it's HOT when san francisco is hotter than san jose! thankfully, that pesky, obstinent high pressure system has moved along, and our infamous fog has returned to cool things off. ============================== Karrie Bowen said: >First of all, I hate that my favorite verse has been removed for >airplay sake..... agreed. >second of all, I just think it is so cheesy. >Please don't flame me, or hate me, but Julie, full of angst, bashing >up the windows of a house and running for the Grand Canyon in a fit >of "needing to escape?" I just don't buy it. It's really cliche. why? none of us (to the best of my knowledge) know what it's like to be a successful celebrity or the partner of a celebrity. sure, there are some distinct advantages: artistic freedom, no monetary concerns, etc. however, you have to pay for these with the lack of privacy and the constant intrusion into your personal life. quite a high price, i'd say. it's really not surprising to me that they've sold their house in the hollywood hills for some place more secluded. julie has a career in her own right, but how many "average joes or janes" even know that she's a director? i'd say most people know her as "the pregnant partner of melissa etheridge." for most, she is famous by association. >That's all. Flame away. flames aren't allowed, but disagreement is. there is a distinct difference. ============================== "Gilliland, Donna" delurked: >Please forgive me if this has been posted, but are concert dates for >the Bay Area available? Thank you. hey! a new bay area person! to answer your question, no dates for the bay area have been announced yet, but MLE did say in her AOL chat that she would be hitting california in december. i've also read reports that she would close out her U.S. tour in los angeles before the holidays. so, i'm guessing that MLE will be in the bay area in the 1st or 2nd week of december. in addition, based on the venues she's been playing at so far, i'd say MLE's bay area show will be at the san jose arena. *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 13:55:00 -0400 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: Happy, Happy Happy Coming Out Day to the members of my favorite list!!! Love, Jenny ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 18:37:41 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: As If This Weekend Won't Be Hard Enough *rhondda* and I are having waaaay tooo much fun at Tracy's expense: >>...if anyone can get a video of tracey doing the macarena, >>i know of at least one BAB'er who would pay BIG BUCKS ($$$$ for a copy. >>just what kind of BIG BUCKS ($$$$) are we talkin' here? >>name your price, beth. and Tracey could take no more: >>You know, I don't know how this started. ...suddenly I'm in corners, >>I'm being dared to do this stupid line dance, I've got a price out on >>videotape of me doing it, I'm being prodded to sing karaoke She's on the *run* now *rhondda* !!! Don't you wish you were gonna be here to see all of this? .....and I tried to *seduce* Shirl into attending the shindig : >> OH, I guess it's okay for you to get on a plane and go hang out with >> the BAB listers (no offense BAB!) to which Shirl taunted: >>Guess I shouldn't mention that I'm flying back out there for the >>Christmas holiday then now should I. You know Beth I hear there is a two >>for one airfare special going on? What is it that they say...put up or...:] ...*lol* two for one? Does that mean we get to share the same seat on the airplane? Thanks for the offer Shirl, but I'm trying to get some Houstonian babes (yes Jonti) to play hostess again. I've already been offered morning coffee, but I'm holding out for.... well, just never mind......*lol* See all you MElisters at the get together! ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 17:44:56 EDT From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: NMEC-Girl Scouts again Re-delurking.... On 10/10/96, I wrote: > This summer I was *quite blatantly* discriminated against by the >Girl Scouts of the USA because of the fact that I am lesbian. That event >got me to thinking, and several days ago, I talked with another lesbian >here on my college campus that has had a similar experience. > What I'd like to ask you is this: Has anybody else out there on this >list experienced discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation by the >Girl Scouts? I'm considering writing a book about it, and would like to >know the tenor of what's going on out there. I have received many reponses, most of which basically tell me that it was my fault I got fired; I shouldn't have been "flaunting" it... *PLEASE* - I've already dealt with enough homophobia!!!! To make a *long* story short, I was fired from my job at a Girl Scout Camp because a straight counselor came up to me and hugged me (our camp has no rules about staff hugging other staff if both parties are ok with it; I've seen the camp director hug many a counselor). My camp director, who knew I am lesbian saw it, and said that it was sexual misconduct on my part, *but*, not on the part of the straight counselor. Blatant? Quite. Now, if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go put my "Flaunting" T-shirt back on (I didn't even bring it to camp!) and go march in the streets screaming, "I'm A Dyke!" ;-D Happy Coming Out Day! Northland Mary, that dyke your troop leader warned you about [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 20:18:31 -0400 From: Francie Trout Subject: national coming out day To all who are gay or straight or are not too sure: HAPPY NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY! FRANCIE ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 21:07:53 -0400 From: Rosemary Subject: Chapel Hill Show Nov 11 Hi all, delurking for a sec to say I have my tickets to the Chapel Hill Show Nov 11 and wanted to see if anyone had made any plans for listees to meet anywhere before or after the concert? Rosemary Villa Diodati Music http://www.nternet.net/~albie (singer/songwriter Linda Dunn's home page and home of Villa Diodati Music) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 11 Oct 1996 23:31:24 +0000 From: Jan Subject: Re: Melissa & Julie moved [email protected] reported: > Drove by M & J's Sat pm on the way to a function in Hollywood, and to my > surpise..There was a moving van out front. We could see Julie in kitchen > keeping an eye on the movers. Oh well, so there went the only stars home > address I knew. Gee, perhaps they're moving because people keep driving by their house looking in their kitchen window????? Nah...that couldn't be it... ;-) Jan and Elaine ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 10 Oct 1996 to 11 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sun Oct 13 00:02:43 1996 Date: Sun, 13 Oct 1996 00:00:22 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 11 Oct 1996 to 12 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sat, 12 Oct 1996 12:43:42 -0400 From: Francie Trout Subject: Re: Melissa & Julie moved Jan & Elaine wrote: Gee, perhaps they're moving because people keep driving by their house looking in their kitchen window????? Nah...that couldn't be it... ;-) LOL...LOL...LOL...I would move if too many people drove past my house!! Francie ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 12 Oct 1996 16:02:37 EDT From: Christel Cogneau <[email protected]> Subject: Re: It's only love Tim Bunker wrote : >>YEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSS ME+ba - "It4s only love" (recorded at Wembley, this summer) Let me tell you it was a GREAT duet.>> I confirm that it was a great duet. Unfortunately, I wasn't in Wembley, I saw them in Belgium where they didn't sing together. Lucky me, a belgian radio played the whole concert of BA in Wembley, I recorded it and was amazed to hear the duet !!!! It was really great !!!! I keep listening to that track ! Bye, Christel ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 12 Oct 1996 16:21:22 -0400 From: Michele Marie Bench Subject: I Wish I Was Your Lover I just purchased an import/bootleg called "I Wish I Was Your Lover" from Oxygen records, and it contains the VH1 Duets concert as well ad 5 songs from YLS recorded in Italy last fall. The inside jacket has a photo of Melissa and what appears to be Julie together under a blanket and the quote "I never knew what love was. I was 15. What do you know? All you know is OK, I can talk to this person. Then flash forward two years later, I kiss my first girl, and fireworks go off, and music is playing. And then it's just clear." I'm not that familiar with photos of Julie - has anyone else seen the photo I'm referring to and can confirm it's her? Michele ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 12 Oct 1996 17:04:09 -0700 From: edgy Subject: 30 foot melissa in hollywood Driving down Sunset last night, the person I was with, staring upward, said, "look." I looked up at there was a 30 foot Melissa hovering over Hollywood. There she was, with a 30 foot Joan Osborne, and the caption, "We take great artists and make them huge!" Is this the lesbian chic version of Godzilla? of Honey I Blew Up the Kid? of Jurassic Park? OK, maybe not, but it *was* a pretty funky billboard advertising VH1. Allison, happily clad in new DKNY "I'm freezing to death in the warmth of your arms/ [email protected] Wasting my charm..." --Wild Colonials ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 12 Oct 1996 23:11:54 -0500 From: "Julie I. Lebaillif" Subject: I Wish I Was Your Lover I have seen this picture in the Rolling Stone article they did on Melissa last summer. The quotes under the picture you saw were from the the article and yes, it is Julie. Julie (& Olivier) ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 11 Oct 1996 to 12 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Mon Oct 14 00:12:38 1996 Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 00:09:42 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 12 Oct 1996 to 13 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sun, 13 Oct 1996 15:11:53 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: The DC Lister Gathering - Wow Greetings all, Without fanfare or ado, my highly parenthetical report on last evening's (was it just last night) DC area lister gathering: There was singing (though no karaoke), there was a little macarena-ing (actually a lot, but I was too fast for anyone to actually catch it on film :-P). There was food (what were the ingredients in those nachos, anyway?) there was fun. There were YLS album flats raffled off (and one of the winners picked her own name . . . hmmm. . . ) and the "Run Baby Run" boot was played ad nauseum (I think someone hit repeat and forgot about it). There were geography lessons mixed with algebra word problems (if you leave Albany at 1:00, travelling east at 55 miles an hour. . .). Pictures were taken and pictures were seen, (cute children in said pictures were ogled). There were discussions of grammar, horoscopes (I found out my sign - I never knew!), and the secret identity of a former MELister was revealed (though I'm not telling!). We found out that I spend a great deal of time near Gwen Shinko's former home, and that Beth Durff *walked* in front of and behind my house and admired it less than a week ago without either of us knowing it! We all marvelled at what a cute couple Gwen and Jen make (and the rhyming names don't hurt). And then, just to cap it all off and make the evening complete, I punched Elaine Naiman in the nose. And that's all true. And it was all over too quickly, with everyone returning to their separate corners of the world. I climbed into my ugly rented family Buick (an appropriate car for a granny, but not a "groovy granny") and followed Beth Durff (who honestly looks just like Ellen DeGeneres with dark hair - not Demi Moore, Gwen!) all the way to Frederick, then proceeded onto I-70, where I promptly blew out a tire on said ugly rental Buick and had to sit on the side of the road frightened of psychopaths until a nice state trooper came to my rescue. (I was never so glad to see a trooper in my rearview mirror!) But that did not sully my memory of a great evening. As I said, a DC Lister New Year's Party is already in the planning stages for my new digs (the yuppie box) in Laurel - (yes, you can come all the way up to Laurel from Virginia!) more on that after I finally move. Still in need of a nap, I shall sign off for now. . . Tracey Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I am refusing to comment, exercising my 5th amendment-given protections against self-incrimination. Thank you. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 13 Oct 1996 19:53:44 -0700 From: Randy Subject: Re: The DC Lister Gathering - Wow Tracey Thacker wrote: >Without fanfare or ado, my highly parenthetical report on last evening's >(was it just last night) DC area lister gathering: > And then, just to cap it all off and make the evening > complete, I punched Elaine Naiman in the nose. TELL US MORE!! >had to sit on the side of the road frightened of psychopaths until a nice >state trooper came to my rescue. (I was never so glad to see a trooper in my >rearview mirror!) I couldn't make the party because I already had tickets to a show in NYC at Radio City Music Hall. On the bus back to Pennsy a PSYCHO on the bus decided to get nasty and the driver had to pull over, call for another bus, AND a State Trooper to escort him away. The whole time (45 minutes) I'm listening to Melissa tunes, wishing I was at the party...3 cheers for State Troopers..hiphip hooray! hiphip hooray! hiphip hooray! >As I said, a DC Lister New Year's Party is already in the planning stages OK, I'm ready...when and where????? -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 13 Oct 1996 19:50:52 -0700 From: Jacky Abromitis Subject: NMEC: Key West I'll make this short. Does anyone know of a guest house or hotel that they could recommend in Key West. Email back privately. THANKS! Jacky ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 13 Oct 1996 21:11:58 -0500 From: "Julie I. Lebaillif" Subject: DC gathering Tracy, you punched Elaine in the nose????? You can't just leave it at that, we all want to know what happened!!!!! Elaine, what's your side of this story??? Come on, give! Julie & Olivier ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 12 Oct 1996 to 13 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Tue Oct 15 00:02:41 1996 Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 00:00:25 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 13 Oct 1996 to 14 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 06:32:33 -0400 From: Mike Lieman Subject: Re: Sound and fury At 10:19 AM 10/11/96 EDT, Mary M. MacDonald wrote: >I always kind of *like* that sternal vibration feeling! I've been trying to get Laurie to let me spring for the $ to re-create that S.V. feeling here, at home for a while now. (Maybe christmas-time!?!?) >I can sympathize about the eardrum agony, though. I had 19th row floor seats >at the Montreal Forum in March, and I felt like those horrible worms from Star >Trek were going to start crawling out of my ears any second. Joyce and Shirl, >whom I was sitting next to, were very gracious and didn't comment on what must >have been a *very* attractive look I resorted to: clumps of Kleenex in my ears. > >After I got that insulation system figured out, I enjoyed the sound immensely. >I just had to forget how stupid I looked! 2 notes here. I) I always bring a couple of pairs of the little roll up ear-stopples (-29dB) for just such an occasion. and B) Some venue's have acknowledged that this is a problem, and have their first-aid stations stock these ear-stopples, and will give them to you if you ask. If they don't, *strongly* suggest that they do. peace Mike ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 09:03:41 -0500 From: David Goodman Subject: Chicago show Melissa was in Chicago Sunday at the Rosemont Horizon. MEIN provided me with 2nd row center. I was quite pleased to say the least. Being that close was the best part of this show. I've been close but I've never had her head in my face as my hand is on her back until now. But more about that later.... The songs were pretty much the same. All of YLS, CTMW, ITOO, IIWT, SL, AAG, Resist, YIA from YIA, and MMITB, LMG, BMSW and LTWID from the other CDs. The sound was HORRIBLE. That pretty much ruined the show for me. I don't know how it was in back, but in the first few rows, you couldn't hear her voice or 12 string very well. She needs a sound man who understands stadiums. It was very dissappointing and everyone was talking about it. >From YLS, I thought NTG, SP and YLS all were great live. The version of ITOO was outstanding. During LTWID, she came down and leaned into me (and about 100 other people, but I rushed the stage first so I was in front) and I pretty much had the top of her head in my face and my hand on her back and a ton of hands reaching around me grabbing her. It was pretty cool. I thought the songlist was dissapointing. You would think she would throw the long time fans at least one rarely sung old song like PP or LSD. YLS is not a strong enough CD to sing every song from it and she's kidding herself if she thinks it is. The big successful stadium acts I've seen the last few years sing about 1/2 to 2/3 of their new CD but also add alot of old stuff. It was the most pure rock show I've seen her do. Very few slow songs and YIA was the only one done acoustically. Kenny Arnoff (sp) is an incredible addition to the band and I would be quite happy to be carried off stage by both him and Shanks and..... :-) ME looked great. Leather pants, black tshirt and blue jean shirt over the t-shirt. She looks like she's gained a little weight but I'm sure the road isn't the best for eating well. Her smile thoughout the show was very real, though she didn't seem to interact as much with the fans as she used to. She ignored things that people brought to her on stage. She used to always acknowledge gifts. The Tribune reported that she is definately playing Joplin in a movie to be made next summer. Also, I heard that in Milwakee, Bruce joined her onstage and they did Pink Cadillac. I hadn't heard that here. Dave ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 10:14:00 -0400 From: Deb Subject: No MLE on Rosie... :( Rosie just said that they weren't able to tape the MLE show because of the fire, and that MLE won't be able to come back because she's on tour. :( Rosie had baby presents for her and everything. I've been looking forward to this since I first hear that Rosie was going to have a show, how frustrating! -- Deb \\ [email protected] \\ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 10:21:01 -0400 From: "A.D.Eder" Subject: toledo concert report hello to all, just thought i would de-lurk to report on the ME toledo concert, that was sunday oct 13....IT WAS FANTASTIC!!!!!! my second time seeing ME and it was as good as good gets....her voice was so strong, so sensual, her music so full of passion...every moment was totally captivating! it was a very small venue, maybe about 1500 people, at the univ of toledo, no doubt i was one of her oldest fans there....actually drove an hour and a half from michigan...but it was a good crowd, totally into her! the song list was the same as has been mentioned for other recent concerts, but i must say...when she did "silent legacy"...and went down on that guitar...wow....i melted...and IWTCO....words fail to decribe how sexy she does that....and then there was a blues tune that was tough as hell...each song was done with her exquisite intensity...playing for 2 and a half hours...fashion report...black pants, black t-shirt, blue denim shirt over the t......the whole band was fantastic each being superb at their craft.....could have listened for at least two more hours...it's "never enough"..ME also did the small back stage thing for 4 songs...the whole band on this tiny little platform...just totally great...did 2 encores...LTWID, then TWIO...she had to be totally wiped out, what a woman!!!!!what an artist, so professional, so incredibly great....it was wonderful....once again...i willl never be the same...WOW! and that's it in a nutshell...peace...andrea ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 10:55:29 -0400 From: KELLY CONROY Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 12 Oct 1996 to 13 Oct 1996 To all of the gals who went to the gathering- You were such an inspiration to me. The past year or so hasn't been easy for me. It's good to see other lesbians living happy lives. Right now, it's difficult for me to accept that I am a lesbian. I've never felt more comfortable as I do at Melissa's concerts and especially at my first gathering. In fact, I felt so much better after Saturday that I began coming out to some of my friends at college. Thanks for being such an inspiration! Kelly :-) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 11:13:42 -0400 From: Toni Robinson Subject: >From: Tracey Thacker >names don't hurt). And then, just to cap it all off and make the evening >complete, I punched Elaine Naiman in the nose. Sounds like quite a party..But I hardly would have expected it to turn into a brawl! >And that's all true. Please don't tell us its not..I'm having too much fun picturing that. >From: Jacky Abromitis >Subject: NMEC: Key West > >I'll make this short. Does anyone know of a guest house or hotel that >they could recommend in Key West. Email back privately. I know you said privately, but everyone (who's interested) should check out the Women's Traveler (or was that Womyn's Traveler..?) available at any Lambda Rising, etc. There's also the Gay Yellow Pages, which lists lots of Guesthouses, etc. I remember there being LOTS of choices for Key West. Have fun! Toni ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 11:33:58 -0700 From: Jacky Abromitis Subject: NMEC: Bookstores Toni Robinson wrote: > I know you said privately, but everyone (who's interested) should check out > the Women's Traveler (or was that Womyn's Traveler..?) available at any > Lambda Rising, etc. Thanks, Toni. I've got Women's Traveller--and it *is* a great resource, but I was looking for personal recommendations (and I've gotten several, thanks everyone), rather than picking something out of the book. Also, I own Thunder Road Discount Books. I sell Women's Traveller for $10.75, as opposed to everyone else (Lambda Rising included) who sells it for $11.95. I sell ALL LESBIAN BOOKS, *all* discounted. Sorry, didn't mean to "advertise", but I HAD to respond :) Jacky ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 12:17:00 EDT From: "Ware, Lanette" Subject: AIDS Quilt in DC O-K, my .02 cents: Wasn't everything just incredible? From the quilt to the momentous evening candlelight vigil, to the taste of DC to the crowds! God, what an incredible amount of support and love and positiveness. I burned incense all the way down capitol hill and everyone mmmmed...... as we walked in silence. Something my friends and I all noticed, there was hardly any press and when I returned to NY my family said that there was hardly any coverage. Does anyone else find this odd? I looked for possible MElisters in the crowd but obviously an impossibility with all the wonderful distractions. Did everyone find eachother alright? I'm probably the only one back at work today - BIG question, I believe that I may have met two of you at a rest stop in Maryland. I was on line behind you both in the ladies room and there was all this LOVE, but I recognized one of you or so I thought from a picture I saw on a fellow MElister's web site. Outside of the restroom, you lost eachother and I sort of helped by pointing out which way the other went. Sound familiar? E-Mail me privately. I could have sworn I've seen your face. You both were wearing jeans and sweaters and I had on a brown suede jacket. [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 14:28:49 EST From: DOUG Subject: MLE and BA Greetings all, Glad to hear the DC gathering went so well. I, unfortunately, was unable to get to DC to see the quilt 8-( But, I had a good weekend with my ex-ex. I think it is now safe to say that I have a PIP again! Couple of questions/comments. First, the single by Bryan Adams with Melissa - is this the same song that he did back in the 80s with Tina Turner? If so, I don't know why he is rereleasing it but at least Melissa can do it justice. (not many people can take Tina's place!) Next, about the xfiles cd - personally, I wouldn't waste money on it. I love the show, but am not impressed with the 'soundtrack' - the only song worth listening to is the one by PM Dawn - in my opinion! Finally, how many of you have seen the new look for Reba McEntire? Didn't like it at first, but it has grown on me. Love the new song though! Well, gotta go! ooops...forgot something...Rosie was great today! She's using Letterman's place till her's is fixed. Not only did we miss Melissa because of the fire...we also missed Wynonna! Bye, Doug ps - Renee...I love ya! and John is back! "Like a child in the night with no one to hold you and tell you everything's gonna be alright..." -from "Fear of Being Alone" by Reba McEntire Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 12:55:16 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: DC groovy post-shindig bribery... Tracey Thacker , super-mommy, said: >There was singing (though no karaoke), there was a little >macarena-ing (actually a lot, but I was too fast for anyone to >actually catch it on film :-P). like i believe *you*! uh, beth, can you corroborate this? >There were YLS album flats raffled off (and one of the winners >picked her own name . . . hmmm. . . ) a rigged raffle? say it ain't so! >And then, just to cap it all off and make the evening complete, I >punched Elaine Naiman in the nose. forget the macarena extortion tape - i *need* this on tape! :-D *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 17:24:08 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: Finally !!! I saw her I FINALLY saw her in concert! It was so great, she really put on a good show. Does anyone have an opinion on why she didn't play 2001? Also, I thought her band was great. The drummer just amazed me. Roger ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 15:25:58 -0700 From: KJJ Subject: Melissa in New Mexico Hope no one has posted this yet, but for all those New Mexican = MLElisters (if there are any other than me) . . . Melissa will be at = Tingley on November 27!!! Yes, the day before Thanksgiving. Tickets go = on-sale at Ticketmaster on Saturday. No word from M.E.I.N., yet. ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 17:28:48 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: Re: I Wish I Was Your Lover On Sat, 12 Oct 1996, Michele Marie Bench wrote: > I just purchased an import/bootleg called "I Wish I Was Your Lover" from > Oxygen records, and it contains the VH1 Duets concert as well ad 5 songs > from YLS recorded in Italy last fall. The inside jacket has a photo of > Melissa and what appears to be Julie together under a blanket and the quote > "I never knew what love was. I was 15. What do you know? All you know is > OK, I can talk to this person. Then flash forward two years later, I kiss > my first girl, and fireworks go off, and music is playing. And then it's > just clear." I'm not that familiar with photos of Julie - has anyone else > seen the photo I'm referring to and can confirm it's her? > Michele > Yeah, this is the one that I bought!!! Isn't it great!! How much did you buy it for? Roger ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 17:36:04 -0700 From: Jacky Abromitis Subject: ITOO actress Does anyone know who played the lead in the ITOO video. Yesterday, my girlfriend and I saw _Bound_ -- a new movie with some lesbian content. The lead, Gina Gershon, looked *very* much like the woman in the ITOO video. I've checked out the Gershon web page ( http://student.uci.agh.edu.pl/~teguila/gina.html ), but there's nothing in her bio. about any music videos. Jacky ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 17:52:27 -0400 From: Loretta Myers Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 12 Oct 1996 to 13 Oct 1996 In a message dated 96-10-14 00:22:25 EDT, you write: << I punched Elaine Naiman in the nose. >> Please don't drive us all crazy (as if some of us weren't already). You or Elaine should tell us what happened. Or is that going to be "Your Little Secret?" This is my first time to post, and I don't know what in the heck I"m doing. BTW, Did she punch you back? Nah, I'll bet the whole thing was an accident and really civil. Loretta ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 14:57:30 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Melissa wins GLAMA I've been having a lot of email trouble for the last two weeks (both sending and receiving), so I don't know if this has been posted yet: ---- The 1st Annual Gay/Lesbian American Music Awards were presented on Sunday, October 6 in New York. Melissa was named Female Artist for her work on 'Yes I Am'. In a pre-taped announcement, Melissa (who was performing in Moline, Illinois that night), said she was honored to be given the GLAMA in this historic first year. ---- Other artists occasionally mentioned on this list also received awards: FERRON (one of my long-time favorites) was given the Outmusic Award, a special award given for continuing commitment to speak openly and directly to the gay/lesbian community. Ferron performed two songs from her new release 'Still Riot' and was presented with her award by comic Kate Clinton. She is currently on tour (I will be seeing her early November), and I would be happy to send her tour schedule to anyone who contacts me... private email only, please. CATIE CURTIS received two awards (Out Recording and Out Song) and opened the ceremonies by singing 'Radical' from her current album. The 2nd Annual GLAMA's will take place in New York Oct 5, 1997. John Miller - [email protected] San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 18:11:38 -0700 From: Randy Subject: Punch in the nose > BTW, Did she punch you back? Nah, I'll bet the whole thing was an accident > and really civil. Somehow I kinda doubt it...:) -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 18:07:05 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: Re: DC gathering Julie I. Lebaillif (formerly Julie Costa - congrats to you & Oliver!) wrote: >Tracy, you punched Elaine in the nose????? You can't just leave it at that, >we all want to know what happened!!!!! >Elaine, what's your side of this story??? Come on, give! And Randy ([email protected]) demanded: >TELL US MORE!! Well, I'm not speaking for Elaine, and I think I'll refrain from digging myself any holes. My sig says all I am going to say. Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I am refusing to comment, exercising my 5th amendment-given protections against self-incrimination. Thank you. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 18:33:26 -0700 From: Randy Subject: Re: DC gathering Tracey Thacker wrote: > Well, I'm not speaking for Elaine, and I think I'll refrain from digging > myself any holes. My sig says all I am going to say. > I am refusing to comment, exercising my > 5th amendment-given protections against > self-incrimination. Thank you. But Tracey, you started this, you dug the first hole...you opened your big mouth first...don't tease. DETAILS, DETAILS! -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 18:25:46 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: R&R hall of fame Does anyone know how many songs ME played at the Hall of Fame concert? I would like to get a good recording of that, I saw her on the Concert CD but she only has 3 songs on that, I wasn't sure if that is all she did. Roger ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 18:31:37 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: DC gathering, Janis film I will second Tracey's comment that the recent DC gathering ended way to soon. She did a pretty good job of covering all of the highlights, but I just wanted to add my 2 cents... Tracey did do the macarena - a seated version - several times....but she was just too darned fast to be documented on film. Yes, there were geography lessons mixed with algebra word problems (if you leave Albany at 1:00, travelling east at 55 miles an hour. . .). BUT if we can't pass an *English* test, how do you think we did on the other problems? Weirdest moment: I was in Pittsburgh a week ago on business, but I also did some sightseeing. Now wait - that's not the weird part okay? I'm getting to that part... While I was there, I absolutely fell in love with this gorgeous victorian house that I had seen in Mt. Washington. During the DC get together, Tracey and Gwen are having this conversation regarding Pittsburgh - and I said "Oh, I was in Pittsburgh this past weekend".... and well, one question led to another - and the first thing you know, I find out that I was standing in front of Tracey's house less than a week ago and never knew it. I didn't know that Tracey even lived in Pittsburgh. Now is that weird or what? It just goes to show you that whenever you are travelling, you should always give a shout to the list and let people know. If you enjoy meeting fellow listers, it seems like you don't have to wander very far to run into each other *lol* Scariest moment: At the end of the evening, who's left but me, Tracey, Gwen and Jen. Tracey turns to Gwen and says, "Who does she look like?" (referring to me). Gwen doesn't know. "Make her blond" Tracey says, but Gwen still doesn't know. Tracey goes - ELLEN !! And I am like, "What? No Way." Then Gwen decides no, I *do not* look like Ellen - I look like Demi Moore with short hair - especially (she's saying to Tracey) in the eyes... Still, I am saying "Are you nuts?" And the thing is, I don't think either one of them were even drinking !!! So imagine if you will, some kind of genetic mutation - that's right folks... close your eyes and try to picture what the offspring would look like if Ellen Degeneres mated with Demi Moore.... That's right - *me* !! From here on out, I will also be known as Ellen Moore (EM for short) or Demi Degeneres (that's DD for short) *lol*.... and I *prefer* the latter, thank you very much Anyway, it never ceases to amaze me what a great time we have together (I hope) when we meet other listers. We may come from different backgrounds - we may have different points of view... but the one thing that we have in common that draws us all together, is the fact that we are all Melissa fans. That to me, is very powerful - and I appreciate it very much. But enough of this pondering.... On another quick note, I jumped in the ole' Honda yesterday, started the car, and the Rick Dees Weekly Top 40 countdown was on the radio. Nowhere To Go was playing (#20 btw), and Dees said that shooting on the Janis Joplin film (starring Melissa) will begin on February 1st. I don't know how many people went to the DC area gathering - I'm guessing 20 something... Gwen? Anyway, to those I met for the first time - and to the others who I had met before - thanks everybody ! I had a great time ! A big thanks to our hostess extraordinaire - the one - the only - (drum roll please) Gwen Shinko - otherwise known as "doe eyes" . Glad you got home safely Tracey - in spite of the flat tire !!! How's your nose Elaine? Take care everybody. Beth (the Honda drivin', smooth talkin', Ellen/Demi lookin' like, chick magnet) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 19:13:16 -0400 From: Elizabeth Meadows Subject: NMEC: lesbian moms needed I know I've been only lurking for the most part lately, and feel kind of bad abt posting with a request, but here goes: a friend of mine is desperately trying to finish her dissertation and needs only a few more subjects. Her diss is on "Relationship of Lesbian Identity Development to two-Parent Lesbian Families." Her criteria for subjects are: 1. had child/children PRIOR to coming out 2. Have at least one child at home currently 3. are currently in a lesbian relationship of at least one and a half years and 4. live on the East Coast (her committee wouldn't let her do it nationally cos they were afraid there'd be too much geographical variance...) If you're interested in participating, she'd LOVE to hear from you. Participation is confidential, and involves filling out three questionnaires (total is abt 45 minutes). To volunteer, or for more info, you can reach her directly at [email protected] or call her either at 215-248-9446, or you can call collect at 215-248-2218. Her name's Wendy Caplin, and I'm happy to vouch for her (I've even read part of her intro...). Thanks! - Elizabeth :) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 16:46:26 -0700 From: "Sheri Yamada (Entex)" Subject: San Francisco - 4 chicks on the loose ATTENTION BAY AREA GROUP --- Howdy! I'm going to take trip down there this weekend and was wondering if you could help me out by suggesting places to go and things to do? I'm going to go to the Bread and Roses benefit in which the Indigo Girls, Joan Baez, and Dar Williams will be performing at Alcatraz! I've been to S.F. a few times and we usually end up hanging out in Castro, going to Ghiradelli, Fisherman's Wharf, etc.. Basically, in the downtown area or close by. We'll have a car so we'll be able to navigate around ok. 4 women will be on the loose and we'd like to go to a club or two. Can you suggest some any? We prefer Gay/lesbian and/or just Women's bars. If you could not only tell me the name of the bar, approximate location, and best night to go to the particular bar (Thursday, Friday, or Saturday - I know crowds will vary depending upon which night you go) I'd really appreciate it! Next BIG favor....... I will be on the hunt for good stores or places where I can find Melissa and Indigo Girls boots/imports, posters, pictures, memorabilia, or just about anything that has to do with them. If I remember correctly, I remember reading some previous posts about someone who has a "stand" or shop that would put any ME or IG fans in their glory. If anyone has any suggestions please reveal your sources! 8-) Please disregard if you don't support the idea of buying boots - I don't want to start a buy boots or don't buy boots war. *<8-) I'll check my email up throug Wednesday PM, so pleeeeaaassseeee send me the scoop on S.F. if you've got it. Thanks and Peace everybody! Sheri ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 20:53:17 -0400 From: Francie Trout Subject: Re: No MLE on Rosie... :( Deb, I guess it wasn't to be with Melissa on Rosie! I am sure Rosie will get her on the show soon! :) Francie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 09:37:16 +0800 From: Mardi Subject: DC Gathering > I punched Elaine Naiman in the nose. Mate, you shouldn't have told us that...now everyone is going to be lining up!!! (Elaine, friends remember?? Ducking , running for cover) Gee, I think we missed out at the Bay Area do..I didn't get to hit anyone..nor was anyone offered up for me to hit. Now I'm depressed. Mardi who now has a Sistablue home page... http//:emedia.com.au/wamusic/sistablue ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 22:39:49 -0400 From: Dan Cohen Subject: Toledo concert report. This weekend I drove from Toronto to Toledo for Melissa's concert there. The venue was at the University of Toledo's basketball arena. I met Sue DeYoung at the concert (hi Sue!). I really enjoyed meeting Sue and talking to her. Our seats were 5th row center -- really great! The Toledo concert. Here's my personal impression: The 3 Torsos: Before the concert started, the 3 torsos were clothed in white swaddling cloth. Naturally, as soon as Melissa and the boys started, I didn't watch the torsos, but the next time I looked the torsos were naked again. What does it mean? I donno! The audience: I think that a lot of the audience were university kids, coming to see a "rock concert". I think that a lot of them didn't really know how to take Melissa's music at first. Well, during the concert, Melissa had a lot to say about growing up in a small town, as she often does. Her patter was very appropriate in the young audience -- I think it "broke the ice" with the kids, you could see them loosen up and enjoy the show a little bit more. Those laser eyes: >From where I stood, I had a really good view of her face during the whole show -- really dynamic, I love the way her hair swirls, and her eyes shine. Yes folks, the laser eyes are real. They sparked on and on during the evening. But I saw more. Each laser is set in a steel rim, and the rims glisten when she moves her head, not in sync with the lasers. Personal Contact: In one of the last songs of the show (sorry I can't remember which song) Melissa was singing with her mike, no guitar. When she approached the edge of the stage, all the radical fans there where reaching up to touch her. She half-dived, half-kneeled into the reaching arms, and was engulfed by them. She was still singing, though I thought her voice broke up a couple of times. John had his turn, too. During one of his solos, he kneeled on the edge of the stage, within reach. It looked like he invited the fans there to touch him and his wild guitar. They did. John's Finale (TWIO): At the end of John's wild riffs, he started to tear the strings from his guitar, just like I saw him do at the Darien Lake concert. It wasn't working, they wouldn't go. Finally he gave a mighty heave, and pulled them all out. He threw the useless guitar across the stage, and a roady caught it and saved it. Phew! -- Dan ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 23:19:21 +0000 From: Jan Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 12 Oct 1996 to 13 Oct 1996 Tracey Thacker bragged: >> And then, just to cap it all off and make the evening >> complete, I punched Elaine Naiman in the nose. I notice that you didn't mention what I did to you. ;-) Elaine ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 13 Oct 1996 to 14 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Tue Oct 15 22:43:46 1996 Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 22:41:24 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 14 Oct 1996 to 15 Oct 1996 - Special issue To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 00:23:49 -0400 From: Redsocks Subject: Re: ITOO actress Jacky A. wrote: >Does anyone know who played the lead in the ITOO video. Yesterday, my >girlfriend and I saw _Bound_ -- a new movie with some lesbian content. >The lead, Gina Gershon, looked *very* much like the woman in the ITOO >video. I've checked out the Gershon web page ( >http://student.uci.agh.edu.pl/~teguila/gina.html ), but there's nothing >in her bio. about any music videos. Hmmm ... it's been a while since I've seen the video, but I don't think it's her. How was "Bound"? -- Redsocks (no, I'm not from Boston) [email protected] http://www.li.net/~matthewb/ Epistulam transmitto, ergo sum (I e-mail, therefore I am). ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 00:44:57 -0500 From: Anne Haines Subject: Indy show this Friday If anybody's going to the Indianapolis (Indiana) (U.S. ;) show this Friday night, and wants to get together afterwards, email me privately. Yeah, I'm going after all... a friend talked me into it. :) She's not much of a late-night person, so I'm not sure if we'll be up for much after the show, but I have a diabetic cat who has to have his insulin shot no earlier than 6 pm, so we won't be getting there much before the show... so after will be the only chance to meet anyone. Thinking of MLE's shows I've seen in southern Indiana, and her occasional duets with Bruce, I wonder if she's ever considered hooking up with John Mellencamp for a duet? I mean, he *does* live here. I'm not the biggest Mellencamp fan in the world, but I do think their voices would probably work together pretty well. And I really hate the song "Hurts So Good," but y'know, I can sure imagine the two of them doing that one for some reason. Eek! Anyway, now that Kenny Aronoff is with MLE's band, I'm not sure if there's more or less of a chance of Mellencamp showing up... haven't heard the whole scoop on whether Aronoff departed the Mellencamp band on good terms, or what. Just rambling... Anne in Indiana (who was just diagnosed with plantar fasciitis [translate: my foot hurts like a %*#&@] and shouldn't even THINK about standing up for almost 3 hours at a concert, but will do it anyway and suffer later!) %*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*% "If truth is beauty, how come no one has their hair done in the library?" --Lily Tomlin %*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*% http://ezinfo.ucs.indiana.edu/~ahaines/ %*%*%*%*%*%*%*%*% ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 10:45:18 +0200 From: Yvonne Hendricks Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 13 Oct 1996 to 14 Oct 1996 Kelly wrote: >To all of the gals who went to the gathering- > > You were such an inspiration to me. The past year or so hasn't been easy >for me. It's good to see other lesbians living happy lives. Right now, it's >difficult for me to accept that I am a lesbian. I've never felt more >comfortable as I do at Melissa's concerts and especially at my first gathering. >In fact, I felt so much better after Saturday that I began coming out to some >of my friends at college. Thanks for being such an inspiration! > > Kelly :-) > Hi Kelly, Although your mail wasn't actualy directed to me (I don't even know which gathering you mean, since I'm Dutch). I just wanna say hang in there. I know what your going through, when I admitted to myself that I feel what I feel (after being in a relationship of 7 years with a guy), I was very scared. I didn't know what to do. But I think that once you acknowledged the fact that you're a lesbian, you are halfway there. Maybe you think that I have easy talking being a Dutch girl and in Holland gays and lesbians are more excepted than in any other country, but we have parents and friends to and not everybody is that easy.. Now I'm halfway out of the closset, most of my friends know it, my sister knows it. Only my parents don't (yet) and the people I work with don't. I must say that I feel more myself now and that I have an opportunity to finaly be realy happy. I can assure you that you will feel more at ease after a while. Just be who you are, and have an attitude like: 'what you see is what you get, if you don't like what you see then get..(got it from you americans, I think). And know that you are who you are, straight or lesbian it does not change who you are. It might change how you think about certain aspects in this world, but that is it. Bye, Yvonne. Speak True. M.E. Yvonne Hendricks TNO-TPD-TU Instrumentatie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 07:17:18 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Re: Columbus & Cincy! Hello My Beautiful Melisters! Finally a quiet moment to sit back and reflect. First off all I want to say what great comfort Melissa has given me with her warmth and music. As you all know I was on vacation last week and very eager to make it to both concerts and meet some of the Melisters ( Hi! Michelle And Beth And Joyce And Lisa L. :) My week started off very sadly with the passing away of my grandmother on Monday evening. This was my Mothers Mother and the last grandparent I had left. Needless to say I was a very sad bear and still am but I knew I had to make the concerts and so I did knowing grandma would want me too and so it began. I got to meet some very lovely people and share some brief but warm moments and then the concert began. Melissas music touched me in a way that healed and soothed and made me know that we never walk alone nor loose those we love as long as our hearts and minds are filled with memories and love. I wanted to say "Thank You" to Melissa for a brief moment in time I got to feel love and compassion and know that in our darkest hours, music can lift our hearts and make our eyes shine. And I truly beleive she wants us to speak true and live in peace and harmony with one another. She definitely rocks and is one with her audience. I got as close as I probably ever will though no guitar pick came my way, ( dang it ) I still beleive one day one will. Just to be able to see her smile and feel her warmth flow through her music was good enough for me. Melissa definitely knows how to play with those eyes. Ms. Julie is one lucky woman. I have to say from my observation that the Columbus concert was better and she is more at home there. I think the crowd there is warmer. So there you have it I loved both concerts and thought my money was definitely well spent and MEIN gave great seats. I have met Melisters and basked in the warmth of Melissas music. Life is but a brief moment in history for most of us. If we can touch someones heart and make them smile in their darkest hour, what more is there? If ever we find ourselves alone with darkness seaping in there is a candle that shines bright and from it comes healing and warmth and hope. Melissa and her music is that candle and the warmth that flows forth is consoling and I for one am ever thankful to have briefly been close to that flame. Have a warm day. Sincerely, "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 08:50:15 -0400 From: Subject: Returning to earth Well, I thought a week away from this list would be the death of me. Not so my friends. I just got back from spending a week on the MEIN Melissa Tour package in Ohio. I met 64 other truly obsessed folks and just immersed myself in the atmosphere. Words cannot express...I think the highlight was in Cleveland. I took up a collection from tour members and bought two dozen long stemmed roses for Melissa. They were delivered to her back stage before the concert. Then, during the show, she took time to thank us (the light bright people who had dogged her all that week...) for the flowers. Melissa never fails to touch me where I am most vulnerable, the heart. Reality has a very harsh touch today. If you ever have the chance (and the bucks) I strongly recommend taking up one of the tour packages. It is a great way to go all the way to heaven for even a short period of time. A whole new group of friends made via Melissa and her music. I consider myself blessed. Take care, SueD PS Hi Dan, glad to hear you got home all right. Your take on the crowd in Toledo seems perfect. Maybe a new batch of fans resulted from her show. We can only hope! ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 09:02:25 EDT From: DarLena J Gallion Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 10 Oct 1996 to 11 Oct 1996 Hi all, is there anyone on the group who knows the Dean Dome in Chapel Hill very well? I have two tickets in section 107 - row A. I am hoping that this section is right up on front row. Or at least in close range to our Lady Etheridge. Although I,m sure I would enjoy the show in any section. Then again how could one not..............DarLena ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 09:03:07 CDT From: Elizabeth Burns Subject: Austin ME concert tickets For all interested people, tickets for the ME show on November 15th in Austin, Texas go on sale Friday-18 Oct. It's official!! ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 09:53:09 EST From: "Diane M. Brundige" Subject: Returning to earth - YEEE HAAA!! That does it, we're going! Karen and I have been hoping a tour would come along. We thought our chances were gone when there wasn't one for the East Coast and then we couldn't make Ohio's. Well, YEEE HAAA, we're going to Texas! We're making the final arrangements today (like, hopefully getting time off from work). Okay all you Texans, we arrive in Austin on 11/15 and depart from Houston on 11/19. Did I hear Fajita Fest in November???? ;) We don't know all the details yet, but will post once we do. WE're hoping we'll get a chance to meet more wonderful Melissa fans! KIP, Diane (& Karen) ______________________________ Forward Header __________________________________ Subject: Returning to earth Author: "Deyoung, Susan @ GNPMO (LI-JUPITER DIRSYNC)" at INTERNET Date: 10/15/96 8:56 AM Well, I thought a week away from this list would be the death of me. Not so my friends. I just got back from spending a week on the MEIN Melissa Tour package in Ohio. I met 64 other truly obsessed folks and just immersed myself in the atmosphere. Words cannot express.... Reality has a very harsh touch today. If you ever have the chance (and the bucks) I strongly recommend taking up one of the tour packages. It is a great way to go all the way to heaven for even a short period of time. The following is an attached File item from cc:Mail. It contains information that had to be encoded to ensure successful transmission through various mail systems. To decode the file use the UUDECODE program. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 10:19:44 -0400 From: Michael Bunch Subject: "JANIS" - Film Update Hi All, I don't know if this is good news but I just found the following article in the October 18 issue of Entertainment Weekly: *** Actress Lilli Taylor (I Shot Andy Warhol), 28 and singer Melissa Etheridge, 35, will vie for a piece of moviegoers' hearts in two films about Drano-voiced blues-rock legend Janis Joplin. Taylor headlines TriStar's authorized version based on the 1992 book "Love, Janis" by the late singer's sister; Laura. Etheridge has the title role in Lakeshore Entertainment's unauthorized and as-yet-untitled film, being penned by Etheridge's pregnant lover, Julie Cypher. (Wonder which version will deal with Joplin's reported lesbianism?) Etheridge will sing the diva's songs herself, while Taylor will lip-synch to original recordings. Both movies are set to begin shooting in 1997. *** Well there went my hopes for a definitive Joplin biopic. Although the Lili Taylor project does sounds interesting. Did anyone read "Love, Janis? Comments? And at least the Etheridge soundtrack will be a keeper. As far as Julie doing the script, I have just two words, "Theresa's Tattoo" Michael PS...Did anyone find the scoop on the VH-1 Special, LEGENDS: Janis Joplin? I emailed them but heard nothing back :-( ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 12:00:18 -0400 From: "Eidel Lisa Consultant (Temp)" Subject: Melissa on Newsweek? Hi everyone! I'm new to the list and have been enjoying these daily updates. My name is Lisa and I'm 28 years old and I live in New Jersey. I've been a fan since 1988 and am grateful that there is a way to communicate with other Melissa fans. I do have a question that I hope someone can answer. Does anyone know if Melissa appeared on the front cover of Newsweek magazine in September? MEIN said the article was to be about either gay marriage or gay couples having children (I forgot which one) and that the issue was to be the September 23rd issue. I was just given that issue by a co-worker and Melissa is not on the cover. By, the way are there any meetings of listers in the New York City / New Jersey area planned? Talk to y'all soon. Lisa [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 23:17:38 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: yeah, it's silly, but... ..you still might want to read this. in the latest issue of "premiere" (november 1996), in its "hollywoodland - the american president" feature, the magazine asked bill maher (host of "politically incorrect"), jon stewart (comedian, former talk-show host, actor), chris rock (actor-comedian, comedy central's campaign correspondent), and kennedy (MTV veejay and avowed republican) who they would cast in a hypothetical movie based on the 1996 presidential election, using real-life characters and real names. in the role of hillary clinton, bill maher would cast: ellen degeneres, melissa etheridge, gerard depardieu, or steve buscemi. :-D i should mention that bill maher also said that steve buscemi could portray bill clinton, bob dole, elizabeth dole, or ross perot. my favorite choices were by jon stewart, though. charles durning as bill clinton nathan lane as hillary clinton norm macdonald as bob dole harvey fierstein as elizabeth dole linda hunt as ross perot *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 11:36:51 -0500 From: Ruth Davis Subject: Re: Indy Well, we are getting ready to party in Indy! I wonder if someone could answer some questions for me. How many MEIN tickets were sold for Indy? Where is the will-call window at MSA? What is the start time? Is anyone going to meet before or after? We will be coming from Lafayette and are planning to spend the night and visit the Gaia Winery on Saturday. I'm hoping to finally see those ever-popular purple bowling shirts! Thanks ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 14:41:07 -0400 From: Kelley Piper Subject: Re: ITOO actress > Jacky A. wrote: > > >Does anyone know who played the lead in the ITOO video. Yesterday, my > >girlfriend and I saw _Bound_ -- a new movie with some lesbian content. > >The lead, Gina Gershon, looked *very* much like the woman in the ITOO > >video. I've checked out the Gershon web page ( > >http://student.uci.agh.edu.pl/~teguila/gina.html ), but there's nothing > >in her bio. about any music videos. I heard in an interview on a talk show (can't remembre which one right now) that they found everyone in the video by going around to different clubs and asking people if they wanted to be in the video, so I really doubt it's her... Okay...back to lurking... > kelley ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Visit "Kelley's Melissa Etheridge Page": http://clever.net/lounge or my homepage: http://www.wam.umd.edu/~lounge ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "So if I am not who you thought I was/ Well hello/ It's nice to meet you" ---Melissa Ferrick "Willing to Wait"--- ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 15:08:05 -0400 Subject: Ticket available (fwd) From: Cathi Deyo I have one extra ticket--MEIN--for tonights show (10/15) in Kalamazoo MI. If anyone is going and needing one ticket, meet me at the will call window--I'll be wearing a pink plaid shirt. First person takes it. Cathi Children should be seen...and heard....and believed!! ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 16:17:32 -0400 From: audrey Subject: Leah Andreone in Boston Hi all, thought you Bostonians might be interested to know Leah Andreone is appearing next Tuesday nite at the Kendall Cafe, 8 p.m. It's a free show too! Well to make this slightly MLE connected, John Shanks appears in the credits of Veiled as doing some of her guitar work! FWIW... - - Audrey - - "Now that my barn has burnt to the ground I can finally see the stars" help://www.caughtinweb.can'tgetout. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 19:48:00 +0100 From: Tim Dunker Subject: MLE and BA Hello, DOUG asked yesterday this question: >Couple of questions/comments. First, the single by Bryan Adams with >Melissa - is this the same song that he did back in the 80s with Tina >Turner? The answer is Yes. Bye Tim ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 18:08:16 -0400 From: Martha Merrill Subject: Melissa in Atlanta Does anyone have any information about MLE doing her show at the OMNI in Atlanta this fall? My girlfriend and I were in Atlanta this weekend and heard something on the radio about it, but couldn't hear the dates or times. Bummer! I've tried all day to get to Ticketmaster, but their line is busy all day. :( Please email me with details. A dozen wild women are dying to go. Thanks. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 18:44:49 EDT From: "Sue Morzajew, McGill University" Subject: Info on Miami show... Hi All, SueM here in Montreal. Even though I've been very quiet in the past few months, I have been very attentive to all the chat on the list and my oh my, I am as amused as ever. Little Lady, congrats on your purchase. I should remind you though that that vehicle won't make the drive to my house in the midst of winter easy. I mean you have planned a trip to Montreal haven't you? The supply of XXX must be getting real low!!! BTW, what are your plans for Thanksgiving weekend? I'm thinking that maybe we could so breakfast somewhere between NYC and Kutztown... Shirt Gal, are you headed home for anytime soon? I think you mentioned that on the phone a while back... And do you still want me to deliver the shirt to our radio announcer friend? I'm up to it these days... Now, for the real reason for this post. I would very much like to take my PIP to see Melissa in Miami on Nov 01/96. The venue, according to MEIN, is the "Miami Beach Convention Center". Well, I've never been to Miami, never even been to Florida. So, does anyone here have any info on this place? Any idea where (besides MEIN) I can get some good seats? I hope that we will spend the weekend in Miami, so is there anything other than the concert I could look forward to? Any help/info would be appreciated... Oh, for those of you that know my PIP - Kim - I am planning this as a surprise weekend trip for us. It would be a real change for us considering that we spend most of our weekends driving north/south on I87 between Montreal and Albany! Take care! ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 12:14:39 -0400 From: Mike Lieman Subject: Re: Chicago show At 09:03 AM 10/14/96 -0500, David Goodman wrote: >Melissa was in Chicago Sunday at the Rosemont Horizon. Ahh!, The Rosie Hor. !!! >The sound was HORRIBLE. That pretty much ruined the >show for me. I don't know how it was in back, but >in the first few rows, you couldn't hear her >voice or 12 string very well. She needs a sound man >who understands stadiums. It was very dissappointing >and everyone was talking about it. Even Dan Healy had trouble w/ the Hor., don't be tooo critical 'cause the FOH Engineer (anyone got a name for us???) had trouble there. OTOH, Check out Dave Matthews Band if you want to hear good PA, or the Allmans. peace Mike ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 19:15:43 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: DC gathering, Toledo concert, my new homepage Tracey said: >>There was singing (though no karaoke), there was a little >>macarena-ing (actually a lot, but I was too fast for anyone to >>actually catch it on film :-P). and Rhondda wrote:> >like i believe *you*! uh, beth, can you corroborate this? Actually people were much more *behaved* than I had anticipated , although Dina and I almost launched into what would have been a very memorable food fight *lol*. As far as Tracey goes, she is *quite* talented - singing and macarena-ing on several occasions... but she was just too darned fast for film - you just had to be there. Sorry, but we *did* try - honest! then Tracey opened up a real can of worms: >>...just to cap it all off and make the evening complete, I punched >>Elaine Naiman in the nose. and Rhondda wrote: >forget the macarena extortion tape - i *need* this on tape! :-D and Mardi wrote: >Mate, you shouldn't have told us that...now everyone is going to be lining up!!! ...and I don't know how many other people wrote about that little comment... my lips are SEALED... do not attempt to bribe me or pump me for information! (no little comments on that figure of speech ok?) This is between Elaine and Tracey . I will say that Elaine is *really* a very nice person, and she cooperated fully with Tracey when it came time to land the punch. That's all I'm saying !! I like Elaine. more gathering stuff, Kelly wrote: >to all of the gals who went to the gathering- >You were such an inspiration to me. Right now, it's difficult for me to >accept that I am a lesbian. I've never felt more comfortable as I do at >Melissa's concerts and especially at my first gathering. In fact, I felt >so much better after Saturday that I began coming out to some of my >friends at college. Thanks for being such an inspiration! MELISSA POWER !!!! Good for you! Just remember that not everyone on this list (and/or meeting each other) is gay and female ! BTW Kelly, I get you two NY girls mixed up - are you the blond? and Andrea wrote about the Toledo concert: >...but i must say...when she did "silent legacy"...and went down on >that guitar...wow....i melted... Always my *favorite* part too !!! - me and a couple of thousand other people... Last but not least...I have a homepage folks. That's right, big blue PSU gave every faculty, staff, and student at least 1 MB of space for a home page. Right now, there's not a d*mn thing on it but what they've already set up for me. I am relatively illiterate in the everyday world , so you can imagine the fun I'm gonna have playing in html-ese. I'm trying to get Shirl, Z topless girl, to swing that new little Honda my way and lend a hand - but so far she's ignoring me ... So, if you have tips about all those html "editor things" and how to get pics on my page, etc. - drop me a line... maybe you know good places on the net to find resource material? Thanks ! Beth ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 20:38:50 -0400 From: Dan Cohen Subject: Keep the peace In every concert, Melissa says: "Be strong. Speak true. Keep the peace." The first 2 commands, "Be strong. Speak true", I understand perfectly. But I'm confused by "Keep the peace". I don't know if the phrase means something in particular. How should you "keep" the peace? What "peace" are we refering too? Does the phrase originate in some story, in American folklore? Or is this really just what it looks like -- a general "be good"? You may think I'm being dense on this one, but I'm such a logical guy -- my brain won't leave me in "peace" -- I gotta know exactly! Help? -- Dan ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 19:56:10 -0500 From: "Karen D. Chisholm" Subject: Memphis show Is anyone from the list going to the November 23 show in Memphis, Tennessee? I do not think tickets are on sale yet but if anyone is planning to attend lets meet up somewhere. E-mail me privately and we can discuss it. kdc ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 20:52:16 LCL From: Paul Edie Subject: Temporarily off the air..... Hi all... I know it's been forever since I've posted, but some serious family matters have prevented me from spending much time on the computer, and unfortunately I must unsubscribe for a while until some issues here are resolved. At present, the digests are simply piling-up unread.... I am hoping to get to the Palace of Auburn Hills on Saturday, and maybe will catch up with some local listers...I will be wearing the famous, well crafted, and stylish MLETHER bowling shirt, in case anyone is looking!! Oh...I will be changing Internet Servers later this week. My new EMAIL address is [email protected]. I think I have contacted most of you who I know regarding this, but thought I would post it just in case I missed some of you. Hopefully, I'll be back on MLETHER in a few months or so....see you all then!! Paul ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 18:18:42 LCL From: Marie Foose Subject: Concert Date Announced from MEIN Delurking for a minute, Just got this in (copied without permission): The following Melissa Etheridge shows have just been announced: 11/15 Austin, TX 11/16 Dallas, TX 11/18 Houston, TX 11/19 Corpus Christi, TX 11/21 Kansas City, KS 11/22 Norman, OK 11/23 Memphis, TN 11/25 Amarillo, TX 11/26 El Paso, TX 11/27 Albuquerque, NM 11/29 Salt Lake City, UT 11/30 Denver, CO [break] 12/10 Las Vegas, NV 12/12 Spokane, WA 12/13 Tacoma, WA 12/15 Portland, OR 12/17 San Francisco, CA 12/18 Sacramento, CA 12/20 Phoenix, AZ More information, such as venues, can be found on the Box Office page: http://fanasylum.com/melissa/box.html This is great, cus I thought I was giong to miss the San Francisco concert because of business at the begining of the month. Now, When do theose tickets go on sale! Back to Lurking Marie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 21:30:53 -0500 From: "D. Caffrey" Subject: Memphis Concert! YES! YES! YES! I am so excited. Melissa has scheduled a concert in Memphis! I was beginning to get a little worried that she wouldn't make it here for some reason. I have never seen her live before & I can only imagine it will be great! November 23 is the beginning of my Thanksgiving vacation, so I'll just postpone my traveling plans a day or so & have a great start to the holiday. Woo-Hoo! I can't believe I'm finally going to see her in concert. A few questions about tickets....Is it worth it to go through MEIN? Quite frankly I'm not impressed with them so far. I ordered a lot of merchandise from them & the girl was very rude & she kept smacking her gum over the phone! Just from my small experience they didn't seem very organized (or friendly either). But hey, if I can get good seats, I'm willing to give them another chance. Is there a limit to the amount of tickets one person can buy? I have no earthly idea who I will be going with yet as none of my friends are big MLE fans. I'm hoping to get a few people to go & I'd like to be able to get all our tickets together. Hey, if I can't convince anyone to go with me, I'm still going! You'll be able to spot me. I'll be doing the macarena in the aisles! :) Does anyone on the list plan on attending this show? It would be great to finally meet some people who are fans like I am. I wore a MLE t-shirt to work the other day & my supervisor asked me who it was & I told him. All he said was "she's the one that likes women, right?" I wanted to say "yeah. And she sings too!" :) I am really excited about this. Any info on MEIN is greatly appreciated. I will probably end up in the TicketBastard line again with cell phone in hand...frantically hitting redial. Either way I'm determined to get good tickets. I've been really lucky in the past. I wonder when tickets will go on sale? I'm getting ready to go on vacation & I will be nowhere near a computer! Oh well, maybe nothing will happen until I get back. I am deliriously happy at this point. Everyone have a great week, whatever you may be doing. Enjoy it! -D- (who can't wait for November 23. Elvis has left the building!) - D - "All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players: They have their exits and their entrances; And one man in his time plays many parts. - Shakespeare ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 14 Oct 1996 to 15 Oct 1996 - Special issue ****************************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Wed Oct 16 00:02:21 1996 Date: Wed, 16 Oct 1996 00:00:06 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 15 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 23:31:34 -0400 From: "Diana C. Kennedy \"Computer Whiz\" 3-9633" Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 14 Oct 1996 to 15 Oct 1996 - Special issue ANyone going to the November 7 Pensacola Florida show? I am and may hit Atlanta as well, email me if you want to meet up, I am going with 5 non-listers. 19th row floor seats. Hi Bethpsu ! wave wave!! ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 21:01:46 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Re: Memphis Concert! D. Caffrey asked about tickets from MEIN: >Is there a limit to the amount of tickets one person can buy? To paraphrase Henry Ford (who said one could order any color Model T as long as it was black)... you can order any number as long as it's *TWO*. TWO... no more, no less. >I'm hoping to get a few people to go & I'd like to be able to get all >our tickets together. You also have no advance idea exactly WHERE your seats are located... all seats are assigned by lottery, and you discover your seat assignments on the night of the show when you get your tickets at the WILL CALL window. And you need to be a MEIN-member, which you can do over the phone when you order tickets. I think current cost for one-year membership is $19 US, though my information may be out of date. Call (415) 597-6655 between 9:00am and 5:00pm PACIFIC TIME (San Francisco), and if you're calling for info tomorrow, do it early (before noon Pacific time) because new ticket sales start tomorrow at noon, Pacific time. John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 15 Oct 1996 *********************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Thu Oct 17 00:02:22 1996 Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 00:00:05 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 15 Oct 1996 to 16 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 23:13:59 -0600 From: Debbie Schwalenberg Subject: How to reach MLE? Hey everyone, I'm new to the list, and was wondering if anyone has an address where I could reach Melissa at...an address where she'd read the letter and possibly reply... thanks in advance... Deb :) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 21:43:25 -0700 From: Joyce Stoliar Subject: Kibbles & Bits little NMEC Hi All, Item # 1 -------- POOH bear, I am so sorry to hear of your grandma's passing, may she rest in peace, my heart goes out to you and your family. On a happier note, I am so glad that you were able to enjoy the warmth and the music at the concerts this past week. When I too am sad too, I feel I can find comfort in music. Item # 2 -------- Sue M. in Montreal, I did send that package out to our friendly DJ and he has never responded to me. If you think of it, drop him an e-mail and tell him I was wondering if he received the package, I am guessing he did cause I sent it express post. As for a trip home, I don't think that is going to happen too soon, but believe me you'll know when I'm on the way. Item # 3 -------- Sue D. on Long Island, welcome back to earth woman, glad to hear you had a great trip, did you think of us huh? Huh? I certainly am envious of all of the wonderful people you must have met on your trip. Item # 4 -------- Sue D, Karen, Patty, Shirl and Kim, photos on the way tomorrow!!! Some of them are a hoot!! Item # 5 --------- I have met some of my best friends in the world on this list. I believe in the spirit of most of the people on here, I have been fortunate in that, those that I communicate with and those that I have met have been truly wonderful and inspirational to me too. Friends, or acquaintances with even only a few things in common can be inspirational to others, and I completely believe that if you open yourself up to others, you will ALWAYS benefit from that experience. Basically just live your life so as to be happy. There is one golden rule as far as I am concerned, and thats the "Do unto others" rule. I sleep a lot better at night living like that. If stuff upsets me, I pass it by or if its a post on the list I skip over it, but darn I wish people would post from their own address.!!! ;-> Last Item, with a little MEC ---------------------------- I received a package in the mail last week from one of my best friends. Her mom works at Polygram and one day she came home with a black vinyl notebook with Melissa's key hole logo on the front, with Your Little Secret on it, on the inside was her name. My friend grabbed it away from her mom and told her that she had no right to keep it. She promptly wrapped it up and send it off to me for my B'day. I'm not too hard to please!!! I did receive other great stuff for my B'day from a couple other listers. Shirl, that shirt is just perfect for days like today and to my other favorite lister, I haven't lost it yet and I actually used it today! Thanks. Take care everybody, Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 15 Oct 1996 22:57:38 -0700 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: MLE in s.f. - finally! Marie Foose said: >The following Melissa Etheridge shows have just been announced: > >12/17 San Francisco, CA john told me about this date before i got the digest tonight, and we both thought during our phone call this evening that "well, it may say 's.f.', but it could very well be san jose." personally, i can't count how many times i've been to concerts in oakland, san jose, and mountain view when the artist in question says, "good evening, san francisco!" MLE included (at shoreline last year). well, after checking out the MEIN web site tonight, it turns out that MLE *is* playing san francisco after all - although barely. her 12/17 concert is scheduled for the cow palace (moo!). i've noticed recently that more concerts are being scheduled for the cow palace because another similarly sized venue (the oakland arena) is undergoing remodelling and won't be available until next summer. but i never thought that MLE would play there! i think the last time i saw a concert at the cow palace was U2 over 9 years ago. the san jose arena is a sparkling, (relatively) brand spanking new venue compared to the echo chamber (aka cow palace). one bright note is that the cow palace is *smaller* - according to the seating capacity listed in the phone book, the cow palace seats 10,500-14,500, while the s.j. arena seats 17,190. in case you were wondering (yeah, right), regardless of the venue, i'm still going... *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 16 Oct 1996 05:57:44 -0700 From: Randy Subject: MEC: sheet music Someone recently asked about getting the sheet music for "The Letting Go" for piano. How about for "The Weakness in Me"? If anyone knows the publishers or how to get it, please e-mail me. Thanks. I was off topic last night. I apologize to the list and to Elaine. Let's get back to ME and her music. 'K? -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 16 Oct 1996 07:58:01 -0400 From: pags Subject: Theres's Tattoo I have been looking for the soundtrack of Theresa's Tatoo but can't seem to find it anywhere. Is it even available? -Sharon ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 14 Oct 1996 13:52:57 -0400 From: Melissa Good Subject: Hi Sue... >>Now, for the real reason for this post. I would very much like to take my PIP to see Melissa in Miami on Nov 01/96. The venue, according to MEIN, is the "Miami Beach Convention Center". Well, I've never been to Miami, never even been to Florida. So, does anyone here have any info on this place? Any idea where (besides MEIN) I can get some good seats? I hope that we will spend the weekend in Miami, so is there anything other than the concert I could look forward to? Any help/info would be appreciated... The Miami Beach Convention Center is, surprisingly enough, on Miami = Beach. It's a fairly large, square modular structure that is usually = used for conventions, such as the Home Show, Miami Boat Show, the = Ringling Brothers Barnum and Bailey Circus (and, let me tell = you..marching the elephants across McArthur Causeway at midnight is = something to be seen) It's basically a huge empty hangar, when it's = fully opened - and I suspect that they will build a stage at one end, = and surround the stage with bleachers. I personally have been there many = times, but never to see a concert. I do, (heh heh) have tickets on = November 1st for this one, however. We called in to Ticketmaster. = (shrug) and the seats are in section F, but that tells me nothing, = because it's free form seating. So...we're just going to take our = chances.=20 Weekend in Miami. Hmm. I'll check our Weekender this Sunday and see if = we have anything on the schedule for that weekend. The weather should be = fairly decent - we start getting some cooler breezes in November, and = less rain. (we hope.It's pouring right now) There are a number of = things to do in the local area, including Bayside, the tourist shopping = Mall R Us, which does have some quite nice romantic gondola rides up and = down the Intercoastal waterway, and some cute Victorian horse and buggy = rides around the park as well.=20 Oh, for those of you that know my PIP - Kim - I am planning this as a surprise weekend trip for us. It would be a real change for us considering that we spend most of our weekends driving north/south on I87 between Montreal and Albany! Uh...I can without doubt guarantee that this will be different than = that. I'll see what other events are cooking here that weekend and let = you know. Miami has a reputation of sometimes being a little mean to = it's visitors - and there are places to go and places positively NOT to = go. I can provide a color coded map. (g) Missy ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 15 Oct 1996 to 16 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Fri Oct 18 00:02:23 1996 Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 00:00:07 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 16 Oct 1996 to 17 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sun, 13 Oct 1996 23:32:48 -0700 From: Candra Rainey Subject: MLE in SF > >The following Melissa Etheridge shows have just been announced: > >12/17 San Francisco, CA wooooooooooooooooooooooo-hoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! When do tickets go on sale??? Candra, a very happy camper ------------------------------ Subject: Kalamazoo Concert Review Date: Wed, 16 Oct 1996 23:43:32 -0400 From: Cathi Deyo I've never attempted a review here, so please bear with... All I can say is "Oh my gaawwd!" (insert appropriate nasal whine). I am not a strong fan of YLS, and do miss her earlier work, but the show was amazing!! Melissa was in full voice for three hours, and did she rock. She also seemed to be in a great mood. I think someone here mentioned that ME was mostly playing electric rather than the Ovation. Last night, however, the songs seemed to be equally divided between the two styles. The set list was about the same as mentioned in other posts. I agree that it is sad that she isn't acknowledging the gifts that are brought up to her--one of the techs runs across and takes the gifts off-stage. ME also did not acknowleding the signs that were held up. An exciting moment occured when a male fan ran up onto and across the small stage, diving into the audience on the other side. ME and the band didn't miss a beat while looking stunned and amazed. Security, on the other hand, did not seem to know just how to react. Thanks MEIN for the second row seats, and thanks fellow listers for the scoop on when to move to the small stage. I was able to be up at the stage(s) for most of the show, got handshakes from John and ME, a hand slap from Kenny (who IS a wild man on those drums), and a guitar pick from John. This was definitly one for the scrapbook. The only down side was having to part with two 9th row-center tix at $30 for the pair--oh well. That and getting hit by the video tech with his camera--OUCH. And not to forget the fashion report--ME did not part from her usual. Black tee, silver and black over-shirt, tight black nylon pants (I liked the denim lace-ups worn during YIA tour better), and boots that were, umm, a 'gutsy' choice?, bright green velvet/suede farm style boots. I will be going to Auburn Hills on saturday, 14th row from TM. I am wondering if security is as accomodating in the large stadiums (i.e. letting fans up to the stage)? Be Well, Cathi [email protected] Children should be seen...and heard....and believed!! ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 16 Oct 1996 23:52:13 -0500 From: Patti Fink Subject: MLE Texas Concert Dates OK group, we're into the Texas phase of this tour....and Our Lady of Etheridge has announced six (count 'em....SIX) Texas dates!!! I've already sent email to the raft of MLE Texans, as well as a few other interested folk, and have already received two replies! Kudos to the ever-silent Chuck in Austin!! Ditto to the ever-vocal Rachel in Annapolis! Let's get this thing rollin' folks! We've got LOTS o'plans to finalize before the dates give us a $2 stare! Dallasites I've talked to are also bound for Austin, so watch out! We need a good MElister gathering to attend Friday night! We'll arrange one in Dallas for Saturday.... Any Houst-onions game for either Austin or Dallas? I have comfortable room for four, minus me, so three here in Dallas....and one spot is DEFinitely taken, possibly two others, but I can take sleeping-baggers if necessary. I have plenty o'friends & family to stay with in Austin, so pipe up if you need a place to stay....I'll see what I can do! Texas MElisters (and interested parties)....watch for more info as it becomes available... we have LOTS of coordinating to do (I'm willing....a la Fajita Fest/Garden Party), especially with six (6) Texas dates scheduled. Email me privately if you're interested or have questions.... Patti Fink, in Dallas (Yo! Renee...are you been DEAD or what? Tonya, give me a holler!...saw your name in the paper with Ola for NCOD....) [email protected] OR [email protected] ROAD TRIP PARANOIA: YESTERDAY = "Oh God! The stove! Is it still on?!?" TODAY = "Oh God! AOL! Did I log off?!?" ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 16 Oct 1996 23:57:14 -0500 From: Patti Fink Subject: SueD OD'ing One quick question: Is it possible to OD on Melissa? SueD has hit an ungoddessly amount of MLE concerts lately, and yet is talking now of descending upon Texas AGAIN for another round of MLE!! Can it be so??? Eager & anxious as always to see The Tour Queen, I'm just wondering if it is natural or pathological?? ;-) Any thoughts? Just curious.... Patti ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 16 Oct 1996 22:46:01 -0700 From: "J. Croft" Subject: Re: Kalamazoo Concert Review/boots Cathi Deyo wrote: >.... and boots that were, >umm, a 'gutsy' choice?, bright green velvet/suede farm style boots. If they were the same ones she wore at the Moline show (and it sure sounds like it), they're Doc Martens... and yes, it is quite a gutsy pair! (though I'm not sure I'd call 'em farm style...) Jib * JL Jiblet Croft * [email protected] * http://www.pretenders.org * ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 04:23:43 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: new Ani DiFranco (NMEC) For the Ani DiFranco fans here, there is a new Ani-album... actually, it's a collaboration with Utah Phillips telling stories, with Ani playing piano behind him... all reviews I've seen have loved this CD. For those unfamiliar with Utah Phillips (and I don't want to spoil the wonderful surprise), you can get an inkling of what he's about by visiting a new web-page for the Utah Phillips/Ani collaboration, hosted by Julie Meloni at her Hidden Water site: http://www.hidwater.com/utah/ The Utah page is only half loaded at present, but it will have more material as Julie has more time. John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 07:35:08 -0400 From: [email protected] Subject: VEGAS!! Wondering if anyone else is up for meeting in Vegas & seeing ME there? I don't know how much packages are from all over, but I know it's pretty cheap to go to Vegas from Seattle. To stay at a decent hotel like the Excalibur for 2 nights, round trip airfare, & transfers to & from the airport is about $240. The show is Tues, Dec 10. If you are interested, e-mail me privately & I'll do what I can to co-ordinate it. Susan ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 08:27:36 -0500 From: Janis Delmonte Subject: Re: MLE Texas Concert Dates > Any Houst-onions game for either Austin or Dallas? I have comfortable room > for four, minus me, so three here in Dallas....and one spot is DEFinitely > taken, possibly two others, but I can take sleeping-baggers if necessary. I > have plenty o'friends & family to stay with in Austin, so pipe up if you > need a place to stay....I'll see what I can do! Claudia and I have room for 2-4 folks also. You can e-mail me privately, or maybe talk with Patti, our official Texas co-ordinator (since she volunteered for that ). Hope to see lots of folks in Dallas! -Janis [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 10:30:04 -0500 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: Pictures and airplanes Hey groovy listers, I picked up my pictures from last Saturday's D.C. gathering and they turned out really well, even the group shot of all 17 of us. (Actually 3 more people showed up but they arrived when things were winding down; so unfortunately they didn't make it in the pictures.) For those who attended who would like copies, please email me privately. Also, I'm checking with one or two listers who have homepages to see if they're still interested in posting a few shots on their pages. Jen and I really enjoyed our evening with everyone and we're thinking about organizing a 'big' shindig in the Spring. (Call me wacky but picture a "Prom-theme" type of event.... hey that could be alot of fun.) Also, on a totally unrelated topic, I found these special webpages for US Air and Am. Airlines. Both companies (I know there are more but so far these are the only ones I've found), offer last minute bargain fares but they only publish them via email. You can subscribe to their "net savers" lists and every Wednesday they'll send out an email listing of roundtrip flights that are avail. for that coming Sat. With all of the travelling some of our listers do, I thought people might find this info. useful. To subscribe to US Air's page: http://www.usair.com/esavers.htm American Airline's page is: http://www2.amrcorp.com/cgi-bin/aans Gwen ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 10:41:25 -0400 From: Kive Kamerling Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 15 Oct 1996 to 16 Oct 1996 Hello everyone... Just thought I would let you know, if you don't already, that there is a lil something bout Melissa and the Janis movie in this weeks Entertainment Weekly Magazine...Liam Neeson is on the cover... It is on page 16 in a section called the "Monitor"... It tells about 2 different Janis movies, one starring Melissa, the unauthorized one beinged penned by Julie.... and the other one starring Lili Taylor, authorized and based on the book "Love, Janis, by her sister... Melissa will be a singing the songs herself, and Lili will be a lip synching... Hhhmmm... There is a sweet picture of melissa in a green velvet jacket, kneeling by a tree... small, but beautiful... =) It is worth taking a trip down the magazine isle when you can find the time... Peace and Stuff... Kiva [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 10:48:35 -0400 From: "Garmager, Clarissa" Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 14 Oct 1996 to 15 Oct 1996 - Special issue O.K. I'm not sure how this works but I thought I would give it a try. My name is Clarissa, I am a new lister and like you all a HUGE ME fan!!! Anyway I don't know much about who's on this list, but like Lisa I would defintely be interested to hear if there are any New York area listers around. Thanks everyone for all the ME updates!! ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 22:56:00 +0100 From: Tim Dunker Subject: Anyone interested to tour to 7 shows? Hi there, as some of you probably noticed in the last months I have tried to make it to the US very hard, to achieve my target and see some shows of the US leg of Melissa`s YLS tour. One important reason is that I am pretty sure that she will take a LONG break after this tour and that I definitely have to see her live again before this break starts. Now, because of several reasons I couldn't make it to the East Coast shows and the shows in Florida I actually wanted to come to. The last chance I have now and it is sure that I will take it, is the last part of the tour (Dec.09th - Dec.22nd). This will include at least 7 shows. So now I am looking for one person who would like to share the long drives with me. Is anyone interested ? The tour should go from Las Vegas to Spokane (I know how far this is !), to Tacoma, to Portland, to San Francisco, to Sacramento and to Los Angeles (I am pretty sure that the last show will be in LA on Dec.22nd). I am very serious on this and I would even sleep in the car(guess it will be cold !) to save some money. So if anyone is as brave and crazy as me and also never gets enough please e-mail me private and we can discuss the trip. Greetings from Germany Tim Dunker ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 17 Oct 1996 16:05:28 -0700 From: joanna emmons Subject: indy concert hello all...i am departing for indy early tomorrow a.m. To Ruth, Anne, Mitch and Jen, I will look for you and i will be wearing the bowling shirt..Mitch has set up a little meeting before the show at the Legal Beagle on delaware near Market square arena around 4:30 or 5..we'll all be wandering thru will call to pick up tickets at one point or another.. hope to see you all there..a special thank you to Rhondda for telling me about the cow palace show (moo) wow all kinds of jokes occur to me here (whoops) digression....hey Mardi, Rose, Zac, Tanya and Margo! How ya doin? (waving nearsightedly in that direction) write some more we want to hear from you! that's all for now JJ (still by the bay until 4:00 a.m ouch ..but counting down the minutes who needs sleep?) ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 16 Oct 1996 to 17 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sat Oct 19 00:02:20 1996 Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 00:00:06 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 17 Oct 1996 to 18 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 00:37:35 -0400 From: Rebecca Straka Subject: NY listers Someone was asking about NY area listers.. I am assuming you mean NYC :) Although I am not NYC I do live in NY in Buffalo :) Just thought Id add that. =/\= Janeway ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 00:40:58 -0400 From: Kimberly Nygard Subject: Re: NY listers yeah if your meaning NYC I am not in NYC either but my partner and I are in the state though :) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 08:54:35 -0400 From: "Lisa J. White" Subject: Janis movie I've always loved ME's music and I've tried to appreciate her new found fame(I'm a fan of her old stuff), but this Janis movie is just too much. I think she has a lot of nerve to actually sing Janis's tunes...it is, afterall, a movie about Janis Joplin, and not Melissa Etheridge. E Weekly says Julie's version will likely cater a lesbian issue...that's totally aside the point. For those of you who have read her biogrphies (I have) you will see that that is not entirley what she was about. I think the authorized version will do more justice, but it may be too glittery. But like most of you--I'll have to wait and see. Who knows I may be surprised--I hope I will be. Lisa ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 13:02:10 -0400 From: Nancy Frankovic Subject: Entertainment Weekly >>Just thought I would let you know, if you don't already, that there is a lil something bout Melissa and the Janis movie in this weeks Entertainment Weekly Magazine...Liam Neeson is on the cover... It is on page 16 in a section called the "Monitor"... also, for those of you who don't know. you can type "entertainment weekly" in the Yahoo search and go through back issues of the magazine if you missed the ellen degeneres article a few weeks ago. Nancy ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 14:18:06 -0700 From: amy jo nordall Subject: Re: R&R Hall of Fame Am going to delurk for this.... Roger asked about MLE's songs on the R&R Hall of Fame concert. I taped all but the last 25 minutes or so [vcr stopped on me]. MLE's contribution was as follows [as I remember from the last time I watched it] .. An introduction of Chrissie Hynde and the Pretenders Duet with Jackson Browne : "Wake Up, Little Suzy" Tribute to the girl groups of the 60's : "Leader of the Pack", "Love Child", [I can't remember the other song or 2 of this atm] I'll check for sure and repost .. I am willing to tape her portion [I separated it] or the whole concert [basically I missed Bruce's ending half hour] in exchange for MLE things I don't have. I'll check my whole list of MLE stuff and post it tomorrow. Amy Jo .. "be strong .. speak truth .. spread the peace...." [mle, Green Bay concert] -- ********************************************************************* Amy Jo Nordall [email protected] aka Magiluna Stormwriter .. Goddess worshipper & lesbian playwright "the soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears" all that i am, all that i have, is thru Her will.... and i trust that She will keep my lifeweb intact.... ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 15:26:09 -0500 From: Anne Haines Subject: I won a poster! Coolness! I just got a call from the Indiana Daily Student (IU student newspaper) saying that I won a poster in their drawing. (They were giving away 8 posters, some album flats, and *sigh* an autographed poster... I didn't get the autographed one, but what the heck.) Only I'm at work, and don't have time to go pick it up before rushing out to the concert tonight. Just watch, it'll be the same one they're selling tonight, and I'll buy one, and then I'll have two... oh well... life could be worse. --OK, I just called them and made them describe it... they weren't very articulate about it, but it has a red background and the covers of her earlier albums, or something. Doesn't sound like one that will be sold at the concert. Yes, I'm babbling because I *don't* want to be at work today, and the concert's in 4 1/2 hours, and I'm more psyched than I expected to be... :) Anne in Indiana "Gonna sting you with a kiss from my lips/ Gonna sting you with a piece of my mind/ Gonna sting you with a taste of my skin/ Then you're mine, then you're mine" --Lucy Kaplansky, "Scorpion" http://ezinfo.ucs.indiana.edu/~ahaines ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 17 Oct 1996 to 18 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sun Oct 20 00:02:23 1996 Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 00:00:04 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 18 Oct 1996 to 19 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Fri, 18 Oct 1996 23:18:36 -0500 From: tcholewa Subject: Melissa Look alike at CHICAGo show! Hi, I was wondering if you can help me....I am looking for a girl, who was at the MLE CHICAGO show...She is a member of MEIN, she was right behind me at WILL CALL to get her tickets...she had on jeans, a white T-Shirt, and a vest (I think) She had Long Blonde hair like Melissa's (before the bangs) and a black pair of SUNGLASSES, she was with a heavy set girl who was taller tha she, with long dark curly hair. This Blonde woman was a little on the manly side, but still definatly female... I am DESPERATELY looking for this girl....Please if anyone was there and knows Her, or OF her, PLEASE E-MAIL ME! Laura [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 02:41:21 EDT From: MELANIE S COULSON Subject: Janis Joplin Movie Hi to everyone on the list.. This is my first time posting but have been lurking for quite a while... I just wanted to comment on the Janis Joplin Movie. I think Melissa is the perfect candidate for the role, who else can come close to portraying such an icon of rock and roll. Lili Taylor in my opinion may be a good actress but I just can't see her pulling off portraying Janis. We haven't really seen Melissa act except for her tiny role in Teresa's Tattoo and that isn't much to go on. Melissa resembles Janis a lot, her style, her music.... after all look at melissa's performance at Woodstock 94'. Sensational!!! It gave me chills. You can definitely tell from that performance that Janis was a big influence on melissa. As far as Julie writing the movie with lesbian content, well that remains to be seen. And if so, big deal.. as long as they don't spend too much time dwelling on the issue. After all there was much more to Janis than her gender preference. Don't get me wrong, I am a huge Janis fan and have been for years, I just think there is a lot of under estimating from a lot of people on how well Melissa will do. I wish Julie and Melissa all the success on their new endeavors,the baby, the movie etc.... On to bigger and better things...... I bought my tickets for Melissa's show in Austin through MEIN, I live in Austin and didn't feel it was necessary to get the tour package that they were offering, but I would love to hook up with other Melissa fans. So, if anyone is planning a ME get together in Austin or Dallas please let me know. Melanie ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 00:21:52 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: cow tipping Candra Rainey hollered: >> >The following Melissa Etheridge shows have just been announced: >> >12/17 San Francisco, CA > >wooooooooooooooooooooooo-hoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!! > >When do tickets go on sale??? no definite date/time yet - i'm guessing really soon (next week or so through MEIN). ============================== Patti Fink wondered: >One quick question: > >Is it possible to OD on Melissa? > >SueD has hit an ungoddessly amount of MLE concerts lately, and yet >is talking now of descending upon Texas AGAIN for another round of >MLE!! Can it be so??? Eager & anxious as always to see The Tour >Queen, I'm just wondering if it is natural or pathological?? ;-) >Any thoughts? i can feel the vibe - it's the feeling that MLE's tour is moving west...the tension is rising. 'tis a desperate state to be in. no cure as yet, but the scientists are feverishly working on an antidote. seems that the best remedy so far is just to succumb and ride it out, by attending as many MLE shows in as short amount of time as possible. speaking of...getting ready to email tim so we can talk about that obsessive west coast MLE tour. :-) and i thought i was the only silly one who was thinking of going to at least 4 shows...p'shaw! what else is that accrued vacation and overtime pay good for anyway? *rhondda* <--- moo! ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 01:31:38 -0800 From: [email protected] Subject: MLE in friday's CyberSleaze an excerpt from today's CyberSleaze (the URL's around here somewhere): "Pregnant lesbian star JULIE CYPHER showed off her very visible bulge on Wednesday night at the CITY OF HOPE GARAGE BAND fund raising bash in Los Angeles, California. Cypher arrived arm in arm with her rocker lover MELISSA ETHERIDGE - and even patted her own stomach to show all is still on course for the expected January arrival. Etheridge says, "We're doing real good. Everything is going according to plan and we're keeping our fingers crossed." The NOWHERE TO GO singer was just one of a host of top stars, including BRYAN ADAMS, SHERYL CROW, DON HENLEY and STEVE WINWOOD, who agreed to play in the charity group to help raise $4.7 million for the City Of Hope medical center for cancer and leukemia care. The couple are keeping tight lipped over who the father of Cypher's expected baby is." nighty night! *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 07:29:57 -0700 From: Marianne McClaughry Subject: Kansas City here I come I'm going to Kansas City; Kansas City here I come ... What's Memorial Auditorium like? Who else is going to this Thursday night concert? I'd love to meet any of you from the list. A question for MEIN members: Is there any value in joining MEIN other than possible good concert seats? I remember much discussion months ago on the pros and cons of MEIN concert tickets, but don't remember much else being discussed. Then again, I don't remember much in general :{ Hope there are at least a few of you going to the KC show. Please email me at [email protected]. <>++++< Marianne ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 09:59:51 -0500 From: "Mildred L. Perkins" Subject: Indianapolis concert (Hi, Anne! I won a flat from the IDS. :) Well, first off I'd like to mention, in all bitterness, that I bought my tickets from M.E.I.N. Good thing I brought my binoculars. I was closer at the Murat with my back pressed up against the wall in the balcony. _But_, the crappy seats (which literally gave me a crick in my neck from sitting "eyes right" for two hours) did give me an opportunity to be in the thick of the MELISTER gathering in that section. Lisa Lyon (sorry about getting your name wrong...it's why I dropped out of journalism school) was the first to spot me and she left her companion to fling herself bodily over the seats (and in Market Square Arena it bears a striking similarity to climbing the friggin ALPS) to shake my hand and exchange pleasantries. Then she saw J.J. below us and body surfed down (which must have hurt, considering how early it was and no one there) to greet her. The two then came up and we discovered another, unclothed, lister three rows down. We chatted happily for a while, and the whole time I had to endure my S.O. explaining to the woman sitting next to her that we're a bunch of, and I quote, "nerds". Humph. The concert started a few minutes after eight o'clock with IRLY, and it seemed she didn't quite know what to make of our traditionally sedate Hoosier audience. She kept arching her eyebrows at the drummer, Kenny Arnoff. For those of you who didn't know, Arnoff is a faculty of the school of music here at IU. Kinda odd, huh? What other university has faculty who go on concert tours with big name musicians instead of writing books? *grin* Anyway, I thought she started out pretty mellow - for her. Only three or four songs in, though, was the first (of many) busted strings and quick guitar switches. That guy can really move. It's obvious he gets a lot of practice. I even saw Arnoff toss a drumstick once and wondered if he'd broken it. She looked fit and was wearing a black tee, those incredibly ugly vinyl pants things with even more hideous black-alligator-leather-shoes that I thought at first were incredibly odd motorcycle boots but which my S.O. assured me were really shoes (though it took some persuading on her part), a worn blue denim shirt and a silver locket around her neck. I don't care that she made a joke that she, "never got it" about dressing. She's rich. She could buy a clue. ;-) There was lots of joking going on, and at one point she made a crack about, "grow with us", which is an old Indianapolis advertisement. Made me laugh, anyway, which drew another round of my S.O. explaining, "She's a nerd". Melissa also at one point was talking about how pretty it is in Indiana this time of year, "with all the trees turning color...you all must get in your car and drive around to all the towns...Indianapolis, Bloomington...". Then she got stuck and couldn't think of any more towns. She was faking! That's okay, though. The embarassed look on her face was pretty funny. (Don't forget, I had binoculars.) I can't relate to the guitar fanatics what all she was playing besides a green one and black one and an odd red and white one. I did manage something of a set list (and used up all the rest of my business cards, J.J. I began to wish I hadn't given you one. ;-) From what I can make out, here it is: IRLY, IIWT, IWTCO, AUK, CTMW, NTG, SP (with a long monologue lead in), (illegible), SL, ICHBY, [small stage:] YIA, AAG, LMG, ATWTH, [back to big stage:] BMSW,, ITOO (with the crowd actually drowning her out at some points) - and sequed into a great blues version - YLS. She then came back for two very long and loud encore songs: LTWID and TWIO. Oh, and I thought I'd mention that she may have started mellow but it didn't last and was a satisfyingly raucous concert with barely a butt in any seat. A lot of fun, once I got over the ninety dollar crapola seats. Chuckie. ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 11:46:52 EDT From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: Unclothed Listers at concerts On 10/19/96, Chuckie ([email protected]) wrote: > The two then came up and we discovered another, unclothed, lister three rows down. Wow! At the MLE concerts I've been to, I've definitely seen some "different" fashion statements, including, of course, what Melissa herself wears, but I've *never* seen anyone make that kind of statement! Do you have pictures to back this up? ok, back to the grindstone.... mary harbaugh [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 13:18:21 EDT From: Wendy Waterstrat Subject: Re: Unclothed Listers at concerts On 10/19/96, Mary Harbaugh wrote: > On 10/19/96, Chuckie ([email protected]) wrote: > > > The two then came up and we discovered another, unclothed, > lister three rows down. > > > Wow! At the MLE concerts I've been to, I've definitely seen some > "different" fashion statements, including, of course, what Melissa > herself wears, but I've *never* seen anyone make that kind of statement! > Do you have pictures to back this up? > > ok, back to the grindstone.... > mary harbaugh > [email protected] > At the Fleet Center in Boston I had floor seats but a friend of mine had balcony seats. After the concert, she told us about a woman in the balcony right in front of her that took all her clothes off. Security came around and was going to escort her out. She put her clothes back on and they let her stay. Security then left, and she "unclothed" herself again and was dancing in her seat. Security returned, made her dress and this time walked her out the door. Sorry, no photos. :) Wendy ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 13:34:32 -0500 From: durnell terry lynne Subject: Lou Diamond Phillips interview Hi! I'm new to the list and this is the first time I've attempted to send something. I got in on part of the dialogue regarding the interview by Lou Diamond Phillips where he talked about Julie and Melissa. Could someone please tell me what magazine it was in. Thanks! Terry Durnell Graduate Assistant [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 17:43:25 +0000 From: Jan Subject: Re: Janis movie Lisa J. White wrote: >> think she has a lot of nerve to actually sing Janis's tunes. She's been doing the songs for years and depending on your taste, her version of "Piece of my Heart" is a lot better than Faith Hill's or Diana King's (the latter is on the soundtrack of "First Wives Club"). And technically they're not Joplin songs unless she wrote them which excludes most of the songs Joplin sang, even if they were written specifically for her. "Piece of my Heart" was not, Joplin was not the first to record it. Kristofferson probably wrote "Me and Bobby McGee" for himself since he recorded it. >> afterall, a movie about Janis Joplin, and not Melissa Etheridge. And an unauthorized one which means that it's unlikely the production company got the usage rights to Joplin's versions. Would you rather she lip-synch to some "bad" versions of the songs? >> says Julie's version will likely cater a lesbian issue. Will her version emphasize the lesbian issue or put it in proportion? eg, if Janis had one lesbian relationship and 9 heterosexual relationships, will the lesbian relationship get more than 10% of the relationship part of the film? As long as it's in proportion, fine. If not or if the heterosexual relationships aren't mentioned (unless the film was solely about Janis' lesbian relationships and no other part of her life), then I agree with you. >> Who knows I may be surprised--I hope I will be. Us/we too. Elaine and Jan ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 20:11:02 -0400 From: Mary Fiedorczyk Subject: Hall Of Fame Concert The other song Melissa performed was "Be My Baby"...and shewas great as usual!!!! The way she moved as she sang it.......ummmmmmmmmm! ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 11:16:12 +1000 From: HOLMES V O Subject: Re: Lou Diamond Phillips interview > > Hi! I'm new to the list and this is the first time I've attempted to send > something. I got in on part of the dialogue regarding the interview by Lou > Diamond Phillips where he talked about Julie and Melissa. Could someone > please tell me what magazine it was in. Thanks! > That article was in an Australian mag (a really bad one I might add) called New Idea which we affectionately call "No Idea", and you haven't missed much, it was an excruciatingly bad article. They put a squeaky clean picture of LDP next to what was meant to be a raunchy one of MLE to try and sell the idea that this evil lesbian rocker had stolen the poor mans wife, it was pitiful. Veronica ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 19 Oct 1996 22:00:47 -0400 From: Dan Cohen Subject: Amanda Marshall -- SMEC Amanda Marshall is a Toronto girl, so it's incredible that I have never seen her. Well today I finally bought her self-titled CD, released in 1995. Inside is a list of Musicians. It starts with: Drums/Percussion: Kenny Aranoff I read John Miller's rave (18 Jul 1996) about her live performance. John, I'm a believer. I saw a live show on TV one nite, and now I'm looking for my chance to catch her really live when she's not on tour. But you know, I would think that everyone who likes MLE whould like Amanda, too, and vice verse, considering their style at least. But no, that's not so -- some us are not at all impressed with Amanda -- why do you think that should be? Any Listers want to bite on this one? What does it mean to be a MLE fan, yet not like Amanda? -- Dan ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 18 Oct 1996 to 19 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Mon Oct 21 00:02:20 1996 Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 00:00:05 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 19 Oct 1996 to 20 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 00:51:24 -0400 From: Rebecca Straka Subject: VH1 Benifit show/Amanda Marshall (mainly MEC) Is the Vh1 benifit concert going to be on VH1? I havent seen it advertised or anything and was just wondering and if anyone was watching Entertainment Tonight on Thurs or Fri they showed a lil snip of it and a lil interview with MLE. Amanda Marshall.. I didnt really like her at first.. but Birmingham grew on me and I looove Beautiful Goodbyes. But I only seem to hear Beautiful Goodbye's on the canadian stations like CHUM fm (104.5) and The Mix 99.9 I love living in Buffalo cause I get good US and Canadian station woo :) I must say Canadian radio stations have a much better selection and variation than the ones in my area.. just MHO sorry for the ramble :) =/\= Janeway ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 02:08:24 -0400 From: K Kopp Subject: Re: amanda marshall Dan Cohen (hi Dan) asked about being a fan of amanda marshall. I have her debut Cd and have seen her intimte&interactive concert on muchmusic. Unfortunately, i have not seen her live in person. I am very impressed with her as a singer and performer. there is a lot of MLE in her, and she has stated that melissa is one of her influences right now, but no one can ever be melissa. I also think that a major difference between the two involves the writing of the music....melissa writes most of it (or co writes), whereas amanda sings mostly other peoples songs. i think that can (imo) have an impact on the performance of a song. But, i also have to point out that this is amanda's first album, and i'm sure her skills will develop over time, just have melissa's have. Regardless, i totally recommend amanda's Cd...i love "let it rain" thanks, Kris ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 08:39:44 -0400 From: Sue Molyneaux Subject: The Janis Joplin Movie (NMEC) HI all... Just a comment about Janis' bisexuality (okay, maybe just semantics here, but she was bisexual, not Lesbian)... every biography written about her mentions it. Peggy Caserta's "Going Down With Janis" covers "the issue" extensively, of course, since Peggy was Janis' lover. It's one of the many little realities that the Joplin family has always tried to ignore/deny, so it's unlikely to be in the Joplin/Disney production. But I've also heard that the Joplin/Disney version will have Janis returning to Port Arthur in 1970 to be with her family. The reality is her parents made her sleep on a fold-out cot (which isn't very welcoming) and she went back to her high school reunion to prove how succesful she had become (it may be difficult to believe now, but Janis was the most popular, highest paid female singer at the time). ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 09:16:14 -0500 From: "Mildred L. Perkins" Subject: Re: unclothed women Mary, "unclothed" means she wasn't wearing a bowling shirt. I was still mostly asleep when I wrote that yesterday, and I forgot to mention that Lisa spotted me because I was wearing my bowling shirt, as was JJ (although they both looked much better in theirs than I do). So far as I could tell, we were the only three listers there "dressed". But you never know...someone might have been actually NEAR the STAGE and we wouldn't have been able to see them. Thanks again, M.E.I.N. ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 10:23:59 -0400 From: Loretta Myers Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 18 Oct 1996 to 19 Oct 1996 In a message dated 96-10-20 00:05:51 EDT, you write: << Houston-onions...where ARE you???? >> Hi. I'm sittin' right here with 3 tickets to the Houston concert that I got about 10 mins after they went on sale at Ticketmaster. Section 6 was the best I could do. Something is definitely fishy about that. I would have ordered from MEIN, but I could get only 2 tickets, and I needed 3. I'll probably be easy to spot. I'll be the old lady in tennis shoes who is making a fool of herself over Melissa. L ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 11:24:24 -0500 From: Karrie Bowen Subject: Missy Lou and Janis Hey everyone! I just wanted to contribute my 2 pennies worth on the subject of MLE and the Janis Joplin flick...... There is not a doubt in my mind that MLE doesn't have the ghost of Janis floating around her in a continual aura. And I am the BIGGESTHUGESTGREATEST fan of MLE in all of PA, but I am wondering...... What if doing this movie makes her like, I dunno, Prince or Madonna, one of those rock stars you laugh at because they attempted movies and sorta sucked at it. I am not saying MLE sucks, I am just saying I really don't want to walk down the street and here the American public laugh hysterically at the woman I and others idolize because she does have so much talent.....I don't know.....I think she will probably do a pretty good job, and I definately do not think that Lili Taylor should have been chosen, even though she sort of resembles her (I loved her in Mystic Pizza, by the way).....I would have chosen someone else.....2 people come to mind......Martha Plimpton or Samantha Mathis. I think both of them have a harder edge than Lili....And they both have kissed River Phoenix, so that qualifies them for bad girl status (smile). That's all.....peace, love and Missy Lou.... Karrie ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 11:39:00 -0400 From: Kive Kamerling Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 18 Oct 1996 to 19 Oct 1996 I think Amanda Marshall is a great singer... I love her voice and the lyrics to her songs... I don't think she is given the credit that she deserves... =) If you have not listned to her music, you should... It's great... Kiva ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 17:45:51 -0400 From: KELLY CONROY Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 18 Oct 1996 to 19 Oct 1996 Hello to all fellow listers- I was a little bored on Friday, so I hopped in the car and ended up in NYC. Anyway, I stopped in this store called GIGS. Looking through an album of concert photos, I found an **AWESOME** picture of Melissa. It must have been taken from very close. At $1.50, it was the best thing I found on the trip and the least expensive. Well, I'm happy with it to say the least. Just thought I'd share that! Kelly ;) ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 19:04:50 -0400 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: Detroit Concert Since no one has posted about how wonderful the Detroit Concert was let me give a brief little rundown. 1. She looked awesome!! The doc Martens looked really good with her leather pants. 2. A bee flew by her during IWTCO and caused her to flub lines and joke about it. She refered to the bee MANY times after that always making the bee size bigger. 3. Our seats through Ticketbastard were right next to the small stage where she got the whole crowd rocking. Hi to all of the listers I met in purple shirts!! It was so neat to meet so many of you all! Even the lurkers! BTW, Brandi and Alisha, I saw you in the OutPost last night!!! Love, Jenny ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 19 Oct 1996 to 20 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Tue Oct 22 00:02:23 1996 Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 00:00:02 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 20 Oct 1996 to 21 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 23:34:32 -0500 From: Anne Haines Subject: Indianapolis show Well, I had every intention of writing up a nice little review of the Indianapolis show, but I haven't gotten around to it and there's no sense pretending I will, since tomorrow's Monday and back to work and stuff. :P I'll just say that it was good; not the best MLE show I've ever seen, but good. As usual, it went on for 3 hours (almost to the minute), and as far as I could tell pretty much everyone was on their feet the whole time. What else is new? ;) My MEIN seats were OK... center section, row 18... about 4-5 rows in front of the soundman, which is cool. The good part was that there was only 1 row directly in front of us, and between that & the front bunch of rows was an aisle, which made it a whole lot easier for this short person to see. :) The video monitors were cool, too. Nice camera work. Anybody think there's a chance they are taking bits of this with thoughts of releasing a video eventually? Since MLE will probably be taking a fairly long break in the near future, what with the new rugrat and a movie to work on, it might be a really opportune time to put a concert video out there. The "second stage" was kinda annoying for me, since we didn't get our butts moving fast enough to run back there and get close, but we did go back to stand there; and since I'm short, and I have a foot problem right now that prevents me from standing on my tiptoes, I kinda felt smooshed into the crowd. And let me tell you, there's nothing quite so sad as being smooshed into the crowd all by yourself while MLE sings "All The Way To Heaven" and all the couples around you are snuggling up (or squooshing, it's hard to tell sometimes) and you know that somewhere in the crowd is someone you're still carrying a torch for, as it were, snuggling (smooshing?) with someone else. So, I wasn't quite as into that whole section as I could have been. (Dyke Drama, anyone? *wry grin*) I have to say, I looooooooove the blues bit that's been added to ITOO. Sure sounded like MLE was getting some "channeling Janis" practice. It was very cool, though, to hear her push her voice in new directions. Also, I thought AUK worked *really* well live, and that's funny, because that song kinda annoys me on the CD. It was fun to see Kenny Aronoff interacting with the "hometown" crowd. At one point MLE asked if there was anyone there from Bloomington (the short person shrieking her fool head off was me), and Kenny raised his hand and grinned, and MLE was like "Oh, yeah! I forgot!" The two of them seem to be working really well together... Aronoff grinning constantly and having a great time, and when MLE did the "meet the band" bit she emphasized (at least twice) that she is "*honored*" to be working with him. Which she should be. He's really good. I'm sorry I didn't see any other listers... I was on the lookout for purple shirts (I never got around to getting one, so I was just wearing a black shirt, though the friend I was with was wearing a Dykenet shirt ["women with fast fingers and hot modems"] and I thought that if any listers happened to spot us that might give them a clue.) Where *were* y'all, anyway? Way back too far, but which section? (I was in sec.B, row 18, if anyone cares) Anyway, enough rambling out of me. It was a good concert, and I'm glad I went. I really miss a lot of the old songs, and the show is awfully slick and "produced" these days (what is WITH that bizarre stage set, anyway?), but Melissa still sings her heart out, and for that alone I'm glad I went. Cheers, Anne in Indiana "Gonna sting you with a kiss from my lips/ Gonna sting you with a piece of my mind/ Gonna sting you with a taste of my skin/ Then you're mine, then you're mine" --Lucy Kaplansky, "Scorpion" http://ezinfo.ucs.indiana.edu/~ahaines ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 23:56:44 -0500 From: Patti Fink Subject: Re: Missy Lou and Janis, Texas Tour Karrie Bowen wondered: >What if doing this movie makes her like, I dunno, Prince or Madonna, one of >those rock stars you laugh at because they attempted movies and sorta sucked >at it. I am not saying MLE sucks, I am just saying I really don't want to >walk down the street and here the American public laugh hysterically at the >woman I and others idolize because she does have so much talent.....I don't >know.....I think she will probably do a pretty good job, [...snip...] IMO it could easily go either way....It could be that she'll be another Cher or Bette Midler, making the transition from sound track to screen very easily. While I think taking the *lead* role in a biopic of a major musical figure is quite a leap -- even for a musician -- right into the film industry from a history of no prior significant professional acting exposure, she may very well shine. After all, she was a thespian in high school, so perhaps she is more talented than we see with just her music! Actually, I think it would be a great idea if she would do a cameo on Ellen's show just to get her out in front of a camera (& and audience) in reality...or a call-in on Frasier....but then again, the movie may fare better if the suspense is fresh! BTW, I wonder what kind of "research" MLE's doing for the part.... ya don't think she's gonna try EVerything Janis did, do ya? :| -----<>----- Loretta Myers wrote: ><< Houston-onions...where ARE you???? >> >Hi. >I'm sittin' right here with 3 tickets to the Houston concert that I got >about 10 mins after they went on sale at Ticketmaster. Section 6 was the >best I could do. Something is definitely fishy about that. I would have >ordered from MEIN, but I could get only 2 tickets, and I needed 3. I'll >probably be easy to spot. I'll be the old lady in tennis shoes who is making >a fool of herself over Melissa. >L Hi Loretta! Glad to see another Texan on the list!! There is a whole raft of fellow Houst-onions who will also be attending...hopefully some will get in touch with you soon...I've added your name to my "Texas Tour" list as we get organized with gatherings and such, in the hope that we can all meet each other. Well, SueD and Rachel Strass will DEFinitely be returning to Texas for the Austin & Dallas shows!! FF/GP vets....watch out!! I've heard from a few delurkers here in our fair state...as well as others from both coasts (!) who will be hitting the Texas shows, so keep delurking! I'll be sending out updates again in a few days, so email me privately and let me know you're here!... or that you're *gonna* be here!! Muy muchos gracias! Patti [email protected] "I've lost faith in most things, but still believe in the importance of comfortable clothing." -- Ashleigh Brilliant ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 11:43:32 BST From: Sarah Lorimer Subject: Adultery ? Hi all - excuse me for interrupting, but I couldn't let this one pass by: Elaine wrote: > No matter how bad Julie and Lou's marriage was > (and from what's been stated it was just that they weren't getting along > - there was no abuse or anything awful) Julie and Melissa's relationship > was adultery. Technically it would be adultery even if Julie and Lou > were separated (though most people probably don't consider it as such) > but they weren't. Have to beg to differ on this one, Elaine. According to British law at least, a married woman who has an affair with another woman is *not* committing adultery. My husband is currently divorcing me for this very reason and has to do so on the grounds of "unreasonable behaviour". I'm not defending such behaviour morally so please don't lecture me on the rights and wrongs - believe me, I've put myself through all that already - I'm merely pointing out that legally this is the case. OK, do your worst... Sarah ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 13:59:47 +0100 From: Katinka Groothuis Subject: Ani DiFranco is coming to Europe! Hi all, I just got word that Ani DiFranco is coming on tour to Europe. The dates and venues are: 6th December: Rennes (France) @ Transmusicales (B/O 00 33 99 311210) 7th December: Amsterdam (Netherlands) @ Melkweg (B/O 00 31 20 241666) 9th December: Cologne (Germany) @ Underground (B/O 00 49 711 236 4588) 10th December: Hamburg (Germany) @ Logo (B/O 00 49 711 236 4588) 11th December: Berlin (Germany) @ Loft (B/O 00 49 711 236 4588) 13th December: Bergen (Norway) @ Garage (B/O 00 47 55320210) 14th December: Oslo (Norway) @ Cruise Cafe (B/O 00 47 22836430) 16th December: Brussels (Belgium) @ Botanique (B/O 00 32 2 2183732) 17th December: London (England) @ LA2 (B/O 0171 434 0403) (BTW: those telephonenumbers are international ones, just skip/replace what you (don't) need) That's it for now, bye bye, Katinka ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 10:19:22 -0400 From: Julia Fain Subject: Melissa on Rosie!!! I just got a message from a friend in Arizona...Melissa is on Rosie's show today...Lucky for us on the east coast that it is taped and aired at 4pm:) wooooo hoooo can't wait to see her. Julie ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 10:53:04 -0500 From: Ruth Davis Subject: Clothed in Indy Wow, I'm sure glad that we clarified that I was indeed clothed! It was great to meet some listers at the concert, who by the way, I would not have known if they weren't wearing their purple bowling shirts. I guess I expected to have somewhat better seats, but better luck next time. How did those people on the floor get their tickets, MEIN, TicketMaster, luck?? For future reference, I know where the Legal Beagle (a.k.a. Eager Beaver) is in Indy. Hi Mitch. IMHO my only disappointment of the concert was the little chicky sitting in front of us who sang every single word to every single song at the top of her lungs to her girlfriend, complete with full body motions. Pretty distracting!!! Oh well, it was an awesome concert. Back to work now- Ruth [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 09:32:46 -0700 From: Tami Cowart Subject: Re: Janis movie Lisa White wrote: >I've always loved ME's music and I've tried to appreciate her new found >fame(I'm a fan of her old stuff), but this Janis movie is just too much. I >think she has a lot of nerve to actually sing Janis's tunes...it is, >afterall, a movie about Janis Joplin, and not Melissa Etheridge. E Weekly >says Julie's version will likely cater a lesbian issue...that's totally >aside the point. For those of you who have read her biogrphies (I have) >you will see that that is not entirley what she was about. Okay, so IYHO, who shall they get to play Janis? Oh, I know....how about...JANIS!!! Sorry she's not available. Yes, the woman could sing, yes she was an incredible poet, but you make her sound like a god or something. Janis Joplin was a heroin addict...not a god. And yes, there were some lesbian issues floating about in her life, when she was alive. If that's the angle that Julie is taking with this screenplay, then that's the angle she has the right to take. And Melissa playing the part?....IMHO, it's a big character step for Melissa to lower herself and play the part of Janis. Melissa is much more talented and just better human being. But, it's all part of acting. And, IMHO again, I'd rather watch a woman who can sing, play a woman who could sing instead of a woman who can't sing play a woman who could,...make sense? I think you'll be surprised, Lisa. t -- T A M I J. C O W A R T Employee Communications S I L I C O N G R A P H I C S, I N C. ============================== i believe that we can fly on the wings that we create ~mle ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 13:08:06 -0400 From: Lori Rehfeldt Subject: It's been a while I've recently joined the Ellen listserv which is neat, people are introducing themselves which is nice. I myself like hearing from folks from all over the world, you know, obscure places like San Jose California (Hi Tami! :)) I still have not seen ME unplugged. I haven't been in the mood to listen to ME music lately. Maybe something is wrong with me. Oh, yes now I remember--I just went cold turkey with the IRC. I irked too many people, both on and off the net. It's my charming personality. But, I will still keep my listservs and e:mail. Have to keep something fun in my life. So who did I irc err irk...I irked my SO (I got that label off this thang.) Pam and our son Ryan. Yes, we are lesbian parents doing the parental thang. Ryan's in 4th grade learning stuff I forgot about...the good news is that I now know what an ADVERB is...the bad news, number placement still does a number on me. 4th Grade is cool. They recently added an air conditioner to his floor. Okay, let's talk about ME...so she must be tired touring. I don't feel bad that I didn't see her at the Nissan Pavillion. I mean I did invite her over for coffee, but ME totally blew me off. But that's okay, I guess I could always go on Rosie's show and talk about being blown off by ME. Rosie and I are friends from our days in Commack, LI...she was funny back then too. I was told by my therapist that getting off of irc would cause illusions of sorts. I say, "NO WAY." I live in DC and did not attend the DC gathering, although, I will not talk about the gathering because I didn't go. My excuse is that I HATE to drive...too many agressive drivers out there. ANd the gathering wasn't even in DC. How can anyone call Gaithersburg -- DC? I mean that's like calling Albany...New York City. Although Albany is a city in New York so I guess it could be called NYC...the other one. I haven't thought that out. I am really bummed out that Amanda Marshall only has her music on CDs...what ever happened to tapes? I am finding it difficult to find 8-Tracks. My last 8 Track was TO YOU WITH LOVE, DONNY OSMOND. My mom said the reason I loved him so is that he made a cute looking girl. Mom knows best. Anyway, I just wanted to ramble because I'm darn err dern good at it, and I used Melissa's name a few times to show that I am interested in her music, her thoughts, her body...but disappointed that she did not show up to the DC gathering that wasn't in DC. Have fun and do not break any guitars. It can be costly. Lor ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 15:56:39 EDT From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: Clothes are optional in this post On 10/21/96, Ruth Davis wrote: >Wow, I'm sure glad that we clarified that I was indeed clothed! Awwww, come on now...dontcha think it'd be fun, the entire list descending on an unsuspecting MLE concert, unclothed? Ok, ok, just a thought. (don't worry, Ruth, I knew "unclothed" meant un-purple-bowling-shirted.) mary harbaugh "I'm crazy, not stupid." ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 17:05:49 -0500 From: "Karen C. Heller" Subject: janis movie I was really suprised by someone's comment that said something like "melissa has a lot of nerve to sing Janis's songs, the movie is about Janis Joplin not Melissa Etheridge." I apologize, because I know that is not exactly how the quote was stated, but it was very similiar. Anyway, I believe she is well aware who the movie is about, and I'm sure she feels honored to have the opportunity to sing Janis Joplin's songs in the movie. Who better to sing Janis Joplins songs than someone who has such a great deal of respect and admiration for Janis than Melissa Etheridge. I throughly enjoy Melissa's versions of Janis's songs, and am already looking forward to the movie, and especially seeing/hearing Melissa sing/perform the songs. Go Melissa! Is anyone else as excited as I am? I'm going back to lurking...now that I've vented some of my frustrations. Karen ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 17:13:28 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: Re: Fans in Pa, My Friends in Va & "Adultery ?" First and foremost, I must take issue with something Karrie Bowen wrote, which was: >. . . And I am the BIGGESTHUGESTGREATEST >fan of MLE in all of PA . . . Yeah, sure, whatever. <><><><><> A note to my pals in Northern Virginny - Jan & Elaine (are you still there Elaine, or have you gone back north again?) You gals are nuts, and I love ya both! <><><><><> Lastly, Sarah Lorimer wrote: >Hi all - excuse me for interrupting, but I couldn't let this one >pass by: Gee, that's just how I felt. :-/ >Elaine wrote: >> No matter how bad Julie and Lou's marriage was >> (and from what's been stated it was just that they weren't getting along >> - there was no abuse or anything awful) Julie and Melissa's relationship >> was adultery. Technically it would be adultery even if Julie and Lou >> were separated (though most people probably don't consider it as such) >> but they weren't. >Have to beg to differ on this one, Elaine. According to British law >at least, a married woman who has an affair with another woman is >*not* committing adultery. My husband is currently divorcing me for >this very reason and has to do so on the grounds of "unreasonable >behaviour". May be the law in the good ole U.K., Sarah, but not over the pond. At least not in New York, Pennsylvania, the District of Columbia, Missouri or Florida, the five civil statutes I have handy to me at the moment. According to my research, in these states/areas, any "intimate relations" (the prim and proper Pa. wording) with anyone other than the marriage partner are considered adulterous, regardless of gender. And it does make sense - after all, to be blunt, sex is sex. Perhaps this is a throwback to the turn of the century in England, where Queen Victoria made male homosexuality a crime, but did not codify anything about lesbianism? That's all for today, Tracey, with a wave to the Houst-onions, how unfair can it be? Not only do you beat us, but the attendance for yesterday's game was more than 2X the average for the last 2 seasons! ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 17:54:09 EDT From: Lisa Lyons Subject: Re: unclothed women Ok, Chuckie is actually making me delurk here. First off, let me say it was great meeting Mildred(Chuckie), JJ, and the 'unclothed one'. :) I thought someone else had posted saying they would be there wearing the Melister shirt too, but we couldn't spot any more from our view even with binoculars! Needless to say I wasn't very thrilled with my seats either, so I didn't stay in my seat long. I managed to position myself right at the edge of the back stage when Melissa performed her set back there. Being just a couple feet from Melissa was much better than those seats up in the ozone layer we had. :) Chuckie, your note had me laughing hysterically. You made it sound like I was moshing over the crowd! Ok, so I jumped a few chairs, but I was on an important mission....meet other Melisters!!!! -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Lisa M. Lyons | "Sometime's I feel like an innocent one Lexis-Nexis | To deserve this fate what have I ever done?" [email protected] | -MLE -------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 18:04:56 -0400 From: Elizabeth Mcdavid Elkins Subject: Re: Janis movie Talked with Melissa's PR people today - the Janis role has not been confirmed!! Will be doing an interview with Melissa next week. Anybody have any questions you want me to ask her , I can try and reply her answers to the list? Elizabeth ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 18:56:32 -0400 From: Renee Sweeney Subject: Miscellaneous Melissa... Reply to: Miscellaneous Melissa... Hey Everybody! I'm so excited that MLE is coming to Texas- finally! Hooray! It's been a long time, been a long time, been a long- oh wait, that's another List! Couple of questions- does anyone know if MLE has been rescheduled for the Rosie show or what?! I haven't seen any comments here about that issue, (sorry in advance if I missed them, some of my mail hasn't been coming thru) so I was looking to my best sources for any info. I was so bummed when we missed out on her appearance. *That* would have been one for the record books! 2 of my favorites- MLE&Rosie... Also, do we know the approximate due date time for Julie? ie, 1st week of January, late in January, etc? Just curious... As for the group posting/posting from someone else's account thread- guys, please! Are we this strapped for discussion topics? Post from wherever you want, with whomever you want- pretty simple, right? I think our group posts from the "FajitaFlingersFestival" was some of the most fun I had! It's a group thang, right? Now, one more thing and I'm sure it's gonna get me in trouble, but I just can't resist! ;-o Elaine said- "...No matter how bad Julie and Lou's marriage was (and from what's been stated it was just that they weren't getting along - there was no abuse or anything awful) Julie and Melissa's relationship was adultery. Technically it would be adultery even if Julie and Lou were separated (though most people probably don't consider it as such) but they weren't..." Now, I'm not married, but if I was, I couldn't think of anyone I'd rather commit adultery with, could y'all? (just kidding, please don't kill me for this...I know I'm being tacky!) Okay, I better get the heck out of here for now! Renee' (in Dallas, waitin' for the deal to go down...) Patti- did you get my e-mail? ANGELA!!!!!!!!!! Hi, Dougie! Jud- I can't wait to see you! Love ya LizE! Hey Jill&Laurel! ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 16:01:40 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Re: "Adultery ?" Elaine wrote of Julie and Melissa (while Julie was still married to LDP): >Julie and Melissa's relationship was adultery. Technically it would be >adultery even if Julie and Lou were separated (though most people probably >don't consider it as such) but they weren't. Sarah Lorimer wrote from the UK perspective: >Have to beg to differ on this one, Elaine. According to British law >at least, a married woman who has an affair with another woman is >*not* committing adultery. My husband is currently divorcing me for >this very reason and has to do so on the grounds of "unreasonable >behaviour". Tracey Thacker wrote from a US legal view: >May be the law in the good ole U.K., Sarah, but not over the pond. At least >not in New York, Pennsylvania, the District of Columbia, Missouri or >Florida, the five civil statutes I have handy to me at the moment. >According to my research, in these states/areas, any "intimate relations" >(the prim and proper Pa. wording) with anyone other than the marriage >partner are considered adulterous, regardless of gender. Add California to that list, and probably most (if not all) other US states. Yes, this is one area where British law is quite different from US law, and I assume from Elaine's comment it also differs from Canadian law. >And it does make sense - after all, to be blunt, sex is sex. It's amazing how many times I've had to explain this to people. >Perhaps this is a throwback to the turn of the century in England, where >Queen Victoria made male homosexuality a crime, but did not codify anything >about lesbianism? I have several academic references on the subject which explain that Queen Victoria stated she believed sex between women was not possible, so she saw no reason to codify it's prohibition, and I know people who *still* believe it's not possible between women . John Miller San Jose CA ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 13:32:11 GMT+1200 From: Paula Gilliver Subject: adultery Hi Gang. I was wondering about the law on this in New Zealand - then I remembered that there is now only one grounds for divorce here - "Irreconsilable differences" (I know - I can't spell). Two years of seperation is all that's required to prove this. No blame needed. Long way from the 1800's when you had to show that your spouse had spent more than 6 of the last 11 years in a sanitarium...... Paula. aka - Conan the Librarian, "What do you mean you do not understand the Do We Desimal system?" ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 18:10:41 -0700 From: John Miller Subject: Re: adultery Paula Gilliver wrote from New Zealand: >I was wondering about the law on this in New Zealand - then I >remembered that there is now only one grounds for divorce here - >"Irreconsilable differences" (I know - I can't spell). Two years of > seperation is all that's required to prove this. No blame needed. I'm not sure anyone was describing grounds for divorce (I know I wasn't), just the legal definition of adultery, which is still on the law books in jurisdictions with which I'm familiar... this, in spite of the fact that many US jurisdictions now require only 'irreconcilable differences' for dissolution of marriage (divorce). John Miller ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 12:48:19 EST From: Nanette Gherardin Subject: Last Tour Dates, Shawn Colvin Hi all For those who haven't heard already The last two dates for Melissa's US tour have been confirmed. They are: 12/21 San Diego, CA 12/22 Los Angeles, CA Now for something totally irrelevant: Just listened to the new Shawn Colvin Cd had to get the import as not released in Australia until next year. Well worth the wait of nearly 4 years (not inluding her CD of covers). A shame her performance on David Letterman wasn't all that impressive. Bye for now Nan ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 21:39:16 -0500 From: Laurel & Jill Subject: Happy Houston-onions > Houston-onions...where ARE you???? Here we are and we are HAPPY!!! We raced to our Ticketmaster Saturday morning and lo and behold ... we have in our hot, little hands ... 7th row center on the floor! Yeah ... Happy Houstonians abound! So any MLE listers at the Houston concert ... look us up. We'll be the dancing women in the purple shirts ... front and center!!! Any of the fellow Fajita Fest/Texas listers planning on making it a very long weekend and taking in the Houston show? ... E-mail us privately so we can organize a get together. Will November *ever* get here? Laurel & Jill <--- tipping their bottled water north to bid hello to Renee, Patti, Janice & Claudia ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 21:03:30 EDT From: M Something Subject: Re: Melissa on Rosie!!! On Mon, 21 Oct 1996 Julia Fain writes: >I just got a message from a friend in Arizona...Melissa is on Rosie's >show today...Lucky for us on the east coast that it is taped and aired >at 4pm:) Hey, Julie, I think the desert heat may have gotten to your friend. I believe she was reading last week's TV Guide. MaryLou, did you really run home at lunch time to set your VCR? Oh well. Michelle ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 22:14:06 EDT From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: MEC & John Miller, where are ya? Hi, All, Okay, I'm actually writing a post with Melissa Etheridge content. I may have missed this if it was posted earlier; I've been off-list since spring or so. My apologies for repeating content if it was. I'm a bit curious- for what reason is Kenny Arnoff replacing the YLS album drummer? (I've lost my limited edition cover, so I don't recall his name. I'm not *too* broken up about losing it, though ;-) ) **Attention John Miller:** Hiya John ! did you get my email or did your "hot server" send it hurtling off into cyberspace? Hope to hear from you soon! Thanks in advance, Northland College Mary Harbaugh who remains an unclothed lister ;-) URL: http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/1827 ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 20 Oct 1996 to 21 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Tue Oct 22 23:53:13 1996 Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 23:50:56 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 21 Oct 1996 to 22 Oct 1996 - Special issue To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 00:48:29 -0700 From: Joyce Stoliar Subject: Moshing at Melissa NMEC >From: Lisa Lyons >Needless to say I wasn't very thrilled with my seats >either, so I didn't stay in my seat long. I managed to position myself >right at the edge of the back stage when Melissa performed her set back >there. Being just a couple feet from Melissa was much better than those >seats up in the ozone layer we had. :) >Chuckie, your note had me laughing hysterically. You made it sound like >I was moshing over the crowd! Ok, so I jumped a few chairs, but I was >on an important mission....meet other Melisters!!!! I seem to recall dear Lisa, that you you have a problem staying in the seat you were assigned :-> Did you run into Shanks again while hanging out by the bathrooms, waiting to sneak back in, huh??? You're such a delinquent Melissa fan ;-> You're my HERO!!! Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 07:22:13 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Story Time! Hello Gang!! Poohster here! First and foremost a big warm fuzzy pawwed hug and many "Thanks" to all of you for your warmth and support for myself and my family in the passing of my grandmother. Second and excuse me for still rolling on the floor in laughter, let me tell you all a little story. I went out with a dear friend and her SO for ice cream as they were trying to cheer me up and of course when I met them and they saw my Melissa stickers on my truck, a conversation was sparked. Now here is where it gets hilarious!!! The SO says to me, "So you like Melissa huh!" I wonder what the clue was? Nicely I say "Yes Indeed! She Rocks And She's The Best!" To which came the reply: I like Cheryl Crow alot more!!!!!!! A pin could have been heard as it was dropped except for the fact that I had to grab it on its way down and poke myself in the butt to keep from busting out in laughter! My brain was racing with all of these thoughts such as: How could one even put Melissa in the same breathe as the bird woman!!! This is like comparing sweet and low to honey! "YUCK" "YUCK" "DOUBLE YUCK!!!" This is like Nestle to Godiva!!!!!!!! This is like vinyl to real leather!!!!! This is like Lees to Levis!!!! This is like silk to real roses!!!! Promptly I took a drink of butt slamming mountain dew ( like mellow yellow to Mt. Dew !! :) Got my breath and said: "Really! So what kind of ice cream do they have here!!!!!" And went on into hot fudge mania!!! I bailed out to be nice. What else could a Pooh Bear do??? And as I turned up my stereo on the way out of the parking lot I smiled knowing that in this bears heart there is no room for feathers for they only create havic on sticky paws! That's All Ethel!! Sincerely, "POOH" ( Who is still rolling with laughter and holding her sides as she watches the clouds roll by! ) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 08:17:46 EST From: "paul J. Sgroi" Subject: NEWBIE says HI! I just joined this list, and wanted to say HI!. My name is PAUL, I'm 32, I live in Northeastern Pennsylvania, and I'm in love with MELISSA(funny that's my wife's name, too!). I've only seen her in concert once--during the BRAVE & CRAZY tour in a very small theatre in, of all places, Wilkes-Barre, PA. She was excellent, and that is still my favorite ablum. I can't wait to see her in the Janis Joplin thing -- anyway -- I just wanted to say HI!... ...paul ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 08:24:19 -0500 From: "Mildred L. Perkins" Subject: Indy > From: Anne Haines > Subject: Indianapolis show > > My MEIN seats were OK... center section, row 18 Gosh, you were half court, too? Nothing like a good fan club to take care of you. ;-) > It was fun to see Kenny Aronoff interacting with the "hometown" crowd. At > one point MLE asked if there was anyone there from Bloomington (the short > person shrieking her fool head off was me) I think I heard you, Anne...or it was an alpine echo. > I'm sorry I didn't see any other listers... I was on the lookout for [...] > listers happened to spot us that might give them a clue.) Where *were* > y'all, anyway? Way back too far, but which section? (I was in sec.B, row > 18, if anyone cares) You might not have been able to see us through the clouds anyway, or you would have gotten a tremendous crick in your neck. We were approximately fifty feet off the floor, and I don't mean to the right or left. I think my ticket stub has a disclaimer about people who suffer from vertigo. In answer to your question, we were sixteen rows UP, halfcourt. I know M.E.I.N. doesn't guarantee GOOD seats, but jeez o pete, these were awful. > From: Ruth Davis > Subject: Clothed in Indy > > Wow, I'm sure glad that we clarified that I was indeed clothed! Did we? All I said was you weren't wearing a bowling shirt. I _never_ claimed you were wearing clothes. ;-) > IMHO my only disappointment of the concert was the little chicky sitting in > front of us who sang every single word to every single song at the top of > her lungs to her girlfriend, complete with full body motions. Her twin was right behind me. Weird. > From: Lisa Lyons > Subject: Re: unclothed women > > Chuckie, your note had me laughing hysterically. You made it sound like > I was moshing over the crowd! Ok, so I jumped a few chairs, but I was > on an important mission....meet other Melisters!!!! That wasn't moshing? Huh. ;-) Chuckie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 07:26:51 -0700 From: Joe Vitale Subject: yet another Houstonian speaks up... Though I live in Houston, I'll be seeing Melissa for the first time in Dallas. I'd love to go to the Houston show, as well, but not alone. Anyone care to kick around an idea or two with me? Lemme know. Joe -- Joe Vitale -- Marketing with Spirit -- Houston Office: 713-999-1110 [email protected] http://www.speaking.com/vitale.html Get my NEW book: "CyberWriting: How to Promote Your Product or Service Online (without being flamed)" Call 1-800-262-9699 ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 11:24:55 EST From: DOUG Subject: Melissa on Rosie Hey all! uhhhmmm...Okay, we get a post yesterday saying that Melissa is gonna be on Rosie's show. I privately emailed the sender of the message to confirm. I was told that the senders friend was watching it at the time and that Melissa was on. Well, I get excited because I tape Rosie everyday and I think that I can go home and end a lousy day by watching Melissa AND Rosie. I get home, fix my dinner, rewind the tape, and then guess what...I find out that not only is Melissa not on the show (which is a live show not taped) but Michael Bolton is. Big let down...I mean that's like expecting champagne and roses but getting root beer and thorns! 8-( oh well, the perfect end to a very damn lousy day! Maybe Tuesday will be better...I can dream can't I?!?!?! Doug "Like a child in the night with no one to hold you and tell you everything's gonna be alright..." -from "Fear of Being Alone" by Reba McEntire Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 10:32:24 -0600 From: Lisa on the prairie Subject: Re: Melissa on Rosie On Tue, 22 Oct 1996 11:24:55 -0500 (ES, DOUG wrote: >tape, and then guess what...I find out that not only is Melissa not >on the show (which is a live show not taped) but Michael Bolton is. Hmmmm, this is really weird, but Michael Bolton wasn't on my version of Rosie yesterday. It was Luther Vandross. I can't quite understand all of this, all I know is that I too went home last night hoping to see Melissa, and finding Mark Harmon, Chris Evert, Luther and someone else. Humfph! lisa Lisa Nordeen Head Women's Basketball Coach University of Minnesota, Morris (320) 589-6429 (O) (320) 589-4782 (H) [email protected] "so I'll walk the plank, and I'll jump with a smile, if I'm gonna go down I'm gonna do it with style" -ani difranco ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 11:36:22 EST From: DOUG Subject: Re: Melissa on Rosie Lisa wrote: *** ***Hmmmm, this is really weird, but Michael Bolton wasn't on my version of ***Rosie yesterday. It was Luther Vandross. I can't quite understand all of Right you are. It was Luther. Michael Bolton is on today. I came into work late and got to see the opening segment of Rosie's show today, so Michael Bolton was in my head. It was still a big let down for Melissa not to be on. Forgive my earlier blunder. I guess this just sets the stage for the rest of the day. Doug "Like a child in the night with no one to hold you and tell you everything's gonna be alright..." -from "Fear of Being Alone" by Reba McEntire Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 01:29:16 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: MLE's SF show - 11th annual concert for kids i just heard on KFOG that MLE's 12/17 san francisco show at the cow palace will be a benefit for KFOG's "11th annual concert for kids". i called the dj and tried to get as much information as i could. she didn't have much to tell. i'll try to get more information later this morning. here's the scoop: tickets go on sale at 10 am this sunday (10/27) at the usual BASS outlets (tower, wherehouse, charge by phone, etc.) and methods (those lining up at outlets should be aware of BASS' random line distribution - email me if you have any questions). the dj seemed to think that the tickets will be cheap (like $20 a ticket). you are supposed to bring an unwrapped toy that will be given to the "toys for tots" program. in the past, they usually have at least 2 acts, but she had no idea whether that would be the case for this concert or not. i asked whether the concert would be broadcasted, since they usually do this, too. again, she didn't know if they would do this, but it's probably too early to tell so far in advance. sorry so sketchy at this point, but i'll try to get better info later and post it when i find out. *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 15:02:40 GMT-6 From: Invisible Subject: peace sign I may be totally crazy, but I need to know if Melissa used a peace sign, in any of her performances prior to the september 30 performance in Minneapolis. I mean the hand sign from the seventies and not the drawn circle sign. To anyone's recollection. Email private if you want. Thanx Invisible Touch ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 15:37:03 -0400 From: Deb Subject: SMEC: Catching Up wrote: >I do have a question that I hope someone can answer. Does anyone >know if Melissa appeared on the front cover of Newsweek magazine in >September? The story has not appeared yet; MEIN said it would appear before the end of the year. I'll post here as soon as I see it, since I'm a NEWSWEEK subscriber. =-=-=<>=-=-= pags wrote: >I have been looking for the soundtrack of Theresa's Tatoo but can't seem >to find it anywhere. Is it even available? There is no soundtrack available. Consider yourself lucky if you can even find the movie! :) =-=-=<>=-=-= Marianne McClaughry wrote: >A question for MEIN members: Is there any value in joining MEIN other >than possible good concert seats? They offer newsletters which, IMO, are probably most interesting if you're a fairly young (teen) fan, lots and lots of merchandise, and access to their entire Web site and phone services. =-=-=<>=-=-= Dan Cohen wrote: >But you know, I would think that everyone who likes MLE whould like Amanda, >too, and vice verse, considering their style at least. But no, that's not >so -- some us are not at all impressed with Amanda Indeed. :) > -- why do you think that should be? One thing I've always loved about MLE is that she's so... *real*. While she's always been very honest (and obvious) about wanting to be a big star, I don't think she really acts like a big star now that she is one. Amanda Marshall, on the other hand, thinks she's a big star and acts like it. Tori and I were particularly turned off by her disrespect for the Birchmere, a club that inspires only reverence among most who play there. She used her own sound person (unheard of at the Birchmere), and generally treated the staff like crap. More importantly, the show was ridiculously loud for such a small club, and her songs (or the songs of whoever it is that writes for her) really sucked. The lyrics were really insipid, I hated the music, and the stage demeanor of the entire band. >Any Listers want to bite on this one? What does it mean to be a >MLE fan, yet not like Amanda? I see the comparison rather easily, and I'm sure that *many* MLE fans will like Marshall (or Morrisette), just as many Kate Bush fans like Tori Amos, and many Sinead O'Connor fans like The Cranberries. But for me, each of those is a pale imitation of the original. =-=-=<>=-=-= Anne Haines wrote: >The "second stage" was kinda annoying for me, since we didn't get our >butts moving fast enough to run back there and get close, but we did go >back to stand there You know, I love that MLE does the 2nd stage in the middle of the set; I think it's a wonderful gesture to people who don't get great seats (not to mention the symbolism of them on a small stage in the center of the crowd). So I'm kind of surprised to read about so many people on the list who leave their great seats to stand in front of the people further back who should benefit from MLE's gracious effort. =-=-=<>=-=-= Sarah Lorimer wrote: >Have to beg to differ on this one, Elaine. According to British law >at least, a married woman who has an affair with another woman is >*not* committing adultery. My husband is currently divorcing me for >this very reason and has to do so on the grounds of "unreasonable >behaviour". The same is true in the state of Va., but I'm shocked that you would legitimize that piece of legislation just to make a point. Laws such as those only inidicate a lack of respect for sex between women, and I for one would not use them as a basis to contend that I did not commit adultery (I did, whether the state of Va. calls it that or not). BTW, any discussion of adultery, to me, has a basis in one's promise to be monogomous. It has nothing to do with laws, or with the Bible (which was, interestingly enough, written at at a time when polygamy was common). =-=-=<>=-=-= Ruth Davis wrote: >IMHO my only disappointment of the concert was the little chicky sitting in >front of us who sang every single word to every single song at the top of >her lungs to her girlfriend, complete with full body motions. Pretty >distracting!!! Oh, man, how annoying. I would've had to have found a way to get rid of her... why do people think we'd pay $50 to hear them sing over MLE? =-=-=<>=-=-= "Mildred L. Perkins" wrote: >I know >M.E.I.N. doesn't guarantee GOOD seats, but jeez o pete, these were awful. The best they *ever* promised was 1st 20 rows, and I don't even think they guarantee that any more. -- Deb \ [email protected] \ 10-22 15:10 EST \ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo __________________________________________________________________________ "Her lyrics read like adolescent spew, and her anger is too often expressed as vitriol or just plain whining." - Karen Schoemer, NEWSWEEK, on Alanis Morissette ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 15:38:22 -0400 From: Deb Subject: Branch Announcement: Nissan Tape Tree Hi all, All of the branches of the Nissan tape tree should have their tapes by now. Here's a reminder of the offering, with full disclosure of its flaws: "I did manage to get a boot of the show, which I am willing to offer as a tape tree. It is definitely an audience tape, with all of its flaws. I was sitting right in front of security personnel, so "Change," "Bring Me Some Water," and "This War is Over" are missing because I couldn't change tape sides in my seat. There is also a sound dropout during "Skin Deep." But for the most part, it's about 2 hrs of fair recording, some distortion due to how damn loud it was, but virtually no audience chatter and very listenable. The set list again: IRLY, IIWT, IWtCO, AUK, CtMW, NtG, SP, [Change], SL, ICHBY, AIH, AAG, LMG, AtWtH, SD, [BMSW], ItOO, YLS, LtWID, [TWIO]." Note that songs in [brackets] are *missing*. The show is on two 90-minute tapes, but the entire Side B of the second tape is the VH-1 "Roots, Rock, and Roll of Melissa Etheridge" show, one of my favorites. Mike Lieman is also doing a tape tree of a show he got from this tour, and I'm certain his is better than mine (but mine was first! ). Here's how it works: write to the branch below who is associated with your birth month (or, if you're in Canada, Tricia has graciously agreed to be our Canadian branch). The branches have agreed to make copies for at least the first 10 people who request them. The branches will make copies for blank tapes and an SASE, but you can make whatever arrangements you both agree to (cash, trade), as long as no one makes a profit. When a branch has received more requests than s/he can process, s/he'll refer the remainder to the overflow branches. January: [email protected] (Jess) February: [email protected] (Mike) March: [email protected] (Brenda) April: [email protected] (Diane) May: [email protected] (Jib) June: [email protected] (Jenny) July: [email protected] (John) August: [email protected] (Jules) September: [email protected] (Kelly) October: [email protected] (Lori) November: [email protected] (Maggie) December: [email protected] (Shel) Jan. - Jun. Overflow: [email protected] (Brandon) Jun. - Dec. Overflow: [email protected] (Jan) Canada: [email protected] (Tricia) Thanks for all the help from the branches! -- Deb \ [email protected] \ 10-22 15:38 EST \ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo ___________________________________________________________________________ "I fight with love, and I laugh with rage / you've got to live light enough to see the humor / and long enough to see some change" - Ani DiFranco ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 17:25:00 +0000 From: Jan Subject: Re: where are they/Bette/drivel/the law Debbie Schwalenberg queried: > Does anyone know where Melissa and Julie are located right now? In a new house surrounded by a high wall so that people can't drive by and look in their windows? Patti said: > IMO it could easily go either way....It could be that she'll be another Cher > or Bette Midler, making the transition from sound track to screen very > easily. And how many Bette Midler films do you like? I think she's wonderful but haven't liked most of her films. But a big recommendation for "First Wives Club". I think (and am glad) that Cher was a major surprise. I'm sure critics wanted to trash her and were upset to find out that they couldn't. Joyce S. wrote: > I am guessing that Elaine you were referring to me as "people" for a > clarification of my post, Just ask, I'll gladly explain.... Let's see. Joyce wrote the original message to which I responded and asked for clarification. Could it be Joyce that I was referring to? But, don't worry, I think she explained it just fine already. > I am a very busy woman, As are many other people on this list. > and there are certain things in my life that I don't > have time for, one of them is reading things that you have to say. And I know of people who don't read her messages because they don't really care to know everything she's done since her last message. It's as unrealistic to think that everybody will like every message as it is to believe that every message will be 100% MEC. > And IMO I believe that your posts are negative. I wonder if that includes the first (?) post of mine she read that convinced her to write to me and invite me to her home (though how she figured that somebody who has friends in a certain city translates to she lives in that city is beyond me). Or did my posts only become negative when she insisted that because we were both from the same city, had lived in another of the same cities and both of the same religion we must know each other despite my assurances that we didn't? Or was it when, a couple of weeks after she announced that she was going to do the bowling shirts and we were still corresponding but I hadn't ordered one, she asked me why? Told her I didn't wear bowling shirts and couldn't afford one and she stopped writing to me. List shirts were a great idea. Doesn't mean that they were to everybody's taste or budget... Recently I started a newsletter and asked several people if they'd like to receive it. Some said "yes", some didn't respond. I didn't ask why they didn't want it. They're not interested for whatever reason, I don't care. > Unfortunately a couple of times lately I have read > your posts assuming they were someone else's, And unfortunately for those of us on digest (and for whatever reason do not use a de-digestifier program) we sometimes have to read parts of messages that we don't like. To my knowledge, nobody has died from this activity. I got physically ill when I read of The Clothed's One tragic and untimely demise and had to go back to bed for the rest of the day but that was more likely flu or food poisoning. > subject name in the title of a post, it is helpful to know who is writing > the post. If that can't be done on the "From" line than the first sentence > of the post should be , hey it's ..... I'm writing from ....'s house, People who share accounts usually introduce themselves in their first message and explain that the name in the signature will be different than in the header. They shouldn't have to repeat themselves in every message...It's known that I post from Jan's account when I'm in VA and I'm not going to explain it each time for "busy" people. >> And if you have read this author's stuff before > and didn't like it, are you likely to read his/her stuff again? My > guess is that you won't, Conversely (sort of), does one automatically like a book just because it's by a favourite author? Friends of mine write posts with which I disagree. And friends of Joyce don't have a problem with my posting from another account. > and I don't like to waste my time on writings by authors > who to me, have absolutely nothing to say. Ditto which is why I skip Joyce's messages. >> And my fellow listers, I believe > they deserve the right to choose what they would like, and would not > like to read. And they're perfectly capable of choosing for themselves. They don't need Joyce or anybody else looking out for them or requesting that certain people identify themselves when writing from other accounts. I haven't seen anybody that dislikes Joyce or anybody else's messages say that NMEC content is ok unless it's from her/any other specific person. If we did that pretty soon there'd be nobody here. JAN HERE: I assure one and all that I won't be offended if you choose not to read my messages just in case they might turn out to be from Elaine . Back to Elaine: Sarah Lorimer wrote: > Have to beg to differ on this one, Elaine. According to British law > at least, a married woman who has an affair with another woman is > *not* committing adultery. I didn't know that. Thanks for the info. And to everybody who knows/ researched the law in their area - it's been informative and interesting (just hope there isn't a pop quiz ). > I'm not defending such behaviour morally so please don't > lecture me on the rights and wrongs I wouldn't think of it. Particularly after somebody decided that my statement that Julie and Melissa committed adultery (they publicly admitted to having a relationship while Julie was still legally married) was actually a personal judgement on their behaviour. > OK, do your worst... How about I wish you and Kate the best instead? > From: Kive Kamerling admonished us: > =( You guys are spelling my name wrong... It's Kiva NOT Kive. Then perhaps you should fix it in your header. Some people quote headers in their intros ("so and so wrote:") so as not to mispell the name. It's not their fault if the name is misspelled in the header (or if the name in the header is different than the name in the signature). Lori Rehfeldt wrote: >> I don't feel bad that I > didn't see her at the Nissan Pavillion. I mean I did invite her over > for coffee, but ME totally blew me off. Did we forget to mention that she joined us for the tailgate party before the show? And you should have seen her macarena with Gwen in the parking lot afterwords! >> I am really bummed out that Amanda Marshall > only has her music on CDs...what ever happened to tapes? Her "unreleased" stuff is on tape. E-mail us privately and we can arrange to make one for you. > Anyway, I just wanted to ramble because I'm darn err dern good at Sure you didn't have a couple of glasses of wine before posting? Tracey wrote: > A note to my pals in Northern Virginny - Jan & Elaine (are you still there > Elaine, or have you gone back north again?) Jan won't let me leave. Chained me to the computer table. I'm now waiting for the cake with the file baked into it to arrive (someone offered already). > You gals are nuts, and I love ya both! And you made my day! Thanks. Jan here: Mine, too! Mine, too! (Have you gotten your pictures back yet?) Elaine again: > Queen Victoria made male homosexuality a crime, but did not codify > anything about lesbianism? I knew the answer to this one. But John Miller beat me to it. :-( > I really must get more current HTML specs. Never seen this tag. Elizabeth Mcdavid Elkins wrote: > Talked with Melissa's PR people today - the Janis role has not been > confirmed!! If Julie's writing the script, how can ME not have the role? Or is Julie not confirmed either? Sounds like a package deal to me. > Will be doing an interview with Melissa next week. How do you get to be so lucky? Renee Sweeney wrote: > As for the group posting/posting from someone else's account thread- > guys, please! Are we this strapped for discussion topics? Post from > wherever you want, with whomever you want- pretty simple, right? I > think our group posts from the "FajitaFlingersFestival" was some of All I did was ask somebody to clarify their statement. I doubt the thread will last as long as the Fajita one, which didn't necessarily interest everybody here either, I imagine. > Technically it would be adultery even if Julie and Lou were separated > Now, I'm not married, but if I was, I couldn't think of anyone I'd > rather commit adultery with, could y'all? I wouldn't mind committing adultery with LDP either. ;-) Elaine ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 17:33:08 -0400 From: "John J. McCann" Subject: teresa's tattoo hi guys! just thought i would let you know the movie Teresa's Tattoo that julie directed and melissa has a cameo on is airing tomorrow....wed. oct. 23rd at 6am and 11am on prism(cable channel). try and catch it if you can! bridgette ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 22:57:54 GMT From: Beth Durff Subject: DC *area* get-together, Houstonians Lori wrote: >Anyway, I just wanted to ramble because I'm darn err dern good at it, and I >used Melissa's name a few times to show that I am interested in her music, her >thoughts, her body...but disappointed that she did not show up to the DC >gathering that wasn't in DC. Melissa says to tell you that she's sorry she missed seeing you there - and we were too... Laurel & Jill wrote: >Here we are and we are HAPPY!!! We raced to our Ticketmaster Saturday >morning and lo and behold ... we have in our hot, little hands ... 7th row >center on the floor! Yeah ... Happy Houstonians abound! >Any of the fellow Fajita Fest/Texas listers planning on making it a very >long weekend and taking in the Houston show? ... E-mail us privately so we >can organize a get together. You guys are *trying* to make me jealous on purpose aren't you? Hey, there's always time for the Honda driving chick magnet to hop on a plane... Right Jonti? Beth (*grooming* for the big Philly weekend coming up) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 17:17:42 -0400 From: Sue Molyneaux Subject: XSess, Xena Hi all.... just a couple of quickies for you, along with my random reminder to help me maintain the television listing... I keep the list of Melissa's TV appearances. That includes the local news coverage of her concerts(!!) The mre info you can give me, the more detailed the list is. FYI, for those not "in the know" ;} the list may be found via my homepage, the URL is in my .sig But now, for some Melissa bits.... no, no, not like *those* Melissa bits, _other_ Melissa bits... There is a "new" CDZeene out (CD/Magazine) called XSess Living. It's a CD-sized magazine with an audio CD. The magazine focusses on music, celebrities, travel, politics, fashion, etc. Volume 3-1 includes 2 Melissa songs on the CD: Your Little Secret (4:19) and I Want To Come Over (5:25). Other artists include Heather Nova, John Lennon and yoko Ono, Tori Amos, and LL Cool J. There is a teensy little write-up on Your Little Secret, and an advert, and that's about it for Melissa. At least one of her songs is also on Volume 2-2 as well (but Tower Records wasn't stocking that). And.... for the collectors in the Toronto area, the Sam's The Record Man store on Yonge just north of Dundas has a CD Single sale. You can get the German import of "Your Little Secret" 4-song CD single for about $7. And some NMEC... we just rented a video called The Women From Down Under (or something really close to that)at one of the local video stores in the Gay Ghetto. This is a series of 4 short films from Australian women producers. One of the shorts includes Lucy Lawless, of Xena fame, starring as a tow-truck driver who falls for another woman. No, she doesn't *quite* manage to kiss the woman, but it's still worth a couple of bucks just to see that Lawless smile ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 19:04:44 -0500 From: "Cindy S. Hughey" Subject: Mamphis Concert I'm making plans to be at the memphis concert on Nov 23. Does anyone know when tickes go on sale? Any other melisters paln to be at the memphis concert? Shakay ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 20:58:09 -0400 From: Brandon Schott Subject: ALBANY TREE, ATTN MIKE! I am one of the branches for the Albany Tree set up by Mike Liebman a few weeks ago. I was in the midst of a heavy transition from my email carrier when the communications began...my mail system was messed up for a good week, and I have not recieved any of the mail sent to me during this period (not to mention my email software crashed, along with my address book!). Anyway, Mike, if you`re out there, please email me with your home page with the info on it, so I can contact MY branch and leaves, and get things going again. Thanks, and I`m sorry for cluttering up the list with this! ;) Brandon ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 21:40:00 -0400 From: Lauren Tag Subject: Re: SMEC: Catching Up someone mentioned the macarena so naturally i had to come outta my 7 year lurking period. (so maybe it hasnt been 7 yrs...it sho' feels like it though) hi everyone, im back *wild cheering* >Marianne McClaughry wrote: > >>A question for MEIN members: Is there any value in joining MEIN other >>than possible good concert seats? Then Deb said: >They offer newsletters which, IMO, are probably most interesting if you're >a fairly young (teen) fan, lots and lots of merchandise, and access to >their entire Web site and phone services. i cant speak for other teens, but this teen doesn't value the newsletter. its usually antiquated info anyway, and i dont care for the merchandise either..or the phone line...or the web site....hmmm... has mein come out w/ mle underwear yet? if not im surprised they havent. they do however *sometimes* give(perhaps give isnt the correct word...) pretty darn good seats to mle concerts. lauren " i was locked into being my mother's daughter/i was just eating bread and water thinking nothing ever changes/ then i was shocked to see the mistakes of each generation will just fade like a radio station/ if u drive out of range" ani difranco ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 23:24:24 -0400 From: "Garmager, Clarissa" Subject: L.A. show!! That's fantastic about the L.A. show! Does anyone have any idea when tickets go on sale? Thanks! -Clarissa ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 20:49:22 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: a wee update on the MLE s.f. show ok, no concrete information regarding ticket prices (i called BASS directly but they won't have any information until thursday or friday), but we can pretty much guess what they'll be, not to mention we'll know really soon once MEIN puts them on sale on thursday. i just talked to a different KFOG dj than last night - here's what this one said. however, KFOG is billing their "11th annual concert for kids" on 12/17 at the cow palace as "an evening with melissa etheridge." all seats are reserved (what? no mosh pit?! ). a portion of the concert proceeds benefit bay area children's charities. concert goers are encouraged to bring an unwrapped toy or book for the marine corps' "toys for tots" program. at this point, sponsors include KFOG, happypuppy.com (a gaming site), and jamba juice (don't ask, i have no idea, and neither did the dj). moo! *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 23:53:02 -0400 From: SbHarvick at aol Subject: Greetings Hi Everybody, Gee, it's wonderful having my Mac back (it crashed on the 5th). I could not believe the amount of messages to the list there were when I downloaded them. It's taking awhile to sort through all of them. Anyway, I have to add my .02 to comments about Melissa's Chicago show (which, BTW, was held in conjunction with the DC listers' bash................ .....Lori Rehfeldt wrote: >> I don't feel bad that I > didn't see her at the Nissan Pavillion. I mean I did invite her over > for coffee, but ME totally blew me off. and Elaine responded: >>>Did we forget to mention that she joined us for the tailgate party >>>before the show? And you should have seen her macarena with Gwen >>>in the parking lot afterwords! Not to mention the laughs all of us there had when ME and Gwen tried to teach the rest of us how to macarena :-). Of course when she saw me in Chicago, she asked about the DC gathering and dedicated the show to you folks. We commiserated together doing the macarena down Rush Street all night. How's that for a parenthetical comment?). Well, Chicago was definitely a good time. The concert seemed a whole lot more mellow than it was in St. Louis, but I can't quite put my finger on the reason for that. I had a great time before the show at an aol-er's house; met a Lister (whose name escapes me right now--sorry) who was among those meeting the Shirt Gal at O'Hare; only saw one other bowling shirted person in line, but it was given to her by her friend Bonnie. I think that might have been the last show I'll be able to get to, unless I can find someone to road trip to Memphis with--or KC, for that matter, I guess. Well, I'll talk to y'all later, Susie ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 21 Oct 1996 to 22 Oct 1996 - Special issue ****************************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Thu Oct 24 02:31:59 1996 Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 00:00:05 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 22 Oct 1996 to 23 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 23:55:02 -0500 From: Anne Haines Subject: MEIN seats, the second stage, bald guys Chuckie ([email protected]) said: > > one point MLE asked if there was anyone there from Bloomington (the short > > person shrieking her fool head off was me) > > I think I heard you, Anne...or it was an alpine echo. I *wondered* what all those goats were doing wandering about up there. ;) Actually, it sounds like you had better seats than I had for the Indigo Girls in the same venue a while back, and I was standing in line when sales opened for those tickets. So it *may* be that you did better via MEIN than you would've done through Ticketmaster. No way of telling, though. MEIN is currently saying, that their tickets are "generally within the first third of the venue." Sounds pretty... general to me. IMO, it wouldn't be ridiculous for them to guarantee main floor seating. Although in a lot of cases I'd rather be in the first couple rows to the side than clear in the back on the main floor... Deb ([email protected]) said: > You know, I love that MLE does the 2nd stage in the middle of the set; I > think it's a wonderful gesture to people who don't get great seats (not to > mention the symbolism of them on a small stage in the center of the crowd). > So I'm kind of surprised to read about so many people on the list who leave > their great seats to stand in front of the people further back who should > benefit from MLE's gracious effort. Well, I can't speak for anyone who was standing in front of the further-back people... I, and most of the people-who-rushed-back-to-the- small-stage around me, were in *back* of the small stage. Hey, it was either that or sit in my seat and stare at an empty stage for 5 songs. Even the back of Kenny Aronoff's balding head beats that. ;) Especially considering that the sound, from back behind the stage, kinda sucked. I noticed this at Deer Creek too-- I couldn't make out more than a couple words of ATWTH then, when she played it from the second stage, since I'd never heard it before at that point. I absolutely agree about the symbolism and gesture of the second stage. In fact, my overall impression of the concert setup-- from the video monitors (which I'll say again displayed some GREAT camera work from the main stage, though it looked like they only had 1 camera back by the small stage), to the set from the small stage (and the way all the band members, from what I could see, kept switching sides on the stage in order to play to different parts of the audience), to the way MLE and the band made a point of running across the front of the stage before their final exit and high-fiving everybody in the front-- was that MLE was trying to say "I'd play for each of you personally if I only could." Which is a very nice impression to give an audience. It's just unfortunate for me *personally* that for the 5 songs on the second stage, I couldn't catch more than a glimpse of MLE from behind and didn't get decent sound. If I'd been 6 inches taller, I probably could've seen her fairly well. Maybe she shoulda gone up there to the Alpine seats with the goats. ;) -Anne in Indiana, who thinks it's very funny that MLE is now playing in a band with two bald guys, considering that she herself has admitted it took her many years to find her own true hair. ;) "Gonna sting you with a kiss from my lips/ Gonna sting you with a piece of my mind/ Gonna sting you with a taste of my skin/ Then you're mine, then you're mine" --Lucy Kaplansky, "Scorpion" http://ezinfo.ucs.indiana.edu/~ahaines ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 13:05:16 EST From: Nanette Gherardin Subject: NMEC Amanda Marshall Afternoon all For all those people on this list that hail from *sunny* Melbourne Amanda Marshall will be performing at the Chapel St Festival Sunday Nov 3. After reading all the reports on her concerts on this list i know where i'll be going Nov 3.The CD is great. Enough for now Nan ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 00:37:55 EDT From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: MLE on Ice Skates (?) Hi again, Had to share a story: Here I was, happily reading my MLE posts, while I was taping the World Skating thing on TV in the other room. Well, all of a sudden, I hear "I'm the Only One" coming from in there. Thinking that MLE had magically appeared on my tv set, I went to see what's going on. Much to my surprise, Katarina Witt, beautiful German figure skater, is skating to a MLE song! Oddly enough, it's at the Bradley Center in Milwaukee, where ME played just a few weeks ago. Now, I must admit, I have visions of MLE skating around in my head! mary h. who's had a little bit too much Day-Quil for her health.... ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 22 Oct 1996 23:53:01 -0700 From: "beth s." Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 21 Oct 1996 to 22 Oct 1996 - Special issue Hey all--I am new to this list, and i just wanted to send my greetings. It is so great to hear info. on M.E. and from people that love her music as much as I do. I have a request: If anyone hears anything at all about when tickets go on sale for her Sacramento, Ca---and--her Los Angeles show PLEASSSSE let me know! I would mucho appreciate it! Thanks a bunch in advance. Until later--peace and love! Beth ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 08:47:22 EDT From: "Mary M. MacDonald" Subject: Counting Crows' Tattoos --- Deb wrote: --- pags wrote: >I have been looking for the soundtrack of Theresa's Tatoo but can't seem >to find it anywhere. Is it even available? There is no soundtrack available. Consider yourself lucky if you can even find the movie! :) --- end of quoted material --- I was in Suncoast Video the other day, doing my quarterly A-Z flip thru of their laserdiscs, and what did I find but Theresa's Tattoo! On sale! I stared at it, laughed, squinted my eyes trying to picture it lined up with the others in my collections. But no, I just wasn't able to justify $35 for a lousy movie, even accounting for the obsessive fan value it has to me (somehow I was able to justify it for "The Hunger," another essentially lousy movie - maybe it had something to do with Catherine Deneuve and Susan Sarandon...just possibly!) Anyhoo, I think I made the wrong choice! I may be tempted against, since I'm sure it will be there next time I check (something just tells me). --- Jane the Poohster wrote -- My brain was racing with all of these thoughts such as: How could one even put Melissa in the same breathe as the bird woman!!! This is like comparing sweet and low to honey! "YUCK" "YUCK" "DOUBLE YUCK!!!" --- end of quoted material --- Uh-oh. I'm going to have to bite on this one! I *really* *really* like Sheryl Crow's latest. Really. There was lots I liked about "Tuesday Night Music Club", but musically "Sheryl Crow" is head and shoulders above it. One of my favorite tracks, "Everyday is a Winding Road" expresses such wonderfully cynical, ironic sense of optimism about life - it's just how I feel about life so much of the time, yet not many people write songs from that place (Morrisette's "One Hand in My Pocket" came close - but of course now I lost all credibility with most of you by bringing *her* up!). The final track is an incredibly sexy, jazzy, bluesy thing that always makes me forget where I am and what I'm doing for the entire time it's on (I haven't taken it out of the car stereo since I got it - but luckily I can drive and have an metaphorically transporting experience at the same time). I resisted given Crow a fair listen for a long time - how could anyone that beautiful and that overexposed have anything to say worth listening to? I though she was just another VH-1 singersupermodel. But of course, that's a more defensive attititude than rational, and I'm glad I got over it - I would have missed an album that's a real joy, one that I can have rolling around in my head all day, incorporate it into my life and feel better off for it. Of course, Jane, I can't really put MLE and the bird woman in the same breath! You have to used separate sentences, at least! They're apples and oranges, ice cream and creme brulee, San Francisco and Boston. IMHO. -Mary [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 09:01:24 -0600 From: Lisa on the prairie Subject: Re: ALBANY TREE, ATTN MIKE! On Tue, 22 Oct 1996 20:58:09 -0400, Brandon Schott wrote: >I am one of the branches for the Albany Tree set up by Mike Liebman a few >weeks ago. > I am one of the branches too. Unfortunately for me and my branches, I have yet to receive the original to start dubbing. Have any of the other branches received theirs? I've tried to mail Mike, but haven't gotten any reply. Any suggestions? lisa Lisa Nordeen Head Women's Basketball Coach University of Minnesota, Morris (320) 589-6429 (O) (320) 589-4782 (H) [email protected] "so I'll walk the plank, and I'll jump with a smile, if I'm gonna go down I'm gonna do it with style" -ani difranco ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 10:17:13 -0500 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: A potpourri of stuff Elaine (chained to Jan's computer) spilled the beans: (and Beth and Susie confirmed it) >Did we forget to mention that she joined us for the tailgate party >before the show? And you should have seen her macarena with Gwen >in the parking lot afterwords! Yep, that's right. (g) Melissa and I were cuttin' the rug (or kicking up the gravel) after the Nissan show. And, that's not all...... while we were groovin' to the Macarena, she whispered the answer in my ear to that eternal question, "whothehellisinthetaxi?" But hey, I promised her that I'd keep her little secret. Cause ya know, I'm not the kind of girl who macarenas and tells. :-) +++++++++++ Lauren Tag stumbled upon a great idea in her post about MEIN: >i cant speak for other teens, but this teen doesn't value the newsletter. its >usually antiquated info anyway, and i dont care for the merchandise >either..or the phone line...or the web site....hmmm... has mein come out w/ >mle underwear yet? if not im surprised they havent. MLE underwear? Say.... that's not a bad idea. Hey MEIN, if you're reading our list, how's about looking into MLE boxer shorts. You know, similar to the ones the Disney stores sell with little Mickeys and Goofs on 'em. These could have Melissa's key logo all over them. Oh and while you're at it, make them in both cottonblend and satin. Or Joyce, aka Shirtgal, what do you think? Up for a new listwear project?? We could re-name you the Boxergal.... (g) (Btw, I am serious about this.) ++++++++++++ Last night Jen, the kids, and I were watching Hercules and Xena. I thought they were such cool episodes because both had Halloween themes and very campy scripts. Hercules was busy tracking down a wayward mummy. And on Xena, Gabrielle got turned into a vampire. In order for Xena to save her, Xena had to let Gabrielle bite her on the neck (the camera was way close on this shot) so that she could become a vampire too and battle the forces of evil and all that..... Anyway, my sister, Jenny, (not to be confused with my Jen or my best friend's girlfriend, Jennifer, or our beloved new list monitor, Jen) was upstairs watching Rosanne. (Did anyone else catch that show?) My sister called to me and I dashed upstairs in time to see Rosanne in a dream sequence, decked out in full Xena gear, battling these women warriors. That was so hysterical, I almost passed out from laughing. After that scene, they cut to Rosanne and Jackie at some hypnotist's place and Rosanne asks Jackie who she was in her dream. Typical Jackie, she pouts and answers that she was a leper. (chuckle) +++++++++++++ Jen asked me to say hello for her. She's in between email addresses at the moment. Gwen ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 15:33:38 BST From: Sarah Lorimer Subject: NMEC: Clearing some points Me again. Wow - this List never ceases to amaze me... Deb wrote: > Sarah Lorimer wrote: > > >Have to beg to differ on this one, Elaine. According to British law > >at least, a married woman who has an affair with another woman is > >*not* committing adultery. My husband is currently divorcing me for > >this very reason and has to do so on the grounds of "unreasonable > >behaviour". > > The same is true in the state of Va., but I'm shocked that you would > legitimize that piece of legislation just to make a point. Laws such as > those only inidicate a lack of respect for sex between women, and I for one > would not use them as a basis to contend that I did not commit adultery (I > did, whether the state of Va. calls it that or not). And I'm disappointed that you thought that of me. Honestly Deb - I was only stating the law as it stands in the UK, in response to Elaine's post. If you re-read my post, I did not at any point state or even imply my personal opinion. Note that I said my husband *has* to divorce me on grounds of unreasonable behaviour - under British law he can not do so on grounds of adultery. And as I told someone else who emailed me privately, whether or not I agree with this, I have no influence over the British judicial system! :) And Elaine wrote: > I didn't know that. Thanks for the info. My pleasure. > > I'm not defending such behaviour morally so please don't > > lecture me on the rights and wrongs > > I wouldn't think of it. Thank you! And thanks for reading that part of my post! > Particularly after somebody decided that my > statement that Julie and Melissa committed adultery (they publicly > admitted to having a relationship while Julie was still legally married) > was actually a personal judgement on their behaviour. Yep - I now know the feeling. :) > > OK, do your worst... > > How about I wish you and Kate the best instead? That will do nicely, thank you! Seriously, we both very much appreciate that. OK, I'm sure everyone's had enough of me for now so I'll leave you all to it. Bye! Sarah ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 12:40:01 -0500 From: Jen Subject: Orlando Concert Hey all, thought I'd delurk for a few and say that my SO and I will be attending the Orlando Arena show in Nov. Anyone else going to be there? On another note, who cares where we post from? The important part is that we can. Jen Silence will not protect you ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 19:49:46 -0700 From: Andrea Tan Subject: MLE's Birthday CD... was INCREDIBLE!!! D. Jessamyn Scott Breed did a truly awesome job putting the cd together...the scans were excellent, the QT movie was cool (Joyce, you do have a very cute kid!), the Diner part was a hoot, the Souvies section was just too cool for words...you had MapBoy hollering "I *LOVE* IT!!!!" every few minutes while Alma and I listened to Sistablue over and over (waving to Mardi and Rose!). I'm sure MapBoy will, if he hasn't already, elaborate more but I had to add that Jessamyn did a wonderful job...a true labor of love. =) Andrea ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 15:37:17 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: My Cute Kid Andrea Tan ([email protected]) said: >>Joyce, you do have a very cute kid!<< Hmpf. Nobody ever thinks *I'm* cute! It's always the darn kid!!! ;-) He is, isn't it? Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 15:39:13 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: My Cute Kid #2 LOL! I said: >>He is, isn't it? << I mean, "he is, isn't *he*!!!!" Drat. Guess I'll go crawl back into my hole now. Later, Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 20:31:04 GMT From: Maggie at avalon Subject: Re: Greetings At 11:53 PM 10/22/96 -0400, Susie wrote: >Well, Chicago was definitely a good time. The concert seemed a whole lot >more mellow than it was in St. Louis, but I can't quite put my finger on the >reason for that. I had a great time before the show at an aol-er's house; >met a Lister (whose name escapes me right now--sorry) who was among those >meeting the Shirt Gal at O'Hare; Well, two of us met Joyce at O'Hare, and since I couldn't make it to the Chicago show, you didn't meet me. So it must be the other one. Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 16:14:27 -0600 From: alexis Subject: NMEC: Nasty Melissa Etheridge Content Greetings fellow perverts! So...as I was staring at my newly acquired MLE tickets (I'll refrain from causing envy by revealing my seat location), I noticed that the concert is scheduled for the night before Thanksgiving day. So of course I began to ponder ideas on how to bring the 2 events closer together. Imagine going to the ever polluted merchandise counter to find outrageously priced MLE posters, shirts, hats, buttons and......MELISSA TURKEYS!!! Ah, yes.....plenty of frozen turkeys wrapped in a large array of beautiful colors to choose from with the infamous ME logo slapped on and "Eat ME" written underneath....... Brings a whole new meaning to the phrase "eating Melissa", eh? Instead of hearing "please pass the Butterball" at the dinner table, you'll hear "pass the Melissa NOW!" Of course, one can easily forecast havoc with people fighting for a Melissa breast or thigh. Not me though...nope. I'll be the one going for the stuffing. No fork required. ...................................... And for those not fortunate to *share* a Melissa Turkey, Melissa Cornish Hens would be readily available for those *eating* alone..... Is anyone else besides myself hungry now? Preparing for the feast.... alex ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 16:52:13 -0600 From: carrie Subject: Re: NMEC: Nasty Melissa Etheridge Content On Wed, 23 Oct 1996, alexis wrote: > Greetings fellow perverts! Hey Everyone!! the queen perv is back from her long journey and has great news!!! Gather 'round!! > polluted merchandise counter to find outrageously priced MLE posters, > shirts, hats, buttons and......MELISSA TURKEYS!!! Ah, yes.....plenty of > frozen turkeys wrapped in a large array of beautiful colors to choose > from with the infamous ME logo slapped on and "Eat ME" written > underneath....... "Uh... 'scuse me mister sales' person but do you have any with two set's of thighs?" > I'll be the one going for the stuffing. No fork required. everyone can get a visual of this>...................................... ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!! alex,.. you're such a pig. damn, it's good to see you post again. I think we were in need of a good dose of naughtyness... > And for those not fortunate to *share* a Melissa Turkey, Melissa Cornish > Hens would be readily available for those *eating* alone..... Now.. there's the butter-ME for the big turkeys and the "little ME" for the cornish hens.. what to choose..... decisions decisions... Whoops!!! (ducking the cybersmak from my girlfriend... hi victoria) I'd better say that we're getting the butter-ME.. > Is anyone else besides myself hungry now? Now, alex.. the question is.... is there gravy involved? *veg* have a darn good day all carrie (who's excited about her 4th row seats to ME in .....slimy El Paso Texas!!!) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 18:51:25 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: NMEC: Yet Another List Get Together! Yeah it's another list get together and this one has been titled by the unofficial host: Francie(Aka [email protected]) as "The Philly Pub Crawl". Attendee's thus far include: Sue Deyoung(Big surprise, has she missed a ME list social event yet), Beth "The Honda Diving Chic Magnet" herself and of course the quiet one(me). Get together starts Saturday evening at where else???? The Sam Adams Brew House in Philly and then moves on to a very popular womens club in Philly called Sisters. We would love to see any other local listers who care to visit the city of brotherly love with us. All non-alcoholic drinkers are welcome to attend and I would be honored to do a glass of your favorite pop(mid-west slang for soda :]) with any of you. Gee maybe we will do a group posting???? Evening all, Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 18:56:24 -0400 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: Re: NMEC: Nasty Melissa Etheridge Content It's about time that Zorro returns and not a moment to late! On Wed, 23 Oct 1996, alexis wrote: > Greetings fellow perverts! > > > polluted merchandise counter to find outrageously priced MLE posters, > shirts, hats, buttons and......MELISSA TURKEYS!!! Have to ask this one Alex, Any side dishes available? BTW Alex, how is your Mom doing these days? Please say hello for me. :] Shirl Home Page: http:/www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 19:06:10 -0700 From: Jacky Abromitis Subject: NMEC: look who posted!!! Subject: MLE's Birthday CD... Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 19:49:46 -0700 From: Andrea Tan WOW! And I thought someone took your keyboard away! Good to see you back on the list Andrea. -- Jacky http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepages/Thunder_Road_Book_Club ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 17:47:27 -0500 From: [email protected] Subject: indy show On Sun, 20 Oct 1996 23:34:32 Anne Haines rambled on about the Indianapolis show. ;-) I'll just say that it was good; not the best MLE show I've ever seen, but good. As usual, it went on for 3 hours (almost to the minute), and as far as I could tell pretty much everyone was on their feet the whole time. What else is new? ;) I'll have you know that I never once got out of my chair during the entire show. ;-) You are right about it not being as good as other shows. Deer Creek last year was much more livelier than Friday's. That's not to say MLE didn't put on a good show or lacked intensity but it was just not as good as others. For me part of it was the choice of songs. Why ALL of YLS? 6 or 7 max. but all 10? Now before some of you jump in saying that she is touring to promote YLS, I know that she is. But in the 60+ concerts of different artists that I've been to, I don't remember any that have played every song from their current release (except for new artists that only have the one release to work from). Her performance of the songs live was good but I, like many others on the list, would've rather she play a bit more older songs. The video monitors were cool, too. Nice camera work. Anybody think there's a chance they are taking bits of this with thoughts of releasing a video eventually? I was thinking the same thing. It had that 'concert footage/documentary' look to the video they put up. Know what I mean? I would love to be able to get a copy of the footage they shot. The "second stage" was kinda annoying for me, Me too. But that was because some $#&%* almost landed on my head when she vaulted over the railing separating the upper seating area and the main floor where I was sitting. I could see anything over everybody's heads so I just turned around and enjoyed the great shots on the big screens. I have to say, I looooooooove the blues bit that's been added to ITOO. Sure sounded like MLE was getting some "channeling Janis" practice. It was very cool, though, to hear her push her voice in new directions. I liked that too. But will somebody PLEASE clue in John Shanks to stick to R'n'R and not the Blues. He's definitely not an SRV or Kenny Wayne Shepard. It was fun to see Kenny Aronoff interacting with the "hometown" crowd. At one point MLE asked if there was anyone there from Bloomington (the short person shrieking her fool head off was me), THAT was YOU???!!???!!!???!!!??!! ;-} and Kenny raised his hand and grinned, and MLE was like "Oh, yeah! I forgot!" The two of them seem to be working really well together... Aronoff grinning constantly and having a great time, and when MLE did the "meet the band" bit she emphasized (at least twice) that she is "*honored*" to be working with him. Which she should be. He's really good. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ This is definitely a MAJOR understatement. Kenny Aranoff is absolutely FANTASTIC. It's no wonder so many musicians seek him out to do session work on their albums. And most other musicians feel the same way as Melissa .... Honored to work with him. I'm sorry I didn't see any other listers... I was on the lookout for purple shirts I'm sorry I missed you too Anne .... I had on purple. Not a MLElister one but my Camel one. Unfortunately, I was running late and arrived as Melissa was starting IRLY so I was unable to meet anybody inside MSA before the show. Where *were* y'all, anyway? Way back too far, but which section? I was main floor, left side as you face the stage ... 4 rows back. Anyway, enough rambling out of me. It was a good concert, and I'm glad I went. I really miss a lot of the old songs, and the show is awfully slick and "produced" these days (what is WITH that bizarre stage set, anyway?), but Melissa still sings her heart out, and for that alone I'm glad I went. You mean the second one with the industrial look to it and the little circle and rectangles with the pictures priojected on to them? OK, since other people had mentioned them I was trying to figure out as many as I could and this is what I've come up with. For those going to shows soon see if this is what you see. The diagram below shows the relative postions of the pictures as you face the stage. I don't know what the significance of any of them are, I'm just calling them as I saw them. left side of stage right side of stage c1 s1 c2 c3 c4 vr1 hr1 hr2 hr3 vr2 sc1 sc2 c1=circle 1 - picture from mammogram or cell slide s1=square 1 - ultrasound c2=circle 2 - side view diagram of an eyeball with light projecting in c3=circle 3 - hand on woman's breast c4=circle 4 - HIV Virus ?? vr1=vert. rectangle 1 - side view of older woman (osteoporosis) ?? hr1=horiz. rectangle 1 - ???????? hr2=horiz. rectangle 2 - blue sky and clouds hr3=horiz. rectangle 3 - some kind of stone/steel wall ??????? vr2=vert. rectangle 2 - spinal column sc1=sm. circle 1 - ??????? sc2=sm. circle 2 - close up of teeth of a zipper Cheers, Anne in Indiana ----------------------------- Date: Mon, 21 Oct 1996 10:53:04 -0500 From: Ruth Davis Subject: Clothed in Indy Wow, I'm sure glad that we clarified that I was indeed clothed! I will vouch for Ruth that when she left the Legal Beagle she was fully clothed. Now, what happened after she arrived at MSA is a mystery to me. It was great to meet some listers at the concert, who by the way, I would not have known if they weren't wearing their purple bowling shirts. I guess I expected to have somewhat better seats, but better luck next time. How did those people on the floor get their tickets, MEIN, TicketMaster, luck?? Luck and being very fortunate to have good friends in the right places. ;-] For future reference, I know where the Legal Beagle (a.k.a. Eager Beaver) is in Indy. Hi Mitch. Hi Ruth. Hi Kate. Hi JJ. Thanks for the call, jj. Sorry I missed you at the show but it was nice to hear your voice. Maybe another time. Ruth, I'll be nice and not go into details about some potentially embarassing moments from the Beagle. BTW, Kirk said to say 'Hi and thanks again'. ;-) Back to work now- Ruth [email protected] Time for me to go home now. YES. Peace, mitch ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 20:51:46 EDT From: "Vanessa A. Brown" Subject: Re: NMEC: Nasty Melissa Etheridge Content --- Alex wrote: Is anyone else besides myself hungry now? Preparing for the feast.... alex --- end of quoted material --- Where the hell have you been? Golly gee I've missed you! Welcome back....though you are naughty, naughty! But I see I'm not the first one to point that out and I'm sure I won't be the last!!! Nice to have you back Alex, damn I wish I was coming to Texas. : ) Vanessa ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 22 Oct 1996 to 23 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Fri Oct 25 00:02:28 1996 Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 00:00:11 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 23 Oct 1996 to 24 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Wed, 23 Oct 1996 21:56:22 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: sacramento show info "beth s." said: >I have a request: If anyone hears anything at all about when >tickets go on sale for her Sacramento, Ca---and--her Los Angeles >show PLEASSSSE let me know! I would mucho appreciate it! Thanks a >bunch in advance. Until later--peace and love! well, the sacto show goes on sale tomorrow through MEIN at 9 am (along with the s.f. and phoenix shows). no info as yet on the l.a. show. since the s.f. show is going on sale to the general public through BASS this sunday (charge by phone and at outlets), i'm *assuming* that the sacto show will go on sale this saturday. but i haven't heard anything definite. when an artist plays both sacto and s.f., the general practice is that the sacto show will go on sale on saturday, while the s.f. show will go on sale on sunday. BASS puts the shows going on sale on their recorded "information menu" - in the bay area, call (510) 762-BASS or (408) 998-BASS, and follow the voice prompts. generally, the information is updated at the end of the week (i.e. thursday or friday). i think there's a sacto (916) BASS #, but i don't have it handy - sorry. good luck! see you at the sacto show...:-) *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 06:04:16 GMT From: Maggie Subject: Rolling Stone article The new Rolling Stone has a review of MLE's Minneapolis show. The author was lukewarm about the concert in general, but seemed to love the set on the small stage. There's also a picture of her, wearing a denim shirt, t-shirt with a star on it, those shiny black pants made out of who-knows-what, and holding her black telecaster with the pearloid pickguard. Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 03:37:45 -0500 From: Butt Head Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 22 Oct 1996 to 23 Oct 1996 Time to De-Cloak !! I received a MEIN post card with this TREMENDOUS Offer to spend 4 days & 3 nights (or something to that effect, with Melissa on her Texas Tour of Dallas or where-ever - I couldn't afford to go ! :( ) But I was HOPING & PRAYING that she'd play a Concert in MEIN, well I got my wish !! She is going to be here in Nov. at a Medium sized/intimate venue !!!! Now I'm ready to ROCK OUT !!! ;-) What I'd like to know ASAP, is getting tickets via MEIN going to get me BETTER seats than going thru Ticketmaster ?? Sales of the tickets go on sale here this Sat. 10/26/96 ?? If so would someone PLEASE (I'm down on my 1 good knee BEGGING for this info ASAP !! ) ;-) As I want to get as good a tickets as I can !!!! This will make the 6th time that I've been fortunate enough to see her in concert !! So I'd REALLY Like to find out about the tickets, seating positions, etc. for MEIN members & going thru Ticketmaster !! Thanks in ADVANCE to ANYONE at MEIN that could answer my question !! Well that's all for now - time Re-Cloak ;->, until next time .... Rock On & Fly Safe !! [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 07:51:24 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Hillary Is Here! (nmec) Hi Gang! Just a quick note to say the Poohster is excited as the campus is abuzz to see Hillary at 11:00 a.m. today. Got on my Pooh tie and gonna go stand up and cheer. Also supposedly Paula Poundstone is gonna appear. :) One quick question: Does anyone know where one can buy Doc Martins for cheaper than $130.00 a pair????? And do they come in sizes to fit my fuzzy little feets???? :) Have a great day! Sincerely, "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 09:17:24 EDT From: Lisa Lyons Subject: Re: Moshing at Melissa NMEC > From: Joyce Stoliar > I seem to recall dear Lisa, that you you have a problem staying in the seat > you were assigned :-> Did you run into Shanks again while hanging out by the > bathrooms, waiting to sneak back in, huh??? You're such a delinquent Melissa > fan ;-> You're my HERO!!! I stayed in my assigned seat the whole time in Montreal! What are you talking about? ;) I didn't run into Shanks at the Indy show, but I did at the Cincy show. He's a really nice guy. Lisa ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 09:41:16 -0400 From: "Mason T. Weinrich" Subject: Albany branch up and running Hey guys - Just saw the posts about people who had not gotten the seed tape from Mike in Albany... I had no problems, and have had mine for a few weeks. However, only 2 of my leaves have contacted me - one has not been heard from after several initial posts, the other got her tapes in the mail within 36 hours of first contact (hope you get them, thei!). If you continue to have problems with getting the tapes, let me know and I can dub mine to start you off - of course you will be one generation down, but I have a high quality deck to dub with. On a related note - anyone have any videos from this tour to trade? I saw at least two listed in the latest Living After Midnight video ad. Best - Mason ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 09:54:26 -0400 From: "" Subject: Re: ME in Rolling Stone For all those avid collectors out there, I thought I would delurk to let everyone know that she is in the latest Issue of Rolling Stone. Sadly, it's only a short concert review that was less than complimentary, but it does include a picture. I'm not sure of the issue date, but it has Sheryl Crow on the cover, not Tu Pac (I don't think I spelled that right! :>) Kim ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 11:10:40 -0700 From: Elizabeth Meadows Subject: Re: NMEC: Yet Another List Get Together! Shirley Hoffman wrote: > > Yeah it's another list get together and this one has been titled by the > unofficial host: Francie(Aka [email protected]) as "The Philly Pub Crawl". This is SOOO unfair. A gathering in my very own town and I won't be there - I'm leaving for vacation tomorrow and will be away till November 1st. Well, have a blast at Sam Adams and Sisters everyone. Next time for sure. - Elizabeth :) ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 12:41:40 -0400 From: Brenda Fraunfelter Subject: Nissan Tape Tree - Address Correction Hi! Just wanted to let anyone who may be a "leaf" of mine (if you have a birthday in March) for the Nissan Tape Tree that my e-mail address was a little mixed-up when it was posted. It's [email protected] Thanks to Deb for making this Tape Tree possible! Brenda ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 14:26:11 -0400 From: Tami Bartels Subject: Re: My Cute Kid Hi everyone, I do this about every six months... say one thing and hide again... but.. yet again... J says something.. and I have to reply... Joyce said: >Hmpf. Nobody ever thinks *I'm* cute! It's always the darn kid!!! ;-) < But babe... You KNOW I think you are... if you would just come back to *our* world and play again... ok... just had to say that to the teach... have a good one everyone... Tam P.S. You all realize the teach made that little error with her grammar... and you always make fun of me and my spelling... ;) ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 18:52:16 GMT From: Beth Durff Subject: MLETHER Digest - 22 Oct 1996 to 23 Oct 1996 First off, let me send a great big HAPPY BIRTHDAY greeting to Gwen "Doe Eyes" Shinko !!!!! Hey *baby*... I'll macarena with you any day (ducking to avoid a big SMACK from jealous Jen the love slave) and Shirl the other Honda driving chic magnet wrote: >Yeah it's another list get together {snip}...Attendee's thus far include: >{snip}..... Beth "The Honda Diving Chic Magnet" herself... diving Shirl? diving? The only Honda diving I've done is right into the back seat - every now and then - on special occasions - but you weren't supposed to know that.... Now everyone's gonna know...*lol* Beth (thinking that together, two Honda driving chic magnets could cause a lot of *trouble* this weekend) ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 15:31:28 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Re: Joyce Being Cute :) Woooo! Hooooo! I think Joyce is cute too! :~) So her kid would have to be as well!!! Just my.02 "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 15:52:05 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: I Must Have "The Look" Hey Gang! Poohmiester here! Just returned from the Hillary Clinton rally here on campus! Woooo Hoooo was it fun! The group formerly known as Arressted Development played along with our mighty mighty OU band and did they ever "Rock" Now I don't know if it was my Pooh tie or me but of all the posters given out to wave in the air I get one thay reads as follows: Equal Rights For Newt Gingriches Sister!!!!! Now I was amazed that out of 20,000 people I was given this poster! I nearly rolled on the ground in laughter! But I stood my ground and held my sign high and proud! I must be stamped I guess! Put me in the top ten! Enjoy the day wherever you may be! Much warmth! "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 17:10:33 EDT From: Hayley Coristine <[email protected]> Subject: NMEC: Nasty Melissa Etheridge Content >Is anyone else besides myself hungry now? I'm starving. Hayley ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 17:22:44 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: Re: I Must Have "The Look" Hey, y'all, Pooh said: >>Now I don't know if it was my Pooh tie or me but of all the posters given out to wave in the air I get one thay reads as follows: Equal Rights For Newt Gingriches Sister!!!!! Now I was amazed that out of 20,000 people I was given this poster!<< You guys, I don't know what I had expected when I was trying to find Pooh at the Columbus concert, but I suppose I had chosen a mental image of a stereotypical "Pooh" bear. Short, chubby, happy, infinitely cute and lovable. Well. Pooh is tall, lean, blond, um..."butch!"...and still infinitely cute and lovable. ;-) Now. As for Pooh and Tami. I am blushing over the compliments......and you are both boogers for biting at that bait. Later, Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 16:59:33 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: A Butch Bear??? Now Joyce! I am not really a butch bear! I was just wearin' them there butch boots so I would be somewhat in hiding! Guess my name on the bowling shirt gave me away! :) You guys didn't see my zipper or you would have known that underneath it all I really am cute and cuddly! Back to hiding now! Varoooooooommmmmm off I go on my harley!!!! :) Sincerely, "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 18:09:03 -0400 From: audrey Subject: cute kids Joyce wrote: Subject: VH-1 Fashion Awards (MEC... no, I'm not kidding!) I just scared the cats laughing my butt off... check out http://www.vh1.com/fashion/categories/sm.html. This is the site for the VH-1 Fashion Awards, and YLS has been nominated in the "Most Stylish Video" category. The following quote is from that site, and could not possibly have been written with a straight face: "Melissa herself has redefined rock n'roll style for women, making comfy, simple, tough-guy clothes her own." Excuse me... just scared the cats again. :D Somehow I don't think goldlameleopardskinpants quite fall into the "comfy, simple, tough-guy" category... but then, I was born in Kansas, and maybe I'm just "fashionably-challenged"... Disclaimer: Honest, I think she looks great in whatever she most enjoys wearing, and more power to her... but... oh my... Gotta go before I scare the cats some more... :) Anne in Indiana (who gets to see Dar Williams tomorrow night, yay!) "Gonna sting you with a kiss from my lips/ Gonna sting you with a piece of my mind/ Gonna sting you with a taste of my skin/ Then you're mine, then you're mine" --Lucy Kaplansky, "Scorpion" http://ezinfo.ucs.indiana.edu/~ahaines ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 16:09:09 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: MLE s.f. and sacramento shows - ticket prices just got off the phone with a BASS customer service rep, here's the latest scoop for the 12/17 s.f. and the 12/18 sacto shows going on sale this weekend. *12/17 s.f. show* KFOG's "11th annual concert for kids" "an evening with melissa etheridge" cow palace, 7:30 pm tickets = $42.50 each (ouch) + all the usual charges tickets go on sale on sunday, 10/27 at 10 am. please be aware that at this time the following events are also going on sale on sunday: the bodeans at the warfield theatre and todd rundgren at the fillmore. these other sales will affect how many people are trying to call in to BASS or how many people are lining up at an outlet. i'll update the other onsales tomorrow, if there are any changes. *12/18 sacramento show* "an evening with melissa etheridge" arco arena, 7:30 pm tickets = $35.00 each + all the usual charges tickets go on sale on saturday, 10/26 at 10 am. please be aware that at this time the following event is also going on sale on saturday: porno for pyros at the crest theatre. this other sale will affect how many people are trying to call in to BASS or how many people are lining up at an outlet. i'll update the other onsales tomorrow, if there are any changes. note: in the bay area, BASS instituted the random line distribution procedure a couple of years ago. i'm assuming that the same thing is done in sacramento since BASS handles ticket sales there as well, but i've never bought tix for a sacto show before, so who knows? it's best to check with your local favorite outlet if you're unsure. if you have questions about BASS' random line distribution procedure, email me privately, and i'll give you some pointers. good luck! *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 21:16:19 +0000 From: Jan Subject: credible underwear Mary M. MacDonald wrote: >> expresses such wonderfully cynical, ironic sense of optimism about life - it's >> just how I feel about life so much of the time, yet not many people write songs >> from that place (Morrisette's "One Hand in My Pocket" came close - but of >> course now I lost all credibility with most of you by bringing *her* up!). Yup, you blew it. >> I resisted given Crow a fair listen for a long time - how could anyone that >> beautiful and that overexposed have anything to say worth listening to? Good looks are nice and too much airplay can make some people bored with an artist. Sometimes it will take overexposure to get me to like a song and in some cases (can we say Hootie?) it doesn't work. Gwen wrote: >> groovin' to the Macarena, she whispered the answer in my ear to that >> eternal question, "whothehellisinthetaxi?" >> But hey, I promised her that I'd keep her little secret. Cause ya know, >> I'm not the kind of girl who macarenas and tells. :-) Finally! Somebody who can keep a secret. >> MLE underwear? Say.... that's not a bad idea. Hey MEIN, if you're reading >> our list, how's about looking into MLE boxer shorts. You're scaring me, Gwen. >> it, make them in both cottonblend and satin. Satin, definitely. >> upstairs watching Rosanne. (Did anyone else catch that show?) I did. I'm chained to a swivel chair so I could turn and watch the tv. >> After that scene, they cut to Rosanne and Jackie at some hypnotist's place Past life regression therapy...Should I be worried that I knew that? Elaine ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 22:27:41 EDT From: "Mary M. MacDonald" Subject: Playing For Keeps Hey all - So, I'm up at 2:00 a.m. this morning, devouring a book I've been dying to read, but couldn't afford 'till it came out in paperback: Pauline Kael's collection of movie reviews, "For Keeps." Love this woman's mind. So, I get to page 458 (I skipped around some, I admit), where there is a review of "Lady Sings the Blues," called "Pop Versus Jazz." I missed this movie when it came out - I was about 2. The following passage stopped me in my tracks - you'll see what I mean: "...In the established Hollywood tradition, Billie Holiday doesn't have to become Billie Holiday, musically speaking: the first time she sings in public, she has the full Holiday style. But, of course, Diana Ross doesn't pierce us the way Holiday does. She's strong in everything but her singing; as a singer, she's caught in the trap of this bio-melodrama form. "Funny Girl" was a stylized musical comedy, and so no one expected Streisand to sing like Fanny Brice; besides, Fanny Brice isn't on many jukeboxes. But the star of "Lady Sings the Blues" is expected to sound like Billie Holiday. And the key problem for me with the movie is that Diana Ross's singing is *too* close. Her voice is similar - small and thin and reedy, and suspended in air, like a little girl's - and when she sings the songs that Holiday's phrasing fixed in our minds and imitates that phrasing, our memories are blurred. I felt as if I were losing something. I could hear Billie Holiday in my head perfectly clearly as Ross sang each number, but by the time she had finished it, I could no longer be certain of the exact Holiday sounds. What's involved here isn't quite like the vandalism that Stokowski and Disney committed in "Fantasia," with cupids and winged horses cavorting to the "Pastoral" and volcanoes erupting to Stravinsky - wrecking music for us by forcing us to hear it forever after with incongruous images welded to it - or like the way Kubrick played droog to Beethoven, and even "Singin' in the Rain." But something similar is at work: Kubrick left Moog-synthesized versions of classics echoing in our skulls, and I think "Lady Sings the Blues," by its pop versions Billie Holiday's numbers, will deprive people of the originals. Yes, of course, they still exist, just as the originals of the Benny Goodman and Duke Ellington records that Time-Life has had imitated by modern bands still exist, but new generations are effectively deprived of them just the same. Movies never use the original records in these bios, because the contemporary sound always sells better, and so movies use art as grist..." (The New Yorker, Nov 4. 1972) Are you thinking what I'm thinking? Uh-oh. The book ends with an excerpt from the author's note in "Movie Love." As soon as I read it, I kept saying Yes! Yes! Yes! This is not only exactly how I feel about movies, but exactly how I feel about MLE. Once again, Kael captured it in words in a way I never could; next time I get teased about being such a big MLE or k.d. fan I'm just going to hand them a little (ok, maybe big) card on which I've copied the following: "These last years have not been a time of great of great moviemaking fervor. What has been sustaining is that there is so much to love in movies besides great moviemaking. The young writer Chuck Wilson reports that his earliest movie memory is of his mother and his aunt taking him, when he was six, to see "Funny Girl," and as he recalls, "In the final scene, when Barbra Streisand, as Fanny Brice, sings, 'My Man,' it seems to me that I grew taller, yes, I leaned forward, some part of me rose up to meet the force coming from the screen...I was rising to get close to the woman I saw there. But I also rose to get closer to my self." An avidity for more is built into the love of movies. Something else is built in: you have to be open to the idea of getting drunk on movies. (Being able to talk about movies with someone - to share the giddy high excitement you feel - is enough for a friendship.) Our emotions rise to meet the force coming from the screen, and they go on rising throughout our movie-going lives. When this happens in a popular art form - when it's an art experience that we discover for ourselves - it is sometimes disparaged as fannishness. But there's something there that goes deeper than connoisseurship or taste. It's a fusion of art and love." So there. They'll still think I'm weird...but I don't care. I'm fused. -Mary, thanking you all for your indulgence [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 20:01:39 -0500 From: Pam Crago Subject: I just got this from MEIN. Melissa's "Storytellers" performance has been moved to Saturday, November 9th at 10pm from its original air date of November 10th. Pam ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 13:50:52 +1000 From: Margo Hellyer Subject: Intimate apparel Gwen asked and was (Btw, I am serious about this.): >MLE underwear? Say.... that's not a bad idea. Hey MEIN, if you're reading >our list, how's about looking into MLE boxer shorts. You know, similar to >the ones the Disney stores sell with little Mickeys and Goofs on 'em. >These could have Melissa's key logo all over them. Oh and while you're at >it, make them in both cottonblend and satin. A certain creative MMM'er (not me) has already produced a number of prototypes months ago. I am the owner of 2 pairs of Calvin Klein boxers with the MLE logo hand painted on at, er, strategic places. I remember JJ saying hello to BAB area visitors (Tanya, Mardi, myself). Hi to everyone over the Pacific pond. I am sure Tanya would send her regards but she does not have email access. Gabriela Sabatini's retirement from tennis has just been announced in our local newspaper. 'Tis a sad day. The newspaper article then went on to report that The Gorgeous One was turning her attentions to a singing career. Um, this is a joke right ... though I cant wait to see the first video and Gaby's version of the lambada/macarena ! Margo ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 23 Oct 1996 to 24 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sat Oct 26 00:02:24 1996 Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 00:00:06 -0400 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 24 Oct 1996 to 25 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 00:13:19 EST From: Virginia Siskavich Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 23 Oct 1996 to 24 Oct 1996 I just want to say that I think very highly of the digest and love the Melissa updates and info..along with a bunch of great comedians that write ever so often...makes me smile.. Anything that does that holds a special place in the ol' ticker! Virginia S. ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 24 Oct 1996 22:01:40 -0700 From: Joyce Stoliar Subject: Would Only Be A Short Jump >MLE underwear? >These could have Melissa's key logo all over them. Oh and while you're at >it, make them in both cottonblend and satin. >Or Joyce, aka Shirtgal, what do you think? Up for a new listwear project?? >We could re-name you the Boxergal.... (g) (Btw, I am serious about this.) Well it would only be a short jump, from the "shirt gal" to the "short gal" but I would definately go flannel. :-> ____________________________________ >From: Lisa Lyons >Subject: Re: Moshing at Melissa NMEC > >I stayed in my assigned seat the whole time in Montreal! What are you >talking about? ;) Yep, ok, whatever you say! :-> ___________________________________ Happy list gathering to whoever is getting together this weekend. I'll drink a toast to you too. Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 02:45:01 -0700 From: joanna emmons Subject: belated indy notes,sf show hello all.. this is jj...sorry for the belated additions to the wonderful accounts of the indy show by lisa, chuckie, anne and mitch (waving east)...rhondda...did you say 42.50 for the sf show? FORTY TWO FIFTY? is there an icon symbol for my jaw dropping? :O .. there we go......... i thought it was a benefit for the kids? hey....I need a benefit to pay for all these friggin shows i wanna go to (immature whining here...ok i'm done) i too have nothing good to say about mein with my butt back in row 19 up off the floor but not as high in altitude as chuckie.. have you ever tried to watch a show and everybody constantly getting up to go for a beer , bathroom , chat about work?....i wanted a machine gun.. lots of disputes about folks sitting in other folks seats with the ensuing security intervention.. i mean really.!. i swear at one point i saw mle look up here and give this expression like" hey, you all shut up and sit down, or i'll come up there and give ya fashion tips!" i believe anne got the set list except i think "change" was after sp ( never liked change) and" resist" one of my favorites was after atwth on the mini stage which i thought was fabulous if precarious.. somebody is gonna fall off that one.. it's small and they all back up as they are playing.. eek.... i could have heard this show outside, she should sing " i really like LOUD music"...and really bright lights...my pals( who came up from nashville) and i scoped out the surroundings at market square and counted four- count em- four huge tractor trailers for all them amps and lights and stuff....say....(wandering attention span)....driving the tour trucks...hmm that would be.. fun...now waitaminnit!... if somebody had been unclothed, i think i would have noticed , but i looked carefully at *everything* you, the faithful would want to know........gawd those shoes and those raincoat material pants things.. she did say.. "you can take the girl out of kansas, but you can't take kansas out of the girl, can't ya tell by the way i dress?"( LMAO at the "comfy tough guy clothes" quote in a previous post,btw).. in closing all i can say is rhondda i'm spoiled now.. after being arm's length away at the janis thing at the maritime with big brother et al.... being up there in the crap seats is the shits.. its like watching tv....sigh....oh i'll probably still go. to the sf show geez.. what a junkie.....feeding the bass ticket monster........so long now.... jj.(.waving to margo) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 08:48:13 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: gathering pics, Philly pub crawl To any of the listers who would like pics from the DC area get-together, send me your snail mail address and I will start having reprints made. I have a fairly decent group shot, a couple of Tracey (the macarena woman), one of Jill and Gwen with the Melissa flat, and a very very good pic of Gwen and Jen (not sure if that's cause I took it or because they're in it )... Also, I finally have one or two of the Honda driving chic magnet that *aren't* polaroids <*LOL*> so I can send those also if you'd like. Just let me know when you email me which one(s) you're interested in, so I can have them all made at once. The Philly Pub Crawl has been postponed. Shirl, I hope you feel better soon. My apologies to Sue D. and Francie - as I feel I had a hand in Shirl's illness.... yes, I personally spoke with her on Wed. eve and by Thursday she had a *fever*. Imagine if we had been in the same room... Sorry Shirl - I sometimes forget the power of my personal *magnetization* ya know? It seems the more I *flirted*, the more Shirl blushed..... and the more Shirl blushed, the *more* I flirted... next thing ya' know, Shirl's blush *bloomed* into a *fever* !!! Oh well, maybe Philly is better off... the *heat* would've probably gotten so intense that we might have burned down the city. Whew... Beth (Happy B-day Gwen ! Tomorrow right?) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 09:50:09 -0400 From: Lori Rehfeldt Subject: The other nights show... I'm still thinking this in my head before I write it down on paper because I want to come across direct and to the point...maybe, and I don't have time to chat with myself today on line in my own chat room. Although, last night my chatroom got crazy...I had to kick myself out at least 5 times. I'll just have to ignore those voices floating through my brain...anyway, I swear her therapist was gonna come out and say she was a transexual...and that's when she was a guy she used to like to pee on trees and in parking lots. Now, I'm not a guy so I wouldn't know these things, but I do have a son who loves to pee outside. So after doing a 5 year study on peeing in parking lots, on highways and on trees there is a trend that guys like to pee outside on trees, highways and in parking lots. Now this really wasn't my analysis because I didn't go up to THAT many guys to ask why they were peeing outside on trees, highways and in parking lots because I thought it wasn't my business. Well, there was this one time that I was standing on line waiting to use the ladies room err WOMEN'S room...we are women hear us roar...when I went out of my mind and went into the men's room to learn that the reason the men's room is empty is because they are outside peeing on trees, highways (and you wonder why some of us stay off the yellow brick road) and in parking lots. This also answers the question why men wash their hands less then women after peeing, BECAUSE have you (for real) seen sinks or running water near trees, highways and yellow brick roads. As my son Ryan would put it...he's just leaving his mark on our world. Lori Rehfeldt << Now that Ellen is less 1 therapist she will find a new one (female therapist) that she will develop a crush on. She could lead into coming out from there!...maybe? >> I thought thats what they were going to lead up to in this show boy was I disappointed. But it was a very funny show anyway. Trish ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 13:36:00 PDT From: Rachel Strass Subject: MLE Boxers Hey all, Rachel the crass here From: Margo Hellyer Subject: Intimate apparel Gwen asked and was (Btw, I am serious about this.): >MLE underwear? Say.... that's not a bad idea. Hey MEIN, if you're reading >our list, how's about looking into MLE boxer shorts. You know, similar to >the ones the Disney stores sell with little Mickeys and Goofs on 'em. >These could have Melissa's key logo all over them. Oh and while you're at >it, make them in both cottonblend and satin. A certain creative MMM'er (not me) has already produced a number of prototypes months ago. I am the owner of 2 pairs of Calvin Klein boxers with the MLE logo hand painted on at, er, strategic places. ~I want some silky axes on my butt too! What a great idea! Hey, what about a g-string with the logo on the little swatch in front? Or how about exercise bras? Dental dams? The possibilities are limitless... I have a question for the list. Does Melissa ever sleep with her fans? I've heard that many "married" stars still swap spit with fans after concerts. Not to insinuate, merely to ask. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 13:34:36 EDT From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: Blurb in OUT Hi, All! Just wanted to let ya know, if it hasn't been posted before, there's a blurb in the November '96 issue of Out regarding MLE & Julie soon-to-be-kid. Found on the top of page 26, with a tiny photo, the author wonders if MLE & Julie's kid will "be compatable with" Madonna's daughter. The OUT astrologer says "Yes." Hmmmmm............ No comment. By the way, just wanted to wish Pooh a public, "Happy Pooh Day!" Predict away, mary who's not sure at all about this..... ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 13:41:30 -0400 From: Lori Rehfeldt Subject: My post. Okay, Pam and I have been together for 6+ years...and we are not 27. Try a decade older, although sometimes in my mind I'm only 15...but I was there when the Brady Bunch wasn't a rerun...when NICK at night did not exist. Oh Pam and I have a son Ryan too. He's 9. Lori :) ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 14:20:26 -0400 From: Joyce Luck Subject: Sleeping with Fans Howdy-doo to all! Rachel the Crass asked: >>I have a question for the list. Does Melissa ever sleep with her fans? I've heard that many "married" stars still swap spit with fans after concerts. Not to insinuate, merely to ask.<< It's possible she did back in her "Girls, girls, girls!" period (pre-Never Enough), but I've never met a fan who made such a claim. Melissa says she has been faithful to Julie Cypher since they got together, and I have heard *nothing* to the contrary. Later, Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 14:36:46 -0400 From: [email protected] Subject: OUT magazine...SMEC I got the new issue of OUT magazine in the mail today & it had a couple of things I thought might be of interest to the list. #1 There is an article on a book out a new photo book from Herb Ritts. It shows a picture he took of kd lang & sure enough...it's the one hanging on Ellen's bedroom wall on her TV show. #2 Under the "People" section: Will Madonna's daughter, a peace, love & harmony Libra (due in October) be compatible with the freedom-loving, flower-power, do-your-own-thing Aquarian child of Melissa Etheridge & Julie Cypher (due in late January or early February)? asks OUT's astrologer, Kat Lane. Her answer: an unqualified yes! "Two idealistic and highly sociable air signs, Libra & Aquarius are both operating on the same wavelength," says Lane. "If the Etheridge-Cypher progeny, whose gender is as yet unknown (I thought I heard it was a girl!) but who as an Aquarius will be more than eager to take a walk on the wild side, could prod the more conservative, people-pleasing Libra gal to loosen up, together they just might rock the world. It worked for John Lennon (Libra) and Yoko Ono (Aquarius)!" Just say, "Peace." Uh...OK...whatever! They come up with some weird stuff sometimes. Susan ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 14:26:14 -0600 From: Lisa on the prairie Subject: Rolling Stone... Just got my RS today and read the article and saw the picture of MLE and the MPLS concert. Strange article. It was ok, but nothing too terribly exciting. And the picture is not from the MPLS concert. I don't know if it was just a file photo or was from another stop on the tour. lisa Lisa Nordeen Head Women's Basketball Coach University of Minnesota, Morris (320) 589-6429 (O) (320) 589-4782 (H) [email protected] "I made a bad connection, she says I went astray. Jumped ship, abandon my post, I didn't think I lost my way." -Amy Ray ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 15:09:47 -0400 From: audrey Subject: Suzanne Vega (NMEC) Hi Boston Melisters. I have 2 extra tickets to see Suzanne Vega at Berklee this Sunday nite, thought perhaps someone out there might want them (no charge). Email me if yer interested. Thanks for the indulgence of all non-Bostonians! - - Audrey - - "Now that my barn has burnt to the ground I can finally see the stars" help://www.caughtinweb.can'tgetout. ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 13:29:49 -0600 From: Debbie Schwalenberg Subject: Unplugged/Woodstock Hey everyone. . . I have a few questions...Is there a longer version of Unplugged? I have the one with: Come to my Window Aint It Heavy Bring Me Some Water If I Wanted To Maggie May Yes I Am Thunder Road I'm the Only One Like The Way I Do I heard there a longer one with Ocassionally, You Can Sleep While I Drive, and All The Way To Heaven? If so, could someone who has this please e-mail me personally so we can make a deal or trade?] and. . .Does anyone have, or have access to the CD with Melissa Etheridge and the Cranberries from Woodstock? Again, please e-mail me personally with any info... Thanks a lot, Deb ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 17:01:12 -0700 From: beth kline Subject: Just Wanted to Say Hello Hi everyone! I just wanted to take a quick min. and say hello. We are new to this list, somewhat anyway. We've been lurking (we = myself and my gf) for prolly a month. We enjoy this list very much, you all seem so friendly and this list is very informative. We are also new to MEIN. We attended our first ME concert at Hershey, Pa. and I have to tell ya it was awsome. We weren't in MEIN then, but got 8th row seats on the left side of the center section, beginners luck . I'd have to say it was the best concert I've ever attended. (Including the Barbra Striesand Concert in Wash.) Anyway, we're in Pennsylvania. I think Pooh asked about Doc Martins? We got 2 pair on vacation this summer down in Ocean City, Md. in an outlet shoe store. They were $89.99 each, which from what I've heard since, that must be a good buy. I don't know if that will help ya any, but for what its worth there it is. Umm... one more quick piece of info for you all, I recently picked up a cd called Beth Hart Band - Immortal. It is wonderful, it is currently my fav cd. A friend at work taped it and gave it to me to listen to, it has a Janis and ME sound to it. We really like it. I don't know if it is local to this area or not, but if ya come across it, you might wanna check it out. Okay... okay.... i've rambled enough:) Btw, my name is Michele, but my cyber friends call me Boogs. (I can see ya laughing!) Later, Boogs ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 17:22:59 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: Joan Osbourne!!!! Hey All, I just wanted to let everyone know tha I got to hear an advance recording of Joans New album, Early Recordings (to be Released Nov. 5) and it is EXCELLENT! It is an album of live stuff from her first Label, Womanly Hips. She does a version of Son of a Preacher Man which is great! But then I'm biased because I love Joan. Talk to you later Roger ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 15:05:08 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: MLE s.f. show - update of other onsales according to the san jose mercury news (the "eye" section), the following events will be going on sale on sunday, 10/27 at 10 am. * melissa etheridge - cow palace * the bodeans ] * chemical brothers ] <--- all at the warfield theatre * crash test dummies ] * todd rundgren - the fillmore auditorium these other sales will affect how many people are trying to call in to BASS or how many people are lining up at an outlet. good luck! :-) *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 17:49:41 EDT From: M Something Subject: MLE's Tampa Concert For those of you planning on attending the Tampa concert on Nov. 2, several listers will be meeting before and after the show. We'll be meeting at the Bennigan's on Dale Mabry at 4:00 pm, then we'll head over to the Ice Palace at about 6:00 pm so that MEIN members will have plenty of time to get to the Will Call window. After the show, we'll head over to Ybor City. Because we expect Ybor to be jammed with other concert-goers, we're not exactly sure were we'll meet yet. Tracks was a possibility, but the thought of those huge crowds makes it less attractive as a meeting place. The Cherokee Club is our next choice. We're pretty much playing it by ear at this point in time. I'm still waiting to hear from some of you regarding your final plans. If you already emailed me this week, please try again as I did not receive any email on the subject. I hate Juno!!!! Looking forward to the concert and to meeting other listers. :) Michelle ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 20:23:57 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: Pictures, Oh No! At 08:48 10/25/96 -0400, Beth Durff wrote: >To any of the listers who would like pics from the DC area get-together, >send me your snail mail address and I will start having reprints made. I >have a fairly decent group shot, a couple of Tracey (the macarena woman), >one of Jill and Gwen with the Melissa flat, and a very very good pic of Gwen >and Jen (not sure if that's cause I took it or because they're in it )... >Also, I finally have one or two of the Honda driving chic magnet that >*aren't* polaroids <*LOL*> so I can send those also if you'd like. Just let >me know when you email me which one(s) you're interested in, so I can have >them all made at once. Hey, Beth! Like Cindy, Kate, Naomi, Claudia and all of the other supermodels, my image is proprietary, and can only be used with my express and written consent! Imagine the gall, offering reprints of pictures of me, when you know good and well that you didn't manage a shot of me doing the infamous macarena! Evil! In all actuality, I just feel sorry for any deranged person who'd actually want to see a picture of me. Perhaps we can arrange for you to speak with my favorite shrink, Dr. Van Anderson, I'm sure she'd be available for consults. When I finally get my photos back (hey, I get them done for free, so I can't complain about turn around time) I'm sure I'll have a few of Demi Ellen Moore DeGeneres that I can shlep around to whomever wants a peek at what a good looking Pennsylvanian Honda driving chick magnet looks like. Tracey Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ We would all be far better off if there were fewer rules and more good examples. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 21:08:23 -0400 From: Sasha Friedman Subject: hi..tapes..and stuff hi all.. I have been a list member for a little while now, but I don't usually post to it. Just like tobe a passive observer..I guess. I suppose I am still a newbie, cause I haven't been flamed yet..Anyways. I'll just tell ya a little about myself. My name is Sasha and I am from Silver Spring MD. I play guitar, field and ice hockey,and soccer. Ok I think that's enough. Ok so my post does have a point. I was wondering if anyone is interested in trading tapes with me. I got lots of Indigo Girls and some, but not enough, Melissa. My mailbox has been going through big brown bag withdrawel. So if anyone is interested lemme know. Peace Sasha ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 23:29:25 -0400 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: HELP ME, help me, please help me!!! I just recently went to a Melissa concert and bought and awesome baseball hat...the creamish colored one with purple writing and the "Yes I Am" stiched in back...welll.... My wonderful woman was doing laundry tonight and she WASHED IT! Now I have threads and a brim. I am begging and pleading for someone who is attending a concert in the near future to please, Please, PLEASE pick up another one for me. I will pay for all postage and will be forever in debt to anyone willing to help me. Thanks so much! Please respond privately. Love, Jenny ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 24 Oct 1996 to 25 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Sun Oct 27 00:02:34 1996 Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 00:00:22 -0400 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 25 Oct 1996 to 26 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 08:45:51 -0500 From: "Mildred L. Perkins" Subject: more Hoosier notes Did you all hear that MacDonalds bought Market Square Arena? They're going to call it the macarena. > From: joanna emmons > Subject: belated indy notes,sf show > [snip] > i too have nothing good to say about mein with my butt back in row 19 up > off the floor but not as high in altitude as chuckie.. have you ever tried > to watch a show and everybody constantly getting up to go for a beer , > bathroom , chat about work?....i wanted a machine gun.. lots of disputes I lost count of the times a row of girls (I refuse to believe these were adults, despite their being of drinking age) moshed back and forth in our aisle. (I kept thinking it might be you again, Lisa.) FIRST they needed a beer. THEN they had to go "tinkle". (That's the word I heard one of them use.) THEN they needed another beer. They were only five $)#$()#$&( seats from the other aisle! Why the f*ck did they have to keep stepping on my feet?! The advantage to sitting SO FAR UP (thanks again M.E.I.N.) is the big splat people make when you toss them to the floor. That must have been what Melissa was looking at, JJ. Chuckie ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 10:48:38 -0400 From: Beth Durff Subject: Tracey and the DC pics >At 08:48 10/25/96 -0400, Beth Durff wrote: >>To any of the listers who would like pics from the DC area get-together, >>send me your snail mail address and I will start having reprints made. Tracey wrote: >Hey, Beth! Like Cindy, Kate, Naomi, Claudia and all of the other >supermodels, my image is proprietary, and can only be used with my express >and written consent! Imagine the gall, offering reprints of pictures of me, >when you know good and well that you didn't manage a shot of me doing the >infamous macarena! Evil! But Tra-cey (whining).....I thought I was directing that to the listers who attended the little shindig - and they already know what you look like! I didn't think it was a big deal , but the one's of you are off the table now okay? Do you wanna see what you look like? *lol* Email me your address and I'll send the pics to you. Tracey again: >When I finally get my photos back (hey, I get them done for free, so I can't >complain about turn around time) I'm sure I'll have a few of Demi Ellen >Moore DeGeneres that I can shlep around to whomever wants a peek at what a >good looking Pennsylvanian Honda driving chick magnet looks like. Good looking? Yep, just call me DD or EM for short baby - the best of both women - woo hoo!!! Right now the Honda driving chick magnet has a zit on her chin (like you all wanted to know that....), so *anything* you can do to hook me up would be appreciated *lol*. But I don't think you could even *give* my picture away... Is it possible that a person can have a zit and still look good? ....wondering if I should go out this weekend or stay home with a bag over my head... *lol* Have a good weekend everybody !!! Hope your feeling better Shirl... Happy B-day Gwen !! Beth (gonna go put on the ole' toolbelt and do some housework now) ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 13:30:45 -0400 From: roger zender Subject: E.J. Waters Has anyone heard of this female singer? I heard her CD the other day at my job and I really liked it. I'm just not sure if anyone else knows about her. Roger ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 14:50:16 -0300 From: Gina Subject: ? somebody said there was a pic and tiny artical about a MLE show in Rolling Stone. i looked through the whole thing and couldent find a single one. what issue was it, maybe i just have the wrong one. hopeful, -c. ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 11:13:27 -0700 From: edgy Subject: Storytellers Just saw a promo ad on VH1 for Storytellers. I realize that someone already mentioned the airdate change, but the rest of the promo only had one line from Melissa: "This is when I came out about my sexuality." I was a little surprised that they'd use this line to promote the show; she did say so much, and quite franly, so much that I hadn't heard before. I wonder how much of the show got edited out. Allison Recommendation of the week: [email protected] Paula Cole's "This Fire" ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 14:18:19 EST From: "Diane M. Brundige" Subject: E.J. Waters On 10/26/96 [email protected] wrote: Has anyone heard of this female singer? I heard her CD the other day at my job and I really liked it. I'm just not sure if anyone else knows about her. Yeah, I got her CD this week and it hasn't come out of my player yet. I've been listening to it at work and keep hitting replay. I had a chance to see her this summer but didn't go. Has anyone seen her in concert? KIP, Diane ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 18:29:59 +0000 From: Jan Subject: photos/text editors/the good doctor Beth wrote: > have a fairly decent group shot, a couple of Tracey (the macarena And where did you get the camera, eh? :-) We got our pictures back today. We'll take requests/trades, too. (Don't worry, Dina, Susie, and Rhondda - you'll get them automatically as previously promised.) Lori Rehfeldt wrote: > Subject: The other nights show... I think you're getting crosslisted. Jan's having a severe case of deja vu. I swear we saw these same posts on the ELLEN list. Kiva Kamerling (who obviously fixed her header ) wrote: > I am having trouble reading the digest because my text reader is not large > enough and I do not know how to change the reader. Are you using a PC or a Mac? I can give you some suggestions for readers and text editors for those platforms that you can get that are shareware/freeware. Our good buddy Tracey wrote: > Hey, Beth! Like Cindy, Kate, Naomi, Claudia and all of the other > supermodels, my image is proprietary, and can only be used with my > express and written consent! You gave permission for your photo to be taken and Beth is the owner of the negatives. I believe that allows her to do what she wants with the photos. And you're a lawyer. :-) Besides, we have our own negatives... > In all actuality, I just feel sorry for any deranged person who'd > actually want to see a picture of me. What about nonderanged people? > Perhaps we can arrange for you to speak with > my favorite shrink, Dr. Van Anderson, Is she still around? Haven't heard from her in ages. ;-) Elaine and Jan ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 21:16:35 -0400 From: Lauren Tag Subject: Re: Pictures, Oh No! trace wrote: >In all actuality, I just feel sorry for any deranged person who'd actually >want to see a picture of me. Perhaps we can arrange for you to speak with >my favorite shrink, Dr. Van Anderson, I'm sure she'd be available for >consults. speaking of pernille, where hath she gone? ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 22:08:26 -0500 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: Bad Hats, Photos and Missing Shrinks (NMEC) Happy Weekend, MEListers - Hope everyone is having fun, staying warm (who got snow?) or staying dry (New Englanders out from underwater yet?). Jennifer Sass wrote about her wonderful MLE YIA baseball hat, recently purchased at a MLE concert, and revealed: >My wonderful woman was doing laundry tonight and she WASHED IT! Now I >have threads and a brim. Which left Jennifer. . . >begging and pleading for someone who is attending a concert in the >near future to please, Please, PLEASE pick up another one for me. I will >pay for all postage and will be forever in debt to anyone willing to help >me. Hey, Jennifer, I know the hat of which you speak, and it is quite nifty looking, very cool and very chic, but here's my question - if the things aren't made durably enough to hold up to one washing when reasonably new, is it really worth wasting your money to get another one? Chances are that it will be as poorly manufactured, and then, when its really in need of a washing (and given its cream color, that will happen) what are you gonna do? Just food for thought. That toolbelt-wearing, bezitted, (is that a word?) Honda Driving, Photo Taking, Demi/Ellen Resembling Chick Magnet, Beth (Go Big Blue) Durff wrote, in answer to my complaints about her offering pictures of me to the public at large: >But Tra-cey (whining).....I thought I was directing that to the listers who >attended the little shindig - and they already know what you look like! I >didn't think it was a big deal , but the one's of you are off the table >now okay? Do you wanna see what you look like? *lol* Email me your address >and I'll send the pics to you. To respond to each sentence in order - Hmm, okay, true. You don't have to do that. No. That's all right, but thanks anyway. Hope you got all that. Beth also queried: >Is it possible that a person can have a zit and still look good? Only if you're one of us. You know, a Pennsylvanian. Our Good Buddies (breaker 1-9, breaker 1-9) Jan and Elaine, still writing from Jan's account and computer (Jan, pleeeeease unchain Elaine so we don't have to send the police around!) commented: >Our good buddy Tracey wrote: Why do I keep getting visions of the movie "Convoy" in my head? Uh, anyway. . . >You gave permission for your photo to be taken and Beth is the owner of >the negatives. I believe that allows her to do what she wants with the >photos. And you're a lawyer. :-) Not so fast. She may own the negatives, but I own my face! If that defense works for Ahnode Schwarznegger, it works for me too! >Besides, we have our own negatives... And I should find this interesting because. . . ? >> In all actuality, I just feel sorry for any deranged person who'd >> actually want to see a picture of me. >What about nonderanged people? I don't know any of those. Could you introduce me? I also made this little comment. . . >> Perhaps we can arrange for you to speak with >> my favorite shrink, Dr. Van Anderson, To which Elaine and Jan queried. . . >Is she still around? Haven't heard from her in ages. ;-) and Lauren Tag, aka Buttercups, the groovy granddaughter, asked: >speaking of pernille, where hath she gone? Hmm. . . you know, this is true, Pernille has been uncharacteristically unavailable and quiet of late. Perhaps instead of calling the police to release Elaine from her unrequested(?) bondage at Jan's computer desk, we can ask them to track down the whereabouts of the good doctor. Ah well, tis all from me on this lovely Saturday evening! Oh - Happy Birthday Gwen! Hasta la pasta, Tracey Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ We would all be far better off if there were fewer rules and more good examples. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Sat, 26 Oct 1996 20:31:07 -0700 From: Christine Du Bois Subject: greetings, one mo' time Hi y'all... I'm back after a somewhat lengthy absence. Nice to be here again! And I'm excitedly drooling as I anticipate the ME show at the Tacoma Dome on December 13th. My girlfriend and I are hoping to get seats so close you could see every crease in ME's black leather pants. *sigh* And a special "HEY" to Francie, my dearest Philly pal! Kiss, kiss! (I know, I'm addicted to these lists, what else can I say?!) Bright blessings, Christine Du Bois Bi-Dyke, Libertarian, Pagan, Womanist and Public Relations Director, COYOTE/Seattle: The Sex Workers Rights Organization http://www.coyotesea.org/ ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 25 Oct 1996 to 26 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Mon Oct 28 00:01:23 1996 Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 00:00:42 -0400 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 26 Oct 1996 to 27 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 00:32:56 -0400 From: "John J. McCann" Subject: mle gathering hey guys, i was wondering if there are any fans from nj or pa that would be willing to get together and have fun talking about mle...if interested let me know. have a great day!!!! bridgette ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 01:28:02 EDT From: M Something Subject: The good Dr. V. (NMEC) Tracey Thacker wrote: >>> Perhaps we can arrange for you to speak with >>> my favorite shrink, Dr. Van Anderson, > >To which Elaine and Jan queried. . . >>Is she still around? Haven't heard from her in ages. ;-) > >and Lauren Tag, aka Buttercups, the groovy granddaughter, asked: >>speaking of pernille, where hath she gone? > >Hmm. . . you know, this is true, Pernille has been >uncharacteristically unavailable and quiet of late. Perhaps instead of >calling the police to release Elaine from her unrequested(?) bondage at >Jan's computer desk, we can ask them to track down the whereabouts >of the good doctor. I seem to recall hearing that the good doctor is attending a worldwide psychology convention in Austria (Ahnode's birthplace. Or was that Australia? ) I believe she is delivering a lecture entitled, "Email and Multiple Personality Disorder: Whose name should appear on the bill?" I'm looking forward to her return. ;) Michelle ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 01:42:36 -0400 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: Re: Bad Hats, Photos and Missing Shrinks (NMEC) > Jennifer Sass wrote about her wonderful MLE YIA > baseball hat, recently purchased at a MLE concert, and revealed: > > >My wonderful woman was doing laundry tonight and she WASHED IT! Now I > >have threads and a brim. On Sat, 26 Oct 1996, Tracey Thacker wrote: > Hey, Jennifer, I know the hat of which you speak, and it is quite nifty > looking, very cool and very chic, but here's my question - if the things > aren't made durably enough to hold up to one washing when reasonably new, is > it really worth wasting your money to get another one? Chances are that it > will be as poorly manufactured, and then, when its really in need of a > washing (and given its cream color, that will happen) what are you gonna do? > Just food for thought. I don't think that the hats were of bad quality....When Chris washed it she had it in with all kinds of stuff...shirts, sock, pants, etc...I found it in the dryer all shrunken and shreaded. I think that it was Chris' laundry skills that killed my precious hat...not the quality of the hat. Thanks to everyone who offered to get a replacement for me....I can't wait for it to come in! Love, Jenny ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 02:20:04 -0400 From: Tei at netcom Subject: storytellers? hello like i said once before i lost all my e-mail and i need to know once more when vh-1 will broadcast storytellers for melissa... was that nov 9th? could someone please let me know also any listers goin on the texas tour??? i think i am signing up monday!!! yeehaww if so get in touch with me!!! take care all!! tei! **************************************************************** "when i am through falling off the face of the earth... maybe I will come back around"......... Ani DiFranco. **************************************************************** ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 03:53:27 -0500 From: SbHarvick at aol Subject: Memphis!!!! Hi everyone, Well, it's official.....Memphis is the final road trip of the year to go see ME in concert, take in the local atmosphere (maybe macarena with Melissa down Beale Street?? Gwen, what do you think? You and Jen want to take a trip for that? ), and (I hope) chow on some of the *best* stuffed mushrooms I've ever had.....I can't wait! I actually got another lister to agree to do the trip with me (as long as she doesn't watch my speedometer, I know I don't :-)) **disclaimer--I am not advocating unsafe driving, nor speeding. I personally hold a stack of Illinois safe driver citations** So, if anyone else from the list is going to be at the Memphis show, or if anyone's planning any sort of listers' meeting, let me know, eh? Thanks, Susie btw--Happy Birthday, Gwen :-) ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 04:53:14 -0800 From: Joe Vitale Subject: Here's the inside story on EJ Waters... Roger asked about EJ Waters. She is a hot rising new female star. She was singer for the band "Will to Power" before coming out on her own with her first CD, titled appropriately enough, "EJ WATERS" (Castle/Epidemic Records). She has passion, punch and some great songs. "Colours of the World" was #33 on the A/C charts and is now #22. Her song "Every Woman Has Her Day" is really inspiring. EJ is from New Jersey and lives in Miami. I am helping her with some of her publicity and find her to be a doll. Right now I have Leno and The Tonight Show interested. At any rate, I *strongly* encourage you to give her a listen. Her CD should be in music stores nationwide. Some radio shows are playing her and comparing her to Melissa. Check her out for yourself. Her soaring pop-rock songs and style are really hot. As a friend of mine says, "EJ is cool beans!" Joe :) -- Joe Vitale -- Marketing with Spirit -- Houston Office: 713-999-1110 [email protected] http://www.speaking.com/vitale.html Get my NEW book: "CyberWriting: How to Promote Your Product or Service Online (without being flamed)" Call 1-800-262-9699 ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 10:10:22 -0500 From: Aaron Morrison Subject: Paula and Pernille edgy wrote: >Recommendation of the week: Paula Cole's "This Fire" I first heard of Paula when I saw the MLE duets, and thought she was alright, but not too remarkable. But in the last week I've heard "Tiger" from her new album a couple times on the radio, and WOW!!! :) Is the rest of her album that amazing? Elaine and Jan wrote: >> Perhaps we can arrange for you to speak with >> my favorite shrink, Dr. Van Anderson, > >Is she still around? Haven't heard from her in ages. ;-) and Laur wrote: >speaking of pernille, where hath she gone? Probably busy with her patients -- I hear they are a wild bunch! Aaron :) "Sometimes I feel like an innocent one To deserve this fate what have I ever done?" --Melissa Etheridge ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 10:32:04 -0500 From: Loretta Myers Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 25 Oct 1996 to 26 Oct 1996 In a message dated 96-10-27 00:09:13 EDT, you write: << From: roger zender Subject: E.J. Waters Has anyone heard of this female singer? I heard her CD the other day at my job and I really liked it. I'm just not sure if anyone else knows about her. Roger >> Yes, I have the CD as the result of a post on this list by J. Vitale. The more I listen to it the better I like it. She is really good. Another great "newcomer" (not really; she's been playing in Houston for a few years) is Carolyn Wonderland and the Imperial Monkeys. She has a CD called Pl ay With Matches out on Big Mo Records. She has a great voice and does all original music. You can probably get the CD at Blockbuster Music or your favorite record store, although they may have to order it. Carolyn has been compared to J. Joplin as Melissa has, but I like any of them better than Joplin. Some people think Carolyn sounds country, and I have to admit she sounds a little like Wynona on a couple of her songs, but she is not country. Of course, IMHO, neither E.J. nor Carolyn have the talent, fire, and passion of Melissa: but I don't think anyone else does either. Actually, I don't think I ever in my entire life had an humble opinion. Loretta ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 11:55:03 -0500 From: Shauna Hill Subject: CNN I just saw on CNN this morning that someone who was e-mail friends with someone went to met her and they found her dead. Scarry stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 08:59:52 -0800 From: Steffany Caria Subject: Melissa Is Coming To CA And I Didn't Know Tickets Went On Sale YESTERDAY! Okay, folks, I have been reading the bitching about ME ticket prices and the concert reviews of the recent tour and weighing whether or not to go to the CA dates when they came on sale (I know, sacrilege to even consider not going, but extra money is next to non-existent in my budget right now). The love-of-my-life and I managed to scrape up the bucks to go see Ani last night in Berkeley (excellent performance, but the audience left a bit to be desired; maybe we're just getting too old and fussy) and on the way home I said that I probably would have to forego buying Melissa tickets when she gets to CA because they were so expensive (unfortunately my SO gave a sigh of relief as she feels that anything over $30 is "ridiculous" to pay for concert tickets). I have been extraordinarily busy at work in the past month and home life has been VERY stressful (long story too depressing to go on about) and has required me to be at home rather than playing on the computer on the weekends (one of these days we'll get a PC for the home). Anyway, enough babbling, it seems that the West Coast tickets went on sale YESTERDAY and she plays ARCO Arena in Sacramento THE DAY AFTER MY BIRTHDAY and there are probably no decent seats left and all the feelings that the tickets are too expensive have left me and I just feel sad, poor, and depressed. HOW DO YOU FIND OUT WHEN TICKETS ARE GOING TO GO ON SALE BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE? Is there a Web site? Is there a newspaper? Why is it the publicity for all the awesome performers happens after it's too late to get first row tickets for Melissa for your birthday? I know, it's all my fault because I made a sacrilegious statement last night and I should have been paying more attention to when the CA dates might be coming around, and who knows someone probably posted on the ME list that the tickets were going to go on sale yesterday weeks ago and I'm sooo far behind in my reading that I didn't see it. I'm going to go home and spend a dejected day watching football and kicking myself in the ass for being lazy and stupid. If anyone has any info on where to obtain concert ticket info which lists when tickets will go on sale for specific venues in specific areas, I would be most appreciative. And if anyone has 2 extra first-row (or first 15 rows) tickets for 12/18 for Sacramento ARCO Arena for a contrite worshipper, I would be forever grateful. I guess I'll have to stop by Tower on the way home and make certain that the tickets truly did go on sale yesterday. What a complete and total bummer :( Steffany ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 08:59:50 -0800 From: edgy Subject: Re: Paula and Aaron (NMEC) On Sun, 27 Oct 1996, Aaron Morrison wrote: > edgy wrote: > >Recommendation of the week: Paula Cole's "This Fire" > I first heard of Paula when I saw the MLE duets, and thought she was > alright, but not too remarkable. But in the last week I've heard "Tiger" > from her new album a couple times on the radio, and WOW!!! :) Is the rest > of her album that amazing? yes. but what's even more amazing is her live show. she is playing small venues this tour and, to quote you aaron, "Wow!" She's just a great live performer. The new songs really speak to "Harbinger" but in a way that shows how far she has come emotionally since then. Her lyrics are, well, I'd say they're like what Melissa's *used* to be: evocative, crisp, and full of fairly original images and turns of phrases. The current tour seems to be a nice mix of stuff from both albums and she weaves a nice narrative within the setlist. Allison My recommendation for album of the year: [email protected] Wild Colonials, "This Can't Be Life" ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 19:15:32 GMT From: Maggie Subject: Rolling Stone issue Gina wrote: >somebody said there was a pic and tiny artical about a MLE show in Rolling >Stone. i looked through the whole thing and couldent find a single one. what >issue was it, maybe i just have the wrong one. It's the one with Sheryl Crow on the cover, dated 11/14/96, page 44. Also, for the truly obsessed "I gotta have every picture" listers, there's an Ovation ad featuring a picture of MLE on the inside back cover of the December Acoustic Guitar magazine. Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 15:30:32 -0500 From: Natalie DiBisceglie Subject: Re: MLE in South Florida Hi All, I have been sitting here all afternoon, trying to catch up on on my mail, being unemployed and looking for a job sure takes a lot of time :-> I haven't seen anyone post who is going to her concert in Miami... I had thought I would get to meet Jen, but I see she has moved just a tad to far to come to this one. :-) but I bet Gwen is much happier.... I have to say I am quite disappointed with the location. I live in Palm Beach County and I was really hoping she would play at the *new* ampitheatre in West Palm Beach. (sad look). Last time she played was at the Miami Arena, I had 10 row which were pretty good seats. I have never been to the convention center, but I can't imagine it will be very good for a concert....Good News............It's Friday night...............I'll be weraring my purple shirt (Thanks again, Joyce) and ready for a really great evening!!!! Thanks everyone, for all the great posts regarding her other shows, she has been off so I sure she is rested and ready to rock!!! Hope to see other listers..................... Natalie ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 16:28:59 -0500 From: Jan Subject: photos, etc. Beth asked: > wondering if I should go out this weekend or stay > home with a bag over my head... *lol* A bag. Definitely. Lauren asked: > speaking of pernille, where hath she gone? Well, if you don't know... Tracey wrote: > >Our good buddy Tracey wrote: > Why do I keep getting visions of the movie "Convoy" in my head? I told Jan it sounded like we were chatting on a CB. Would she listen to me? Noooooh! > Not so fast. She may own the negatives, but I > own my face! If that defense works for Ahnode Schwarznegger, it works > for me too! He can do whatever he wants. He's bigger than everybody else. Isn't it illegal to distribute photos if one didn't have permission to take them in the first place? And what if one does have permission? > >Besides, we have our own negatives... > And I should find this interesting because. . . ? ...because we have pictures of you too! > >What about nonderanged people? > I don't know any of those. Could you introduce me? I'm currently staying with somebody who has me chained to a computer table. Think I get out much? Elaine and Jan ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 22:12:42 GMT From: Beth Durff Subject: photos Jan and Elaine wrote >And where did you get the camera, eh? :-) OOPS. Okay, let me cite my source... Thanks to Jan because she just *happened* to have an extra camera with my name on it... how's that? (grin) Does that mean that you're an accomplice now? and Tracey let loose with this intro of me: >That toolbelt-wearing, bezitted, (is that a word?) Honda Driving, Photo >Taking, Demi/Ellen Resembling Chick Magnet, Beth (Go Big Blue) Durff ROTFLMAO !!!! I love it. You crack me up Tracey ! and in response to the question of whether or not you can have a zit and still look good, Tracey wrote: >Only if you're one of us. You know, a Pennsylvanian. ...oh well, yes... how thoughtless of me. That would make all the difference wouldn't it? Is it the water or what? ...And if the zit wasn't enough... now I'm in the middle of a legal dispute . Jan and Elaine wrote to Tracey: >>You gave permission for your photo to be taken and Beth is the owner of >>the negatives. I believe that allows her to do what she wants with the >>photos. And you're a lawyer. :-) To which Tracey replied: > Not so fast. She may own the negatives, but I >own my face! If that defense works for Ahnode Schwarznegger, it works for >me too! Okay, okay enough already. Don't pout !!! I hate it when people pout. You're gonna get me all soft and mush hearted, and the next thing you know I'll have a *good* girl reputation (as opposed to a *bad* girl reputation) - and I can't have that - so STOP pouting !!!!!!! Beth (glad those Lions are back to winning again) ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 19:00:49 -0500 From: Joyce Luck Subject: Newsweek Howdy, Looks like the Nov. 4 issue of Newsweek will be the one with Julie and Melissa on the cover. I got this info from Newsweek Interactive on America Online (KEYWORD: Newsweek), which shows the cover and runs the full text of the article. There is one long article, it looks like, with several sidebars, and one is an interview with Melissa and Julie with Newsweek's Mark Miller. Um, the cover photo is just a head and shoulders shot of Melissa and Julie, but it's still a neat picture. The interview itself doesn't really have any new information.....the baby seems as if it will be a girl, from what they are able to tell from ultrasounds; the baby will be named Austin; the daddy is *not* Brad Pitt ; and, oh! The only *new* info was that Julie and Melissa are intending to legally change their last names to some combination of both of their names so that all three members of the family can have the same last name for passports and other legal documents. (Melissa also intends to adopt Austin, and California, I would think, will probably allow this.) Melissa and Julie also say they will probably have more children in the future, and despite the legal name change, Julie and Melissa will also hang onto their "professional names." And that's all I can remember right off the top of my head. Save yer pennies....looks like Newsweek'll be worth buying that week! Later, Joyce<----trying out combinations: Cyridge...Ethpher..... ;-) ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 21:03:05 -0500 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: DC Gathering Web Pictures. (fwd) Oooopps, hope this isn't a repeat. My first attempt got bounced back at me. I've been working on the photo's Gwen sent me this weekend and should have them finished and on my web site by mid week. I promise to keep you all posted. From as far as I can tell(I wasn't there) there are pics of sevral famous Listers such as, Deb(Ex flame Moderator) and Tori and Beth Durff(The Honda Driving Chic Magnet) and even one of everyones favorite Flame War Monger herself - The one and only Elaine! Not to worry Elaine, I refrained from drawing horns, scars or mustaches on your picture. :] There a bunch of other folks as well. Very good looking bunch of Listers! So as soon as I get the names posted below the pics I'll let everyone know when they are available. Shirl(Who is putting on those Nikies and getting ready to run for her life) Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah BTW - Hey Randy, did you ever out run Elaine from a few weeks back and if so how far and how fast did you have to go? ------------------------------ Date: Sun, 27 Oct 1996 23:50:41 -0500 From: Redsocks Subject: Re: Newsweek Joyce Luck wrote: [snip] >the daddy is *not* Brad Pitt ; and, oh! The only *new* info was that >Julie and Melissa are intending to legally change their last names to some >combination of both of their names so that all three members of the family >can have the same last name for passports and other legal documents.... > >Joyce<----trying out combinations: Cyridge...Ethpher..... ;-) "Cypheridge"? -- Redsocks (no, I'm not from Boston) [email protected] http://www.li.net/~matthewb/ Epistulam transmitto, ergo sum (I e-mail, therefore I am). ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 26 Oct 1996 to 27 Oct 1996 ************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Mon Oct 28 20:52:32 1996 Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 20:51:52 -0400 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 27 Oct 1996 to 28 Oct 1996 - Special issue To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 09:07:54 -0500 From: "Susan H. Simko" Subject: Re: CNN Shauna Hill wrote: > I just saw on CNN this morning that someone who was e-mail friends > with someone went to met her and they found her dead. > > Scarry stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you referring to the woman who was found dead here in North Carolina? I heard that story also and it made me pause for thought about the times I have met up with people from email friendships, invited people to stay at my house that I did not know except via email and stayed at people's home that I knew from email only. So far, every one of those experiences has enriched my life, some more than others (*grin* hi Chuckie!) but it does make you wonder. I always thought I was safe in a way because someone always knew where I was and/or how to reach me but that doesn't help if you're dead. I really hate having to live my life being paranoid about the creeps. I thought it was bad enough when I felt it was no longer safe to bicycle alone on two lane backroads in the country... Susan H. Simko [email protected] Fuqua School of Business The past tempts us ... Duke University Today confuses us and Durham, NC USA 27708 The future frightens us (919) 660-7876 ** Centauri Emperor ** ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 11:03:51 -0500 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: Thanks for the bday wishes Just wanted to say thanks for all the birthday wishes. (beaming smile) What a sweet bunch of listers you are! And for anyone who's interested, I had a very groovy day. Jen whipped up this delicious lasagna dinner and gave me Shawn Colvin's new CD. (love it!) And I got the coolest hat from a friend.... it's one of those ridiculously tall (not to mention just plain ridiculous) Dr. Seuss hats with the red & white peppermint stripe pattern on one side... but wait, it's also reversable and the other pattern is tye-dye. My wardrobe is now complete. (g) Well...almost complete. Sure do envy Margo and the other MMMs who have custom made MLE boxers. Gwen (who also likes Sheryl Crow and thinks she has the nicest set of teeth, well, okay caps, around) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 11:46:09 -0300 From: Jennifer Sutton Subject: HEY EVERYBODY. Hey chicks. I'am a new user and would like to chat with anybody that want's to. My e-mail address should be included. To the babe who said that M.E. boxers should be made, I fully agree. Totally chic. Anyway, get back to me. Peace. ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 10:11:09 -0600 From: "Cindy S. Hughey" Subject: Re: Memphis!!!! I'm planning a trip to memphis myself. Glad to know that some other listers are going to attend. However, I still want to know about accquiring tickets. Are They on sale yet. I know they must be, but Who Do I call? I need a phone number. Thanks for the Help. SHAKAY [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 12:10:38 -0400 From: "Eidel Lisa Consultant (Temp)" Subject: Pilot episode of EZ Streets Hi everyone! This post has absolutely nothing to do with Melissa (unfortunately) but I was hoping that someone might have the answer to my question regarding the pilot episode of EZ Streets that aired last night. They played some amazing music in the episode but didn't list it in the credits. Does anyone recognize the singer/band and where I can purchase it? Thanks to all. Lisa ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 12:15:34 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: No Docs For Me :( (NMEC) Happy Monday Morning! Here the Poohster sits Doc Martinless and why you might ask???? I guess it all comes from running in the hills of Ohio without shoes as a small bear cub! What is up with a company that does not make 1/2 sizes? Now I guess I could go sit in the stream that runs through the hundred acre wood and see if my toesies will shrink or maybe shave the fur from my fuzzy little toes maybe that would get me down a 1/2 size or better yet I could put out an add which would read somewhat like this: Wanted good toesucker must have great suction powers and be able to digest just a little bit of fluff! P.S. No tickling allowed! So I tried on both sizes to no avail, one size is too big and one size is too small! Now just what is a beat to do! Sincerely, "POOH" Who may be found lurking around car washes attached to one of the vacumn machines screaming "Just 1/2 inch more!!!" :) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 12:29:16 -0400 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: Upcoming MLE concerts Susie from St. Louie extended a very tempting invitation to us: >Well, it's official.....Memphis is the final road trip of the year to go see >ME in concert, take in the local atmosphere (maybe macarena with Melissa down >Beale Street?? Gwen, what do you think? You and Jen want to take a trip for >that? ), and (I hope) chow on some of the *best* stuffed mushrooms I've >ever had.....I can't wait! (POUT POUT POUT) Awww....gee-whiz, Susie. That sure sounds like fun. And it sure would be great getting to see you again. But I'm afraid we have to pass on this one, eventhough I absolutely adore stuffed mushrooms. Well, no, that's not really true. I absolutely adore Jen. But I do like stuffed mushrooms. (g) ++++++++ Natalie DiBisceglie posted about the upcoming Miami concert: >I haven't seen anyone post who is going to her concert in Miami... I had >thought I would get to meet Jen, but I see she has moved just a tad to far to >come to this one. :-) but I bet Gwen is much happier... Talk about irony- MLE played in the D.C. area just a few weeks before Jen moved up. Now, she's playing in Miami. My poor Jen has ended up missing both shows. (Guess that means Jen must be crazy for me.) Gwen (the one with the ear-to-ear smirk) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 12:53:48 -0500 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: NMEC: Anyone from Alexandria Out There? Was wondering if there are any Melisters living out in the Alexandria area near DC? I'll be in town Wednesday evening and Thursday to attend an Internet seminar/expo and would like to meet some or any of you famous DC Macarena dancing types? Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 14:17:02 EST From: DOUG Subject: Re: HEY EVERYBODY. Hey all! Hope the weekend was good and the week is fast! just one thing for now... Jennifer Sutton wrote: ***Hey chicks. I'am a new user and would like to chat with anybody that want's KEWL! I'm a chick now and didn't feel a thing! 8-) I have a friend who would kill for that to happen to him/her! Later, Doug "Like a child in the night with no one to hold you and tell you everything's gonna be alright..." -from "Fear of Being Alone" by Reba McEntire Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 09:49:45 -0700 From: Candra Rainey Subject: SF sold out -- this bites > I guess I'll have to stop by Tower on the way home and make > certain that the tickets truly did go on sale yesterday. > Steffany Hey sister friend, Not only did the SF show go on sale yesterday, it SOLD OUT. SOLD OUT. Oh my god. Sold out and I am ticketless. My (ex)girlfriend was even considering flying out here from the east coast to go to the show with me. This sucks. I'd be so bold as to beg anyone who has extra tickets, but I'll be surprised if ANYONE got them, they sold out so fast. Candra, who is delurking purely to whine ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 13:01:00 -0600 From: Patty Wilcox Subject: Would Only Be A Short Jump >>MLE underwear? >Well it would only be a short jump, from the "shirt gal" to the "short gal" >but I would definately go flannel. :-> A woman after my own heart...my vote's in for flannel as well, Joyce, or should I say "short gal" ;) Keep rockin' and for those in the living in the colder regions of the world, always use flannel. Roxy ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 13:57:00 -0500 From: Deb Subject: Re: Counting Crows' Tattoos On Wed, 23 Oct 1996, Mary M. MacDonald wrote: > I was in Suncoast Video the other day, doing my quarterly A-Z flip thru of > their laserdiscs, and what did I find but Theresa's Tattoo! On sale! I > stared at it, laughed, squinted my eyes trying to picture it lined up with > the others in my collections. But no, I just wasn't able to justify $35 for > a lousy movie, even accounting for the obsessive fan value it has to me But Mary, what about that instant access to as-yet-unreleased MLE songs?! I'll be looking for it my next trip! > (somehow I was able to justify it for "The Hunger," another essentially > lousy movie - maybe it had something to do with Catherine Deneuve and Susan > Sarandon...just possibly!) Hey! I think "The Hunger" is a great flick, and that has nothing to do with Deneuve, Sarandon, or the homo content. > I *really* *really* like Sheryl Crow's latest. Really. Me too! They played "Love is a Good Thing" at a club I was in the other night, and I couldn't get it out of my head all night! > There was lots I liked > about "Tuesday Night Music Club", but musically "Sheryl Crow" is head and > shoulders above it. But I disagree there. I love both CDs, but I prefer TNMC. Nearly anything David Baerwald participates in is worth listening to. -- Deb \\ [email protected] \\ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 14:30:18 -0800 From: "Karen Steenstrup (Punster)" Subject: Shrink a dink Hey all, Michelle wrote: > Tracey Thacker wrote: >>>> Perhaps we can arrange for you to speak with >>>> my favorite shrink, Dr. Van Anderson, >> >> To which Elaine and Jan queried. . . >>> Is she still around? Haven't heard from her in ages. ;-) >> >> and Lauren Tag, aka Buttercups, the groovy grandaughter, asked: >>> speaking of pernille, where hath she gone? >> >> Hmm. . .you know, this is true, Pernille has been >> uncharacteristically unavailable and quiet of late. Perhaps instead >> of calling the police to release Elaine from her unrequested(?) >> bondage at Jan's computer desk, we can ask them to track down the >> whereabouts >of the good doctor. > > I seem to recall hearing that the good doctor is attending a worldwide > psychology convention in Austria (Ahnode's birthplace. Or was that > Australia? ) I believe she is delivering a lecture > entitled, "Email and Multiple Personality Disorder: Whose name should > appear on the bill?" I'm looking forward to her return. ;) I'm looking forward to her return as well. It has been awhile since we have heard from the doc. I thought she was in Norway skiing, rather than in Austria at a convention? Oh well, either way they can go down hill. Have a good Monday everyone. Take care. Kare ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 15:44:21 -0400 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: Return from the Land of the Lost Shhhh! Hi, it's Jen.. I managed to gnaw the chains off for a few minutes and sneak on the computer.... (g) Better hurry up before I get caught. (w) Natalie said: >I haven't seen anyone post who is going to her concert in Miami... I had >thought I would get to meet Jen, but I see she has moved just a tad to far to >come to this one. :-) but I bet Gwen is much happier... (sigh) Yeah... I missed out this time. Maybe next year. But I did get to see the Indigo Girls.. and we're going with a few other listers to see Michelle Shocked on the 14th. (chuckle) Well.. she looks happy.. its a REALLY large grin... (wink) ----=====****====---- Beth said: >First off, let me send a great big HAPPY BIRTHDAY greeting to Gwen "Doe >Eyes" Shinko !!!!! (raised eyebrow) (forebearing sigh) Now Beth.. we've already _had_ this conversation. Go find your own set of irrisistable hazel eyes. >Hey *baby*... I'll macarena with you any day (ducking to avoid a big SMACK >from jealous Jen the love slave) Alright, that's it. (walking up behind Beth) (tap tap) (THTTHHHHHWWAAAAAAP) M_I_N_E_! (dusting off hands) (snort) ----=====****====---- Elaine said: >>> But hey, I promised her that I'd keep her little secret. Cause ya know, >>> I'm not the kind of girl who macarenas and tells. :-) >Finally! Somebody who can keep a secret. Well.. she'd best not be, eh? (eg) >>> MLE underwear? Say.... that's not a bad idea. Hey MEIN, if you're reading >>> our list, how's about looking into MLE boxer shorts. >You're scaring me, Gwen. (nodding vigorously) 'Cause I just _know_ who is going to end up wearing them. (rolling eyes) (large forebearing sigh) >>> it, make them in both cottonblend and satin. >Satin, definitely. Yep.. Yep. I definitely think the shirt gal flunked with the flannel choice there.. (gagging motions) Toooooo Tacky for words. >>> upstairs watching Rosanne. (Did anyone else catch that show?) >I did. I'm chained to a swivel chair so I could turn and watch the tv. Oh cool! You're chained too, eh? At least you are chained to the computer and can play with the 'toys' when not _otherwise_ occupied. I've tried but I can't get the laptop's powerbrick to reach to the bed. (eg) >>> After that scene, they cut to Rosanne and Jackie at some hypnotist's place >Past life regression therapy...Should I be worried that I knew that? Na... (chuckle) We should be worried if we wanted to inquire who you were in a past life. (w) Just kidding..... (g) Jen..... (sound of office door opening) "Hey sweetheart, how'd you manage to get those chains off? Did Elaine send you her file or something? Come on, I'm taking you home now before you cause any permanent damage to the Honda driving chick magnet.... wouldn't be pretty." (whimper) (Jen waving goodbye with her one free hand) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 16:01:14 -0500 From: Aaron Morrison Subject: more Pernille, more Paula, with some MEC thrown in for flavor :) Michelle wrote: >I seem to recall hearing that the good doctor is attending a worldwide >psychology convention in Austria (Ahnode's birthplace. Or was that >Australia? ) You mean Austrilia? ;) >I believe she is delivering a lecture >entitled, "Email and Multiple Personality Disorder: Whose name should >appear on the bill?" She asked me for permission to use my name(s) in that lecture -- I have no idea why though... >I'm looking forward to her return. ;) Me too! Allison wrote: >yes. but what's even more amazing is her live show. she is playing small >venues this tour and, to quote you aaron, "Wow!" She's just a great live >performer. Anyone have a tour schedule they could email me? :) BTW, I had a dream last night where I was at a MLE concert, and she did a slow melancholy a capella cover of Micheal Jackson "Bad" -- yuck!!! Aaron :) "Sometimes I feel like an innocent one To deserve this fate what have I ever done?" --Melissa Etheridge ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 17:12:52 EST From: DOUG Subject: ME concert Hey all...again! Just thought I'd share some good news with you. K92 FM, a radio station in Roanoke Virginia, is giving away a trip to see Melissa in Dallas. All week long the tenth caller after the touchtones are sounded win a copy of YLS and a chance to win the trip to Dallas. I'm hoping to win, but not holding my breath. For weeks, they've been having a contest every hour during the day for a chance at $1,000 and I couldn't get through! Later, Doug "Like a child in the night with no one to hold you and tell you everything's gonna be alright..." -from "Fear of Being Alone" by Reba McEntire Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 16:26:33 -0500 From: [email protected] Subject: trust >>Shauna Hill said: >> I just saw on CNN this morning that someone who was e-mail friends >>with someone went to met her and they found her dead. Scarry stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and >>[email protected] (Susan H. Simko) said: >>Are you referring to the woman who was found dead here in North Carolina? >>I heard that story also and it made me pause for thought about the times >>I have met up with people from email friendships, invited people to stay at >>my house that I did not know except via email and stayed at people's home >>that I knew from email only. So far, every one of those experiences has >>enriched my life, some more than others (*grin* hi Chuckie!) but it does >>make you wonder. Hearing about things like that has to make everyone stop & think a little bit. I guess you just have to trust your own instinct & be careful. I say this because I have 2 listers I have never met in person coming to stay with me to catch some Pacific NW ME shows. (Hey Maggie & Sue D!!!) Being a little more on the careful side than some, I'm surprised that I'm not even nervous about it at all. I've chatted with Maggie & Sue via e-mail & even on the phone (ask Maggie about that one!) & I feel like I really do know both of them fairly well. If they are willing to fly all the way out here to catch the shows with me, the least I can do is offer my home as a place to stay. So I'm looking forward to it! By the way you two.....have you finished those background investigation sheets I sent you yet? :) Susan ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 22:09:22 GMT From: Maggie at avalon Subject: Re: trust At 04:26 PM 10/28/96 -0500, you wrote: >>>Shauna Hill said: >>> I just saw on CNN this morning that someone who was e-mail friends >>>with someone went to met her and they found her dead. Scarry >stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! > >and > >>>[email protected] (Susan H. Simko) said: >>>Are you referring to the woman who was found dead here in North Carolina? >>>I heard that story also and it made me pause for thought about the times >>>I have met up with people from email friendships, invited people to stay at > >>>my house that I did not know except via email and stayed at people's home >>>that I knew from email only. So far, every one of those experiences has >>>enriched my life, some more than others (*grin* hi Chuckie!) but it does >>>make you wonder. > >Hearing about things like that has to make everyone stop & think a little >bit. I guess you just have to trust your own instinct & be careful. I say >this because I have 2 listers I have never met in person coming to stay with >me to catch some Pacific NW ME shows. (Hey Maggie & Sue D!!!) Howdy Susan! > Being a little >more on the careful side than some, I'm surprised that I'm not even nervous >about it at all. I've met plenty of listers before, and hope to continue doing so as well. I'm generally a cautious type and I do admit to having thought about the possible dangers on occassion. But this is true no matter where you meet people, whether it is at a bar, work or school, or even through people you know well. You are always taking a chance. > I've chatted with Maggie & Sue via e-mail & even on the >phone (ask Maggie about that one!) And, of course, you are always taking a chance when you give out your phone number as well.... ;) It seems sort of obvious, but maybe it would be good to remind ourselves to use the same caution and common sense in meeting listers as we would anybody else. Trust your instincts, and always let somebody back home know what you're up to. If you're unsure at all, take other precautions - meet in a public place, don't go there alone, stay reasonably sober, make sure you have a dependable way to get back home, etc. > & I feel like I really do know both of >them fairly well. If they are willing to fly all the way out here to catch >the shows with me, the least I can do is offer my home as a place to stay. So >I'm looking forward to it! So am I! :) Also, posting our meetings on the list (as well as BAB get-togethers, Texas and DC gatherings, etc) is another very good precaution to take. Nothing like 2000 pairs of eyes watching out for everyone. >By the way you two.....have you finished those >background investigation sheets I sent you yet? :) Not yet. Besides, you have nothing to worry about. I'd never get the chainsaw through airport security :) :) Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 09:35:36 +1100 From: HOLMES V O Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 25 Oct 1996 to 26 Oct 1996 > So, how did you do with tickets - myself, 24th row. > My part time roommate, who was second in line at a little place in Oly, got > 7th row! Can't believe it. *delurk for a second* I ca't understand this phenomenon at all... line up for tickets, second in line and only get 7th row? I guess MEIN buys a lot of them but this seems really poor. Did the first persoin in line buy the first six rows? I was 7th in line for STing tickets and got second row... But this is Australia I guess, maybe things work differently? Hmmm ... this just struck a cord in me, but I'm off now! *lurk mode on* Veronica ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 16:50:28 -0600 From: Janis Delmonte Subject: Re: Tickets and lining up > I ca't understand this phenomenon at all... line up for tickets, second in > line and only get 7th row? I guess MEIN buys a lot of them but this seems > really poor. Did the first persoin in line buy the first six rows? I was > 7th in line for STing tickets and got second row... But this is Australia > I guess, maybe things work differently? I am wondering about this also. I lined up at a local ticketmaster outlet and was second in line. I bought tickets at 10:02 AM after they went on sale at 10:00AM and got about 20 something rows back... This is in the U.S. Could be 'cause I bought 8 tickets, but still, at that time you would think there would still be a good selection. An aquaintance, who phoned in got 7th row... so much for lining up. -Janis ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 18:12:21 -0500 From: DitaParlo Subject: Beats?!?-NMEC Pooh wrote: > Now just what is a beat to do! I'm not sure...I always thought you were a *bear*............ Elaine You know you want me. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 10:17:00 +1100 From: HOLMES V O Subject: Re: Tickets and lining up > An aquaintance, who phoned in got 7th row... so much for lining up. > > -Janis Ahhhh light dawns:) Nothin like the power of plastic. Credit Cards rule. Veronica ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 15:20:56 -0800 From: "J. Croft" Subject: Re: Tickets and lining up & MEIN >> I ca't understand this phenomenon at all... line up for tickets, second in >> line and only get 7th row? I guess MEIN buys a lot of them but this seems >> really poor..... Delurking myself to ditto on wondering what happened to all the front seats. I called in for Spokane tickets at 10AM (as was suggested by a ticket agent I purchase from frequently - she figured the line would be horrendous), WATCHED the clock turn 10AM as the agent asked what she could help me with and was told the best two seats available were in row "SS" (this at a venue that starts seating with row A, though she told me the stage would begin at row AA for this event -- even still -- not great seats). A friend of mine had the same experience purchasing tickets for the Tacoma and Portland shows. I suggested MEIN has secured the front of the PNW venues, but his theory is that promoters, radio stations, record stores, and every else that could possibly have a contest is getting them. Guess we'll see when we get there. >From what I gather, the Indiana show was terrible for fan clubbers purchasing tickets from MEIN, but how has it been for everyone else? Was that just one bad venue in the bunch? I did two shows in a row earlier this month and was generally pleased... 24th row in St. Louis wasn't great but 4th row in Moline was excellent. Since I've got a few more shows to get out of my system before this tour is over, I'm keeping my fingers crossed that the Indiana seating fiasco doesn't plague the rest of the tour. Still wondering though, what's the worst anyone has gotten thus far on this tour from MEIN, outside of the IN seating? Still optimistic that MEIN is going to take care of me for the rest of the tour, Jib p/s -- Another thing to consider when buying from the local ticket outlets -- in Spokane alone, when you are working with an agent on one computer, there are 21 other agents operating computers simultaneously around the city. That makes sense in terms of not getting 1st, 2nd, even 3rd row when you're not first in line. But row "SS" at 10AM?? Again, I'm hoping that those tickets are in the hands of MEIN! * JL Jiblet Croft * [email protected] * http://www.pretenders.org * ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 00:02:31 GMT From: Beth Durff Subject: I asked: >wondering if I should go out this weekend or stay home with a bag over my head... *lol* Jan wrote: >A bag. Definitely. Oh, I'll remember that the next time I see you...(if I can see out of the two little eye holes in the bag that is) and this from my fellow Honda driving chick magnet,Shirl: >I've been working on the photo's Gwen sent me this weekend ...as far as I can >tell(I wasn't there) there are pics of sevral famous Listers such as, Deb(Ex flame >Moderator) and Tori and Beth Durff(The Honda Driving Chic Magnet) and even one of >everyones favorite Flame War Monger herself - The one and only Elaine! Uh Shirl, for a *certain* number of us that should have perhaps said "infamous" Listers... :-) Beth (taking the sig. off cause' it's longer than my post to the list...) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 19:03:10 -0500 From: Joyce Luck Subject: Tickets and Bears Hi, Re: the ticket thread: I'm convinced it can't be figured out! LOL I have purchased MEIN tickets twice; once, in Boston, at the Fleet Center, and the seats totally sucked. The second time, in Columbus, and the seats were okay...about 15th row. Both times I knew other folks at the concert who purchased seats through Ticketmaster and had gotten better seats for less money than I paid MEIN. In both cases also, the Ticketmaster purchasers had bought their tickets *after* I'd bought my MEIN tickets. So go figure. -------------------- DitaParlo said: >>Pooh wrote: > Now just what is a beat to do! I'm not sure...I always thought you were a *bear*............ Elaine<< Why are you signing your email "Elaine?" Is this a joke? I don't get it. Somehow I just can't picture Elaine chained to *your* computer. 'Sides all that, isn't Elaine visiting Jan? ;-) Later, Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 18:35:19 EST From: M Something Subject: Re: Shrink a dink Kare (the Punster extraordinaire) wrote regarding the prodigal doc: >I'm looking forward to her return as well. It has been awhile since >we have heard from the doc. I thought she was in Norway skiing, rather >than in Austria at a convention? Oh well, either way they can go down >hill. Have a good Monday everyone. Take care. Speaking of the slopes, did you hear about the husband who swore he would take his wife skiing? He made her a slalom promise. (Sorry, I couldn't resist. Kare always does this to me.) Michelle ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 18:30:42 EST From: M Something Subject: Re: more Pernille and weird dreams Aaron wrote: >You mean Austrilia? ;) Oops. Sorry, I accidentally used my spell checker. ;) >>I believe she is delivering a lecture >>entitled, "Email and Multiple Personality Disorder: Whose name >>should appear on the bill?" > >She asked me for permission to use my name(s) in that lecture -- I >have no idea why though... Hmmm . . . . >BTW, I had a dream last night where I was at a MLE concert, and she >did a slow melancholy a capella cover of Micheal Jackson "Bad" -- >yuck!!! Regarding the doc's request of you, now it's all starting to make some sense. Aaron, RUN, don't walk, to the nearest mental health facility. Michelle ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 20:23:29 -0500 From: [email protected] Subject: trust >>[email protected] (Maggie at avalon) said: >>I've met plenty of listers before, and hope to continue doing so as well. >>I'm generally a cautious type and I do admit to having thought about the >>possible dangers on occassion. But this is true no matter where you >>meet people, whether it is at a bar, work or school, or even through >>people you know well. You are always taking a chance. Yet another reason I feel so comfortable with Maggie & Sue. I've heard of their past meetings & so far those people have continued posting. I can only assume they came to no harm in meeting them! :) >>she also commented: >>And, of course, you are always taking a chance when you give out your >>phone number as well.... ;) ha ha! You do have to be careful. You also need to clarify just what number you are giving out. Some fool might have a number they think is...oh say your office number that you can leave a message at. In reality it might be their home number & an intoxicated individual who lives 2 time zones away might get the urge to call & leave a funny message on voice mail, but really gets you at home when you are asleep. Whoops! ;) >>and: >>Also, posting our meetings on the list (as well as BAB get-togethers, >>Texas and DC gatherings, etc) is another very good precaution to take. >>Nothing like 2000 pairs of eyes watching out for everyone. Geez! Well I wasn't nervous before but now the idea of 2,000 people knowing my every move for a weekend...hmmmmmmmmm >>Besides, you have nothing to worry about. I'd never get the chainsaw >>through airport security :) :) Oh yeah...I hadn't thought of that! I feel better already. Susan (who is getting word from a few others & the PNW gathering may be getting bigger! wahooooo!) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 20:30:55 EST From: Hayley Coristine <[email protected]> Subject: AOL Messages Hey everyone, I was wondering if someone could send me the 8 (I think there were 8) messages that Melissa posted on AOL last July? I had a copy of them but I lost it... :( Thanks, Hayley:) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 22:05:51 -0800 From: Randy Subject: Re: trust [email protected] wrote: > Yet another reason I feel so comfortable with Maggie & Sue. I've heard of > their past meetings & so far those people have continued posting. I can only > assume they came to no harm in meeting them! :) Nope, I came to no harm when I met SueD in August, I'm still ALIVE...'course that was before my flame war with Elaine. That changed things...now I'm a Crispy Critter (tm) ... -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 27 Oct 1996 to 28 Oct 1996 - Special issue ****************************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Tue Oct 29 00:01:40 1996 Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 00:01:01 -0400 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 28 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 21:59:25 -0500 From: Tei at netcom Subject: going to texas it is confirmed!!! I am off to texas for the melissa tour!!! anyone else goin? wonder who my roommate will be???? feel free to contact me... maybe share a taxi to the hotel??? psyched!!!!!!! tei! ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 22:10:47 -0500 From: Aaron Morrison Subject: Pernille and lots more Doug wrote: >***Hey chicks. I'am a new user and would like to chat with anybody that want's > >KEWL! I'm a chick now and didn't feel a thing! 8-) Aaarrggh... that happened to me too -- could someone change me back? Deb wrote: >> I *really* *really* like Sheryl Crow's latest. Really. > >Me too! Me three! :) >But I disagree there. I love both CDs, but I prefer TNMC. Both are great, but I'd go with her latest one... I'm not sure why, I guess cause it's more..what's the adjective I'm looking for... raw? Something like that. :) Kare wrote: >I'm looking forward to her return as well. It has been awhile since we >have heard from the doc. I thought she was in Norway skiing, rather >than in Austria at a convention? Or perhaps looking for one of her patients (that guy with the Irish name) who became rather solitary and joined a monastary or something... Michelle wrote: >Speaking of the slopes, did you hear about the husband who swore he would >take his wife skiing? He made her a slalom promise. ROTFL!!! :) >>You mean Austrilia? ;) > >Oops. Sorry, I accidentally used my spell checker. ;) That's such a bad habit of yours! >>BTW, I had a dream last night where I was at a MLE concert, and she >>did a slow melancholy a capella cover of Micheal Jackson "Bad" -- >>yuck!!! > >Regarding the doc's request of you, now it's all starting to make some >sense. Aaron, RUN, don't walk, to the nearest mental health facility. > LOL! That really was one hell of a weird dream... and I hate Michael Jackson too... just the though of MLE doing a cover of one of his songs makes me nauseous! Also in the dream, the concert was interrupted between every two or so songs for commercial breaks. (been watching too much VH1!) Aaron :) "Sometimes I feel like an innocent one To deserve this fate what have I ever done?" --Melissa Etheridge ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 18:36:01 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: MLE and julie - CyberSleaze MLE and julie in today's CyberSleaze (http://metaverse.com/vibe/sleaze/sleaze.10-28-96.html): LOOKS LIKE THE ONLY HAPPY COUPLE LEFT ARE - rocker MELISSA ETHERIDGE and her pregnant lover JULIE CYPHER. The happy couple have decided to name their unborn baby AUSTIN - whether it's a boy or a girl. And, the two have also announced that they want to change their surnames after the birth. Cypher says, "We want all three of us to have the same name. It will be combination of mine and Melissa's. We will only use the new name on documents like passports, but we will keep our respective professional names." *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 23:05:20 -0500 From: SbHarvick at aol Subject: Re: Tickets and lining up & MEIN J. Croft said: >>From what I gather, the Indiana show was terrible for fan clubbers >>purchasing tickets from MEIN, but how has it been for everyone else? Was >>that just one bad venue in the bunch? In DC, I was in row 5, and in row 22 for both Chicago and St. Louis. Of course, I won't know where my seats are in Memphis until I get there (I hate the suspense) Susie ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 20:35:48 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: S.F. show is *not* sold out! Candra Rainey whined: >Not only did the SF show go on sale yesterday, it SOLD OUT. SOLD >OUT. Oh my god. Sold out and I am ticketless. My (ex)girlfriend >was even considering flying out here from the east coast to go to >the show with me. This sucks. I'd be so bold as to beg anyone who >has extra tickets, but I'll be surprised if ANYONE got them, they >sold out so fast. i saw this and had to respond quickly, and on the list, just in case others think the show is sold out. did you someone else tell you that the s.f. show sold out? did you go to an outlet and check this out yourself? i've been listening to KFOG pretty much all day, and they're still promoting the concert [in fact, they're playing a promo right now for it], saying that while bay area fans made a great showing yesterday, there are still tickets available. i just called BASS [(510) 762-BASS] to confirm this, and the operator said that there are STILL tix available. run, do not walk, to your nearest BASS outlet! they may not be the greatest tix, but at least you'd be in the building. as an addendum: i never believe the term "sold out" anymore. i firmly believe that anyone can buy a ticket to a sold out concert, if they really try. sometimes, this entails a bit of planning and leg work, but it is possible. for example: i went at the last minute on a whim to the "sold out" allman brothers' benefit concert at the fillmore auditorium (1,100 capacity), where the ABB hadn't played for about 25 years, in september. i showed up about 7:30 pm for a 8 pm show (there was an opening act). many people were trying to buy tickets, but no one was selling. after about 1.5 hours, i was just going to give up, chalking up the experience as a character builder, when some guy came up and sold me a ticket for face value. i walked in, bought a beer, and the ABB started about 15 minutes later. timing is everything! often, an artist/promoter will release tickets on the day of the show; what are often termed "ticket dumps" or "production holes". in addition, i understand that many venues are contractually obligated to keep a few tickets available as a way to beat scalpers. the number of those available tickets vary, so it's best to call BASS or the venue early on the day of the show. in addition, KFOG has a great resource on their web page (http://www.kfog.com). click on the "what's up" link, click on "ticket swap". people can sell or trade tickets for face value here. personally, i've sold tickets for the bridge school and sting's concerts here, and have purchased tickets for lyle lovett (7th row) and the counting crows sold out show. barring that, i'd bet that there are a few BAB'ers who bought both MEIN and BASS tix, so that they could take the better pair on the day of the show. it just takes persistence. good luck! moo! *rhondda* ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 28 Oct 1996 *********************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Tue Oct 29 13:12:53 1996 Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 13:12:12 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 28 Oct 1996 to 29 Oct 1996 - Special issue To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 00:21:22 -0500 From: Anne Haines Subject: Sold out concerts If you want tickets to a concert that's sold out, you *could* always try MEIN. They *will* tell you whether they have tickets available for a particular show before you give them your credit card # or commit to paying $ for the membership. Whether it's worth the $19 membership fee on top of the ticket prices is up to you... and although some folks have ended up with crappy seats, if you really want to see the show, it's better than no seats. :) [Personally, I'm not sure that I'll re-join MEIN again unless I know for sure I'm going to be able to make it to 2-3 shows within the year. Paying $19 plus the ticket price is awfully steep, especially when I don't feel like I can reasonably ask the friend I went with to chip in on the MEIN membership... if I split the membership with someone, and we went to at least a couple of shows, it'd be worth it. I still have NO regrets about joining in '94, when we had 3rd row seats for the Murat in Indy and 3rd row again at Louisville Gardens the next night. :) But this time, for just one show, it felt like a bit much. (Didn't stop me though, you'll notice...)] -Anne in Indiana, up past her bedtime again... "Gonna sting you with a kiss from my lips/ Gonna sting you with a piece of my mind/ Gonna sting you with a taste of my skin/ Then you're mine, then you're mine" --Lucy Kaplansky, "Scorpion" http://ezinfo.ucs.indiana.edu/~ahaines ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 16:30:03 GMT+1000 From: Lou-Lou Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 28 Oct 1996 *rhondda* snip > It will be combination of mine and Melissa's. > We will only use the new name on documents like passports, but we > will keep our respective professional names." What Cypheridge? Interesting Lou ------------------------------ Date: Fri, 25 Oct 1996 21:18:30 -0700 From: Candra Rainey Subject: SF Show not sold out -- Yea! Rhondda and ANYONE ELSE WHO LISTENED TO ME!!! My previous post: > >Not only did the SF show go on sale yesterday, it SOLD OUT. SOLD > >OUT. Oh my god. Sold out and I am ticketless. My (ex)girlfriend > >was even considering flying out here from the east coast to go to > >the show with me. This sucks. I'd be so bold as to beg anyone who > >has extra tickets, but I'll be surprised if ANYONE got them, they > >sold out so fast. Rhondda's response: > i saw this and had to respond quickly, and on the list, just in case > others think the show is sold out. did you someone else tell you > that the s.f. show sold out? did you go to an outlet and check this > out yourself? You are right and I was wrong!!! Yipee!!! I never thought I'd be so happy to admit I was wrong, but I tell you, I AM WRONG AND DAMN GLAD ABOUT IT!! What happened was I called the MLE Fan Club inquiring about tickets for the SF show. The woman told me that the tickets were sold out. What she FAILED to tell me was that meant the tickets that the fan club RESERVES was sold out, not every seat. Luckily I went to my chiropractor (BTW John Miller, I was armed with my wonderful tapes you made me to give her, ) whining about how I couldn't believe it sold out so fast and she told me the same thing about KFOG. So I ran my butt home and hopped on the phone and got tickets!! ($100.25 total for 2 tix, whoa!!) I am sorry if I mislead anyone and I hope all took the wise words of Rhondda and got your tickets. Candra, delurking to admit she was wrong (but at least I've stopped whining) ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 23:58:02 EST From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: Re: trust Writing in regards to the recent North Carolina e-mail friends death and in response to postings by Shauna Hill and [email protected] (Susan H. Simko), Susan ([email protected]) wrote: >Hearing about things like that has to make everyone stop & think a little >bit. I guess you just have to trust your own instinct & be careful. Well, you can look at things this way also: Consider the number of murders you have heard about committed by friends, siblings, acquaintances, parents, partners, co-workers, and a host of other people. All the people who have been murdered by these people thought they knew them well, otherwise, would they have continued to endanger themselves? Of course, this is assuming that they had the option (for whatever reason) to leave or otherwise take themselves out of the danger. Turn on the news today, and you are almost guaranteed to learn of the murder of or violent crime committed against someone. I wonder what the ratio of murders committed by friends/acquaintances is to that committed by people who the deceased met via e-mail or otherwise over the net. Chances are, it's a lot less probable that the person who visits you after having met over the Net will murder you than your friend or acquaintance. Of course, this could be skewed because the ratio of friends/acquaintances being in proximity to the person they wish to murder is higher than that of the person met through e-mail or the Net. This is a relatively morbid subject, I know.... I do feel, though, that if I had the chance to meet someone I'd previously only known through the Net or perhaps have talked to on the phone, I'd jump at it. This does mean taking necessary precautions; in the times we live in today, those precautions are almost necessary on a daily basis. These precautions are pretty simple, and you probably do them already. Things such as letting someone else know where you're going to be, who you'll be with, when you're expecting to be back can all aid you, not just in case of violent crime. There are a million "what if's?" that these can also provide coverage for as well. Ok, I'm getting off my soapbox now. I've known too many people who are victims of violent crime. Please, take care wherever you are. Ok, I'm *really* getting off my soapbox now.... mary h. [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 00:04:37 -0600 From: "D. Caffrey" Subject: Memphis! HI! I came back from vacation recently only to discover that my computer had crashed. Aaaaauuugh! It has taken me several weeks to get back on track, but I've finally got things up & running. I got tickets to the Memphis show last weekend & I am jumping for joy. I got 3rd row seats!!!! I have never seen her in concert before & I am so glad I have awesome seats. It's less than a month away & I can't wait! Woo-Hoo! Diane ------------------------------ Date: Mon, 28 Oct 1996 22:25:43 -0800 From: Joyce Stoliar Subject: I made a Pun, I made a pun >From: Patty Wilcox >Subject: Would Only Be A Short Jump > >>>MLE underwear? > >>Well it would only be a short jump, from the "shirt gal" to the "short gal" >>but I would definately go flannel. :-> > >A woman after my own heart...my vote's in for flannel as well, Joyce, or >should I say "short gal" ;) > >Keep rockin' and for those in the living in the colder regions of the world, >always use flannel. I made a pun..... Must have been from hanging out with you and Kare in NYC, hey where is the punster these days??? And, I'm so glad you agree flannel boxers are the only way to go!!! :-> Honest whoever hasn't tried them you are in for a treat! Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 00:54:23 -0600 From: Suzy Korreck Subject: Howdy Hi there, I am also a new lister, and am quite curious about the inside jokes I've been reading the past two days. hmmm... Maybe I should make up one of my own to fit in. ~Nuwanda ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 01:56:18 -0500 From: Michelle Partin Subject: did anybody see my post?? Hello everybody!!!! I was stuck in the "info only" version of the list and I didn't see if my post made it. I asked if Melissa ever made it on Rosie's show. Also about how I have had the <<>> including but not limited to my car being stolen!!! Let me know if I have been typing to a deaf ear (or I guess it would be a blind eye, or a few million of them.LOL) by the way I live in Hillsboro just outside of Portland, and of course I going to the show, anyone else??? hope to read from you soon, Michelle (Partin) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 02:53:33 -0600 From: jonti bolles Subject: houston delurking Beth the chick magnet wrote: >You guys are *trying* to make me jealous on purpose aren't you? Hey, there's >always time for the Honda driving chick magnet to hop on a plane... Right >Jonti? okay, okay....... i will delurk for you. sorry i didnt see your remark for so long.oops. uh..... i was a little distracted and behind on my digest reading. as far as plane rides, ......anytime babe. woohoooo! i have my tickets to the houston concert and we plan on a looonngggg evening of celebrations. so....just how is your stamina these days??? gently picking up my white gauntlet for your challenge. (flowp) (gently smacking my computer screen) take that. !!!! who all 's doing the texas tour and including houston?? we would love to include ya'll in our houston area gang. ciao lightning jt ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 00:59:23 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: ticket hell and scary list members Steffany Caria wondered: >HOW DO YOU FIND OUT WHEN TICKETS ARE GOING TO GO ON SALE BEFORE IT'S >TOO LATE? Is there a Web site? well, this list is a good start. i went back and noticed that MLE's s.f. and sacramento dates were first posted on the list on 10/15 by marie foose. since then, i posted a speculative onsale date for the arco arena on 10/23, which i confirmed on 10/24. >Is there a newspaper? Why is it the publicity for all the awesome >performers happens after it's too late to get first row tickets for >Melissa for your birthday? i'm not sure what newspaper you've got in the davis area (geez, is the sacramento bee still around?), but at least 2 local bay area papers list the weekend onsales every friday - the san jose mercury news and the san francisco examiner. in addition, since bay area sales are generally on sundays, you can prepurchase the sunday chronicle on saturday and check out the datebook. then, there's the tried and true, old-fashioned method - listen to the radio! this is often how concerts are first announced. in addition, BASS has a recorded "information menu" where they list the upcoming onsales, which is generally updated at the end of the week. sometimes concert information falls into your lap, but most of the time you've got to work at it. it usually takes at least a modicum of effort. i'll bet that there are still sacto tix available, although at this date, i think you'll be hard pressed to find anything in the first 15 rows. good luck. ============================== Maggie at avalon said: >And, of course, you are always taking a chance when you give out >your phone number as well.... ;) or who you let into your car. right, maggie? i think maggie's exact words to john and i were, "take me to the transit center or *else*!" whirrrrrr! geez, where was she hiding that thing? :-) ============================== Janis Delmonte wondered: >I am wondering about this also. I lined up at a local ticketmaster >outlet and was second in line. I bought tickets at 10:02 AM after >they went on sale at 10:00AM and got about 20 something rows back... >This is in the U.S. > >Could be 'cause I bought 8 tickets, but still, at that time you >would think there would still be a good selection. the more tix in a row you buy, the farther back you'll be. actually, i think you're pretty lucky to get the 20 something row. i'm assuming that the practice is generally the same all over the u.s., but here in the bay area, BASS sells the "best available". it's much easier to find a pair (or even 1 ticket) much closer up than it is to find 8. it's a toss up. you've got to decide whether you want to sit with 7 of your best friends and chance getting "bad" seats or sit with your very best friend and only buy a pair, hoping to get really close. ============================== HOLMES V O said: >> >> An aquaintance, who phoned in got 7th row... so much for lining >up. >> >> -Janis >> > >Ahhhh light dawns:) Nothin like the power of plastic. Credit Cards >rule. not necessarily. more like pure luck. if i'm buying tix, i always go to an outlet and bring cash (credit takes more time and costs a bit more). i *rarely* charge by phone. charging by phone, you are competing with all the other (hundreds, thousands?) people who are vying for a free line, just so you can get in a queue and talk to an operator. if you line up at an outlet, you are scrambling with anywhere from 0-100 people (even more for really big shows like the stones). you are already in a queue when you line up at an outlet. your chances are much better. i tried to call in for paul simon tix about 5 years ago. after getting a busy signal or a "all circuits are busy, try again later" message, i finally got in at 10:15. i had barely started placing my order with an operator, when she had to put me on hold for a brief moment. about 30 seconds later, i was disconnected. F*CK! i gave up after trying for another hour. i was finally able to purchase tix in the afternoon, but as you can imagine, they were less than remarkable. in addition, the wherehouses i've purchased tix at usually have 2 employees - one who punches up your ticket amount, while the other handles the cash/credit transaction. charging by phone, you've got one computer operator punching up your tix order and then asking for all of your vital information (name, address, credit card #, expiration date), and then they repeat everything back to you at least once *slowly* to check for accuracy. it's a pretty slow and frustrating way to buy tix when time is of the essence. from my experience on sunday and from the BAB'ers i talked to, anywhere from 5-20 people lined up at an outlet. that's a manageable amount. ============================== "J. Croft" said: >I suggested MEIN has secured the front of the PNW venues, but his >theory is that promoters, radio stations, record stores, and every >else that could possibly have a contest is getting them. Guess >we'll see when we get there. exactly. and that's not all. in the bay area, 2 venues (the shoreline amphitheatre and the concord pavilion) have subscription series during their summer seasons. you can put package deals together where you buy tix for 6 concerts of your choosing. subscribers get first dibs because they are able to buy tix before they go on sale to the general public. in addition, as part of the deal when they built the shoreline, mountain view (where the shoreline is located) residents are able to buy tix one day in advance of the general public. now, add to that mix, all of the tix given out to the artists, promoters, tour sponsors, radio stations, etc. in 1994, i lined up to buy tix for steely dan's show at the shoreline (a 20,000+ capacity amphitheatre, with about 7,500 reserved seats and the 13,000 lawn seats). i was 3rd in line, after 2 young guys who had camped out all night for tix. no one else showed up after me. all 3 of us were excited, wondering how great our seats were going to be. woo wee, we could hardly wait. we all got lawn seats. >Another thing to consider when buying from the local ticket outlets >-- in Spokane alone, when you are working with an agent on one >computer, there are 21 other agents operating computers >simultaneously around the city. That makes sense in terms of not >getting 1st, 2nd, even 3rd row when you're not first in line. But >row "SS" at 10AM?? Again, I'm hoping that those tickets are in the >hands of MEIN! we can only hope, jib! ;-) the situation is even worse in the bay area. i remember lining up for paul mccartney tix over 6 years ago. because of the expected hysteria, there was a Bill Graham Presents (our promotor) employee there overseeing the sales. i was about 60th in line at *5:30 am* (this was before BASS' random line distribution procedures). the guy was talking to the people in line in my area, telling them that we would be lucky to get tix. he said that there were about 250 BASS outlets in the bay area, and depending on the demand, he was estimating that about 1,000 tix are sold every minute! i got pretty crappy seats (which i ended up selling), and bought better tix from a friend of mine. i wish that all of the "good" seats were available to real fans , but, realistically, most artists know which side their bread is buttered on, and will insure that their promoters and tour sponsors are taken care of, as well. *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 08:21:25 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Re: A Beat Bear & ME Stuff Morning Melisters ( :0 "yawn") Tis I a sleepy "Beat Bear" this morning and it is only Tues. :( Must I remind you all that my spelling is a bit wobbly at times????? Sticky paws have a hard time on keyboards some days :) A heavy frost was on the pumpkin this morning as this ole bear made her way to work this morning. Really don't think I am up to putting my feets in the stream that makes its way through the hundred acre wood to shrink my toes so as to fit in some Doc Martins. Definitely going over to farmer Browns this evening and get attached to the milking machine in hopes off stretching them out a bit. Now to add a bit of ME content, I was truly suprised at my seats through MEIN both in Columbus ( they were great there!) And Cincy was not so good as I was not on the main floor and could not get there due to security having a burr up there butts! But then again this was where "The Who" concert got out of control so I understood and tolerated them. Definitely closer than I had ever been and I did not call in for tickets until 4 hours after they went on sale. Go Figure! I did not hear anyone mention the fact that in Cincy Shanks actually got to speak and tell the story behind "Silent Legacy" which was a first I understand and he did rather well. Also that Melissa spoke about the baby and that everything was going well. Now for the exciting part of my week-end!!! A Great Big "Thank You" to Kiva who so ever graciously sent the Poohster a true Melissa guitar pick which is in my pocket as I speak. It is not one of the purple and black ones but that I need to come for Melissa herself. "Someday" but it is one of hers and keeps my pocket angel company and I am ever so happpy to have received it!!! Which brings me to thoughts that have crossed my mind over the week-end. Full moons tend to make me get inspired :) We are all connected in this world in one way or another, I see your faces when I search the moon for answers in the night. The stars send down magic that touches my heart and says:"Yes little bear there is still goodness in the world and hearts of strangers never met. Remember to be grateful for all you have been given for surely life could be worse as others can "Testify" And know that truly we never walk alone for even in the forest the leaves laugh outloud as they make there journey to the ground to cover mother earth and keep her warm from the winter storms. Good people with outstretched hands and warm hearts may be just around the bend so keep your eyes and hearts open and receive what they wish to give for it is their blessing as well. Be not judgemental of those that have less simply because you have more. Give when you have nothing left for even an autumn leaf with its colors of red and gold could be a gift that gives hope and a smile. Know that not all bears cannot wear Doc Martins and be grateful for shoes at all for there are those amoung us that have not. Be wise and know when the bridge is unsafe and not worthy to cross. Pass on gentle ways and kind words for they could be all that is needed. And give "Thanks" for all those Melisters who make you smile daily and get you started on another journey in your daily life. Much Warmth, "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 09:12:34 -0500 From: roger zender Subject: Brad Pitt Hey All, I was just wondering what this association is with Brad Pitt. I'm assuming the connection is through Julie (the movie biz and all). Are there any interesting stories on how or why they became friends? I ran out and bought the Newsweek w/ the ME and Julie on it. I was a little disappointed on how brief the article was, but it was fun to read. Roger ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 09:14:05 -0500 From: roger zender Subject: Has ME ever ...? One last question, Has ME ever made it to the cover of Rolling Stone? Or at least made a major article? If so, does anyone know the issue/month/year (any of the three would be helpful) Thanks Roger ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 07:31:23 -0700 From: carrie Subject: Re: A Beat Bear & ME Stuff On Tue, 29 Oct 1996, Jane Vaughn wrote: > Be wise and know when the bridge is unsafe and not worthy to cross. > > Pass on gentle ways and kind words for they could be all that is needed. > > And give "Thanks" for all those Melisters who make you smile daily and get you > started on another journey in your daily life. > > Much Warmth, > > "POOH" You are truly one of those who made me smile today. thank you, POOH carrie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 14:43:50 +0000 From: Margaret McArdle Subject: Melissa,MEIN & Me Greetings, This is the 1st of what I hope will be a mountain of messages to you all.I write from Belfast,Northern Ireland,and although I've been subliminally aware of MLE for years its been major impact this past 15 months.I've been fortunate to attend 3 gigs this year: Feb 24th in Dublin at a showcase called "Midnight at the Olympia,I now know I was blest for that one,front row in a small but acoustically sound venue for just less than 900 people. July 16th--Support for Bryan Adams--the quickest 50 minutes of my life.&then such is my "effection" Oct 10th in Chicago. Re:MEIN Now fanasylum has an office in London run by a very decent soul who I electronically plagued and secured tickets .On picking up the tickets I was elated, row AA,(thats usually front row here) after blitzing the merchandise stand I headed to the seating to find,I was not even on the main floor but about 40 rows back on the right hand side,my row was 2/3 rds empty the whole concert and although the overall brilliance of the night calmed me alot when I came home I complained.Julia @fanasylum U.K. was great and hassled loads of people about it and since I've heard there was over 800 Mein seats at that concert..I was just unlucky,also I was told "no-one else complained",so maybe thats the thing to do-If MEIN is blasted with complaints maybe they'll change the policy. I would sell my soul to get to any of the remaining dates,(although I suppose I should be happy with my lot,I have to die for photos from the 1st gig),I look forward to hearing your reports Talk to you all soon. Margaret P.S. >From Ireland and just finished a whirlwind U.S. tour is an incredible singer/songwriter Eleanor McEvoy,her latest release "What's following me" is now available..."A celtic Melissa" it has been said...Trust me & find it..for more info http://www.dojo.ie/eleanor/ ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 10:49:36 EST From: DOUG Subject: NMEC Howdo and a chipper good morning to you all. Is it just me or are the days going by ever so slowly since the time change this weekend? Anyhow, this has no ME content whatsoever. I was just curious about a few of the new songs by other powerhouse female performers. First, how many of you have heard the new tune by Madonna? It, IMHO, is the most beautiful song she has ever done. This should prove to all the critics who thought she couldn't do "Evita" that they were ever so wrong. Second, have you seen the wonderful video for Celine Dion's "It's all coming back to me now"? This woman has the very voice of an angel. In the past, we've all discussed performers like Joan Osborne, Joan Armatrading, etc. I'm kind of curious as to how you all feel about other performers in other genres of music. Well, have a great day. A great big 'THANK YOU' to Pooh for brightening up my morning! Doug ps - Renee, did you get my message yesterday? love ya! "Like a child in the night with no one to hold you and tell you everything's gonna be alright..." -from "Fear of Being Alone" by Reba McEntire Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 06:49:23 -0800 From: Susan Budjako Subject: SF tickets I called MEIN 3 days in a row and could not get thru. By the time we did get thru the tickets were sold out. We ended up paying a broker $125 a piece for 2nd row center. I am soooooo excited. We got 9th row for Sacramento. Melissas last concert is on my birthday. What a cool present that is. I paid my $19 for mein and it was useless. I have 2 extra tickets for SF. They are will call so I don't know where they are. I will sell them for face value $46 + service fees. Susan B ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 11:56:55 EST From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: Re: has ME ever...? On 10/29/96, Roger ([email protected]) wrote: >Has ME ever made it to the cover of Rolling Stone? Wasn't she on Rolling Stone's cover, July of 1995? Or sometime around then. Or maybe my poor overworked brain is just making that up out of the blue. I'm thinking it was the RS issue with the article with the cute pic of her with her first guitar, and the full page pic of her & Julie doing who-knows-what under a big blanket. Somebody confirm or deny that this is true or false for Roger, cause though I'm pretty sure, I don't trust my brain right now... Back to my exam mary who stayed up *way* too late and is working *entirely* too hard ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 17:08:35 GMT From: Maggie at avalon Subject: Re: scary list members >Maggie at avalon said: > >>And, of course, you are always taking a chance when you give out >>your phone number as well.... ;) > >or who you let into your car. right, maggie? > >i think maggie's exact words to john and i were, "take me to the >transit center or *else*!" whirrrrrr! Hey, it worked didn't it? I caught my bus. :) >geez, where was she hiding that thing? :-) That was my pocket chain saw - you know, the type where the blade folds into the handle... Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 11:12:26 -0600 From: Lisa on the prairie Subject: Re: has ME ever...? On Tue, 29 Oct 1996 11:56:55 -0500 (ES, Mary E Harbaugh wrote: >On 10/29/96, Roger ([email protected]) wrote: > >>Has ME ever made it to the cover of Rolling Stone? >Wasn't she on Rolling Stone's cover, July of 1995? Or sometime around >then. Ya, I think that was about the time. Wasn't she wearing a shiny gold outfit on the cover? The pics inside were black and white. She and Julie wrapped up in a blanket, her kneeling with her guitar kind of seductively. I know I have a copy of it at home. lisa Lisa Nordeen Head Women's Basketball Coach University of Minnesota, Morris (320) 589-6429 (O) (320) 589-4782 (H) [email protected] "I made a bad connection, she says I went astray. Jumped ship, abandon my post, I didn't think I lost my way." -Amy Ray ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 12:14:36 -0500 From: Redsocks Subject: Re: has ME ever...? Mary Harbaugh wrote: >Wasn't she on Rolling Stone's cover, July of 1995? Or sometime around >then. Or maybe my poor overworked brain is just making that up out of the >blue. I'm thinking it was the RS issue with the article with the cute pic >of her with her first guitar, and the full page pic of her & Julie doing >who-knows-what under a big blanket. Somebody confirm or deny that this is >true or false for Roger, cause though I'm pretty sure, I don't trust my >brain right now... It was May of '95 (I remember buying it the weekend of my sister's graduation). She was wearing gold lame pants. -- Redsocks (no, I'm not from Boston) [email protected] http://www.li.net/~matthewb/ Epistulam transmitto, ergo sum (I e-mail, therefore I am). ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 17:29:09 GMT From: Maggie at avalon Subject: Re: has ME ever...? Mary wrote: >On 10/29/96, Roger ([email protected]) wrote: > >>Has ME ever made it to the cover of Rolling Stone? > >in-the-middle-of-a-take-home-exam-oh-my-god-its-due-in-two-hours brain> > >Wasn't she on Rolling Stone's cover, July of 1995? Or sometime around >then. I think it was June of '95. Plus, there was a major article on her in the December '94 RS - the one with David Letterman on the cover. There may have been a few other articles before that, but I wasn't a regular subscriber between, um.....about 1983 and 1994. Maggie ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 12:37:55 -0500 From: Joyce Luck Subject: I Wanna Be on the Cover of Rolling Stone Mary ([email protected]) said: >>Wasn't she on Rolling Stone's cover, July of 1995? Or sometime around then. Or maybe my poor overworked brain is just making that up out of the blue. I'm thinking it was the RS issue with the article with the cute pic of her with her first guitar, and the full page pic of her & Julie doing who-knows-what under a big blanket. Somebody confirm or deny that this is true or false for Roger<< Ding! Ding! You would be...*almost right!* On June 1, 1995, Melissa graced the cover of Rolling Stone wearing those goldlamepants (tm) everyone cracks about. The article inside does indeed include a photo of Melissa as a youngster, playing the guitar, and, among other pics, shows the adult Melissa snuggling under a blanket with Julie. The interview was conducted by Jancee Dunn, who, a little later, gave an interview to MEIN (published in one of the newsletters) about what it was like to hang out with Melissa for a week. Later, Joyce ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 12:55:56 -0500 From: Deb Subject: NEWSWEEK For those not able to get NEWSWEEK, and not on AOL, SLATE has a picture of the cover and a summary in their Other Magazines section. SLATE is at http://www.slate.com. -- Deb \\ [email protected] \\ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 13:50:04 -0500 From: Lori Rehfeldt Subject: Who are Melissa Etheridge and Ellen Degeneres?? Okay, like yeah I come from another planet...the planet "NEED TO DRAW ATTENTION ONTO THYSELF"...some think it's a disorder, I say it ain't. Others call it Als-timer...who is Al? But that is not the question. As some of you know, I've spent a considerable amount of time in the Melissa Etheridge and Ellen Degeneres rooms...not at the same time...I don't think. No, I do think. Actually I think too much. Well, most of you would not know that I spend considerable amount of time in those rooms because I only chat to me...hint...hint...no one else is in the room, BUT THAT'S okay...I do like myself a lot. Well, not too much...then again it depends on my mood. Okay, I am a Gemini so I do know how to keep myself company. I spent way too much time in the Air Force standing at the entrance of bases waving at cars...Okay at the time I honed in on my RECALCITRANT skills...now the base is closed...no thanks to me, gee I would have closed that base in England decades ago...and the rain geez it rains all the time there. For a former Long Island Princess this wasn't a cool situation. It was downright cold...and the accent...no not mine...theirs...okay at the time I did ask for cawfee and chawcolate...etc, etc, etc... So why am I writing this? I dunno. Actually I do know. It's for you to know and for me to find out...okay, I didn't explain my dyslexia...but, equal opportunity to me and those within me. Anyway, on a serious note (sorry--the coffee err cawffe is waning.) Anyone out there is Germany or France or somewhere on the other side of the pond. I'm leaving Saturday for Kaiserslautern, to do my Reserve thing...and would love to meet others...alive better then dead...(sorry bad, smelly joke--but that's okay because I don't get paid for my exciting ramblings.) I leave November 2 and get back to the states DULLES Airport (no I don't live at the Airport) on the 18 November. ANYwho let me know. Lastly, thanks Gwen S. at NIH for hooking me up with Joyce...actually hooking Ryan up with Joyce. Joyce and I had Ryan with the gracious help of God and some sperm back in 1987. Joyce and I went our separate ways in 1990...we kept in touch, and things happen, BUT thanks to Gwen Shinko for noticing my stellar name -- she told Joyce who threw me for a loop by contacting me via cc:mail to come back into Ryan's life. Anyway, it turned out to be a very cool situation. Your friend, lover and mentor...who am I tawlking to --oh that's right me. THAT THANG YOU DO... Lori ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 13:07:32 -0500 From: roger zender Subject: Re: Sheryl Crow > > There was lots I liked > > about "Tuesday Night Music Club", but musically "Sheryl Crow" is head and > > shoulders above it. > > But I disagree there. I love both CDs, but I prefer TNMC. Nearly anything > David Baerwald participates in is worth listening to. Does anyone know if SC wrote all the music for TNMC. I know she did on her newest one and it was a pretty big thing for her to do. I heard how she went and spent quite a bit of time alone in a cabin and came up with all her own music. I really like that and was just wondering if she did it for her first album. (pardon all the run-on sentences they seem to be just flowing out and for some reason I just cant seem to get any commas in there which is only part of my problem today) Roger ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 28 Oct 1996 to 29 Oct 1996 - Special issue ****************************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Wed Oct 30 00:00:54 1996 Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 00:00:14 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 29 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 13:13:46 -0500 From: roger zender Subject: Re: AOL Messages > Hey everyone, > I was wondering if someone could send me the 8 (I think there were 8) messages > that Melissa posted on AOL last July? I had a copy of them but I lost it... :( > Thanks, > Hayley:) Anyone, If its possible, I would be very greatful to get ahold of these to. This was when I was in France so I didn't even know she did this. Thanks Roger ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 10:34:58 -0800 From: "Sheri Yamada (Entex)" Subject: USA Today snip about Melissa, Julie, and baby FYI - There's a quick blurb about them in today's USA Today, in the LIFE section. It talks about Melissa joking around and congratulating Brad Pitt for being the father of their child. She also states what we already know.......they will not reveal how/when/where the baby was conceived. Peace! Sheri [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 11:42:28 -0700 From: Angela Soto Subject: Melissa and Julie on the cover of Newsweek Hi all If this has been posted then, I don't know, sorry. But Melissa and Julie are featured, along with other gay couples in the Nov 4th issue of 'Newsweek'. It's a great picture of her and Julie. I had never seen a clear picture of Julie and one in the inside. The topic is "We're having a baby." Go out and get it. Angela ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 14:08:41 -0800 From: "Karen Steenstrup (Punster)" Subject: Skiing, shorts and coffee Hey kids! Michelle (who is just as much a punster as I am) wrote: > Speaking of the slopes, did you hear about the husband who swore he > would take his wife skiing? He made her a slalom promise. ROTFLMAO!!!! Good one!! This reminds me though, does anyone on this list like to ski, hmmm, I have an idea. Why don't we take a ski pole? Joyce (who made a pun) wrote: > I made a pun..... > > Must have been from hanging out with you and Kare in NYC, hey where > is the punster these days??? And, I'm so glad you agree flannel boxers > are the only way to go!!! I'm right here shirt gal. Flannel boxers would be my choice too. I guess this is the long and short of it. I have to tell you all what happened to my mom yesterday. She was at work getting coffee in the kitchen. While she was opening the door with the coffee in her hand to get back to her desk, the door swung back too quickly and hit her, making the coffee spill all over her chest. She is fine, she quickly applied ice to her chest and she did so periodically through the day. I did tell her that she could sue the pants off them, that she definitely has "grounds" to sue them. I also told her that the firm she works for "urns" to have their asses sued for having a door that swings so quickly like that. My mom is lucky, it could have been worse. Well, that's it from me. I really have to get back to work. Have a good one folks. Kare ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 14:18:51 CST From: Elizabeth Burns Subject: plagarism... I've got a question for y'all. Who is it that checks songs out and notifies musicians if their songs are being used without consent or if parts of their songs are being used. I'm asking this because there's a song that gets airplay here in Austin by a group called Ugly Americans. I know they're a local band but i don't know if they have a major release or not. The one song they keep playing (i don't know the name of it) has a chorus in it that sounds a lot like the chorus for Come To My Window. The music sounds similar, it's definitely not the words, as the Ugly Americans don't sing anything other then "LA LA LA LA LA" for this particular chorus. But imagine singing LA LA LA to the tune of come to my window, etc. It's rather annoying. I'm just curious.... liz ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 14:43:16 -0600 From: Kathryn Davis Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 27 Oct 1996 to 28 Oct 1996 - Special issue Hey everyone! I keep reading all this stuff about a Memphis show and I'm in North AL and I still have yet to hear about it! What's the scoop? Also, have you all seen the cover of Newsweek yet? It's got Melissa and Julie on the cover! The article covers aspects of gay couples and the fact that more and more of them are having children and so on. A good article, I must say and the part where they talked to Melissa and Julie was really good. It didn't do any condescending crap that a lot of the media seems to do these days with issues such as this one. I personally think that they should be able to do whatever the heck they want to and the rest of the world should worry about their own problems rather than meddle in everyone else's. Once again, if anyone has the scoop on Memphis or any other Southeast Region tour dates, please let me know. I figured I'd have gotten something from MEIN but nothing has come yet. I already know about the FL dates, but if there are any others, please let me know. Thanks! --- Melissa is God. [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 16:04:26 -0500 From: Aaron Morrison Subject: Madonna, Celine, Sheryl Doug wrote: >Anyhow, this has no ME content whatsoever. I was just curious about >a few of the new songs by other powerhouse female performers. First, >how many of you have heard the new tune by Madonna? It, IMHO, is the >most beautiful song she has ever done. It's real good, though I think her best is "You'll See". She's come an aweful long way since her 80's pop/crap days! :) >Second, have you seen the wonderful video for Celine Dion's "It's all >coming back to me now"? This woman has the very voice of an angel. Her voice isn't bad, but her stuff is played so much that it makes me sick! And does she ever stop repeating the "If you touch me like this..." part in her latest one? I swear it's one of the most repetitive songs I've ever heard... Roger wrote: >Does anyone know if SC wrote all the music for TNMC. She co-wrote it with several other musicians. >I know she did on her newest one Yeah, though most of it was co-written... a few songs were just written by her, unlike TNMC. >it for her first album. (pardon all the run-on sentences they seem to be >just flowing out and for some reason I just cant seem to get any commas >in there which is only part of my problem today) Here are a few spare commas for you: ,,,,,,,,,,,,,, :) Aaron "Sometimes I feel like an innocent one To deserve this fate what have I ever done?" --Melissa Etheridge ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 13:03:22 -0800 From: edgy Subject: Re: plagarism... On Tue, 29 Oct 1996, Elizabeth Burns wrote: > i don't know if they have a major release or not. The one song they > keep playing (i don't know the name of it) has a chorus in it that > sounds a lot like the chorus for Come To My Window. If the music sounds familiar, it's probably because CTMW has a very common chord progression. I remember someone talking last year about how Shawn Colvin was joking at a show that CTMW and Leaving Las Vegas had the same exact chord progression and that she had better write a song with the same so that she could have a hit. I think it's your basic C-G-D or G-C-D combo (C9,G9,D9)--which also corresponds to most Amy Ray songs if I remember correctly. Allison, whose secretary today, out of the blue, named it Melissa Etheridge day at work. Go figure. [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 15:39:38 -0600 From: "Cindy S. Hughey" Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 27 Oct 1996 to 28 Oct 1996 - Special issue Happy to hear that some other ME fans are in North Al. I'm planning to attend the Memphis concert on nov 23, I think it's at the Mid-South Arena. But I'mm having one problem, I can't seen to find out where to purchase my ticket. Do you know the number for our area? I've never bought concert tickets before so I'm not sure who to contact. any information will be helpful. Email me privately or send it to the list. SHAKAY Cindy S. Hughey [email protected] ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 16:42:41 -0500 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: DC Gathering Pics Are Ready! Okay gang, the DC Macarena Gathering pictures are ready for viewing. So come take a look at some our list's INFAMOUS(Is that better Beth?) Listers such as, Gwen, Deb, Tori, Beth and Elaine just to mention a few. Hope I got everyone's name correct unlike I had for the Punster(Karen Steenstrup) on the New York Pics. For those of you who are new to the list and haven't been to my site use the URL below and scroll down to "My Favorite Places" and jump to DC Gathering. There are also some pics out there from a visit with the Bay Area Bunch(Hi everyone), including the INFAMOUS Chic Magnet John Juan DeMiller DeMap Boy himself and some pictures from a recent New York visit and yet other famous listers such as Sue Deyoung(See for yourself if she looks obsessed) and the newly renamed "Short-gal" Joyce Stoliar. As for the rest of you, well you know the routine. Enjoy everyone! Hey short-gal(is that a vertically challenged pun?) my vote is for flannel!! Enjoy everyone! Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 21:53:59 -0800 From: Andrea Tan Subject: CRAZYSEXYCOOL Heh, it just occured to me that my sub line could be describing MapBoy but I'm not... Anyway, wanted to thank Rhondda for giving me tips and pointers on the wonderful world of BASS...you think tickets are expensive? I somehow volunteered to get 8...whoo, gonna love my visa bill next month! Ahh, virtual money...=) As Rhondda predicted, my seats are not great b/c of the number of seats I wanted together...no biggie, I'm going more for the fun of hangin' with friends than for ME. HEY! Quit throwing stuff! But I digress...after I got (mugged) the tix, my roommate picked up a celebrity picture book titled, CRAZYSEXYCOOL, and was flipping through when we came across an interesting picture of ME so I thought I'd dutifully report it here. I haven't been keeping up with the list so sorry if someone's already mentioned it. Ok, the picture: ME's body is facing left, but she's looking right. Hair's teased just a little but for the most part, looks ok. Wearing leather pants that lace up in the front and a weird leather mc jacket. I say weird b/c it's not a smooth leather but has that rough, wrinkly look, like it's been polished or something (?). It's a short jacket so it barely reaches the top of her pants...you get to see a teeny bit of skin around the stomach area but most of it's hidden b/c the strap is buckled and looped. The funky thing about the picture is that there're branches in the background that appear to be on fire. It's a cool (not a run-out-and-get-the-book cool but a if-you-happen-to-see-the-book-take-a-look cool) picture but I know I pulled a "what the *&$#%" in Tower when I saw it. Gotta run but not before I to Jacky...and say to Joyce, yeah, you're cute too...=) Andrea ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 21:56:05 GMT From: Leigh Subject: bass sucks! well, I got tickets for the SF show *(thank god!) but I am not pleased with where we are sitting,(section cc row k) but I guess it's better than were I was at mtn view in 95 (lawn seats). oh well, ... ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 17:12:32 -0500 From: Tei at netcom Subject: taxi??? Hello Listers... Well I got everything booked!!! The Texas Tour and my flight arrangements.. I will be arriving in Austin on the 15th of November at 12:15 pm Austin time... If anyone else is going and arriving at the Austin airport around the same time... I was wondering if you (whomever you may be) might want to share a taxi to the hotel...??? The price is really adding up and was looking for a way to save a buck or two or more!!!! So e-mail me privately and we can make some arrangements... Take Care all the thought for the day... YEEHAWW!!!!! YOUR FELLOW LISTER, tei! ********************************************************* "When I am through falling off the face of the earth... Maybe I will come back around..." Ani DiFranco ********************************************************* ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 16:58:24 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Tip Of The Day! Hi Gang! Just something I meant to say but forgot about. A little observation I noticed about our lady of Etheridge. She definitely goes to her left alot on stage. So if you get close go to yor right her left! Confused yet??? This is too much for this ole bear! As the night time draws near pictures of Heffalumps and Woozzles flying in the October sky has Pooh searching for Piglet for he is a very small animal and must definitely be scared to journey out. So off Pooh goes to share cider and donuts and assure Piglet that Halloween will soon pass and even though the darkness seems very dark the stars will always twinkle and the dawn will surely come. Sincerely, "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 23:15:00 +0100 From: Tim Dunker Subject: ME-Rolling Stone; baby-break On 10/29/96, Roger ([email protected]) wrote: >Has ME ever made it to the cover of Rolling Stone? She and Julie were on the cover of the German version of the RS in Dec.1995 Title: "Erfolgreich anders, ME" => "successfull diffrent, ME" Story had 6 pages with great pictures.(e.g. her with a giutar at the age of 10) ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- I am VERY SURE that ME will take a long baby-break (till 1999). :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( So make sure to get to her last shows for the next two years !!! Bye Tim Dunker ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 17:47:03 -0500 From: Tei at netcom Subject: story behind Silent Legacy > Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 08:21:25 EDT > From: Jane Vaughn > Subject: Re: A Beat Bear & ME Stuff > I did not hear anyone mention the fact that in Cincy Shanks actually got to > speak and tell the story behind "Silent Legacy" which was a first I understand > and he did rather well. and what exactly was the 'whole story" and why did Shanks tell it? your fellow lister, tei! ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 05:52:01 +0000 From: tbird Subject: (Fwd) ME CONCERT I'm forwarding this for someone who is having trouble posting ------- Forwarded Message Follows ------- From: [email protected] Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 14:36:55 -0800 To: [email protected] Subject: ME CONCERT Hi T-Bird, This is a messgae I tried to send to the list server. But it won't go through. I thought I'd at least send the message to you. Here you go: I got them! I got my tickets. I was absolutely mortified when I called the fan club yesterday and they said it had sold out. I thought, "Sold out, oh LORD, it cannot be! Today I look at my list and I realize, what, they are available. Well honey, I got my white butt down to Tower Records as soon as my lunch break came, and MAN, what a day! I have never been so damn delighted with such seats. This SF show should be beautiful. Any other listers out there going? Car Tricia [email protected] http://www.wchat.on.ca/queen/tbird.htm .. ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 17:46:47 EST From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: Re: I wanna be on the cover of Rolling Stone Joyce ([email protected]) responded to my post with: >Mary ([email protected]) said: >>Wasn't she on Rolling Stone's cover, July of 1995? Or sometime around then. Or maybe my poor overworked brain is just making that up out of the blue. I'm thinking it was the RS issue with the article with the cute pic of her with her first guitar, and the full page pic of her & Julie doing who-knows-what under a big blanket. Somebody confirm or deny that this is true or false for Roger<< > Ding! Ding! You would be...*almost >right!* Wow! Do I get a prize?? I want.....umm....a working computer that actuallly does what I want it to??? That'd be mice!!! mary http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/1827 ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 19:26:24 -0500 From: Sue Molyneaux Subject: Joyces' choices Joyce the Shorts Gal said... >>but I would definately go flannel. :-> You did such a wonderful (albeit taxing) job on the shirts... I was in the first round and I still love the shirts very much... if you're gonna do it, go public and let the list know! Another Joyce said... >>It's possible she did back in her "Girls, girls, girls!" period >>(pre-Never Enough), but I've never met a fan who made such a >>claim. Melissa I recall, many years ago now, a fellow who told the list that he had sex with Melissa (in fact, she was apparently so enthralled with him that she threw him her hotel key while he as in the audience of one of her concerts). That's the only "claim" I've ever heard of ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 00:45:23 GMT From: Beth Durff Subject: LSIP, Houston delurkment,inside jokes, Armatrading Emerging from the cyberdust (cough, hack, gag, wheeze...)after Jen let me have it: >>>(raised eyebrow) (forebearing sigh) Now Beth.. we've already _had_ this >>>conversation. Go find your own set of irrisistable hazel eyes. >>>Alright, that's it. (walking up behind Beth) (tap tap) >>>(THTTHHHHHWWAAAAAAP) M_I_N_E_! (dusting off hands) (snort) (background theme from Superman) da-duh-da-da-duh-da-duh, da-duh-da-da-duh-da-duh-da-duh.... What? You think *that's* gonna stop me? NEVER !!!! And just remember, I know where you live.... AND also BTW, just *who* is that (hey there baby....)looking loooooooongingly at me in pic 2 of the DC macarena pics on Shirl's web page? So take that you, you, you LSIP!!! And you can't reach me (neener-neener) anymore either, because you're chained up with Elaine. So there! *lol* ----------------------------- My *good* bud Jonti didn't let me down: >>okay, okay....... i will delurk for you. >>sorry i didnt see your remark for so long.oops. >>uh..... i was a little distracted and behind on my digest reading. >>as far as plane rides, ......anytime babe. woohoooo! woohoooo to you too babe!!!! hmmmmm..... I wonder if my return to Houston would be *scarier* than me and Shirl, Z topless woman crawling around Philly? I've *grown* so much since Houston... but *bad* girl Jonti takes up the fight: >>so....just how is your stamina these days??? >>gently picking up my white gauntlet for your challenge. >>(flowp) (gently smacking my computer screen) >>take that. !!!! Oh yes, be gentle with me....(laughing). Anyway, not you too?! I don't know if I could keep up with you Lightning... We could end up in cyberdust *together*... Hey, (thinking that might not be so bad...)but then again..... ----------------------------- and new MElister Suzy said: >>Hi there, I am also a new lister, and am quite curious about the inside >>jokes I've been reading the past two days. hmmm... and which inside jokes would you be referring to Suzy? Beth (hacking up a cyberdust SPITball with Jen's name on it) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 00:51:48 GMT From: Beth Durff Subject: Armatrading... Oops, I forgot the Armatrading part... Must still be *wobbly* from the beating I took from Jen. Anyway, since Melissa is a big Armatrading fan, I was wondering what Armatrading thinks of Melissa... Have they ever met? Performed together? Etc. Etc...... Beth (still hacking, coughing, wheezing... needing a nurse maybe... any volunteers?) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 20:11:23 -0500 From: [email protected] Subject: Teresa's Tattoo Got a catalog today from a business called Alternative Creations. They sell artwork, jewelry, etc & they also sell videos. They have "Teresa's Tattoo" on VHS listed for $19.95. I believe it was first released much higher than that. If you want to order a catalog from them, their number is 1-800-963-0004. Susan ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 20:11:35 -0500 From: [email protected] Subject: PNW shows..open invitation I've heard from a few others who are interested in a Pacific Northwest gathering for the Tacoma WA & Portland OR shows. If you are interested in getting together with the rest of us, e-mail me privately & we'll get something organized. The Tacoma WA show is Friday, Dec 13 & the Portland OR show is Sunday, Dec 15. We'll be going into Seattle to have some fun on Saturday, Dec 14 as well. Susan ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 21:12:28 -0500 From: Michele Marie Bench Subject: Duets & Live In Italy I have a couple of CD copies of the Duets show with a few songs live in Italy. E-mail me if you'd be interested - I only have two. [email protected] Michele Bench ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 21:10:12 -0500 From: Lauren Tag Subject: lori taxi >Okay, like yeah I come from another planet...the planet "NEED TO DRAW > ATTENTION ONTO THYSELF" cool...hi. my native land is venus. (men are from mars...) >...some think it's a disorder, I collect disorders. > I say it ain't. Denial.... ;) > Others call it Als-timer...who is Al? My uncle. He uses his timer all the time. > But that is not the question. Then what is the question? I know my question. What is the mea ing of life? If you could answer that I'd..i'd do something...i dont know yet...but something > As some of you know, I've spent a considerable amount of time in the > Melissa Etheridge and Ellen Degeneres rooms bedrooms? :) >...not at the same time...I don't think. Must be the Als-timers. > much...then again it depends on my mood. Okay, I am a Gemini so I do im a taurus...i have four doors and an airbag. um ...everyone...gather round, for i have a long awaited confession to make. you all have been in suspense about the whothehellisinthetaxi..well i think it's time that you all should know. it was me! ha lauren ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 21:42:57 -0500 From: "Julie I. Lebaillif" Subject: Re: has ME ever...? This is for Roger and anyone else who is interested. Melissa did indeed grace the cover of Rolling Stone in June, 1995. If you want to order the back issue, here's what you need to do. Send $10.00 along with the issue number (which is Issue 709 to: Back Issues / P.O. Box 40 / Vernon, NJ 07462. IMO, it's worth the ten dollars, it was a good article with some good pictures. I have a question. A lot of people say that their computers are crashing. What exactly does that mean???? Tracey, thank you for the congratulations on Olivier and myself's marriage, life is good!!!! Julie (& Olivier) ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 21:49:51 -0500 From: Shirley Hoffman Subject: Melissa on 20/20 This Friday? I just saw a commercial on ABC for this and was wondering if I have been on drugs the last week or so because I don't recall reading about it on the list. Oh yeah I was sick and on drugs all last week, oooppps! Well anyway for anyone else who has been sick or with out a life and hasn't heard, Melissa & Julie on 20/20 this friday evening!!! Take care all, Shirl Home Page: http://www.kutztown.edu/staff/lmf1/sah ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 22:23:45 EST From: Lisa Lyons Subject: 20/20!! This is Vanessa, posting from Lisa's house. I've had a mighty fine time visiting the fabulous Dayton, Ohio!! Lisa wouldn't mosh for me though!!! Anyway, we were just watching Spin City and saw an ad for 20/20. You guessed it, Melissa & the pregnant Julie. This Friday night at 10:00 E.S.T. Lisa receives digest version, so our apologies if this has already been posted. Our best Vanessa & Lisa ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 22:25:11 -0500 From: roger zender Subject: Re: Skiing, shorts and coffee > Michelle (who is just as much a punster as I am) wrote: > > > Speaking of the slopes, did you hear about the husband who swore he > > would take his wife skiing? He made her a slalom promise. > > ROTFLMAO!!!! Good one!! This reminds me though, does anyone on this > list like to ski, hmmm, I have an idea. Why don't we take a ski pole? Mark me up with a huge X. I LOVE to ski. The problem is that I live in NW Ohio (flatsville). I have to drive 5 hours to get anywhere that it takes longer to get down the slope then to ride up. Roger ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 22:46:45 -0500 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: Re: Teresa's Tattoo On Tue, 29 Oct 1996 [email protected] wrote: > Got a catalog today from a business called Alternative Creations. They sell > artwork, jewelry, etc & they also sell videos. They have "Teresa's Tattoo" > on VHS listed for $19.95. I believe it was first released much higher than > that. If you want to order a catalog from them, their number is > 1-800-963-0004. The video store by my home (Traverse City, MI) has it in the 2 for $1 rental section also. Try a Family Video ( I don't know if it is local or what) Love, Jenny ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 21:43:18 -0600 From: "D. Caffrey" Subject: ticket luck After reading the stories about the bad tickets people have been getting, I feel extremely lucky. I purchased 5 tickets and still got third row. Great seats! I was first in line, but there was also another concert on sale the same time Melissa tickets went on sale. I happened to find a ticketmaster outlet that had only been open for two weeks so that's how I was first in line (& getting there extremely early with no sleep!). A friend of mine called in using two phones at the same time & constantly hitting redial. It took him 45 minutes to get in & when he did, he got terrible seats. I was extremely happy to get 3rd row, especially since I got so many tickets. I wanted my friends & I to sit together, so I took the chance. I wonder how the ticket prices are decided. Is it the city, the venue, the promoter? I've heard a lot of people say how expensive the tickets were. The tickets I bought were only $35 & that includes the service charges. I didn't think that was too bad, not compared to some of the other prices I've heard of. I'm glad I didn't go through MEIN, since I bought best available & got 3rd row I wonder where the MEIN seats are going to be. For those of you who bought tickets through them for the Memphis show, don't worry. There are 3 sections on the floor & I bet MEIN reserved the center section. Any way you look at it, it is going to be a great show & I am really looking forward to it. I'll be screaming my head off! Diane ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 23:42:21 -0500 From: Shauna Hill Subject: 20/20 Just saw the ad --- JULIE & MELISSA on this Friday on 20/20. Can't wait. ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 29 Oct 1996 *********************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Wed Oct 30 19:34:41 1996 Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 19:34:00 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 29 Oct 1996 to 30 Oct 1996 - Special issue To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 01:19:16 -0800 From: Randy Subject: LSIP, Houston delurkment,inside jokes, Armatrading Beth Durff wrote: >> and new MElister Suzy said: >>Hi there, I am also a new lister, and am quite curious about the inside >>jokes I've been reading the past two days. hmmm... and which inside jokes would you be referring to Suzy? HANG IN THERE SUZY, and read. You will soon be learning what all the inside jokes are about. It's your initiation!! Hi, ELAINE! -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Tue, 29 Oct 1996 22:56:11 EST From: M Something Subject: Re: Skiing, shorts and coffee Kare wrote: >Michelle (who is just as much a punster as I am) wrote: Gee, thanks. :) >> Speaking of the slopes, did you hear about the husband who swore >>he would take his wife skiing? He made her a slalom promise. >> >ROTFLMAO!!!! Good one!! This reminds me though, does anyone on >this list like to ski, hmmm, I have an idea. Why don't we take a ski >pole? LOL!!!! Who knows? It might just give people a "lift." ;) >While she was opening the door with the coffee in her hand to get back >to her desk, the door swung back too quickly and hit her, making the >coffee spill all over her chest. I did tell her that she could sue the pants >off them, that she definitely has "grounds" to sue them. I also told her >that the firm she works for "urns" to have their asses sued for having a >door that swings so quickly like that. Kare, I hope your mom is OK and is back to the daily "grind." Tell her to "perk" up. Her company should do something for her, but I bet it's run by a big "drip" who, after "filtering" through the facts, will claim that he can't compensate her because he doesn't have a "pot" to p. . . . I guess I'll stop there. Michelle, who believes that if Kare's whole family puns, she must have a house Chock Full O'Nuts. ;) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 00:49:52 -0800 From: Rhondda Ashby Subject: copyright infringement, ticket stuff, and DUETS boot Elizabeth Burns said: >I've got a question for y'all. Who is it that checks songs out and >notifies musicians if their songs are being used without consent or >if parts of their songs are being used. since i work at an IP law firm (although not one that specializes in entertainment law), i'd say that island has a gaggle of attorneys looking out for their artists' interests. >I'm asking this because there's a song that gets airplay here in >Austin by a group called Ugly Americans. I know they're a local >band but i don't know if they have a major release or not. oh, yes. i've heard of them. KFOG's been playing their song "vulcan death grip" pretty regularly. off the top of my head, i can't remember if the song has the "la la la" in the chorus though. i'll make a mental note to listen more closely next time. ============================== Car said: >I have never been so damn delighted with such seats. This SF show >should be beautiful. Any other listers out there going? i'd say there's quite a few list members going to the SF show. :-D moo! ============================== "D. Caffrey" said: >I wonder how the ticket prices are decided. Is it the city, the >venue, the promoter? i'm assuming all of the above. large urban areas (NY, chicago, DC, LA, SF) have higher costs of living, thus ticket prices are higher. when you add on the venue rentals and the promoter's cut, that's even more $. >I've heard a lot of people say how expensive the tickets were. The >tickets I bought were only $35 & that includes the service charges. >I didn't think that was too bad, not compared to some of the other >prices I've heard of. your price is lower but that could be because memphis has a lower cost of living than other higher priced cities. it's a relative economic measure. s.f. is $42.50 each and sacramento is $35.00 each - these prices *do not* include service charges. i think i recall that some east coast prices were even higher. ============================== roger zender asked: >One last question, Has ME ever made it to the cover of Rolling >Stone? i know many have provided the issue and reordering information already, but since you've mentioned that you have this boot, roger, i thought that you'd like to know that the cover of the RS issue with MLE is the same picture as the cover of the "i wish i was your lover" (DUETS) boot. in addition, many, if not all, of the quotes that are included in the cd booklet are from the RS interview. ...which leads me to my next point (and i do have one ). Michele Marie Bench said: >I have a couple of CD copies of the Duets show with a few songs live >in Italy. E-mail me if you'd be interested - I only have two. not to steal any potential sales from michele, because this boot is *excellent* (the sound is sparkling clear on all tracks) and i urge anyone who has the money to buy it, but some of you may recall that i posted about doing a tape tree of the "i wish i was your lover" boot a couple of months ago. well, work and life obligations interfered, not to mention a rather uncooperative tape deck that insisted on taping everything at a slower speed (so that when you played the tape back on a different deck, you got melissa on helium!). however, now the tape tree is in its very final stages (the last branch tapes are going out in the next 2 days). i'm just waiting on one lone branch to return home from her business trip, and we'll get this ball rolling. we've got lovely branches growing throughout the u.s., canada, europe, and australia. i'll post a leaf announcement very soon. stay tuned... *rhondda* ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 22:28:51 +1100 From: HOLMES V O Subject: NMEC: what to do?? I know that all you out there in lister land do trades very often... Have you ever had someone back out on a trade after you have already sent them the goods? I have the problem that the person I am trading with seems to have dropped off the face of the planet. What do you do?? Just count your losses and be more cautious next time? Veronica ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 08:27:48 -0500 From: Lab Rat Subject: AD in Advocate. I don't know if someone mentioned this yet or not, but MElissa and julies ad for PETA about not wearing fur is in the advocate. I almost missed it. I have never seen it before and found it rather interesting. It's a small pict on the bottom of page 30. -Sharon ______________________________________________________________________________ Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind. -Kipling ______________________________________________________________________________ ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 09:51:34 -0500 From: Waviness at aol Subject: 20/20 ad I saw the ad for 20/20 last night and found it both hilarious and scary. I'm quoting from memory which is dangerous, so please pardon any mistakes. The ad featured Barbara Walters saying something like, "Melissa Etheridge. She's a popular rock star, and she's a lesbian." At the same time pictures of Melissa and Julie were on the screen, along with the word LESBIAN in big letters. Hopefully, the actual story won't be exploitive. It has the potential to be educational to many. I'll be watching anxiously. Dave Ridder ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 09:03:52 -0600 From: Janis Delmonte Subject: Re: 20/20 ad > lesbian." At the same time pictures of Melissa and Julie were on the > screen, along with the word LESBIAN in big letters. Hopefully, > the actual story won't be exploitive. It has the potential to be > educational to many. I'll be watching anxiously. > I don't know how the tone of the story will be, but I do know as a sometime watcher of 20/20 that Barbara Walters has been very supportive of gays and lesbians. At least in those little comments they make after the story. Last thing I saw, after some gay/lesbian related story, the reporter (can't remember who) asked her what she'd do if her daughter was a lesbian. To which Barbara replied (definately paraphrasing here) that she would still love her and would tell her so. After one story on those people who try to "convert" gays and lesbians to heterosexuality, her comment was "I say, live and let live." So.... let's hope for the best! -Janis ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 09:54:26 -0600 From: Suzy Korreck Subject: empowerment So does everyone listen to MLE for empowerment before heading for certain doom (biochemistry exams)? i play all the cds in order, over and over and over again. that way, even though i'm drawing pictures that look like little martian men instead of phosphofructokinase, i'm having one helluva time listening to MLE in my head. there is nothing that can ruin a day once satiated with the One Who Changed My Life. (but the idea that a day can be satiated with Ms. Etheridge is just a little far-fetched). if you or someone you love is suffering from the College Really Matters Syndrome, try the above prescription and have no worries. peace out, Nuwanda ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 16:25:26 UT From: Tracy Minter Subject: Armatrading Beth Durff asked: >Anyway, since Melissa is a big Armatrading fan, I was wondering what >Armatrading thinks of Melissa... Have they ever met? Performed together? I read a short interview with Joan earlier this year, and she said that the best remake of any of her songs she's ever heard was MLE singing 'The Weakness in Me' (she also said that she has heard some remakes that she cringes at, so, as I recall, it seemed like a pretty high complement.) T PS thanks for the info on 20/20. I would've never known if it hadn't been for this list! ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 13:40:09 -0500 From: Lori Rehfeldt Subject: Lauran and Lori in the TAXI Yeah we were in the taxi with Uncle Al and Melissa...who is Melissa anyway? Oh the meaning of life? It's in the beans. Lori ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 09:55:48 -0500 From: "Julie I. Lebaillif" Subject: Newsweek Cover Just got the copy of Newsweek. Does anyone else think that Julie looks a little bit like Rosanne??? There wasn't much to the story. Just Wondering :) Julie ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 14:13:40 -0500 From: "Eidel Lisa Consultant (Temp)" Subject: Re: Bryan Adams Single w/ Melissa Hi everyone! Thanks to all who posted that Melissa and Julie were on Newsweek this week. I picked up a copy last night. Help! A couple of weeks ago, a few people posted that Melissa and Bryan Adams sing together on the B side of his latest release. I just went to Tower and since I didn't know the name of the song I was looking for, I couldn't find the single with Melissa. Does anyone know the CD single's name? Was the single released in the US? Thanks for all the great info on Melissa everyday. Take Care, Lisa ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 14:39:45 -0500 From: Deb Subject: Re: slate.com On Tue, 29 Oct 1996, JENNIFER SASS wrote: > I tried going to the slate.com place to see the pic and it won't go to > that site....maybe it is invalid??? It's www.slate.com -- I read it every week, so I'm sure it's there. :) -- Deb \\ [email protected] \\ http://www.clark.net/pub/indigo ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 13:27:00 -0800 From: barb biagi Subject: symbols ? Hello all Please, can someone tell me what all these symbols mean. i see them often on the list. Thanks. ~ (NMEC) ~ ~ *lol* ~ ~ ROTFLMAO !!!! ~ (eg) ~ (w) ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 16:30:51 -0400 From: Gwen Shinko Subject: Sheryl Crow's mouth and goldlame boxers I just accessed the Rollingstone's website and found an interesting tidbit about Sheryl Crow's teeth. Seems about ten years ago while performing on "the beer-soaked bandstands of St. Louis," Sheryl tried to steady a waitress who slipped while carrying mugs of beer. Then "whamo" next thing Sheryl knew her front teeth were half-clipped and she had to go thru an extensive amount of restorative dental work, including getting caps. She sure does have a sexy smile though, caps and all. As for the ongoing boxer short fabric discussion, I too love flannel but I'm trying to picture wearing them in the heat of a D.C. summer. (cringe) Might be just a tad bit uncomfortable..... Hey, we could always go with a true MLE fabric...maybe goldlameboxershorts. (g) So Short-gal, are you up for the new listwear project or what? And Tracey, when are you loading up the ole stationwagon with the family for the move? Gwen ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 15:33:53 -0800 From: "Karen Steenstrup (Punster)" Subject: Halloween And Anniversary Celebrations Hello my fellow listers! Next week I will be celebrating a 1 year anniversary of being on this list. It is a celebration of the friends that I have made this past year, the laughter, joy and even sorrow when we thought a certain clothed one met her demise. This year has been been a special one at that, it is definitely a year I soon won't forget. The friends I made on the McGill list will always have a place in my heart, especially a certain gang of mine that have shown me particularly this past month that where there is laughter there is hope. So, with that in mind, I dedicate the following to 7 wonderful fellow listers to whom I call, my friends. "Ghouls Just Wanna Have Fun" Halloween is one of my favorite times of the year. I especially love partys and all the very imaginative and maybe not so imaginative costumes that people come up with. The last party I went to was a couple of years ago. It was a costume required, so you couldn't get in if you weren't dressed up. I of course was one of the first ones to arrive, so I was able to watch everybody that came in. The host and hostess were all decked out as an ace of spades and a joker. The place was decorated nicely and they made 100's of little bags of pumpkin seeds. I asked if I could have a couple of extras, they told me only if I played my cards right. A friend of mine came as a fish, she told me that it only cost her a fin for the whole costume. I told her that she can smelt a deal a mile away. There was a couple that dressed up as a cowboy and cowgirl, the girl informed me that at first they weren't coming to the party, so since it was up to the last minute they had to rustle up a costume pretty quickly. I tell ya, when it comes to getting a costume together, these two don't horse around. Another couple that I knew at the party came as a doctor and a nurse. The both of them were already half in the bag the time they got to the party. The guy that was the doctor is quite a smooth operator and pretty funny as well, he was leaving everyone in stitches. The nurse wasn't as funny as him, but she gave it a shot anyway. The owl that was there however thought she was a hoot. The party was a lot of fun and I think everybody enjoyed themselves. I know I did. You all are probably wondering what I came as? Well, if any of you have seen my angelic face at Shirl's website, then you could probably guess that I came as the one and only Satan...Yup, the devil made me do it. You wouldn't believe the hell I had to go thru to get that costume too. That's my little story. I hope you enjoyed it. Have a great day everybody!! Kare, who has been in the dark since the power went out in her home. ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 16:48:46 -0500 From: Lauren Tag Subject: Re: Lauren and Lori in the TAXI > Yeah we were in the taxi with Uncle Al and Melissa... Al is also my personal driver. He;s soo multi-talented. Ever see those mtv taxi cab commercials? >who is Melissa > anyway? She's a mere fig newton (FRUIT AND CAKE!!! ITS NOT A COOKIE, mind you) of our imagination. >Oh the meaning of life? It's in the beans. Excuse me while I go ponder that... Lauren ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 17:22:39 -0500 From: Lori Rehfeldt Subject: Sing me a song...tell me a joke How to combine two listservs and still like yourself in the morning. I feel a responsibility to those who really read my ramblings. You wonder when and where it started. Well, I was born in a rambler for starters...no that's a lie. My dad purchased a house from a hermit...not Herman of the Hermits...but most of you don't remember who Herman was...let's just say he almost sang the song, "THAT THING YOU DO" which reminds me what was that thing you do? Show me. So, you wonder what Melissa, Lauren and I were doing in the taxi together. Well, being from New York, I stood my ground, and told them to kindly get the hell out of the taxi--like PLEASE. Melissa of course started to sing something about showing me something in the back room, but I knew that was a ploy to get me distracted and out of the...where was I...I got distracted...and all I could say about Lauren is that she wouldn't keep her clothes on. I on the other hand was just trying to find out who Les Bian is and and the "L" clue...I swore it stood for Lori, Lisa and Lauren. I kept asking, but did Melissa listen, I think not...all she wanted to do was sing. I finally had to show her my guitar breaking ability. She thought that was very cool, but continued to sing. Finally, Lisa being touchy--feely really distracted me...made me wonder what state I'm in. Anyway, Melissa kept rambling on about Ellen this and Ellen that and if I had to hear one more time about Ellen purchasing her clothes at K-Mart with Rosie O'Donnell and Penny Marshall not the GAP or the Limited, I was going to toss Melissa out the car. Melissa convinced me not to throw her out because she was going to be a mom soon...I blurted, "ME (she likes to be called me--something about be self centered.) Not me but really YOU...ARE you going to have the labor pains??? I think not. Are you going to stretch that part of your body...well maybe she has in her own way...I mean she does own those leather pants. Anyway, she talked about Ellen not being invited to her party and what a riot that was...I didn't get it...because Melissa didn't invite me either...I maena, where was my plane ticket...I'm still waiting for Tami in San Jose...that obscure place on the other side of the planet to purchase me plane fare. Then before I knew it I woke up, and it was all a dream...except I wonder what I was doing in the shower with Lisa, Lauren, Melissa and Tami...Help me out on this one...oh, I forget and Ellen...BUT where was Ellen really...licking things in her bedroom. It was dark and I couldn't tell for sure...but who knows it was foggy from all the heat... This is brought to you buy too much diet coke and coffee...and not enough... Lori ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 14:19:04 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Newsweek Article Hi Everyone, I went out at the request of a fellow ME Lister and bought the current Newsweek with ME and Julie on the cover. It is interesting because I had never seen such a clear picture of Julie. As far as the text of the ME and JC interview, it was okay. Not anything very new. Brad's not the father, they want like 3 or more kids, the baby will have a combined last name, and the girls say that the baby will have male figuresw. It is worth the 3 dollars because of the pictures. They're are really only two of them. Otherwise, the article does not contain ground-breaking news. I like the pictures though, cute. Here I hold my tickets in my hot little hand. They seem to smile at me as I watch the hours go by at my desk. I can't wait. Who else is going to the SF show? Hey, the Cow Palace, the place is used for Dirt Bike Races and Monster Truck Shows all year. Once in a while I guess they clean it up for an artist to perform. And to anyone who hasn't been there before, in answer to your question, yes it does smell like that. Anyhow, it will be great because ME will be singing, and I have faith that she will give her all, all of her beautiful self, and it will be a rocking show. Well, goodbye for now friends. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 18:08:37 EST From: Wendy Waterstrat Subject: Re: Newsweek Cover Lurking device disabled briefly to respond to an observation... On Wed, 30 Oct 1996 Julie wrote: > Just got the copy of Newsweek. Does anyone else think that Julie looks a > little bit like Rosanne??? There wasn't much to the story. > > Just Wondering :) > > Julie > I thought she looked like Roseanne in this photo too. If she was pictured alone, I would not have even known it was Julie. But then I thought it was just because she wasn't smiling; she does have a nice smile and I didn't recognize her without it. She has a bit of a sour look on her face. I wondered why she/they would want her to look so serious (unhappy?) while Melissa has a relaxed smile on her face. Back to working... err... lurking... well, both. Wendy "I believe we can fly on the wings that we create" - MLE ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 18:29:19 -0500 From: [email protected] Subject: symbols ~ (NMEC) non Melissa Etheridge content ~ grin ~ *lol* laughing out loud ~ some sort of grin I'm sure ~ ROTFLMAO !!!! rolling on the floor laughing my ass off ~ (eg) some other sort of grin probably ~ (w) you got me on this one! ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 16:02:11 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Hellos to all my new friends Hi Guys, I've already left a message, I just wanted to say a special hello to all the nice people I've met via e-mail through this list. Lori, Laura and Tricia and so many kind others. Hi! In a few minutes I'm heading home, I'm going to light one in the car and I'm going to be listening to Similiar Features as I pull away from this place. But I'll be back tomorrow and I can't wait to read my list of messages. Goodnight ladies and gentlepeople. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 20:29:06 -0800 From: Randy Subject: Re: empowerment Suzy Korreck wrote: > helluva time listening to MLE in my head. there is nothing that can ruin > a day once satiated with the One Who Changed My Life. (but the idea that > a day can be satiated with Ms. Etheridge is just a little far-fetched). The One Who Changed My Life...I LIKE that! And I am NEVER satiated by her music, I just change the rotation! -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 29 Oct 1996 to 30 Oct 1996 - Special issue ****************************************************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Thu Oct 31 00:00:50 1996 Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 00:00:08 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 30 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 21:32:13 -0800 From: Randy Subject: Re: Melissa's Height Carol Andredesz wrote: > > Does anyone know how tall ME is? I asked the same question recently, and received a nice reply that she is 5'3". Am I remembering that correctly, Francie? -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 20:39:18 -0500 From: Michele Marie Bench Subject: Sorry rhondda! I didn't even know about the tape tree! (I haven't been on the list that long). I have access to a CD writer, and someone from the list had contacted me about a copy, and I just thought - hey, I'll give this a shot. I sold them at cost + mailing, so there's nothing in it for me. Just wanted to let everyone love the CD as much as I do. Michele Bench ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 20:02:17 -0600 From: Suzy Korreck Subject: Re: empowerment Randy wrote: > The One Who Changed My Life...I LIKE that! And I am NEVER satiated by > her music, I just change the rotation! even though MLE didn't write it, her version of "The Weakness In Me" is my story, sung with my passion from my heart. we're just telepathic like that. ~nuwanda ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 22:35:18 -0500 From: Sasha Friedman Subject: MEIN and all... Yeah ...I just wanted to throw my opinion in too. The first time I used MEIN to get my seats at Nissan Pavilion in 95, they weren't bad, but they could've been on the floor, but then I thought maybe that whole VH1 tickets thing had something to do with it, But then this year when I used em again, hoping to get really good seats, to my dismay, they were the exact same seats only now in the right section, not even the center. I think it sucks. Just my $.02. Peace Sasha ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 23:23:09 -0500 From: JENNIFER SASS Subject: my cool new job I started my new job today at the Border's bookstore opening in Traverse City. Whiel we were unloading the huge truckfuls of books everyone was kind of chatting and then all of a sudden music started to be piped into the loading area. Would you believe that they played the entire Yes I Am CD?The work went so much faster and everyone was humming the words as we worked. It was so awesome. Just thought I would share that with everyone. Love, Jenny ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 23:18:22 -0500 From: Jen Subject: Shaving a half size Pooh- Take it from a hobbit....shaving your fur won't drop a half size, it only makes your feet itch. Especially if you do get them into a pair of Doc's. Good luck with the milking machine! Jen ( Who also has trouble finding decent shoes in large sizes) Silence will not protect you ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 22:44:34 -0600 From: Patty Kolakowski Subject: Concert Photos Hi, I'm new to the list. I have tickets to see MLE Nov 7 in Pensacola, FL and Nov 9 in New Orleans. Sorry I'm bragging. I want to try to sneak in my camara. Has anybody who has already been to a show this year seen any problems with camaras? Wish me luck. pk ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 30 Oct 1996 *********************************** From <@VM1.MCGILL.CA:[email protected]> Fri Nov 1 00:01:21 1996 Date: Fri, 1 Nov 1996 00:00:30 -0500 Sender: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List Reply-To: The Melissa Etheridge Mailing List From: Automatic digest processor Subject: MLETHER Digest - 30 Oct 1996 to 31 Oct 1996 To: Recipients of MLETHER digests Status: RO ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 02:00:20 -0600 From: Tracey Thacker Subject: Sheryl's Smile & Various Bunches At 04:30 10/30/96 -0400, Gwen Shinko wrote: >I just accessed the Rollingstone's website and found an interesting tidbit >about Sheryl Crow's teeth. Seems about ten years ago while performing on >"the beer-soaked bandstands of St. Louis," Sheryl tried to steady a >waitress who slipped while carrying mugs of beer. >Then "whamo" next thing Sheryl knew her front teeth were half-clipped and >she had to go thru an extensive amount of restorative dental work, >including getting caps. She sure does have a sexy smile though, caps and >all. Thanks for the info, Gwen. I always thought that her mouth was too good to be true. But it is captivating. I was reading a short story one of my theater kids wrote, and he described his leading character as having "a smile Sheryl Crow would envy." I thought it was a great image. I would pay to have a smile like that, but after spending seven hours in the dentist's chair this week, while he undid damage that he did, I don't think I want to see him again for a long, long, long time. :-D <-- What I'd smile like if I had a mouth full of caps, too. >And Tracey, when are you loading up the ole stationwagon with the family >for the move? Weeeeeeeeell, some folks already know about this. The big DC (well, Laurel, but lets not split hairs) move has been cancelled! Yippee! Not that I didn't love the DC lister bunch, and not that I'm not feeling way lonely without a PAB (Pittsburgh Area Bunch) up here to keep me company, mind you. I just really could live forever without being in a city where the radio stations advertise the fact that they have traffic reports three times an hour twenty four hours a day. Scary. Seriously, though, the job offer that was prompting our move has been turned down, after a lot of reconsideration. One day, though, who knows, I may buckle under, run for the senate (I'd love to take on Arlen Spector, but that's another story) and end up down there anyway. Hey, a woman can dream, right? Oh, speaking of Lister Bunches, I must report, with great sadness, that I'm no longer "on the JOB" (Jeep Owners Bunch). As of 2:41 Tuesday morning, thanks to a "high speed interface" with a very stupid and far-less-than-sober 19 year old driving his mother's Trans Am through a red light at about 60 mph in a 35 mph zone, my jeep has died a horrible, total-loss death. And I almost died a horrible death with it, thank heaven for seat belts. Tomorrow, however, when I pick up my new car, I can become a member of a new group of MEListers, if anyone else wants to be a member of the BDB - Beemer Driving Bunch. Any takers? Bunchless In Pittsburgh, Tracey Tracey Thacker <>==<>==<>[email protected] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ The only people who would suggest that a person's character is no longer important are those who are sorely lacking. . . in character. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 09:43:22 EST From: DOUG Subject: Halloween, Ellen, and Barbara Walters HAPPY HALLOWEEN TO YOU ALL (unless of course you don't observe halloween in any way, shape, or form...my greeting is meant as just that - a greeting - and isn't meant to sway you into some sort of pagan holiday!) FIrst, I just got into work because I happen to turn the tv onto Sesame Street in time to catch the tail end of Ellen D. trying to explain to Elmo that she - ELlen - and he - ELmo - have something in common. Now on the subject of Ellen, was there a hint in last night's show that I just completely missed? Now about the 20/20 interview this Friday - Barbara Walters is such a flake. I saw an ad for the show last night the went something like this: "Melissa Etheridge, controversial rock star. And she's also a lesbian." Uhhhhhh....excuse me, did I miss something? I thought Melissa was controversial because she was a OUT lesbian rock star. I mean, is there something about her that I didn't know? something that makes her controversial, something like she's evil and sinister and buried her arch rival alive and had the coffin equipped with enough water and air to keep him/her alive for several days of torture! Anyhoo, Have a great day! Doug "Sometimes its hard to take the hand that life deals that's for sure But together come whatever I know we will endure All the hurt and pain you feel inside you Just be strong - Take my hand come on - I'll guide you..." - taken from "I'M HERE FOR YOU" performed by Anne Nesby Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 09:56:25 -0300 From: Jennifer Sutton Subject: Can someone ANSWER me!!! Hey y'all. Do anybody know what CD I can get the song "the Weakness in Me"? I had the Ain't Nothin'but a She Thing which had the song on it, but one of my friends scratched it and now Melissa speaks Japanese in the song :) I absolutly love this song and want to get it again. SO...PLEASE HELP ME!!!! ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 09:16:17 -0500 From: roger zender Subject: Howard Stern / Linda Perry Hey All, I was just listening to Howard Stern this morning (I know, I know, I was just scanning the channels). Anyway he had Linda Perry on there. The show was actually very tacky, he had lesbians call up to go out with Linda and asked them all kinds of personal questions. It was pretty stupid. ANYWAY, He asked Linda about other lesbian Rock stars and she said she'd LOVE to meet K.D.Lang but when he mentioned ME, she didn't say much. Is there something there I don't know about, or was it just too early in the morning for me to be driving to school and thinking about going to my Interpersonal Communication class? Anyway, what do all of you think about Linda Perry (formerly of 4 non blondes for those of you that might not know)? She played a quick acoustic of her big hit with them (I forget the name of it) and it sounded REALLY good. She was promoting her new album, and I admit in not a good way, but I was wondering if any of you have heard it? It could be interesting. P.S. Thanks to all those who answered to the RS question. As soon as I get 2 5's to run together, I'm going to send in and get it. Roger ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 10:37:17 EST From: Wendy Waterstrat Subject: Julie/Roseanne and ex-JOBs On Wed, 30 Oct 1996 Carol Andredesz wrote: > Hey you guys, > Don't say such a thing of Julie! I was once told I resembled Roseanne and > it broke my heart. Maybe Julie has a sour look on her face because she's > pregnant. I've never experienced it, but I heard it can be rather > nauseating. I'm not sure about that spelling. But anyhow, I just wanted > everyone to be cool to Julie. A prettier girl you could not find. > Carol Carol, I did not realize you were so enamored with Julie or I would have tread more lightly. :) It was just that cover photo that made me do a double take. In most photos/videos I've seen of her, Julie is quite attractive. But I think she has one of those faces that, if she is not smiling, she instantly looks very intense, upset or angry. Actually I think I have one of those faces since people so frequently ask me what's wrong if I'm not smiling at the moment. :) What's up with that anyway? I guess Julie and I need to add an in-between expression to our repertoire. :| :( >:| :\ :/ :{ :} Tracey Thacker wrote: > Oh, speaking of Lister Bunches, I must report, with great sadness, that I'm > no longer "on the JOB" (Jeep Owners Bunch). As of 2:41 Tuesday morning, > thanks to a "high speed interface" with a very stupid and > far-less-than-sober 19 year old driving his mother's Trans Am through a red > light at about 60 mph in a 35 mph zone, my jeep has died a horrible, > total-loss death. And I almost died a horrible death with it, thank heaven > for seat belts. Tomorrow, however, when I pick up my new car, I can become > a member of a new group of MEListers, if anyone else wants to be a member of > the BDB - Beemer Driving Bunch. Any takers? SO glad that it was only the Jeep that was lost Tracey. A Beemer now. Why not "BOB"? Is that already being used for something else? Not that I could be a member anyway. But I love my truck. Let's see. PUB - pick up bunch... uh, no, that sounds like it could have some other less than desirable meaning. :) Wendy "I believe we can fly on the wings that we create" - MLE ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 16:56:18 +0100 From: Willem Jan Keur Subject: Sheryl Crow Hi there, If you are also a Sheryl Crow related person read this. If not don=B4t There is on Sunday, Nov. 3 on a dutch cable-radio station (called KINK FM= ) a presentation of Sheryl=B4s new CD. If your interested in this, please mai= l me privatly so I can record/copy it Bye Willem Jan ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 10:02:33 -0800 From: "Karen Steenstrup (Punster)" Subject: Re: Skiing, shorts and coffee Michelle wrote: >> Michelle (who is just as much a punster as I am) wrote: > > Gee, thanks. :) You are quite welcome. > Kare, I hope your mom is OK and is back to the daily "grind." Tell her > to "perk" up. Her company should do something for her, but I bet it's > run by a big "drip" who, after "filtering" through the facts, will > claim that he can't compensate her because he doesn't have a "pot" to > p. . . . I guess I'll stop there. Mom has kept me a "breast" of the situation and has assured me that her "cup" runneth over no more. > Michelle, who believes that if Kare's whole family puns, she must have > a house Chock Full O'Nuts. ;) LOL!! Actually, the only one who really loves to pun as much as I do is my stepfather. The both of us have a real dry wit. It's funny though, whenever any of my siblings "accidentally" makes a pun, they say, "hey I just said a Karen". Gee, imagine that. Another amusing thing is that I can befriend a person that has never even thought of a pun before, then after knowing me for awhile they all of a sudden start punning away. I think Patty (Roxy) would attest to that. Well, have a great day everybody and always remember....A pun a day keeps the doctor away. Take care. Kare, who thinks that Michelle and her should get an act going and take it on the road. ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 08:29:41 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Tracey's accident Wow man, Tracey, you were hella lucky! Isn't your head still ringing? And you're quite ready to jump in a car again. That's admirable. Us ME Listers are not just tough but resiliant too (sp?). Anyhow, I'm proud of ya, and happy you didn't get killed. I think you should be more happy about it too. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 08:44:14 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Linda Perry Hello Everyone, I noticed some folks writing about Linda Perry. I remember being very interested in her music when she was with the 4-Non Blondes, remember her catchy song about getting high in the morning? I played that tape in my walkman till it busted. Her voice is awesome if not trained, so I figures she wasn't around because she blew her voice out. I don't know if you all remember when they played MTV's Beach House towards the end of their public appearances, but her voice kept cutting out, she was hardly there. I remember thinking, yup, she did it. She dang sung too much. That's what happens out here in San Francisco, it's always too much. We lose a lot of musicians that way. ME, LP, JJJ, their styles are very similiar. But all of them are unigue in their own ways. In the mix are blues, rock, hard rock and country. I think it's cool. So, is Linda Perry coming out with some solo work, or is she still with her old band? They seemed pretty tight. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 12:09:09 -0500 From: Kiva Kamerling Subject: Re: MLETHER Digest - 30 Oct 1996 Hello... I don't usually post on the list, I am more of a lurker... But everyone seems so nice that I wanted to say hello and maybe post a little more often... =) I could use some friends... and Melissa fans are the best friends that I know... *sniff*... =) I think Melissa is 5'2... I am 5'2 and when I met her I was wearing boots with a inch heel and I was taller than her... =7 It was kinda cute... Um... I have a question... What's this tape tree...? I would like to become involved if I can =) Can someone give me some info... A post or e-mail? Thanks... =) And I wanna give a big (((HHHUUUGGG))) to POOH... =) ... POOH, not matter if you have fur or not, (but I'd keep it if I was you), I still love ya! =) You are a very special bear with a sweet and beautiful soul and as the leaves fall to the ground, laughing with the wind, may their smiles touch your heart and warm it... As warm as the colors of the smiling leaves... =) I guess that's all... Sorry to have babbled on like this, bad habbit I guess =7... Like I said, I just wanted to say hello... =) Any NY Listers, I am kinda new to NY and don't know anyone... If you wanna say hi... =) Peace, Kiva [email protected] "...i could've been you... you could've been me... one small change that shapes our destiny..." m.e "...believe in all that is un-believable..." ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 09:23:22 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Thanks to all that responded, and Pooh Hello, I forgot to thank everyone that responded to my, "what's Melissa's height" question? You know, that is about my height. I look at her pictures, especially that one where she's standing against a blank wall all dressed in leather, and I think, she's so small and cute. Usually everyone is so much taller than me. Wow, someone so cool is my height. Sounds pretty immature but it's an awakening for me. Did someone say they met ME? I would like to hear more about that. Tell us more. I would also like to send my regards to Pooh Bear. Lord knows we are all just little bears trying to get by. Pooh's words are very uplifting and they amke me feel good. Well, that's all. Please fellow-ME Lister, I know you're a lurker, but tell us about it. There are so many willing to listen. Bye bye friends. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 13:00:51 EDT From: Jane Vaughn Subject: Hallloooo! Hi Melisters! (Friendly paw waving in the air!) To those who celebrate, "Happy Halloween"! To those who don't, "Happy Fall" If it is fall where you are at! I remember Linda Perry and 4 Non Blondes, I liked that song they had out as well, I just can't remember the name of it.But I think it was "What's Up" or What's Going On" and not the Marvin Gaye version either! Oh Well, I think it goes into the one hit wonder file you know the file that holds those artists that had one hit then you wonder what happened to them! Let's see, artists like: Chi Col Trane, Alive and Kickin', Marilee Rush, etc. etc. etc. :) Showin' my age huh John! :) Well, Piglet wants to go trick or treatin' (the little beggar!) I want to dress him up like Buzz Lightyear but he won't hold still long enough to put the goldfish bowl on his head! Thinking of dressing up, next year Melissa and Julie can dress up there little bumpkin! I envy them, what fun that will be! "Now Hold Still Piglet! It might be a tight fit going on but we can always break the glass to get it off off!" :) "No! We can't use one of my large honey pots!" "You have to be able to see where you are going and we wouldn't want honey running down the back of your neck!" "Alright then you can go as me and I will wear the goldfish bowl!" So off they went hand in hand strolling through the hundred acre wood knowing that wherever they go, they never walk alone. Trick Or Treat! Sincerely, "POOH" ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 13:22:14 -0500 From: roger zender Subject: Re: meeting ME > I think Melissa is 5'2... I am 5'2 and when I met her I was wearing boots > with a inch heel and I was taller than her... =7 It was kinda cute... How do people get to meet ME? That just seems like an impossible task to accomplish unless you win a contest or something. Roger ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 13:20:13 EST From: Mary E Harbaugh Subject: Melissa's little secret On 10/31/6, Doug ([email protected]) wrote: >Uhhhhhh....excuse me, did I miss something? I thought Melissa was >controversial because she was a OUT lesbian rock star. I mean, is >there something about her that I didn't know? something that makes >her controversial Well, I *shouldn't* tell, but I'll let you in on it. It all goes back to that damn taxi. See, I wrote her a fan mail, and I guess she just had too much pressure, so she wrote me back, and said that she just *had* to tell somebody... Here's what she wrote: ---------------------Begin Official Melissa Etheridge Letter to Me------------------------------- Dear Mary, Thanks for your mail. The autographed underwear you requested are enclosed. Look, Mary, I don't usually do this, but I feel so damn scared... I have to tell someone, and it looks like you're the lucky caller, so to speak. I've kept this inside for quite some time now, Mary, so please excuse my outburst- I have a story to tell. It all goes back to the taxi I referred to in my song "An Unusual Kiss." (*Editor's note- there's a tear on the paper here*) The whole song is about this woman I was having an affair with- she was a fan; I met her after one of my shows. I never found out her name, but I'll tell you, it was her Honda that really charmed me... Well, it turns out that she had also had a lover, so, of course, I was jealous. I sat outside of her house for the longest time one night after another concert, watching her and her lover, and I kept wanting her lover to go home cause I wanted to come over, (to hell with the consequence!) but it seemed as if she never would... Finally, I went into the house and confronted them. When I got into the house, all I saw were the two of them, together. Then I looked at her lover, and it was Barbara Walters- from 20/20... I couldn't believe it! I ran over to Barbara, and together, my lover and I escorted her out to the waiting taxi...then we went back inside and <**CENSORED**>. The amazing thing about it, though, is this- Barbara actually wanted to leave. We all wanted it, but Barbara was trying to be polite to her lover. See, I later found out that she went over to my place that night to see Julie... next thing I know, Julie's pregnant! How does this all tie in you ask? Well, my publicist scheduled an interview with Barbara Walters on 20/20! I'm scared right out of my goldlamepants about this. I just know, she'll ask about that Honda-driving woman, and ask how Julie got pregnant.....then what'll I say?? I have to go now; I need to write a song about this..let's see, I got *all* the elements...girl meets girl, girl sends girl out in taxi, girl gets pregnant, Barbara Walters interviews....that'll make a hit, at least! Thanks for listening, Melissa Etheridge --------------------------End Official Melissa Etheridge Letter To Me-------------------------- Well, now, the truth is out. I though the list should know before it became public on Friday. mary ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 13:58:03 EST From: DOUG Subject: Re: Melissa's little secret ROTFL!!!!!! ...whew, gotta calm down...gotta type this....oh the hell with it.... ROTFL!!!!!!again Okay, now in response to my question about Melissa being controversial, Mary Harbaugh came to the forefront and let out the whole sordid tale. I am shocked. Thank you Mary. And know this, as I sit typing this note, giggling still, Nowhere to Go is playing on the radio. Bye! Doug 8-) "Sometimes its hard to take the hand that life deals that's for sure But together come whatever I know we will endure All the hurt and pain you feel inside you Just be strong - Take my hand come on - I'll guide you..." - taken from "I'M HERE FOR YOU" performed by Anne Nesby Doug Brown, Program Support Wytheville Community College TELETECHNET - Site 582 Phone - 540-223-0161 Fax - 540-223-0233 ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 14:01:47 -0500 From: Subject: I don't know about Julie looking like Roseanne on the cover of Newsweek, but I thought she looked just like Janeane Garafolo. Anybody agree? Lisa ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 11:33:32 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Me Listers who have met Melissa Hi Folks, I notice a lot of entries lately by people who are curious about how they can meet Melissa, and if anyone else has. So I am speaking to those people. That si the most natural question I guess for any person to ask, but...well, I don't think this list will hook you up with Melissa herself but there might be listers that have met her once, and you could talk to them. Try that. Will all the kind ME Listers out there in the world please write us with your ME experiences? We are all eager to hear. Even if you normally only lurk, why don't you share with us? :) There kids, I tried. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 11:35:48 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: I forgot something Hey, I forgot something about sending in your ME Personal Experiences. All true stuff okay? Even if you really wished it happeed, or it really could have, please write us the honest stuff. Thanks, the jokes are cool but some people can't tell at first that you're joking. Okay? Thanks. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 11:37:58 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Julie looking like JG Hi, Yeah, I guess Julie might look a little like JG, but not like Roseanne. About JG, is she gay? Hate to be so blatant, but I've recently wondered. Does anybody know? Carol ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 15:11:16 -0500 From: Tei at netcom Subject: Re: concert Photos, texas tid bit > Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 22:44:34 -0600 > From: Patty Kolakowski > Subject: Concert Photos > > Hi, I'm new to the list. I have tickets to see MLE Nov 7 in >> > Pensacola, FL > and Nov 9 in New Orleans. Sorry I'm bragging. I want to try to > > sneak in > my camara. Has anybody who has already been to a show this year > seen any > problems with camaras? Wish me luck. > > pk hello pk... I have brought a camera just once... it was in portland where I got front row center... It was a compact camera so i got it in within my purse...as i was using it inside... the security ppl said it would be ok, that they would not take it away as long as I did not use my flash! Luckily I thought of this b4 hand and loaded up with 1000 speed film... Good Luck with yours... (Anxious for Texas!!!!! YEEEE YIPPIN HAAWWW!!!!!) SPEAKIN OF TEXAS.... Where are the Fahita Fest People???? Waitin for a contact!!! your fellow lister, tei! ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 14:56:20 -0500 From: Mary Fiedorczyk Subject: Concert Photos Delimma I got frisked in Pittsburg, it was an outdoor show, but we made it in w/ the camera in my partners bra( shes much more endowed..better her then me!) When we went to Cleveland(an indoor show) I was prepared with a "false bottom" in my purse (cut out a piece of black cardboard, put int the camera, then that and all my stuff on top) and walked right inwithout being checked. Lots of cameras out in the open, so many ME even commented on it but she sounded fine with it...so who knows?? Even in Pitts. tho, we got so close when she went to the back stage, we hollared "MMMEEELLLISSSAAAA" and she looked right at us as we snapped the shot, and didnt seem to mind. Give it a shot(no pun intended!) The worst thing that could happen is they rip out the film! Enjoy the show!!! As if theres any doubt you will! ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 15:33:37 -0500 From: audrey Subject: ski pole On Tue, 29 Oct 1996 Karen the Punster wrote: Subject: Re: empowerment So does everyone listen to MLE for empowerment before heading for certain >doom (biochemistry exams)? >if you or someone you love is suffering from the College Really Matters >Syndrome, try the above prescription and have no worries. I found that sleeping on the biochem book is also helpful....it's right there if you can't sleep ! and you never know we may not have discovered all of the properties of osmosis yet. .....It could work? Lisa ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 18:15:45 -0500 From: Lori Rehfeldt Subject: Talk to ya from Europe Leaving for Germany...talk to you from there! Yeah, I will find a PC. Lori ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 14:42:59 -0800 From: Carol Andredesz Subject: Lori's going to another continent Hey guys, I think we should wish Lori luck, she's going to Europe and I think she's riding a plane to get there. So let's wish her luck, I hear those areoplanes can be tricky, (I don't want to say dangerous). Good luck and enjoy your trip. Carol ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 19:01:44 -0800 From: Randy Subject: BABers, PABers, FABers OK, the Bay area has its "BAB" (Bay Area Bunch), Jeep Owners have their "JOB" titles, those in DC are the DClisters (gotta better idea?), someone mentioned the "PAB" (Pittsburg Area Bunch)... WE were gonna use "PAB" for the Philadelphia Area Bunch: so maybe we, us'ns, on this end of the state should be the FABbers!!!! YES, the Filladelphia Area Bunch. Whadda ya think?? FABulous! -- [email protected] Keep it Precious, 'cause I Will Never Be the Same ------------------------------ Date: Wed, 30 Oct 1996 20:53:22 -0500 From: Mike Lieman Subject: Re: NMEC: what to do?? At 10:28 PM 10/30/96 +1100, HOLMES V O wrote: >I know that all you out there in lister land do trades very often... >Have you ever had someone back out on a trade after you have already sent >them the goods? I have the problem that the person I am trading with seems >to have dropped off the face of the planet. What do you do?? Just count >your losses and be more cautious next time? I've been on both sides of that situation. I'm *really* slow in making tapes (I'm sure people have given up on me. (If you think I have tapes for you, get in touch w/ me!) ) AND I have blanks from people I can't get in touch w/ to find out what they wanted, so I guess that people dropping out just happens. I always try to get a phone number, so if there's a problem with computers, I can still get in touch w/ people) peace Mike ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 18:48:54 -0500 From: Francie Trout Subject: Melissa' Height Randy...Melissa is about 5'4", probably in boots, 5'3" barefoot. I was surprised she was that short the first time I met her. Julie is taller than Melissa, say about 5'7" or 5'8". FRANCIE ------------------------------ Date: Thu, 31 Oct 1996 18:48:57 -0500 From: Francie Trout Subject: Newsweek I checked out Newsweek on AOL last night and read the article/interview with our favorite couple. i bought the copy of the mag today to keep with my collection of Melissa stuff! What does everyone think of the article? My mother wants to borrow it. She thinks that two loving parents, no matter the sex of them is better than no love and nuturing at all! Francie ------------------------------ End of MLETHER Digest - 30 Oct 1996 to 31 Oct 1996 **************************************************